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Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Malakh: 12:16am On Oct 24, 2016 |
you welcome khiaa: |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by khiaa(f): 12:17am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Jay542: Ok, you make sense. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Originalsly: 12:17am On Oct 24, 2016 |
ianSweet:You don't know what you are talking about... you don't even follow abroad news...or you would never be making such a statememt. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by khiaa(f): 12:22am On Oct 24, 2016 |
ogbonti: I didn't read all of this but lmao at domesticated animals being before men. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by watchindelta(m): 12:24am On Oct 24, 2016 |
To marry dey fear! |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Originalsly: 12:24am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:Hmmmm..... interesting comment..... very interesting. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by trilobite: 12:24am On Oct 24, 2016 |
theripper3: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by macminista(m): 12:24am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Bella have u lived outside naija? specifically the US?? If no then don't go about saying what u have no first hand experience or facts about. Love transcends race, social status, nationality or ethnicity. Yes it's only a minute few re guilty of certain things you mentioned as per getting " situated"but majority arent. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by khiaa(f): 12:28am On Oct 24, 2016 |
FreeWorld23: You can't be serious, are you telling me that Nigeria do not have (whores) women who have sexx for cash? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by khiaa(f): 12:34am On Oct 24, 2016 |
onelife97: Stop blaming the women because you are the source of your own problems. You CONTINUE to make BAD choices. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by khiaa(f): 12:38am On Oct 24, 2016 |
awakeuche: Your brother said!! Do you know this through your own experiences? Your post is nothing more than he said she said gossip, 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by khiaa(f): 12:39am On Oct 24, 2016 |
ochuciano: How can a woman test a man to know if he is a virgin? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 12:43am On Oct 24, 2016 |
what we men want is to marry a woman of our mother's caliber ,i am sorry but the truth is those days are long gone 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by awakeuche(m): 12:47am On Oct 24, 2016 |
khiaa:thank you for that astute deduction |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by lexyril: 12:57am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Firstly I will say you should go and get a visa to come abroad and maybe you will be able to answer the question urself. Our Nigerian ladies here are even worst than the oyinbos especially those they marry from 9ja and bring them here. Marriage is only by the grace of God. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by khiaa(f): 12:59am On Oct 24, 2016 |
SerRento: Well, when a Nigerian trys to talk down America by pointing out our flaws, I too like to shut him down by pointing out their heavenly Nigeria's faults, so we understand each other. As one of your brothers like to post "no offence". |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Lucasbalo(m): 1:04am On Oct 24, 2016 |
kinibigdeal:Young man, that doesn't apply to me. Been married to my wife for over 20 years and I am still happily married. Next question. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by khiaa(f): 1:11am On Oct 24, 2016 |
awakeuche: You are welcome! |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Originalsly: 1:14am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:You shouldn't jump to conclusion.... because the husband hasn't returned in 2/4 years doesn't mean that he abandoned his wife and kids or doesn't love or care for them. Do you consider his circumstances abroad may be preventing him from returning ? Many men are trapped in a vicious circle abroad.... they would not say... hustling 24/7 to maintain.. .. cannot travel or cannot afford to travel. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Taryur3(m): 1:23am On Oct 24, 2016 |
ogbonti:I agreed with you.that girl seems to be jobless...she seems to be an attention seeker...Men are open to thier choice to marry anyone that suite them.it shouldnt be her own headache to criticise. Nonsense post 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by linearity: 1:55am On Oct 24, 2016 |
see jamb question, I agbe make I go look for the expose b4 I comment. wait first, you fit help me answer one small question? Okay, thanks....why do some Nigeria ladies dey busy body inside another person wahala, to the point of making a video about it? Na the person wey wear shoe, na him know wey the thing dey pain am, it is not my place to go dey drink panadol for their pains and I wouldn't care a bit unless their actions are illegal...even at that, no bi my wahala, make dey carry go, anywhere belle face. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 1:56am On Oct 24, 2016 |
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Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by AreaFada2: 2:17am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Talk2Bella: You are generalising. I do not know where you live but if in 9ja, maybe you should visit abroad first and truly inquire and observe how things work. On the average, a lot more African men travel abroad than women. So the pool of women to marry from is already small. Plus, if you were used to dating a certain kind of girl (beauty, intellect, carriage, whatever) the small pool might not provide that. Even though lots of those women still struggle to find a man abroad. To obtain stay permits, lots of guys marry oyinbo and a smaller number marry for love. Whether for love or paper, the divorce rate is still high. It is even high among oyinbo themselves too, so the African guy is not necessarily to blame alone. Now after divorce and yet no kids or seeing the kids is made hard by oyinbo ex-wife, would men want to potentially go through it again with another oyinbo? Also remember, over 90% of men remain very African at heart and dream of bringing their kids home one day. And of course bring them up to be as African as possible. Clearly a lady who shares a similar culture is far better for that. We grew up with many mixed race kids in 9ja those days. Their dads were 9ja men who studied abroad and returned with oyinbo wives & kids. Most were lecturers, profs, medics, etc. How many oyinbo women return home with their 9ja husbands these days? As for marrying at home and then not coming back, who does that? I know that only happens if marriage was done in absentia and the guy abroad has no papers yet. Or papers application submitted to authorities have become unduly delayed, up to many years can happen in some countries. I cannot imagine a guy with a wife in 9ja, has a job and is not ill and yet refuse to visit 9ja. From your observation, what percentage of men married to 9ja based women do that? Or you just echo what people say? At the end, living abroad is not easy. A large number remain abroad because things are rather unstable in 9ja. Many wanted to just study & return home but have remained abroad. You cannot judge a situation you have never experienced correctly & fairly. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Taryur3(m): 2:23am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Cutehector:Eeya...pele |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by khiaa(f): 2:29am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by InvertedHammer: 2:33am On Oct 24, 2016 |
/ I think it is because there are many varieties of women they can choose from in Nigeria than abroad. Some folks are also limited by their location. It will be sad to marry a lady because she is the only one available. \ 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 2:43am On Oct 24, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:What the Heck ,Quinn ![]() You are Black the women you chat with here are Black I am Black American are we all not proof their are cool Black chicks ![]() |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by bukitt: 2:50am On Oct 24, 2016 |
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Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 2:53am On Oct 24, 2016 |
mem88:Haha ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 2:56am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Taryur3:That guy is such a liar ![]() he been telling that story forever and while I believe he meet that girl,I don't think it was exactly as he says . |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Nobody: 3:06am On Oct 24, 2016 |
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