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Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Coldfeet(f): 9:56pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
katchycouture:I understand why onegai was insisting she sells the phone. Those who she is expecting to give her money do you know what they will deprive their families for this moji? So I don't see the big deal for her to hold on to a phone that consumes from her already depleted resources. She could get a smaller internet enabled phone out of the proceeds and still have change left for a meal at least. Anyways I'd suggest you read from page one and get yourself better acquainted to the situation on ground. I am a mother I have been through tough times manly caused by my own selfish behaviour if not for people around me that showed me tough love! And insisted on seeing some effort on my part before they can take me seriously and offer help, i doubt I'd be where I am today to the glory of God. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by katchycouture(f): 10:08pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Coldfeet: I am also a mother of two children and I knw perfectly wat sacrifice is...if I come to you for help, you shldnt be shouting sell ur fone sell ur fone, it doesn't show someone willing to help from the heart, I have read from page one and all I saw was sell ur tablet sell ur tablet which I think is irrelevant 5 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Caveatemptor(m): 10:09pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
baby124: Okay ma. I smoked weed many times back in secondary school,but I reformed myself. Today I hold a position of responsibility in a government organisation. As I said nobody holy pass. Lots of the ladies castigating Moji had pre marital sex but are today safely ensconced in their husbands houses with no one holding it against them. How many women being sanctimonious on this thread were virgins when they entered their husbands houses. It is easy to point fingers at people but the remaining four fingers point back at you. We have all made mistakes in our life's but that never stopped us becoming what we are today. Our heavenly father forgives us our sins so why will we mere mortals refuse to forgive human transgressions? Moji has made her mistakes. Hell yeah,she has slept around. She has made her mistakes like all of us but will we continue to hold it against her perpetually? Like I said I will attempt to help her get her life back in track and off the road to perdition. If you do not want to do this and want to keep on talking down to her,it is your God given right. 8 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by moji26: 10:20pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
katchycouture:infact,let onegai continue, let her continue to judge me as if her life is perfect, I never even tell her directly to give me money, it's who really want to help, some people are very good at castigating people even at d point dat they re dying, she has been calling me since, discussing with me about selling my tablet phones, I think she really ve problem with tablet phones, cos she fantasizes about having one, though I asked nairAlanders for help bt I dnt need all dis insult from her, she ve been insulting me since morning calling me on my phone, pls nairalanders, I take dis as a case of harassment, nobody here is perfect, I do everything I did in d past to care for my baby as my mum is not of support, so dnt blame me, and thorpido tanx vry much for d help u render to me, I pray u see someone too as a helper in life, my God will continue to bless u and ur family and never forget u, thorpido, thank u once again 4 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by remsonik(f): 10:23pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
All the elders have spoken but my own addition is this This lady does not need MONEY,she needs a life First her frosty relationship with her mom needs to be repaired,moji26 pls go and beg your mother. From what thorpido saw when he went to your place,your mom still loves you but has stopped pampering you. What's your level of education? Do you want to learn a skill and make money while you go back to school? You can give birth to your child and give him up for adoption Please seek your mom's love What are you doing with two phones? Sell one if you can sell for a good price. 2 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Sapphiredamsel(f): 10:32pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Oluwa mi oo! What did I just read? 2 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Coldfeet(f): 10:33pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
katchycouture:Bottom line is that tab is a luxury from her past that she cannot afford to keep IF it was in better shape I will strongly advise her to sell it. Cheaper phones are available to browse the net. Moreover she wants to commit suicide any change she gets from it may keep her alive till help arrives. I don't offer help to people that live above their income. A tab consumes more data than a regular internet enabled phone! So she needs to cut her expenses. Anyways it's settled the tab as seen better days so selling it isn't an option, let's wait and see the result of the findings from those that have offered to check her out and see how we all can help her get the required assistants she needs. Good day. 10 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by kristen12(f): 10:36pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
moji26:Madam Moji, someone is trying to help you even though she's kinda harsh and you're saying something like this. Hope you're not high on something? You really don't sound like someone who needs help. People like you don't like hearing the truth. Rubbish!!! 36 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Coldfeet(f): 10:37pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
moji26:This your utterances here have just sealed your fate where I am.YOU ARE IRREDEEMABLE. YOU NEED DELIVERANCE. Mummy E abeg disregard this piece of shitty. 22 Likes 1 Share
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Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by thorpido(m): 10:41pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
checkengine:Ideally,at 3mths antenatal should start. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Deybesee(f): 10:41pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
See Moji, the fact that people (me inclusive) has been telling onegai to take it easy on you does not mean she is wrong. You should know that you caused all these for yourself and she is only try to help. You shouldn't be angry at whatever she said or that she has to say because if she didn't fish you out we won't know you need more than just financial help. Judging from the way you speak abi type sef,you would be a very proud person that doesn't listen to corrections that's why you have problems with everyone around you. The questions you are even supposed to answer sef,you didn't answer them and you are quoting people that wants to help you. Just keep quiet and let the people that wants to help you do what they can. 17 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Sapphiredamsel(f): 10:41pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Mehn, her own "beggar" has a "choose" in jeniva's voice. Coldfeet: 8 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Ranchhoddas: 10:43pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Ewo...The lady don provoke ooo. 1 Like |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by gratefulme40: 10:45pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
moji26: Wow....speechless. Nne...you need to learn how to speak to people regardless of what they say or how you feel about their opinion, especially when you are asking for help 11 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Deybesee(f): 10:46pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Coldfeet:Asin ehn, she even said onegai fantasizes on having a tab......this girl is rude,if I was close to her I would have given her a resounding slap.She needs to learn how to talk she just lost her chances of getting help. 9 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Coldfeet(f): 10:48pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Sapphiredamsel:No be small a choose! Lekwanu odiri nmadua Anyways kind hearted nairalanders with free money make una help her o! Ko Kan mi Mo! ode aro. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by kristen12(f): 10:49pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Deybesee: She sounds sooo proud and she has this false sense of entitlement. As if it's a nairalander that impregnated her. Oniranu 9 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Horlubunmmy: 10:53pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
you're so rude moji. anyway is your way I'm not surprise. I remember your previous topic,I advice you to stop blaming your mum,you insulted the hell out of me.20l4 then. may God deliver you 9 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by An0nimus: 10:55pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
I think this case now needs prayers and fasting. 3 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Aminat508(f): 11:00pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Nawa ooo 1 Like |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by katchycouture(f): 11:01pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
moji26: I think you should lay low and let God do his work in your life through some people, don't let angry comments rob you off... See let me tell you a secret, there were times in my life tht I thought I wld never make it, those times i prayed to die, I was hopless , hopeless.. When I saw tht I kept on waking up every morning after praying for death I decided to face my life to another direction, guess where..THE CHURCH. Yes I started attending a women's only fellowship called winning women international, I found love there, nobody condemned me for one day, I didn't see any tough love there as they are tough loving you here, I found Jesus, I found inner peace.. My pastor is a woman who understand these things women go through, she help me find Christ and I allowed Christ take over, believe me the fellowship never gave me 1 naira but I was taught to see life from a different angle and I used my God given talent to turn things around without selling any of my property and without begging.. I'm telling you this becos I want you to turn to God seriously, forget ur past mistakes, he won't hold it against you one you are truely sorry, since you can make hair start small small, do ur mums hair and ur friends and they will spread d word round..see in lekki people pay as much as 1500 for a primary school girl to make ordinary shuku and base, look around you and see how you can use ur talent..my dear when you turn to God for help, all your psychological and financial problem will be a thing of the past... I'm not saying it will be rosy all through, NO.. There will be tough times but God's love will always be there to uphold you... Take care of ur self and ur babies 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Deybesee(f): 11:03pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
kristen12:she is a true definition of apoda afofun gbe mu,I seriously hate people that are like this. Left to me o,I would say no one should help or visit her,her mum should even throw her out of the house.......she really needs to learn the hard way. its obvious that it is lace they use to burn her mouth not Ankara. 6 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by topmycin: 11:03pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Odikwa serios!! Eleyi gidigan!! Onegai..pls don't be offended **e-huggs* |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Caracta(f): 11:04pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
OP has provoked! 5 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Caracta(f): 11:14pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Well OP, I believe you are not in the right frame of mind right now. You are depressed, angry and lonely. You need love and you ain't getting it... not from family, not from friends, not from neighbours, not from your baby-daddies. You feel everyone is kicking you while you are down and you just want to scream your lungs out at them. They don't understand. But they are judging you. I know you don't want your present life or present state and just wish things were different. You need to trace your steps and understand that you are responsible for your life and your kid(s). For the sake of that baby inside of you, humble yourself, forgive yourself, beg your mother and be responsible. Relax. Be calm. Don't frustrate the help of others. Just let go and think. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by pickabeau1: 11:20pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Please let us put her latest outburst to pregnancy hormones Thorpido Please keep the house posted 5 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by moji26: 11:29pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Caracta:tanx,i appreciate dis so much |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Caracta(f): 11:45pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
moji26: You do? Great. Would you like a reconciliation with your mum? I know a lot of water has passed under the bridge but right now, she holds the key. She is a very important factor to you right now. You need her. You need her blessings. No mother would watch her pregnant daughter suffer. She isn't happy with what is happening to you. She is angry you didn't listen (I suppose). I don't know if you are a Christian or Muslim or an atheist. You need your family. Or you just want money for food then go back to your life before the bulging tummy? Choose one. Food or life? 9 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by thorpido(m): 11:45pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
moji26:Apologise to Onegai.No one here is not interested in getting you in a better shape even if they say harsh things to you.You need to take it because you're the one who needs the help. 9 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by moji26: 11:47pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Funjosh:tanx sir, I really appreciate for the airtime u send for me dis morning, may my God continue to bless u, thank u sir |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by r231(m): 11:47pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
moji26: 2 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by moji26: 11:47pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
thorpido:okay sir, I'm sorry |
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