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Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by thorpido(m): 1:22pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
tearoses:I didn't ask.I'll find out. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Eleganza33(f): 1:33pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Nawa o i have been following silently,i have cousin who behaves like moji her parent are rich but her flirting no be for here and onegai is right you just have to be hard on them before they can change. If you have any girl that behaves like this just take her to live with a very strict relative before she clocks 17 no matter how much she complain about the person she lives with don't allow her to return,my cousin is now a changed girl having lived with a strict uncle for 10years,im don discipline her no be small 4 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by prettyangel10(f): 1:50pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Well done @ Thorpido, indeed we are our brothers keeper. weldone nairalanders. ![]() |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by missjo(f): 2:11pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Onegai: Onegai: ![]() ![]() Onegai:What is wrong with you ma'am? As much as I don't agree with TV on a lot of things,your tone on this issue confirms a lot of what he laid out. You sound like the alpha and omega in this matter when it's even Thorpido that's been doing the visiting,i just don't get you. I understand your interest may come from a good place,but you need to work on how you reel out directives,you're not the boss of Moji or anyone here for that matter yet you don't even realize how you come off because a lot of people are applauding you. JEEZ! Why should anyone care what it is you want or how you want it done for the love of God? ![]() 23 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by pickabeau1: 2:19pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Smh |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by missjo(f): 2:24pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
pickabeau1:Stating the obvious, how can I be the only one who sees those lines for what they come off as even if from a good place? 2 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Onegai(f): 2:24pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
missjo: Na wa o. See, I don't care how people view me, I don't care if they clap. Their Likes and quotes didn't send an alert to my bank account. I don't even care much about this, it's not about me or about getting likes or quoting Abraham Lincoln. I dunno, I thought I saw some girl who was just like me and I really got caught up in trying to make sure she didn't waste too much time getting to where she needed to be. What I do care about, and what you are refusing to see, is all the numerous people whom have come here to relate their own stories with people like her and how and what worked to change the situation for the better. And in every case that ended well, same story: someone was strict with the person. But, I'm gonna do you a solid. I'm going to personally hand over to you and step away, if anyone mentions me I will mention you and I'll check with the people doing the most what your contributions are. How does that sound, good? So, when are you going to Igando ![]() 15 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by missjo(f): 2:30pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Onegai:She still doesn't get it. How does your contributing to her case give you the right to dictate? And what has my contributing or not contributing got to do with pointing out to you that you don't talk down or dictate to anyone in the name of being strict? Are you her mother? You're terribly sanctimonious and you don't even know it. 22 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Onegai(f): 2:33pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
missjo: Madam, you're right! But back to the matter: what are your contributions and thoughts? 15 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by 5minsmadness: 2:36pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
missjo:Lol. Take it easy. Everybody has their style. I must say i dont like the tone either but if it yields results... 3 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by 5minsmadness: 2:38pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Onegai: Unnessecary blackmail. 15 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Onegai(f): 2:45pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
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Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by phulxpression: 2:47pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Onegai:Madam tone down a bit abeg. 1 Like |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by veave(f): 2:50pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
thorpido: Advice her to go to the shop with her mum tomorrow. Nausea or not. My colleague is having it worse than any one Else I've seen. But she comes to the office, nausea, sleeping, trips to the loo and all.and she's very hardworking 3 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by phulxpression: 2:50pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Onegai:Madam tone down a bit biko!! 3 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Ishilove: 2:53pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
What happened with CaveatEmptor? 1 Like |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by 5minsmadness: 2:55pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Onegai and missjo. Pls take it easy. Both of you are trying in your own ways to help. Dont turn the thread to another thing, it has been progressing remarkably well till this point. Apologies for fraying nerves. You ladies are doing very well for a total stranger. Take it easy biko. 5 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Acidosis(m): 3:02pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
**sigh** |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Caveatemptor(m): 3:06pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Good day, I am the Nairalander that promised to help Moji open an account. Although a few people have questioned my motive and intentions for doing this,I must state with all honesty that my reasons for wanting to help Moji out of the quagmire she found herself in stems purely for the children she is bringing into the world without any consideration for how she will feed/cloth/take care of them. My interaction with Moji has been through the phone and through Whatsapp. On Whatsapp she came across as a very articulate young lady but across the phone vocally she comes across as some one who does not listen to contrary opinion and some one who is obstinate and not ready to listen to a contrary opinion except her own. She would talk on end and it was very difficult to get a word in,when she was in full flow. When I started communication with Moji.I told her I wanted to open an account for her so she could pay for her antenatal process and any sundry expenses. I requested she open an account at any bank but she told me she had no idea of how to go about the process. I explained she needed a utility bill. A couple of passport photographs or an international passport. She claimed she had an international passport but appeared lost about the process. I asked where she lived and she told me Obadore off Igando. I asked if I could visit the house and that she should give me directions to the house. I actually wanted to meet her mother in order to get her perspective on issues,however Moji suggested we meet at Igando bus stop. If you know Igando very well you know it is a mad house. A bedlam of chaotic traffic of cars,okada,Maruwa and trailers. I therefore suggested I wait for Moji inside the NNPC petrol station at Igando,from where we could proceed to First Bank Igando. 1 Like |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Caveatemptor(m): 3:07pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
At about 06.00hrs this morning Moji sent me a what's app message that I should meet her at NNPC early because she was going somewhere with her mum. From my home to the petrol station was about a fifteen minute drive,so by 06.20 hours I was parked inside the NNPC petrol station awaiting Moji and her mum. I put a voice call through to her line and told her I was waiting for her. She told me she would be with me in about 10 minutes,however from the background sounds itvwas obvious she was in her house and not yet ready. 30 minutes later Moji and her mother were no where in sight. I was worried about sitting in my car in a petrol station without buying fuel. I put another call to Moji,reminding her that I worked in Ikeja and my work was time based,again she promised to be with me in 10 minutes time,but from the background noise it was obvious she was still at home. By 15/minutes after 07.00 hours,I was ready to climb a wall and was completely exasperated. My boss was calling me that I was needed in the office. At 07.30 hours,I was still in the fuel station when Moji called that she and her mum were at XYZ petrol station. I almost hit my head on the dashboard. Moji calmly told me that her mother,wanted to see me and that I should turn round from NNPC station and drive down to XYZ station,in the background I could hear her mother shouting at her. I just started my car and drove off. I found her to be very unserious. When I got to the Office, Moji called me to tell me her mother said I must be a ritualist. I found that amusing and told Moji I did not owe her money. I was just trying to help because of the kids. I advised her to go to a bank and get a form for a savings account. She was reluctant. I offered to send her recharge cards of 5000 Naira for her to sell and open an account. She was reluctant as she said people would think she wanted to defraud them. I just gave up and told her to try and open an account,send me the number,then I would contribute my widows mite. 12 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by veave(f): 3:07pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Nna lawaoooooo. Ekwe!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by veave(f): 3:10pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Caveatemptor: Boda... Eni suuuru. So ti gbo? Ema binu. Whatever it is that happened. Dont take it personal. I said it earlier that she needs therapy. You have seen it from her behavior already 2 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by 5minsmadness: 3:11pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Onegai: |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Onegai(f): 3:11pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Caveatemptor no need to explain. You meant well, it is not your fault. She has even apologised. Just let it go. Please don't get angry. You will laugh about it by this evening. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by veave(f): 3:12pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
5minsmadness: Anybody that wants to fight should fight. The day is boring already. Let me go and bring my refree's whistle. So because person go vex, make dey no tell am the truth again? 1 Like |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Onegai(f): 3:17pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
veave: Sorry but no, I'm not joining this. Carry your whistle, put am for ground. Ginger don leave my bodi, anyone that insults me again, I go no answer. Anyone that praises, I still won't answer. It is not about me, it should not even turn to begging anyone to stay or leave or anything. It's not about us. 10 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by 5minsmadness: 3:18pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
veave:Why na, this isn't necessary. 3 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Nobody: 3:23pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by toyeem(f): 3:25pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
I've been following this thread silently but I need to also comment now. If you have ever been with or have someone like this around you, you would understand that petting does nothing but makes them worse. Yes, they need love but tough love. That kind of love that a mother will finish flogging her child and few hours later, they are bonding again. @Onegai, you are doing a great job. I also did the same for a young girl of 24years when she got pregnant the 3rd time for a 3rd man, all the men are married. I got so angry and told her I was disappointed in her. That was what changed her, she wanted to stop being a disappointment, she wanted to live a normal live, she wanted to be responsible. Today she is almost thru with sch, she went back to school and picked up from there and she is doing great. We need to stop raising over-dependent girls that need a man before they can eat,buy recharge cards or even survive and some chicken-hearted girls that would commit suicide because of a boy friend, we need to raise a generation of confident, hardworking and smart girls. Peace. 18 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by phulxpression: 3:27pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Eketem:I concur |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Ishilove: 3:28pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
patriotic9jaboy:Thanks |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Ishilove: 3:31pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Caveatemptor:And...? Please go on 1 Like |
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