Enybliss:
hahahahaha jeez wtf is that a Hooker's receipt? Holy sh!t

Enybliss:
lols so you won't feel bad if you discovered your partner is doing the same? You're a very wierd fellow

Amelian:




Lol.. My dear life, experiences has taught one to be smart and think with my head not just my heart when it comes 2 matters of the heart.
Of course it's normal. To feel bad, if I get 2 know my bf has a side chick. But hey! Life goes on. . I will simply keeping doing what I do 2 remain on top. I can't have heart attack because of guy.. My heart and mind is extremely fragile already.. Need to guard it.. Orelse O. Y. O

Mutuwa:


I told you.being constant in the game is just the difference between a girlfriend and a hooker.And I forgot ,being passionate too,may make one innovative just like the hooker with the receipt.

A more contemporary hooker may likely move with POS soon,if babalawo's can leave their sty in the woods and rent and furnish an office building to continue their sinister dealings.

hahahahaha you're one heck of a funny guy

Neyoor:
In as much as I subscribe to majority of the highlighted points but I doubt if it would go well with majority of Nigerian ladies. They would literally tag a broke guy as a gold digger, irrespective of the ambition and the future at stake.

It is often said and it has been proved beyond ordinary doubt that most ladies see riches as a major necessity in relationship. They would rather see the downsides, instead of the viable points highlighted above.

Enybliss:
hahahahaha you're one heck of a funny guy

Enybliss:
just say you haven't met supportive ladies who aren't interested in money

Mutuwa:


You think so?.. I laugh once in a year,and I did that on my birthday.

Just like hitting a donkey with a big stick today Saturday and it will bray next week Friday.

Neyoor:


I know such ladies exist but they are minute. A larger percentage of ladies would rather prefer going after a rich dude even if he has no future ambition.

Enybliss:
i understand you though, i dont like dating as well, the commitments and all, so i get where you're coming from

Amelian:



Exactly!
That's why av eventually turned up this way.. It's for the best.

Enybliss:
well as for me i just have to like you and thats all

Neyoor:


Like? Plus all you listed above again! None of these would bring money and food to the desk. All most ladies want is a guy that would defend her with everything, especially money. Perhaps, because you are financially okay and even with that it doesn't change the fact that ladies and money are inseparable. Even most ladies that are working and financially independent would still not want to settle for less.

JuicyLucy:


As in he got another woman pregnant? No way!

That's why we're not meant to take care of them. They say we are ungrateful but I know men who take their woman's car and go check other women with it. Her car and petrol.

Enybliss:
i subconsciously make a list of criterion a guy must fulfill before i can date him, as long as you met those conditions and i know i can support you I'll gladly date you, irrespective of what you have, but you must be a hustler smart educated and hard worker

Neyoor:

Exactly my thought! These are just your personal opinion and the major yardstick you would use to date a guy. It might not necessarily go down well with most ladies, especially 21st century ladies that would never settle for less.

Enybliss:
lols am a 21st century lady as well, but i get your point though, diversity in personal opinions

Captainbells:

Girl!!! I kid you not!!
I was devastated to say the very least...

Neyoor:



Sure! Can't wait to see you get married to that vissionary hustler you are envisaging. Wait! If you have the two options, which one will you even settle for? A rich dude who manages his parent asset or the other with the traits you listed ?

Enybliss:
you see? You keep being funny, for a guy who laugh once in a year

Mutuwa:


My face reading this.

Enybliss:
[color=#000099] if you're a fool because you don't have to struggle then I'll get your money and be on my way

Enybliss:
honestly I'd go for the rich dude if he isn't one dumb lazy guy who got a break because his parents got a break, but if you're a fool because you don't have to struggle then I'll get your money and be on my way, you're just like a pawn on my chessboard a means to an end, then I'll be serious with the broke but ambitious guy chikena

Neyoor:


Lol! I think I understand better now. There is difference between settling with an ambitious dude against all odds and settling with an ambitious dude because you've not seen a rich dude.

Originalsly:
Lol... no time to waste.... A fool and his money soon parted!

Davash222:
Stop celebrating mediocrity.

sekem:


She must be suffering from serious low self-esteem issues or she must be very very ugly and unattractive for her to have come up with these points and even call them benefits.

Enybliss:

No woman will be happy dating a broke guy for long, honestly, because she'll need someone who would provide for her, care for her, make her safe so she won't look elsewhere, its not about gold digging, its just natural, among the other necessary factors to consider like trust, love, attention, money is the most important as it helps promote the other factors, but money isn't everything in relationships,

I'm not encouraging you to go into a relationship with a broke dude, but don't run either, they're two categories of broke guys

The guys who are broke because their Hardwork isn't paying off yet, they're ambitious, they have dreams and are working hard to achieve it, such people are good to stick with, support and believe in them

Then the guys who are broke because they're too lazy to make something of thier life, mostly jobless, and into shady things that might bring money like betting, those ones only pull you down and demand from you, when you meet them, you'll just know its them, they'll make you believe you should carry them along that things will get better, its a lie, run away.

Here are the benefits of dating a broke but ambitious guy

1. He respect and value you: most times they wonder why you still stick with them despite the fact that they're broke and have nothing to offer

2. No competition: you don't have to worry about losing him, because you'll feel secure, he'll ve the insecure one, always wondering if one rich dude is trying to snatch you from him, theres really no competition for broke guys, so nothing to worry about.

3. Super protective and possessive: he's all up in your business, always feeling paranoid in a jealous and cute kind of way just to impress you.

4. Romantic: he takes everything about you seriously, he's good with romantic gestures, and making little things seem big.

5. Attentive and a good listener: everything about you intrests him, this is due to the respect he has for you and the belief that he's lucky you stayed despite his financial situation.

6. He uplifts, supports and believes in your dreams
He never discourage you from doing what you love doing, he's also a dreamer and he believes you'll grow together, so he's always ready to advise you and support in every little way he can.

7. He has great regard for friends and family
This is very obvious, most times they even run errands for your parents, and love to know the people you hang out with.

8. Proud to identify with you or show-off
He's always happy to tell people you're his girlfriend, show you to friends, its like low self esteem but its more than that. They're alot of other benefits like being caring and all, but the bottom line is, don't run because he's broke today, get to know him and see if he has what it takes to improve or become someone tomorrow.

StupidYorubaFool:
great piece..
now what if this interim broke but ambitious guy is ugly.