icedbeatz:
Gbam hahahahaha but not in all cases bro I know someone that went back to marry and their marriage have been awesome despite some misunderstanding. I think it has to do with a lady that truly loves you and that is also truly humane and not the Grammy award winning actresses that can manipulate the gullible fellas into thinking they're wonderful only to unveil the devil after marriage or first birth.

Talk2Bella:
This is something I’d like to understand, are there no good Nigerian women abroad? Most Nigerian men always want to come home to marry, sometimes virgins, they tell their parents to get them wives.


They say most women abroad are just good for citizenship papers, work permit, where to stay, do they even realize they hurt these women in the process? Using them like that and running back home to get married.


THUNDER FIRE THEM{THE ONE’S WHO USE WOMEN}


I see our men, asking for Nigerian wives, having fiancée back abroad; they come home to do secret weddings, impregnate their wives here and run back to their abroad lovers, what the hell is wrong with this generation?


We need to stop this form of fraud, and slavery, people aren’t toys to be used and discarded, and the funny thing is we don’t do it to white women alone, we do it to our own African sisters, we say once they get there they change, they don’t want to come back home, they report to the police when we hit them, they lie to get the house and child support, so we want someone who would listen to us and obey our every word and then they rush back home to marry one innocent girl they want to frustrate.


I am not against genuine men who want to come home to marry MBANU, I love LOVE, but when I see a man who thinks my African sisters are baby making machines, who they want to come home and impregnate every time, who they want to use as a tool to carry on their linage then I get angry, I get angry because they see us as a commodity, I get angry because they see us as a means to an end, I get angry because love isn’t an equator in this arrangement.


I wouldn’t blame all the men either, our women have become cheap cormorants over the years, searching the air like birds, sniffing a whiff of an abroad returnee who they want to perch on, leech on, suck and bleed dry, our women have seen these NDIOYIBOS as a means to an end, all they want to do is sit down at home, he opens up a business for them, and when he comes back they open their legs like a compass and be dutiful, the womb is ready to be filled for the next nine months.


We have become sardines, cornered into a space, waiting for the biggest to be picked, and then we jeer our peers, tell them oga de for obodo oyibo, sometimes we don’t care what our abroad husbands does for a living, we just want to sit back home, enjoy his money and sometimes Bleep the ones we love while he’s away.


There are good women abroad, and this habit I am sorry to say is common among the Igbo people of Nigeria, they go abroad and hustle and want to invest back home, i have no problem with this, but who will now marry that girl you have been deceiving there? Who will heal the heart of that white woman you have been deceiving.


These white women sef, you have used your heads to carry wahala, you agreed for an arrangee wedding and then you go fall in love, how low has your esteem fallen? Why do you want to make our African men worth nothing, you have frustrated them to the extent they see you as a thing to be used and discarded, when and how did you become scums that a black man will ride and plough you until he gets tired, haba na, oyibo pepper ogini, give our men peace so they can value you, not every small thing you will call police for them and everything he has saved all his life will be yours, please I am begging this needs to stop, don’t be the tool that will be used to unscrew the nut holding you heart.


Umu woke anyi, biko, gbaraa these white women, they have suffered, pity our African sisters, they have suffered to, anywhere you see love please settle down, love doesn’t come with a manual, it doesn’t base its foundation on ethnicity, religion, color or country, its pure like water and flows effortlessly like a calm stream, don’t in your search for something better end up with a viper.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=937So_VluXQ


Isabella Ibeji

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/why-do-nigerian-men-come-back-home-to.html

KingCheezyPuff:
it counts as broad ,fool .can you not see that I typed that 1st
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But you were so preoccupied displaying your innate idocy under this topic, I can see how you missed that

mikolo80:
you call him a fool yet you want him to believe you're not all ratchet

and he called us b!tches,now what does that make him?
Yer logic....it's off

icedbeatz:
Now why won't guys run away from the idea of marriage? how can one embark on a journey that might strip you of all your years of hard and smart work? is surrogacy the way nowadays?

AKBliv010:


It's to do with both man and woman. Anyone pushed to the wall will fight back man or woman. Take the piss and get ready for the consequences. There are no laws in Nigeria that protect women like they exist in U.K./US...and if there are, they aren't enforced.

Men go hear am pass for 9ja if they exist and enforced properly because we walk around with our cave man mentality.

KingCheezyPuff:
You asked me my city Fort Worth.
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You 9ja abroad?
tell me ,will you go home 2 marry?

KingCheezyPuff:
and he called us b!tches,now what does that make him?
Yer logic....it's off

KingCheezyPuff:
You asked me my city Fort Worth.
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You 9ja abroad?
tell me ,will you go home 2 marry?

icedbeatz:
I understand you're trying to defend your "kind", I never opined that all black females are " ain't shi+ bi+che's" because not all are but most of them are and they have this nauseating pride that goes with it and knows nothing about shame.
The word I used is "most" and you couldn't debate that most AA females ain't sh!+ because its a fact so you went for the "I can only experience "them" ( AA b*tches) only through the screen hahahaha hahahaha, well is all good.
#FactsAreFacts

He called US b!tches and made some VERY ignorant assertions.
~~
Now AGIAN I ask you ,what does that make him?
Ignorant/a fool, whichever word you prefer

mikolo80:
he didn't call you a beach.

icedbeatz:
Now why won't guys run away from the idea of marriage? how can one embark on a journey that might strip you of all your years of hard and smart work? is surrogacy the way nowadays?

Taryur3:

Yes, I asked of your city...let me pm you for the rest.

Talk2Bella:
This is something I’d like to understand, are there no good Nigerian women abroad? Most Nigerian men always want to come home to marry, sometimes virgins, they tell their parents to get them wives.


They say most women abroad are just good for citizenship papers, work permit, where to stay, do they even realize they hurt these women in the process? Using them like that and running back home to get married.


THUNDER FIRE THEM{THE ONE’S WHO USE WOMEN}


I see our men, asking for Nigerian wives, having fiancée back abroad; they come home to do secret weddings, impregnate their wives here and run back to their abroad lovers, what the hell is wrong with this generation?


We need to stop this form of fraud, and slavery, people aren’t toys to be used and discarded, and the funny thing is we don’t do it to white women alone, we do it to our own African sisters, we say once they get there they change, they don’t want to come back home, they report to the police when we hit them, they lie to get the house and child support, so we want someone who would listen to us and obey our every word and then they rush back home to marry one innocent girl they want to frustrate.


I am not against genuine men who want to come home to marry MBANU, I love LOVE, but when I see a man who thinks my African sisters are baby making machines, who they want to come home and impregnate every time, who they want to use as a tool to carry on their linage then I get angry, I get angry because they see us as a commodity, I get angry because they see us as a means to an end, I get angry because love isn’t an equator in this arrangement.


I wouldn’t blame all the men either, our women have become cheap cormorants over the years, searching the air like birds, sniffing a whiff of an abroad returnee who they want to perch on, leech on, suck and bleed dry, our women have seen these NDIOYIBOS as a means to an end, all they want to do is sit down at home, he opens up a business for them, and when he comes back they open their legs like a compass and be dutiful, the womb is ready to be filled for the next nine months.


We have become sardines, cornered into a space, waiting for the biggest to be picked, and then we jeer our peers, tell them oga de for obodo oyibo, sometimes we don’t care what our abroad husbands does for a living, we just want to sit back home, enjoy his money and sometimes Bleep the ones we love while he’s away.


There are good women abroad, and this habit I am sorry to say is common among the Igbo people of Nigeria, they go abroad and hustle and want to invest back home, i have no problem with this, but who will now marry that girl you have been deceiving there? Who will heal the heart of that white woman you have been deceiving.


These white women sef, you have used your heads to carry wahala, you agreed for an arrangee wedding and then you go fall in love, how low has your esteem fallen? Why do you want to make our African men worth nothing, you have frustrated them to the extent they see you as a thing to be used and discarded, when and how did you become scums that a black man will ride and plough you until he gets tired, haba na, oyibo pepper ogini, give our men peace so they can value you, not every small thing you will call police for them and everything he has saved all his life will be yours, please I am begging this needs to stop, don’t be the tool that will be used to unscrew the nut holding you heart.


Umu woke anyi, biko, gbaraa these white women, they have suffered, pity our African sisters, they have suffered to, anywhere you see love please settle down, love doesn’t come with a manual, it doesn’t base its foundation on ethnicity, religion, color or country, its pure like water and flows effortlessly like a calm stream, don’t in your search for something better end up with a viper.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=937So_VluXQ


Isabella Ibeji

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/why-do-nigerian-men-come-back-home-to.html

jasmineee:
most young ladies in America or Western countries are not homely or well cultured like the women in nigeria. add me on bbm to chat D1B4AB44

KingCheezyPuff:
but that's not fair
Why can't you answer the thread

Bollinger:


Sordid history? I've been married for almost too decades. You know why? Because i treat my spouse like a human being. When you deny the obvious, you are only perpetuating your ignorance. Smh.

davidif:


That picture is hilarious

On a serious note, what's wrong with people getting married to someone of the same culture?

lestat:


Rubbish! a typical Nigerian hearsay beer palour comment!!! the only reason a Nigerian man comes home to impregnate a woman here is the same reason some men cheat or even sleep with other women outside their marriage!!! who wont take a free pass when he sees it? Nigerian women always jump over you when they know you just traveled into Nigeria, and along the way the dummy gets preggy? what do you do? you make her all sorts of promises that you will marry her, take her abroad , nlah blah blah, all so her broke arse doesn't bug your foreign cell phone with calls. And the dummy believes that you would actually leave your home in a first world country to marry a back water uncivilized liability? all because she is from Nigeria? hahhahahahhahahahahah
So does that answer your question?

SerRento:


So,
1.you're the only Nigerian who treats his wife like a human being?
2. Anyone who is divorced is so because they don't treat their spouses like human beings?
3. You wouldn't be treating your spouse like a human being if you were in Nigeria?
4. What is denial of the obvious in my first post that you quoted? Isn't that the reason most Nigerian men come to pick a wife in Nigeria?
5. Isn't that obvious enough to you?
6. Is everyone who treats their spouse less than a human being in the US divorced?

Try to present your points with logic.

Bollinger:


You are rambling as usual. You have not denied that the divorce laws in Nigeria are skewered in favor of men. You have not denied that the economic realities is the main reason women are scared to divorce their husbands in Nigeria. You have not denied that a man can wake up one morning and chase his wife out of their home with zero consequences. Even your president has pretty much summed up the attitude of men as regards their perception of women in Nigeria. Again, denying the obvious only perpetuates your ignorance. I wonder how you people think?

Bollinger:


You are rambling as usual. You have not denied that the divorce laws in Nigeria are skewered in favor of men. You have not denied that the economic realities is the main reason women are scared to divorce their husbands in Nigeria. You have not denied that a man can wake up one morning and chase his wife out of their home with zero consequences. Even your president has pretty much summed up the attitude of men as regards their perception of women in Nigeria. Again, denying the obvious only perpetuates your ignorance. I wonder how you people think?

FarmTech:


justifying evil isn't the way forward. man was not created to act like a he-goat. imorality of any sort shud be condemn - whether it comes from a man or a woman. and also beware that a day of judgement is coming. so u can't just do all sort of evil and think I'll get away with. as for the ladies who will engage in s e x b4 marriage get ready for the consequences. don't blame the man but blame itself for such foolishness.

Talk2Bella:


Nothing so long it's genuine that's my point

adefizzy:


I love your reply, you gave the best response so far.

SerRento:


Lol. Look, we can do this back and forth till
eternity. The divorce laws in Nigeria favour the man, the divorce laws in the US favour the woman; both laws are skewed towards a gender.

You have not denied that men in the US would be ecstatic if the divorce laws in America were balanced. Unless, you're saying the divorce laws in the US are infallible and should, thus, be applied in Nigeria.

You have not denied that women wake up and decide to divorce their husbands without consideration for his welfare. The women in Nigeria do not divorce for economic reasons, the women in the US divorce for economic reasons. In short, women love money. Read up on the drop in marriage rates in China after divorce laws were changed to not favour the woman.

Women have little incentive to work when all their needs are met. You can also read up on that. Women would choose the kitchen over other spheres of life if they had to choose.

I do not need to wonder how you think, I know already. You really don't think, you just regurgitate liberal talking points. If you want to see the end point of your western feminism and femcentrism, the Scandinavian axis there for you to study. There is nothing groundbreaking about your worldview, women in Finland and Sweden have been where your women wish to get to and they have discarded the bullshiit. Wake up and stop feeling like yourevthe only eduvayed, civilised Persian on nairaland.

The reason why you refuse to see my point of view is because you think yours is infallible. Travel more and see the world for what it is. Don't just sir down in your hut and let identity poliiciand define your worldview for you.

Burgerlomo:


It's very pathetic, though not all of them are like that there is still some among them that are good, one just need to pray to God to provide him with his bone of bone or how do they say it, going to your village to marry and bring the person abroad doesn't give you a guarantee that the person is not going to f**k up, as a matter of fact they're the worst.

Bollinger:


Unfortunately I have a tasking I have to complete. Will enlighten you further when I get back. The focus will be to stress on not making opinions on issue you nothing about. The divorce laws in the West is not skewered to favor women. It favors common sense because it affects both men and women. You can never understand. Till I get back.

AKBliv010:


It's to do with both man and woman. Anyone pushed to the wall will fight back man or woman. Take the piss and get ready for the consequences. There are no laws in Nigeria that protect women like they exist in U.K./US...and if there are, they aren't enforced.

Men go hear am pass for 9ja if they exist and enforced properly because we walk around with our cave man mentality.