digitite:
Am Like asking... Is there anything like God ordained relationship, partnership that could lead to marriage ? And can two people who doesn't communicate verbally but see each other from time to time have a deep spiritual connection and understanding that could lead to marriage ?

Please, matured opinions and contributions are need. This is part of real counselling research...

greatnaija01:



my dear, stop living a lie....IF YOU LIKE A GIRL, YOU LIKE THE GIRL... thats all... WALK UP TO HER AND ASK FOR FRIENDSHIP and let it grow from there.. WHICH ONE IS DEEP SPIRITUAL CONNECTION without COMMUNICATION. abi both of you are spiritual husband and spiritual wife ni?

IF YOU ARE SOO CONNECTED WITH GOD, WHY ARE YOU HERE ON NAIRALAND ASKING JAMB QUESTION..... simply go and ask God if this one na ya own or SHE HAS COME TO PASS.... then let her pass or GRAB YOUR COPY.

wake up from day dreaming... THOSE WHO TRULY KNOW GOD AND TALK WITH HIM WILL NEVER COME TO NAIRALAND ASKING FOR HIS DIRECTION OR CONFIRMATION....

digitite:


You are funny.

It's in a Church environment, and I don't want to fool myself and be reduced to rubbish. You know, I have to be quite sure she really is into me before I make the bold move and in that setting bro, na engagement straight oooo.... Cause no time for games. My career and everything else is already up and kicking....

Tallesty1:
Oga she cannot be into you because your skin is not even enough for you alone.
Goan tell her what you feel or watch another guy take her gently.

digitite:


You are funny.

It's in a Church environment, and I don't want to fool myself and be reduced to rubbish. You know, I have to be quite sure she really is into me before I make the bold move and in that setting bro, na engagement straight oooo.... Cause no time for games. My career and everything else is already up and kicking....

greatnaija01:


BROTHER IN THE LORD, many things taken for granted actually leads to hell... forget CAREER n stuff.... YOUR SOUL MATTERS... MEET YOUR PASTOR AND TELL HIM.... BRINGING THIS TO THE PUBLIC PUTS A QUESTION MARK ON YOUR SPIRITUAL MATURITY, GOD IS NOT MOCKED.... DO WHAT IS RIGHT. thats all

digitite:


Well, the time has come for that. I will make the move. Meanwhile, I don't like this hard to get Nigerian girl stuff. I went out with foreign girls and the initial moves were straight forward and to the point. I have asked this same girl her number couple of times and she talking greek.

Besides, I even offered to change her faulty handset and she said 'Don't bother'.

Intrepid01:



Bros stop acting funny......in p.diddy's voice "We were first friends before we became lovers".....Try and make friend with her, give her the opportunity to know you better from just seeing you. Also give yourself the opportunity to know her.
Ask her view about life and other things. check out if you guys share similar view. By the time you are done with this stage, Oga if she meets your ideal woman profile and you meet hers too. Nobody will tell you before you do the needful.