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Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Omotayor123(f): 1:15pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Kk |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Hawlahscho(m): 1:15pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Lovelynature(m): 1:15pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Most people avoid divorcees these days |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by pussypounder(m): 1:15pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Espe |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by freya8(f): 1:15pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
ok...nice write up |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by agabaI23(m): 1:20pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Toks2008:It is always easier to pontificate until when you wear the shoes. Can I ask if you have always had one girlfriend assuming you are not married yet? Have you ever changed your girlfriend for any reason? Emotional abuse can be worse than physical abuse my friend. I hate divorce just like God does but then sometimes you can't tell one to continue marrying a madman/woman so that he won't be called a divorcee. 5 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Nobody: 1:22pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Lovely write-up. There are always 2 sides to every story. In the case of a divorce, there are 3 sides... The man's side, the woman's side, and the truth. The man would state everything that's "wrong" with the woman, and vice versa. Each one would always twist the story in their favour. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by midehi2(f): 1:22pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Jarizod:Lol, I see no amount of work pressure that will make me deprive sex from my hubby, hun!, that thing, no way, whether am tired or not |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by AuroraB(f): 1:22pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
That's very okay. And there's no problem in being friends (reasonably) with your spouse's ex. But for an abusive heathen? NO. You wanna go meet him? Go! When you back, we gonna quarrel |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by CHARLESTON007(m): 1:25pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Jarizod:;Dlol guy u jst killed me with this ur post but u right tho if she dey Yansh the man steady the man no go even reason go outside |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Google63(m): 1:25pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Mimzyy:Yeah. You're right about that. The person who insists on divorce could have been pushed to the wall. 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by folasayolyn(f): 1:33pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Toks2008: yawnz if you like stay with a cheating partner hiv is knocking 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Nobody: 1:34pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Kunlegold: I am married a second time. It is a good marriage. Did you do proper investigations as to why the first marriage did not work for your spouse? Please remember no marriage is perfect whether it's the first or third. 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by praiseandpeac: 1:36pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Femiwilli: Which of the Adeboye's pastors divorce and remarries pls? |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by folasayolyn(f): 1:37pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Mimzyy: on point Mimzyy: Mimzyy: on point 1 Like
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Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Nobody: 1:37pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
midehi2: Gbam! Because na that thing dey always look yansh of all those young women..buh if u dey give am all the styles even if na 3 to 4 times a week he'l appreciate u |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Mintayo(m): 1:42pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
On point op. Don't marry a divorcee, it's a risk. A man or woman that is not willing or ready to forgive has no business getting married. I remembered the question a pastor said he usually asks intending couples. Is there something your spouse will do that you will never or can never forgive? If there is, then you are not ready to stay together yet! |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by alexiej(m): 1:45pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Femiwilli: Hmmmn. One, Judas Iscariot betrayed Jesus, collected bribe, sold Him out... Did that remove the fact that Jesus is the son of God? If not, I don't see why sin committed by a junior pastor should make u "know that Adeboye is not of God" Two, can you name ONE of those "his pastors" that DIVORCED his wife (not that she died, and not that she cheated on him(since the bible allows for divorce in such instance)) and remarried, and still remains a pastor in RCCG today. See, whatever u do not understand, it's better to ask questions about it than to assert an uninformed opinion. Check out 1Timothy 1:7 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by MrBONE2(m): 1:45pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
IamMissMarvel:Nice point there. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by STENON(f): 1:46pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
The best is to run away from divorcee. They are always nice, God-Fearing and caring at the beginning in order to attract opposite sex. 2 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by drnoel: 1:50pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Toks2008: Confused, inappropriate and laden with errors. The problem about giving an advice is knowing that an advice given to an individual should also be taken by the giver. As it is this advice written here fails to have strength and purpose to be taken. Nairalanders over to una. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Toks2008(m): 1:53pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
drnoel: Shey you have taken that thing again... Because you are not communicating at all. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by fyneboi79(m): 1:54pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Mimzyy:Logic at work. Welldone! 2 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by hamilton62(m): 1:55pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Google63:in marriage both partners are pushed to the wall... the truth is that when you loss faith in your marriage, nothing can savour it... and some people really lack the knowledge of marriage, thinking it is a bed of roses or bf and gf stuff... what do you think about these? Downloads • Parallel Verses King James Version Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. Darby Bible Translation The wisdom of women buildeth their house; but folly plucketh it down with her hands. World English Bible Every wise woman builds her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands. Young's Literal Translation Every wise woman hath builded her house, And the foolish with her hands breaketh it down. Proverbs 14:1 Parallel Commentary Geneva Study Bible Every wise woman {a} buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. (a) That is, takes pains to profit her family, and to do that which concerns her duty in her house. Proverbs 14:1 women are home builders and that is why their kids take more care of them than men so men no dey try sha |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Toks2008(m): 1:57pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Lovelynature: No matter how the ex tries to give a false info,there will always be a clue to who that person really is. This does not apply to divorcee alone but even the unmarried. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Phonefanatic: 1:59pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
STENON: A friend is currently dating one and she is just what you described. Her point being that she married him because she was pregnant the marriage didn't last more than a year and she left because of his promiscuous behavior but not with the kid as the man didn't allow that. She seems nice that I begin to wonder why a man in his right senses would let her go........ Thanks OP. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by alexiej(m): 2:01pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
In the US, 50% of first marriages, 67% of second, and 73% of third marriages end in divorce. It means a divorcee is 67% certain to divorce his/her second husband/wife again. Why? Just like the OP said, they right questions aren't asked. U see a girl claiming feminist. "I cannot cook for u cos I'm not ur slave. We are the two heads of the family" and she gets divorced. You as a guy didn't ask for all that, u just assume her ex must be a fool, and u marry her. Now u want her to cook, to respect u. Hasn't the marriage failed already? PS: GOD HATES DIVORCE 3 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by drnoel: 2:07pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Toks2008: Since I have to explain an adage to you. I think its "fair to ask for you relatives to return back the dowry paid for marrying your mom", no insults meant but it is alway spoken like this in igboland before an explanation is given. I have seen many cases of divorce and know many people that have had one, are fighting one and are currently going through one. The necessity to meet with or speak to the partner of the person in question is irrelevant and only brings confusion. I know a friend that his Caucasian wife visited him at his base and after a long night of activity and serious all night vigil. She called him the next day after she arrived her base and asked for a divorce. There are many questions that such actions as meeting the partner can never answer. Divorcee's are not animals or monsters like our Nigerian society likes to portray them, they are human beings with emotions and feeling. They get hurt nust like u and me, they shit, they spit and they get sick. Its only due to human weakness or failure of an action or inaction that have placed them at such receving end. They should not be stigmatized because it but rather be understood. I could tell u many other examples but with stop here. Its a wonderful topic though. God bless. 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by bitingcool: 2:08pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Femiwilli: If God was a Nigerian, walahi, no one will make heaven. So because Adeboye's Pastor's remarry, he is of the devil? Biko, carry your assertion elsewhere elsewhere. The. Men remarrying, don't they have brains or pri..ck to decide on their own. Some Nigerians and their judgmental lives... upon all, na una thief pass 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by STENON(f): 2:08pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Phonefanatic:I pray they last long. She is yet to show your friend her true nature... |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by drnoel: 2:11pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
alexiej: Yes ur statistics is very factual cos its what we have to fight with while counselling these people. I agree with asking questions and doing ur discrete research before jumping the broom but thats as far as I think it should be taken. The idea of speaking with the other spouse is wrong and will only bring bias 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by myaokija(f): 2:21pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
@ op what if u try talking to d woman or man that was divorced and they don't wanna tell u anything. |
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