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Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 6:41pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
This is something I’d like to understand, are there no good Nigerian women abroad? Most Nigerian men always want to come home to marry, sometimes virgins, they tell their parents to get them wives. They say most women abroad are just good for citizenship papers, work permit, where to stay, do they even realize they hurt these women in the process? Using them like that and running back home to get married. THUNDER FIRE THEM{THE ONE’S WHO USE WOMEN} I see our men, asking for Nigerian wives, having fiancée back abroad; they come home to do secret weddings, impregnate their wives here and run back to their abroad lovers, what the hell is wrong with this generation? We need to stop this form of fraud, and slavery, people aren’t toys to be used and discarded, and the funny thing is we don’t do it to white women alone, we do it to our own African sisters, we say once they get there they change, they don’t want to come back home, they report to the police when we hit them, they lie to get the house and child support, so we want someone who would listen to us and obey our every word and then they rush back home to marry one innocent girl they want to frustrate. I am not against genuine men who want to come home to marry MBANU, I love LOVE, but when I see a man who thinks my African sisters are baby making machines, who they want to come home and impregnate every time, who they want to use as a tool to carry on their linage then I get angry, I get angry because they see us as a commodity, I get angry because they see us as a means to an end, I get angry because love isn’t an equator in this arrangement. I wouldn’t blame all the men either, our women have become cheap cormorants over the years, searching the air like birds, sniffing a whiff of an abroad returnee who they want to perch on, leech on, suck and bleed dry, our women have seen these NDIOYIBOS as a means to an end, all they want to do is sit down at home, he opens up a business for them, and when he comes back they open their legs like a compass and be dutiful, the womb is ready to be filled for the next nine months. We have become sardines, cornered into a space, waiting for the biggest to be picked, and then we jeer our peers, tell them oga de for obodo oyibo, sometimes we don’t care what our abroad husbands does for a living, we just want to sit back home, enjoy his money and sometimes Bleep the ones we love while he’s away. There are good women abroad, and this habit I am sorry to say is common among the Igbo people of Nigeria, they go abroad and hustle and want to invest back home, i have no problem with this, but who will now marry that girl you have been deceiving there? Who will heal the heart of that white woman you have been deceiving. These white women sef, you have used your heads to carry wahala, you agreed for an arrangee wedding and then you go fall in love, how low has your esteem fallen? Why do you want to make our African men worth nothing, you have frustrated them to the extent they see you as a thing to be used and discarded, when and how did you become scums that a black man will ride and plough you until he gets tired, haba na, oyibo pepper ogini, give our men peace so they can value you, not every small thing you will call police for them and everything he has saved all his life will be yours, please I am begging this needs to stop, don’t be the tool that will be used to unscrew the nut holding you heart. Umu woke anyi, biko, gbaraa these white women, they have suffered, pity our African sisters, they have suffered to, anywhere you see love please settle down, love doesn’t come with a manual, it doesn’t base its foundation on ethnicity, religion, color or country, its pure like water and flows effortlessly like a calm stream, don’t in your search for something better end up with a viper. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=937So_VluXQ Isabella Ibeji http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/why-do-nigerian-men-come-back-home-to.html 8 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by slimthugchimee(m): 6:48pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
why do nigerian women travel abroad in search of a man ![]() ftc, i just wan talk am 42 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Cutehector(m): 6:50pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Bella is absolutely right, I mean after I saw her youtube video it really reminded me how wicked some abroad based Nigerian men could be.. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by alterswerve(m): 6:50pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Why are Nigerian women exited when someone who has travelled abroad or lives abroad wants their hand in marriage.. or rather.. child bearing..? 33 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
which kind question be this? ![]() Tell me, why does party jollof rice taste better than pizza ![]() 36 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by bitchcrafts: 7:00pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
You see, most of dese gyals abroad don't want to have many kids, 2 tops, most times and 15 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 7:06pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Cutehector: what were his reasons? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 7:09pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
alterswerve: good question |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by vicstar(m): 7:10pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
uhm the women abroad don't share dsame perception with our nigerian women, and they are scared of losing their wealth during divorce 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Cutehector(m): 7:11pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:Nigerian ladies out there would want to take advantage of the divorce entitlements. Since it favors the women over there. 23 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 7:14pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Cutehector: Bullsh****t 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
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Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Cutehector(m): 7:18pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:well to them it ain't bullshittt. No man wants a broken marriage.. so why marry someone dat will eventually want to divorce? 23 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Young03(m): 7:19pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Its because CHARITY they say begins at HOME 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 7:19pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Cutehector: And they have seen into the future yea 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Cutehector(m): 7:21pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:lol the divorce rate in the west is currently pegged at 52percent, so yes I can say they have seen into the future. 18 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 7:26pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Cutehector: I still maintain its a load of horseshi***t 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 7:30pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
I came to read comments 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by FvckShiT(m): 7:33pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Cos they fūcking wanna ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Presh900(m): 8:01pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Papikush: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
The dating and family culture in the western world is quite antithetical to ours here in Nigeria. The man is/was the unmistakable head of the relationship and household. Over there, they do "equality tinz", which doesn't sit well with the average African man. Hence, why our brothers think coming back to familiar terrain to pick a wife is ideal. Alas, our Nigerian girls have become more scandalous than the Kardashians, foolishly copying but, unfortunately, not understanding how to handle these freedoms the west promises and presents. You might laugh at these Nigerian men coming back home to marry, but know this, even oyibo men are increasingly refusing to marry oyibo women. You don't have to believe me, Google is your friend. Google "mgtow", that should lead you to interesting discoveries. If I was those guys, I frankly don't know what I would do, I'd maybe move back to Nigeria and marry here. I cannot live in obodo oyibo, before one woman will divorce me and kick me out of my house and I will still be paying the mortgage. Tufiakwa. I reject evil in my life. Thank you. 70 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by warmachine(m): 8:24pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Actually they use d White women to their permits and green card then they hook the Nigerian Lady for actual commitment. And u know the white barefit lose am one morning kick am in order not to lose zero zero dy get d naija bae.. .most African men prefer African women because of the cultural similarities... Except maybe for now because e be like say women don't dy reject d kitchen and the other room ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 8:29pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
SerRento: What about our Nigerian sisters there? Are they not marriageable? Why do they come back marry and don't come back for years? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by warmachine(m): 8:33pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
[quote author=Talk2Bella post=50451924] What about our Nigerian sisters there? Are they not marriageable? Why do they come back marry and don't come back for years?[/quote Those ones there are equivalent to the white ones. .the culture don corrupt them! ] 12 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 8:34pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Talk2Bella: The Nigerian sisters have already assimilated the prevalent culture in their new society, that's why they aren't tops in the list of women to be married. Before a Naija man will marry a Nigerian woman abroad who's living like oyibo, he will like marry oyibo na. Abi how you see am? Why buy fake when I can have the genuine article? 40 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by warmachine(m): 8:35pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
SerRento: Gbam. Seconded!!!!; 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 8:36pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Its very understandable from your point of view ![]() ![]() SerRento: 17 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 8:36pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
SerRento: How's the one home any better? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 8:38pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Maybe because their attitude stinks, Nigerian girls over there are the worst ![]() ![]() Talk2Bella: 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by warmachine(m): 8:39pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by warmachine(m): 8:40pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
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Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 8:41pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Talk2Bella: Bella, I don't think you read my first comment. I clearly stated there, that for these brothers, coming to marry in Naija is a huge mistake, because Nigerian girls...Lawd have mercy. 2 Likes |
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