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Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by iamphotoshoot(m): 4:19pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez: ![]() |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Annalise(f): 4:19pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez: Leave all this nairaland girls typing comments for likes from guys and dm. If you ask someone out you should take responsibility for most of the money that would be spent. Simple courtesy. 4 Likes |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Benwems(m): 4:20pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
UdohOby:And when they also learn to tick to only one man. |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by profhezekiah: 4:20pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
he b ur papa, I never chop mentally |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by christhavemercy(f): 4:21pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Annalise:yea i agree with you. all the girls forming independent on nairaland if u meet them in real life they have nothing. i recommend the book "why men love bitches" for all the male-approval seeking girls out there. A true independent lady knows her worth and will only tolerate guys who know their worth. i will never pay for a first date with a guy i'm just getting to know. But trust me, when u get to know me.. i can give u my last penny, whether u r a guy or girl. 6 Likes |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by UdohOby(f): 4:23pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Laveda: My dear, I read it all through. He might have made up his mind not to pay for her after she ate more than he (the guy) could pay for. Let's call a spade a spade jor. One of my friends was once disgraced like this. A guy asked her out, and because of that, she didn't eat at home. She ate something of over 7k, say wetin happen nah. You won't tell me that the guy didn't have money before asking her out. He may have budgeted maybe 4k for the date, and some guys are so disciplined with spending. Na so my guy leave am waka, na me and one other friend come pay her bills. So, let's be reasonable at times. That a guy asked you out first, doesn't mean you have the right to eat whatever you can't afford on your own. So many girls have lost great opportunities because of this nonsense attitude. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by DavidMarshal(m): 4:24pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
that's my nigger.. who has that pix pls |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Annalise(f): 4:27pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Kdiva: Dem dey find man. They want likes/shares and dm. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Blessograo(f): 4:27pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
What made the guy's behaviour annoying to me is that she had to pay for the bill of a date she was invited to, it's like paying gate fee to your friends wedding ceremony in a church because you the chief bridesmaid. And what makes it more annoying is if the guy will end up saying he was testing her. I swear the guy go chop free insult. 4 Likes |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by UdohOby(f): 4:29pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Annalise: My dear read the comment again. I made use of past tense. I am married with 2 kids now. I am not looking for a boyfriend. Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Missy89(f): 4:29pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
So she left him stranded with the bill and called him cheap? How about you pay for your food then walk away? 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Blessograo(f): 4:30pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
infantking:So what is your point o?
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Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 4:31pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Annalise: Every pussy stinks |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 4:31pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
olasubomi007: Now that's a man who knows how to survive Nigeria's recession 1 Like |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Annalise(f): 4:33pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
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Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Laveda(f): 4:33pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
UdohOby: True that.. I've met girls who eat like glutton on a date.. But if you read all of it, the guy didn't even make any attempt to bring out his wallet, but rather asked her if she wants to pay.. Mehh that's ridiculous. ![]() For this girl to go pick him up should tell you she isn't really broke.. .. The guy was supposed to prepare for the worst, and not taking a girl out expecting her to foot the bills, its not making sense at all. Its rather shameful to say the least. Ps: don't go on a first date with a guy if he isn't ready to pay.. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by UdohOby(f): 4:34pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Blessograo: Thank you my dear. Most Nigerian girls have turned to gluttons, and what makes it so annoying is that most of them can't afford what they eat on dates. I am not in support of the guy per say, but I feel the girl may have consumed more than required. |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by ODAVI(m): 4:34pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
I like your quote dear.. Yea thou i didnt subscribe to what the guy did, he could have just paid and then show her or tell her what he was expecting.. But he already gave me a doubt on his pocket with the ride issue thou. Well not judging him thou. But ladies, HOLD ON TO YOUR PRIDE. UdohOby: |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 4:35pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Annalise: Okay Let me rephrase it Every pussy have a signature odor |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by viktor01(m): 4:35pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Where is my dictionary.....I need to check the meaning of that word 'SPOIL' then i will come back and comment. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Annalise(f): 4:37pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
AfonjaStinks: E don dey change mouth. |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Tajbol4splend(m): 4:38pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
UdohOby: I really love ladies with this kinda orientation |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Wroxxane: 4:39pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez:Seconded!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by wonlasewonimi: 4:40pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
I thought we are supposed to be equal |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Annalise(f): 4:40pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
UdohOby: Did she also watch more than what was required? I think she paid for the movie. She also drove there. She can afford a car and fuel but you think she's a glutton who can't afford what she eats on dates? 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Blessograo(f): 4:41pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
UdohOby:Let's even assume she didn't eat too much, she should have told him the second they walked into the second they walked into the second place to eat if he was paying or not since he did that the first time. But because of long throat she couldn't stop eating. If I were the one sef I will pay for my food and tell him to find his way home cos it's already weird for me driving him already. I don't know why he didn't feel uncomfortable for a lady to drive, he could just order a cab online. |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 4:41pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
repogirl:Mak she holam...na those ones want good guys in 9ja for coupling. No matter how bad they r..they just want nice guys. |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 4:43pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Annalise: You seem to forget she is in the US, you don't make such demands there. if you ask someone out, its bill paying is 50/50, as a matter of fact, If and When you try to pay as a man, she might get angry and think you're seeing her as a prostitute. Please, I'm talking out of experience. I'm not saying its right thing the guy did, But thats the culture over there. If you go out with a white girl, trust me, thats how its done. Our culture is different here. I'm proud of our culture anyway, A Man should be a Man. |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Annalise(f): 4:46pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
truthsayer007: I think she covered transport fare and the movie. The food is the remaining 50%. This is if we follow your logic. And in that case, he is still stingy. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by nextstep(m): 4:49pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
But the guy really fall hand. Is he trying to avoid being taken advantage of? Trying too hard to be "the man who don't pay for dates?" If you really are the man who doesn't pay for dates, the game should have been played differently. This lazy attempt is just embarrassing to true players. I really admire the girl for playing it cool, and getting out of the messy situation with such finesse. - you invite a girl out, yet expect her to deal with the logistics (car, where to go). You're a man, your duty is to handle this shit. - if you invite a girl out, be prepared to spend. Don't be unreasonable and overspend, and don't be taken for a fool. But in this case, this guy really was a cheap ass with little understanding of social etiquette. - there are so many girls who pay for their man... just not on the first few dates. And they pay serious too (clothes, rent, general upkeep) because you've won their hearts. Don't start being so vindictive about women just because she didn't take kindly to your stingy ass. - if you don't want to be put in the role of provider, take her out to fun places - parks, museums, free concert, cheap ice cream, someplace different and fun. When you decide you want to get serious, you won't have to front and be a cheapskate because by then you two would have something meaningful. Nobody is saying you have to take a girl out, but if you do, realize that even male birds bring gifts to their potential mates, and yes, often the female birds refuse because the size of the gift showed that the male was not serious. Final note: it's true there are girls who will milk you dry, but if you take time to understand her before asking her out, you'll know which one was which, and avoid the milkers. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Narrates Her Horrible First-date Experience With A Stingy Guy by Annalise(f): 4:51pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Missy89: She paid for the movie, paid for transportation and you still want her to pay for her food? 1 Like |
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