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1.Be a great guy. Let’s face it, if you want to date a great girl who’s desired by several guys, you need to be a great guy too.

Winning a girl’s heart takes effort.
It isn’t about saying what’s on your mind to the girl you like.
In fact, it’s the other way around.
The art of winning a girl’s heart is all about making the girl you like fall in love with you without telling her that you like her in the first place.
You need to get to know her better, and then, you need to make her see you as a dating potential.
If you don’t know her yet, make sure you get her attention the right way
And once you do get her attention, all you need to do is talk and charm your way into her heart.
Most guys make the genuine mistake of playing the game of winning hearts with their heart.
Of course, when you’re in love with a girl, you can’t do anything but think with your heart.
But if you really want to win a girl’s heart, you need to learn to still your heart, and play the game of hearts with your mind.
Don’t let your emotions control the things you do and the way you express yourself, especially when she doesn’t like you back yet.

You may end up portraying yourself like a clingy or creepy guy who’s desperately trying to win her attention.

Instead of trying hard to make her like you, just try to make her enjoy talking with you.

Before you know it, she’ll be addicted to talking to you and spending time chatting with you.

If you think another guy is cooler, or if you admire a few qualities about another guy you meet, it only means you’re lacking that quality yourself in comparison with that guy. Each time you see a guy who seems *cooler* than you, work on that particular trait so you can get better at it over time. It’s the safest way to improve your own personality in the direction you really want.

#2 Talk to her. Make her feel special when she’s around you. It doesn’t matter if there are several other guys who are trying to get her attention. All that matters is what you’re doing to win her heart. Talk to her warmly when you see her online and let her know that you’re happy to see her

RUBBISH!!

Greenbullet:
RUBBISH!!

na small pikin dey worry you

#3 Flirt with her. Flirting with a girl whose heart you’re trying to win is a subtle art. You can either make it obvious that you’re flirting with her, or you can be discreet and subtle. Flirt with her discreetly to begin with, and if she reciprocates by flirting back, you can start to get more obvious.

If you want to flirt with her, try to get some alone time with her whenever you can, and avoid flirting with her when there are others around. Flirting with her when her friends are around will make your flirty lines seem like a joke. Save the compliments and the smooth talking for private conversations

judeefcc:
na small pikin dey worry you

you are wasting space on nairaland.

empty skull

nairalanddss:
empty skull

You too lyk fight

#4 Don’t be clouded by emotions. You know you like her, but she doesn’t know it yet. If you feel like your chances are slipping or there’s no reciprocation from her end, don’t get reckless. Most guys think with their heart and end up professing their love for a girl when she’s just not interested in dating them. Don’t be that guy. Just make sure you stay out of the friend zone, and avoid telling her that you like her unless you know she likes you already

#5 Occupy her thoughts at night. The night time is the best time to build the intimacy. Start off by texting her now and then in the evenings, and work your way to calling her at night occasionally. Talk about things that interest her, and over time, she’ll warm up to you and even look forward to talking to you every night.
If you know another guy who calls this girl often, call her half an hour earlier and try to create an interesting conversation. If she likes talking to you, she’ll probably disconnect the other guy’s call if she’s having a great conversation with you.

goshikid:
You too lyk fight

mmmm nah only jude i get prob with for Nairaland...

nairalanddss:


mmmm nah only jude i get prob with for Nairaland...

him report ur acc ni

with a due respect this is old jargons..

Greenbullet:
you are wasting space on nairaland.

lol..guy u harsh o. op nothing do u carry on

i must confess op


one or two things made sense in your post

Just wasted MB on this thread?!.
#Bullshit

@judeefcc... your post make sense.

Just wasted MB on this thread?!.
#Bullshit

DozieInc:
@judeefcc... your post make sense.

greeting boss

judeefcc:
greeting boss

e be lyk people no lyk u for dis romance section oo... Chai

goshikid:
e be lyk people no lyk u for dis romance section oo... Chai

[size=20pt] na ugly girls and the boys when they asslick them [/size]

judeefcc:

[size=20pt] na ugly girls and the boys when they asslick them [/size]

biko explain, and give examples pls

Greenbullet:
RUBBISH!!

rubbish abi jargons sef!!

your headline says how to win a girl on the internet u are talking about meeting her face to face....


be like u don shayo

ucsparks:
senseless post
GO MAKE MONEY AND SAY "Bleep YOU" TO Girl rules

you no get sense ooooo

Kidult

I was expectin flaunt your stuffs but these? Abeg nigga

dullard forming wise..#trash#

CindyeMerAld:
dullard forming wise..#trash#

painment

i don laugh tire ...see everybody dy bash m