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Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Urukpe: 1:31pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
MarieSucre: u never can really tell |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 1:32pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
TheNonce: I don tire for her matta [size=2pt] chiam?!? Who you be... You're an old friend I sense [/size] |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by MarieSucre(f): 1:34pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
RoadsAndGreen: Na wa o. Is it you that want to reinterpret the meaning of my status for me. Even if you wanna use it in this context, notice I used "prisoner" something negative not "kings to our desires". I am not glorifying these vices like you are, excusing them like you are or applauding them. Pls stop supporting bad thing. May your spouse not cheat on you or give you an STD amen. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by deleo16(m): 1:35pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
both parties are truly different" Men are from Mars, women are from Venus . |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by RoadsAndGreen(m): 1:36pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
MarieSucre:when did I say I support such? please that's enough. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 1:40pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
nubian999: Thanks Professor of English language, who you epp? 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Elle277(f): 1:41pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Serious case,and the girl never knew he is married, The guy is in a hot soup,he is not gonna come out clean..smh |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 1:43pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
AuroraB: U are the messed up one.. Completely deranged.. Later you will come online with new moniker, telling stories that touch. We know your type already. Better manage your home well, If u are married. Am not wrong.. U are wrong with your mentality. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by MarieSucre(f): 1:43pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
RoadsAndGreen: Here " because you women are able to abstain does that mean a man must be able to stay abstained?" After this line you said " people have different needs and yes sex is food. it's even sweeter that jollof rice. like it or not. you pray against the devil but you must not give chance for temptations." Does that not look an "EXCUSE" to you? |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Skmoda360(m): 1:45pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
in other news, hello everyone, today is my birthday and please dash me 20 likes to appreciate my birthday...thanks 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by uzolexis(f): 1:48pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Amelian: I totally agree with him, you are an airhead, a bimbo for that comment, asking what will a lady do with a Masters or PhD....... 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 1:51pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
The really sad aspect is that no one has told his wife. Everyone in his circle knows he is cheating and no one has really challenged him. And when they do see his wife they will smile and behave as if all is well. The girl knows he is married I am confident about that. Some women choose to ignore that and hope that they will replace the wife. It might work but what they don't realise is that the vacancy of side piece is vacant. Do the decent thing if you are really a true friend. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by SmartyPants(m): 1:52pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
tintingz: What is the point of the speculation? He may or may not have. That takes us neither here nor there. What we can deal with are the facts presented by the OP, based on which i arrived at my conclusion. To manufacture other facts to defend a particular position means you are already prejudiced. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 1:54pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
uzolexis: U have fish brain.. And as the years go by, I know it will turn into dusts.. I pity women like you.. What a waste.. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by RoadsAndGreen(m): 1:54pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
MarieSucre:how does that mean I support what the man did? how many times have I told you both of them are wrong? those are only variables that presents loop holes. babe you need to think smartly. you have a bad or no knowledge of human psychology. obviously. meanwhile, you are too rigid for my liking. people like you are too stubborn. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by sunnyside16(m): 1:58pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Its a pity we have foolish people everywhere......home breakers and foolish men 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by uzolexis(f): 1:59pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Amelian: pity yourself not me cos you made the dumbest comment of the century, asking what a woman wants to use Masters and PhD for. I still can't believe I read that on this forum. 5 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 2:01pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Amelian: I was/am completely done with reacting to your posts...... ...but, I have to correct a very erroneous comment of yours @ anyone can have a PHD This is not true darling, and you know it....or do you not know this? To get a PHD....(and we will use one gotten from a school in the UK/US/Canada/Australia /Eurozone here cos we sense that the lady in the OP left Nigeria for her education) One, one has to have a good or at least above average undergraduate degree first...then a master's degree Getting these requires a high level of hardwork, concentration/focus, money and or visa eligibility, depending on whether the degrees were obtained in Nigeria or outside of it Then this- I know someone who graduated and has been working as a medical doctor from/in a top ranked Nigerian medical school. They decided to get a masters' degree recently....and wanted into a " world top 100" ....that education (tuition and board) cost just short of 30,000 GP...for one year of education..and bla bla bla. If they wanted to get a PHD.....that would mean at least an extra 20,000GP times 3....money wise This crazy high figure (cash payment of course) pales in significance to. the extra-high level of focus and commitment needed to get this PHD...are you getting a feel of how tough this degree is now? Okay forget the cash payment, supposing the person had a partial or full scholarship from getting maybe a distinction or merit or other high achievement (academic or otherwise)? Imagine the top levels of dedication, hardwork, brain power, luck, etc needed to best other candidates looking for same scholarship? This is the same for degrees gotten in Nigeria too..requires a lot of time, effort and money to achieve.. My point is that seriously, it is not true that "anyone" can get a PHD It is not beans And it "epp" people a lot......just one degree above an MBBS or other degree may be the required edge needed to get that NGO, development agency job/contract....then a PHD just means more and more opportunities, jobs, fellowships, etc..and even if one stayed unemployed afterwards....nothing can beat that focus, hardwork, fulfillment, self development and actualisation... and achievement inherent in a PHD, true story... To the other (main) parts of your post, I say ......good for you, but, please dear-ness, do not ever run down a PHD, or even any postgraduate degree for that matter.....they might be way out of our leagues Thanks 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by ephi123(f): 2:01pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
SmartyPants: We are finally on the same page then 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Pesuzok(m): 2:02pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Gaggi: Just two questions please. Where does your friend stay and which car does he drive. I know my reasons for asking |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by MarieSucre(f): 2:03pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
RoadsAndGreen: One of them's wrong will bring a better paying job for the family later. The others wrong will bring STD, a broken home and death. You be the judge? I am not rigid. I have seen first hand the effects of infidelity. Marriage is endurance. A friend of mine works at the Heart to Heart Center at our General Hospital. This is where people come for HIV and AIDS counselling among other related things. Ofcourse that is not to mean one endures physical or verbal abuse. Like a physically abusive spouse or a nagging wife. But this? Come one! So as I said earlier, you be the judge. I'm done. 3 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by scarred9jan(m): 2:09pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Gaggi: Talk to him, Man to Man. If he feels trapped then he should find time to be with his family if he can afford it. And confess there (gives him a chance to see what he might lose). When he comes back, if they, the family have decided to work things out he should man up a severe all ties with her. Make sure you are there when he does so if anything happens to him you can stand as a witness. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by biggie73(m): 2:14pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Mind your business, pal. You don't know what and who the wife is doing. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by sisisioge: 2:23pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Amelian: Amelia Amelia! Aren't you such a damsel? You already made excuse for the SOB in question ba? Remember o, your bobo is already hot, even if he no chase dem go chase am. Na then me sef go follow blame you for his escapes 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by RoadsAndGreen(m): 2:29pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
MarieSucre:I told you earlier about scale of preference. scale of preference means a list of needs lined up according to level of importance. in life priorities are different. you need to choose which one comes first and as husband and wife, keeping the family should be the top priority. what happened to schooling in Nigeria? are our institutions that bad? if such courses are not obtainable in Nigeria then how do you intend to use it in Nigeria? Prevention is better than cure.... not everyone will cheat in such situation but this situation presents loop holes. humans are diverse in nature. am done with you too |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Proudlyngwa(m): 2:33pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
This thread is a clear case of modern marriage versus traditional marriage. My conclusion 99% of the people on this thread don't know anything about men, women the human body in relation to marriage. What most men want most times is not sex but feminine touch, the male body craves for it especially after alcohol. A woman usually has no qualms falling asleep once their back touches the bed. A mans anatomy is different. May we never be in a situation where we are tempted beyond our capacity. 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 2:49pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Amelian: And this person is a woman? May God save us!! 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by AuroraB(f): 2:51pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Amelian:Come online to get advice from you naa Fear catch me Buzz off already |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Izen: 2:54pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Amelian: If it's the husband that traveled for further studies, you won't say the same thing. Double standards. It's always the woman's fault. Oshisco. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 2:58pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
ElsonMorali: You people like talking off point. How is your 'example' the same, or even similar to the OP's post? This woman did not relocate for and indefinite amount of time. She only went for a 1 or at most 2 year course. What if she were lying critically ill in the hospital or for some reason unable to have sex with her husband for a long while, does that justify him cheating on her without using any sort of discretion 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 3:01pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
[color=#006600][/color] DarkRebel101: Guy let us be honest with ourselves. Can a hot blooded African man that is not sick or ill stay 6 months without sex ? |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 3:02pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Amelian: What advice will you give the woman in this page? https://www.nairaland.com/3463401/hubby-asking-girlfriend-nudes Shebi it's also her fault her hubby is asking other women for nudes? Maybe she needs to start giving him nudes to make him stop 'hungrying' for nudes 2 Likes |
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