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Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by scachy(m): 10:29pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
alterswerve:Good question. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by ahamonyeka(m): 10:30pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
So,the ones over are coming back home to marry while the ones are dying to go there and marry white woman just because of money or suffer. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:32pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Whatever you do stay away from Ghana girls,dont save her. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by pocohantas(f): 10:32pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
DeeTus:College of education. ![]() Very funny question,everyone knows this is a fact. I wonder which rock he lives under ![]() OP, they believe homebased chicks would find it easier to SUBMIT. That's all, nothing else. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by SmartMugu: 10:33pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
@OP, when you eventually live overseas for a moment, you will be able to answer your questions yourself. For now, assume people have different reasons, same way some men in Nigeria would prefer a female based overseas to their local counterparts. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by ttmacoy: 10:33pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
if we are honest many many Nigerian men leave their wives and go with others, only difference is they don't officially divorce. I know a man who is on his 6th wife and never divorced any of the earlier ones and has kids with all of them. But you would count him statistically as not divorced isn't it? Cutehector: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by ngmgeek(m): 10:35pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Talk2Bella: You asked a question and got an answer, so stop using that word ok. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by ochuciano(m): 10:35pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
The women abroad should come home too and pick virgin guys as the men do too. It should be easy for them cuz they have equal rights values already instil in them. Some nigeria guys will gladly accept their proposal. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by theripper3: 10:36pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Wetin typical Naija man wan usr all these abroad girls do? The Latinos chicks can talk you to death, body to die for but no brains with half his brothers in one gang or the other. The black American chicks are just good for nothing but straffing , dem no even get plan for their own life sef , na make dem dey chop man money onto child support . White woman fit wake up kill you cuz she dey depressed. Naija girls dem born there na still same with akata chicks too since na same environment dem grow. Our naija babes get crase too but dem dey try for marriage matter based on teachings, experiences from motherland and even upbringing so they are least try make their marriages work The other categories na just waste of time except you wan die young as a man sha. Goodluck 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:39pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
ngmgeek: OK ![]() It's a banter between friends tho ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by kinibigdeal(m): 10:42pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Let me ask Lucasbalo 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by misscall247: 10:42pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:because white pus.y and black pus.y have different taste/size. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by redcliff: 10:48pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:Madame. I should tell you that if you have never travelled out of the country to live for a while. You are in no position to comment or make a writeup about this because your post just reeks so much of ignorance... 9 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by khiaa(f): 10:52pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
bettercreature: Why would they care if you have your own apartment, wouldn't they have their own? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by bitchcrafts: 10:52pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Nma27:I want big families and women oversees won't allow u such save a few , many kids too. You get? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by redcliff: 10:52pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Talk2Bella: You sound too ignorant madame 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Malakh: 10:52pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Bella you dont live in the States,I've been in the States for over a decade I will never marry anything American or anyone trying to be American ItsQuinn: 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Bollinger(m): 10:52pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
SerRento: You are funny. You think if the societal structure in Nigeria was normal the divorce rate wouldn't be ten times higher than what exists in America? No one wants to be treated like slaves and Nigerian women are basically treated as such. The reason they are afraid to leave their husbands in Nigeria is because of the economic and legal realities that exist in the country. Both factors do not favor them. They know how difficult it would be to survive without the surpport of their husband especially when kids are involved. To make matters worse, the legal system does not favor them. A man can wake up one morning and chase his wife out of their matrimonial home and bring in someone else that same day and nothing will happen. Come and try that shiit over here. The reason the divorce rate in Nigeria is so low is because of fear on the part of women. It is that simple. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:57pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Bollinger: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 10:57pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:shut up |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:57pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
redcliff: Thanks |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:58pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by OMAR12: 10:58pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
I think you left out the part that most of these white ladies also reject the proposal of these same men that they get married to. the proposal to follow them back to Africa and start a life together. I have series of friends with uncles and relation aboard with white wives who completely reject the idea of coming back to Africa cos the thick Africa is backward and maleria and all those stuff. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 10:59pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Malakh:American females have forgotten how to be women .... not worth marrying |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:definitely not worth marrying |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
redcliff:she's an extremely ignorant tw.at 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 11:01pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(f): 11:02pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
NgcoboP: Arrows when shot have direction, do you? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 11:03pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Bollinger: But you refuse to mention the problems with the American marriage laws. What do you have to say about no-fault divorce and that campaigns are underway to abolish the policy? In the US, a woman can we up one morning and decide shes no longer happy with her husband and divorce him, and what's worse, he still gets to pay her monthly stipends and rent or mortage, whichever case applies. And the beauty of this is that this violation is sanctioned by government. What a civilised way of handling marital issues. The day a woman will try that rubbish here, her family will receive her corpse piece by piece. By the way, speak for those women you know who are treated like slaves. Not everyone shares your sordid history. You, sir, are definitely funnier than I am. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by khiaa(f): 11:06pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
ochuciano:lol How would she know if he is a virgin or not? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Missolivea: 11:07pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Does it mean that all of you guys supporting this attitude will do the same thing if in their shoes and you don't mind hurting the feelings of that Nigerian lady who will live a marriage of your perpetual and constant absenteeism. And that oyinbo chick you tie down for years deceiving and manipulating her. Is it fair? Look at this and give your opinion. Its the same scenario here https://www.nairaland.com/3424710/nigerian-man-based-abroad-oyinbo 2 Likes |
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