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Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by goingape1: 12:11pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Gaggi:weti concern you! why can't you learn how to mind your business? are you The one that pay your friend's wife Bride price? or are you fuvking your friend's wife? 1 Like
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Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by justmenoni: 12:12pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
The wife beats her in terms of beauty, class, intelligence, fashion, attitude, just name it. Op, but how are you sure about their Sexual life, the culinary, Superiority? I mean do you know their inner minds? what if there happen to be somethings that you really are unaware of and which surprisingly play's a vital Role in an African HOME. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by tintingz(m): 12:13pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
SmartyPants:@bolded... There is no jitsu to change a cheating husband, you can't change someone sexual life only if he's ready to change by himself. So Don't make the wife turn to a telepathy professor Xavier freak. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by ifenes(m): 12:13pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Gaggi: You should mind your business. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by MarieSucre(f): 12:13pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Amelian:Benbisco Contrary to what you're saying men have self-control. That's why your brothers, father and uncle's are not going around raping women. This man is a shame to men. I hope he doesn't not give his wife that dreaded incurable STD. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by MarieSucre(f): 12:14pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Urukpe:Even if she was not, is that an excuse? So 2 wrongs make a right. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by eyinjuege: 12:15pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
How do you know your friend's wife is not having her own fling and abroad husband? Please mind your own business as. The most you should do is caution your friend to use protection. If he wants to destroy his own home with his hands don't put yourself in the middle. Your friend obviously has no regards for his wife by flaunting his gf at mutual friends |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 12:18pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Dear op.....ever heard of "ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS" biscuit? Go chop am!!!! warrisdis...how e take concern u....no matter what u tell the guy he would never listen and that's cos Ur not married to his wife. the other lady must have excelled somewhere....trust me I know what I'm saying....My advice...shut up and if u really love him ..... pray!!! Only a married man would understand this not all this indomie kids |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by dachisom(m): 12:18pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
What idea is better than talking to him and following up with prayers. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Bollinger(m): 12:19pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
arabianights: You are not married are you? And i think pretty young too. You just don't know do you? |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by ka0s: 12:19pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
By God's grace you will go quite far in life, you seem like the kind of girl that is in control of her life, plans and leaves the rest to God. Nips a problem in the bud before it gets bigger than you. One shouldn't eat her cake and expect to have it back, if you abandon your marriage your marriage will abandon you. @Amelian . May God bless your Mother. Amelian: 4 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by darecool(m): 12:20pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Amelian: God bless you for this wonderful comment. It shows the kind of home you came from and how well you were brought up. There are hundreds of universities in Nigeria for her to have obtained degrees from and that would have saved the union from colllapse. 3 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Xtfield(m): 12:20pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
DarkRebel101: P = Prepare H = Hard for your D = Death He who has ears, let him hear. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by MarieSucre(f): 12:21pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
RoadsAndGreen: It's possible! Sex is not food! And this shows that he lacks discipline. For crying out loud many men go offshore for months, some are transferred to another state, some go outside the country for years, yet their wives stay faithful. If men and women are not equal and men are superior to women. Then men must be superior in fidelity and discipline. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Prudybaby(f): 12:22pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
My dear nothing is wrong with it. It is when the person is opportune to do that so u guys should hold your thing. Everything must not be sex. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by ephi123(f): 12:22pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Bollinger: It's her/his opinion. Everyone is entitled to what they think whether married, young, old or not. OP, The bigger issue here is the risk of him infecting his wife with an incurable disease. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by SmartyPants(m): 12:23pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
ephi123: You are somehow contradicting yourself. If you say a man who would cheat, will always cheat, then he would surely cheat with or without "a convenient excuse". Since according to the OP, this behavior started only when the "convenient excuse" presented itself, it still boils down to exactly what i said before: If you know your man has such a weakness, then do not give him the "convenient excuse" that he needs to indulge himself. cc tintingz 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by MarieSucre(f): 12:23pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
YUSUPH1986: That man had a problem right from time. The marriage is "cracked" because of the husband not the wife. Maybe if he gives her AIDS that's when your eyes will open. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Benbisco(f): 12:23pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
DarkRebel101: Wanked? For how long? Pls do not get me wrong. I am not in support of his actions or blaming the wife. What I'm saying is either way, which ever party leaves the other for a long time is not a very good idea and in the event that the person messes up, both are to blame. I agree with you 100%, marriage is about sacrifice not convenience. It is not a concentration camp either. That is why I think she should have sacrificed the opportunity of studying abroad and gotten the degree in Nigeria to maintain her home. Sad enough her husband is not the type that can keep holding on while she is gone. Some people do it and are OK with it, husband and wife staying put and waiting for each other but me, I no just like the idea at all at all. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by MarieSucre(f): 12:24pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
SmartyPants: Men are not any special snowflake that eat sex for food. After all there are reverend fathers. pls stop making excuses for infidelity. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by CecyAdrian(f): 12:25pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
RoadsAndGreen: It's not like she went off to study all by herself, it was an agreement btw the man and wife hence the decision for her to travel with the kids and am very sure he is the one footing their bills over there, so the olosho of a husband is in full support. And she has traveled, hopefully keeping to her end of the bargain with her studies and being a good wife and mother to their kids, while he is here trying to start a III world war in his family 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by MizzD: 12:26pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
I'm actually more pissed at the comments here than the cheating spouse right now. On one hand we have the mind your business ignorant crew who clearly read that the man has been having unprotected sex with this side chic thats got nothing on the wife in all standards. Yet same people will dispute stories about an entire family wiping off from the face of the earth due to exposure to HIV and AIDS from a philandering husband. I mean how low can a married man go exposing your beautiful family to such. This man has no regard for his wife and kids. On the second hand we have eediots with no future ambition who think it's okay for a woman To let go her dreams and aspirations because she has to be by her husband like a monitoring spirit to prevent him from philandering. And then we wonder why we have few female professors, engineers and professionals when in this century many, including women(to my surprise) believe once your married as a woman that is the end of your dreams and aspirations. Your purpose is to worship your husband and ensure he never cheats on you. Jokers Do people really think at all on this forum.? How can I be reading ignorant and extremely myopic comments in this age. Since when did distance become a determining factor for cheating.? What if one's spouse becomes ill for months? What if it was the hubby that travelled to give his family a better life (which usually occurs at one point or the other in a couple's life) and the wife becomes the Unrepentant cheat. Are we all going to blame him for doing so and then excuse the wife's behaviour? For someone like Op to post this, he really must feel sad about the situation and holds his friend's wife in high regard. It's really unfortunate as this new karashika is even a threat to the family's existence right now as she has been making threats already. My advice is that you hint the wife about this even if it has to be anonymous so she can at least come home briefly to assess the situation of things and make he decisions. There's no point asking you to talk to your friend as it's obvious it's not working. Lastly, you might want to distance yourself from such a friend as well and let him know you can't keep being a friend with his reckless lifestyle. I just hope he doesn't realise the harm he's doing too late. 18 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by ephi123(f): 12:27pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
SmartyPants: There is no contradiction there. I was following on from your comment of a man who has no self-control and integrity, if those two things are missing in a man's character, then he will cheat whether his wife is present or not. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by SmartyPants(m): 12:28pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
MarieSucre: Why are you putting words in my mouth? |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by goingape1: 12:29pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Caracta:90% of women hear are advising the man to tell his friend's wife are all foolish! most of you here do this same thing (be sleeping with other people's husband but coming here and be forming self righteousness) mind your svpid business and stop concerning yourself with other people business! it pays a lot. self righteous hypothetical naija woman! 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by repogirl(f): 12:29pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Nothing much you can do the advise your friend..... it's him who has the power to change all this. I don't even know how to castigate the man because this sort of thing usually happens when women leave their husband's for long periods. So if a woman wants to be away from her husband for a while, she should factor it into part of the risks involved. Although, to be fair if a man cherishes his marriage, his family and marital vows, he wouldn't be doing this rubbish. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 12:29pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
adedayoa2: What if she had only a Hobson's choice and Timbuktu was her only option? What if studying close to home wasn't a possibility? |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Bollinger(m): 12:30pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
ephi123: Not when it comes to marriages. It is the reason you must know your partner before marriage. It's their life and their decision to marry. Not yours. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by CecyAdrian(f): 12:30pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
ephi123: My sister, the line of reasoning tire me hence I had to ask ooo 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by MarieSucre(f): 12:30pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Bollinger: A friend of mine's aunty is infected with HIV. Her husband gave it to her. He died about 4 months before she went foe testing. So pls tell me about "not being married" or "being young" can cure AIDS. Keep excusing infidelity. I hope you don't fall victim to it too. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Bollinger(m): 12:33pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
MarieSucre: I am not excusing infidelity. I have been married almost two decades so i know the value of it. You don't get involved in other people's marriages. You wouldn't understand till get married. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by MarieSucre(f): 12:33pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
SmartyPants: By your logic my mother should always lock her pot with padlock. if she does not lock it then she is giving me a "convenient excuse" to just lift the lid and steal meat. Thanks now I know how moral you are. Let's not hold people to responsibility. Let's allow everyone to lie, cheat, kill and fucck afterall we gave them "convenient excuse". 3 Likes 1 Share |
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