Hi Lawrenzi,

Good day, I want to talk to you since you are a guy, you would understand better, I had I girl I had liked for the past three years now, and when I asked her out she told me she is in a serious relationship and she could not afford to double date, so she advised I leave her and look for somebody else, sincerely I like the girl, I want to really marry her. Earlier in June I met her again and this time, she was no longer with the guy, I took her out on a date, and we got talking , we talked about her relationship with her ex, and I told her about my intention too. I explained how difficult it has been living without her.

She agreed we were going to be friends first before anything serious can happen between both of us, I agreed to that agreement with the hope that if I play my cards well she will be mine. We became close that I knew I was almost getting to where I want to be in her life.

Lawrenzi, I made the biggest mistake of my life and right now I am mad at myself, I just hope I will forgive myself for this. I introduced her to a friend I just met. When I asked my friend what was his view about the girl, he told me she is not beautiful that she does not match my standard, he said, “I will not deceive you my brother, that girl does not deserve you, I have observed her, she is dirty, and lacks manners how did you even meet her?’’
Because of what my friend said, I stopped talking to her for a while and stopped calling her too, I felt my friend had seen what I never saw, so I stopped the advances I was making at her. She also stopped calling me too.

To cut the long story short, I went to my friend’s place to see him, I took his phone and I was going through his pictures, I saw the lady’s pictures on his phone, I asked him what could her picture be doing his phone and he told me that she sent him the pictures, when I asked him why, my friend did not give me reasonable answer.

Out of curiosity I checked my friend’s phone and I realized that they have been exchanging text messages all the times I have been out of contact, not just ordinary text messages, and love text messages. What do you think I do?
(Your Reader from Akure)
http://www.lawrenzi.com/2016/11/08/my-friend-is-exchanging-love-text-messages-with-the-lady-i-want-to-marry/

Men u brought this on urself, those are friends in wolf clothing. Give it shot again, but if late move unto the next one.

Though You didnt handle the matter very well @ the beginning but she was never meant for you. Its time to move on

Virus

You never loved the girl in the first place, so just move on

u allowed ur friend's opinion 2 actually made u act this stupid?? the harm has been done... u know 1 or 2 things abt been in love now.... u weren't ready 4 marriage at First.... but I tell u... with some certain experiences dt will be garnered ova time... u r on d right track!!!I luv d part were u owed up 2 ur mistake.... move on. and ur wife will show up! but WAIT... dt girl will b promiscuous... she Neva really liked u... if not how was ur friend so able 2 hoodwinked her so quickly?? there is a lot of questions begging 4 answers.

Estharfabian:

So, Because the girl didn't meet your friend's standards. You stopped talking and calling her? how shallow are you?


Well, it shows you never loved her enough to see beyond those imaginary flaws Your friend pointed out.
PS--You're the big fool here. I hope they get married, have lots of sex and Plennny of kids. whilst you Dive In your pool of misery watching their sëx täpe, preferably. rubbish!

lol...tk it easy on him... silly mistakes like d one he just made.... are what actually makes us better beings that we are!! but come 2 think of it!! don't u feel this was actually a blessing in disguise? how do u explain d fact that d said friend 2d poster was so able 2 get d girl's phone no so quickly? y dint she draw d attention of d poster 2d activities of d guy towards her? how do u explain d fact dt they av already started exchanging romantic text messages? there is alot of questions begging 4 answers... she Neva really liked d poster... and some mistakes are divined so some certain things can b brought 2d forefront! the lady seems promiscuous 2me... don't u think so? how r u?

Presh900:
Watse of Semen....

be objective in ur reasoning! ur type will do worst

GoldenJAT:
be objective in ur reasoning! ur type will do worst

KK!