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Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Toks2008(m): 9:15pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
In every case of divorce, there is rarely a situation where the two parties involved will be totally willing to part and there is usually a party that wants reconciliation and another that insists that it is over. Before you marry a divorcee please make sure you find out the reason for the divorce and if it is possible,have a discussion with the ex to hear the other side of the story and no matter the false representation given by the ex, you will still have an idea of the type of person he or she is and the reason for the divorce because in most cases, the party who insists on divorce will always have a reason to divorce again and again. Marriage is a union between two forgivers and if you cannot forgive a spouse who is sorry then what is the guaranty that your next marriage will work? So ladies and guys, before you marry a divorcee, be sure to find out why that person is leaving his or her marriage because no matter how innocuous that person may look to you,you must understand that many people are like the leopard who never change its spots and most often,any party who insists on divorce especially due to irreconcilable differences will always have reason to divorce the new partner because even if you change partners a million times, there will always be irreconcilable differences. I hope this makes sense. 42 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Nobody: 9:17pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Reminds me of pastor Chris and his Ex wife (Anita) Talk about being an example to others.. #Glory to God! ![]() 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Nobody: 9:18pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
nice! #direct 2 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Mimzyy(f): 9:20pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
#Flawed . Hasty Generalization Toks. So if a lady/guy is being emotionally/physically abused and it gets to a point where he/she can't take it anymore hence a call for divorce, it means the individual will always have a reason to divorce again and again? I actually wish you posted this in the family section but oh well... 48 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by McBr00klyn: 9:21pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
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Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Winnelyn(f): 9:34pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Lemme sit here |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Toks2008(m): 9:38pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Mimzyy: Many people now use flimsy adjectives to buttress their premeditated act of divorce..emotional abuse,irreconcilable differences bla bla bla.. Talk about physical abuse and i will agree and i mean wife or husband battering...any other reason is a facade. But then as i wrote, investigate and you wil know if the divorce is justified. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Toks2008(m): 9:41pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Let me crave the indulgence of lalasticlala...I believe this makes sense. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Mimzyy(f): 9:52pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Toks2008: Ok, let's look at this scenario, a man that has been sex-starved by his wife for more than a year (for flimsy excuses) decides to ask for a divorce cos he doesn't wana cheat and he needs to remarry as they have no child(ren) yet.Will you imply that the man isn't justified enough? 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Toks2008(m): 10:08pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Mimzyy: Sexual deprivation is a sin even in the bible but if i am a woman i will not just buy that excuse without asking some vital questions. Infact i always love it when a new lady or man who wants to come into the life of a dirvocee to find a way of having a one on one conversation with teh ex of that person...sounds stupid but it makes sense as it will save one from avoidable heartbreak. The bottom-line is that one should not just buy any pooh story but try to really find out what went down. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Nobody: 10:13pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Nicely put and educating. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Presh900(m): 11:10pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
You are right buh i don't think these applies to all divorcees 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Olasco93: 11:14pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Well done OP.
I love insightful threads. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Nobody: 11:36pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Toks you are right this time ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Google63(m): 6:58am On Oct 17, 2016 |
Mimzyy:the OP said you should investigate the reason for the divorce, don't just believe what the person told you hook, line and sinker. As Chimamanda Adichie once said, there's danger in a single story. 6 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by ednut1(m): 7:22am On Oct 17, 2016 |
makes no sense. which ex will give u audience self. plenty single babes dey around why i go con dey look divorcee 5 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Mimzyy(f): 8:22am On Oct 17, 2016 |
Google63: I do not have a problem with the part you mentioned. What i have a prob with is where Toks stated that "...the party who insists on divorce will always have a reason to divorce again and again...". The above quoted is all shades of wrong. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Nobody: 8:39am On Oct 17, 2016 |
[b] Very Nice points Mr Toks.. Lemme quickly chip in something about Married Women depriving men of sex..For the record am against cheating..any form of it BUT These days many Ladies deprive their men of sex for as long as MONTHS and they blame it on their tight schedules and jobs..when their husbands wanna touch them @ night they are like "No honey u know I have to work tomorrow, prepare food and take the kids to school" we understand You are a career woman and all but at least satisfy ur man's sexual urges even if it's thrice in a week! By the time their husband starts visiting one small girl with big YANSH and boobsi they start shouting upandan "After all the Love and dedication I showed you" who Love epp ![]() Cheating is an inexcusable offence but it can be avoided.. just yansh ur man properly ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by ChappyChase: 9:24am On Oct 17, 2016 |
Nice write up |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Nobody: 9:33am On Oct 17, 2016 |
Can't marry a divorcee tho |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Nobody: 9:49am On Oct 17, 2016 |
That is not good 4 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by pussypounder(m): 1:11pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Today is my f*$%&#king birthday ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Nobody: 1:11pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
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Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Femiwilli: 1:13pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Good One OP. One of the reason's I knew that Adeboye is not of God. His pastors divorce and remarries. the bible is clear that if you marry a divorcee, you are committing a adultery. Not committed but committing so it's a continuous process . Matthew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. Matthew 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. 2 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by sakalisis(m): 1:13pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
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Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by casttlebarbz(m): 1:13pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
It's my bday 3 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Nobody: 1:13pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Toh. My mum and I still had this conversation yesterday. God NEVER intended for any marriage to lead to divorce. The only ground Jesus gave in the book of Matthew was Infidelity. Yet, both parties can't marry after the divorce else, they become guilty of Adultery. Yet, the bible asked that we forgive our neighbours 70 times 7 times a day (correct me if I'm wrong), so, how can one person commit adultery 70 times 7 times a day that we can't forgive, yet, we ask God daily for Mercy even tho we sin against Him countless times a day. This is why it is very important to seek God's face before jumping into marriage, do things the way God has instructed, so when you're in a fix, you can go to Him and ask Him to fix it. But now, we see biblical standards as "Old School". 8 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by midehi2(f): 1:14pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
he has come again ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by casttlebarbz(m): 1:14pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
pussypounder:chief, today us minmine too |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Fiwasayo(f): 1:14pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
It's the marriage counselor again....following ![]() |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by SSkillzzz(m): 1:14pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
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Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Lovelynature(m): 1:15pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Nicely written. But I'm just wondering which ex would give you a concrete answer, when they don't want to remember what happened between them. Instead of trying to investigate all these, why not try to find out what both of you share in common - how compatible you are - things he/she can or can not tolerate no matter what. This way you know where to draw lines - either to ride on or back off 6 Likes |
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