ambs50:
HARDDON, I must confess have benefited a lot from ur posts. Lyk siriosly I nw knw my flaws nd good to go fully nw. Buh wait, u gat a book or somtin dat can always be handy for consultations.
Wud rili appreciate if any. Jst ur write-ups on dis issue. Tanks.more power to ur elbow.

ambs50:
Sir Harddon (allow me to addres u as dat cos u one, a very close female frend (nt dat beautifl though) of mine linked me up wit her bestie who is prettier dan her abt 2monts ago. We've nt met yet cos she still in schl Buh wil be bak soon. Howeva,we've got talkin nd she sounds my type: jovial, blunt, no forming nd jst cool.
Buh am aving som doubts.first she's south south nd am frm d west. Again frm d way she sounds, I feel she may be too rigorous for me. Althoh my random thots.
Pls wat do I do. Hw can I establish dis relasnsip wen we finally get to see. As in dnt knw weda to be fast or easy.
Thanks

Adasun:
i have been doing this for a long tym without knwing what am doing oo lols.



any way i just discovered dat da fun may even eradicate sex thought frm u,maybe dats y i have not touch all dis free mama nd papa fud all around me.i want to stay dis way til i have my legal wife.



Is dat possible Harddon?

LasoulMacuby:
God one

HARDDON:


Say wor? Ur second paragragh shut me comprehension prowess down

o common,read through those lines again.dats pay back for nt been direct with us frm da first page.



And for dat comment above,dude arn't further explain.read through da lines da way i did with urs

SerRento:


Well, you know what to do. Game her mercilessly. Her greed is her weakness. She senses some financial worth in you, and that should be the leash you use in controlling her. Give her the impression that she's financially safe with you. She should see you spend money but never be a beneficiary to that money. Always string her along. Her greed will lead her to your lair where she will surrender herself willingly, expecting financial rewards. At this point, indulge her very sparingly so she doesn't think she's wasting her time with you. When you're tired of her withdraw any financial benefits abruptly without warning.

If her destiny is to be an olosho, the relationship will end then; otherwise she will try her best to influence you(by presenting sex) to be more generous. At this point, you're firmly in control.

HARDDON:

LordZero:
[b] Nice work @HARDDON and others. ...

..I just want to say something to those claiming they are shy/introverted..
Deep down y'all are just trying to protect your ego (the part of you that fears failing, cares about what people think). That part of you will always want to keep you safe (keep u in your comfort zone) but heck MEN are not meant to stay in their comfort zone all their life. Acknowledge that part of you(and constantly remind yourself that you are a MAN not a baby) and take countrol of your life by pushing the limit of your comfort zone.

What people will think or think of you doesn't matter: stop living too much in your head and stop worrying about what people think about you cos everybody is busy worrying about themselves to give 2 fvcks about you. It's all in your head.. Walk up to that girl you've been admiring and start a conversation about anything, two things might happen;
1. You succeed (had s great convo, collect her digit e.t.e) and realize strangers/new individuals are not monsters that will kill or eat you. OR
2. Things go horribly wrong and you end up feeling awkward but you'll learn from your mistake and improve ur skills for next time. The funniest part is u will be d one stressing yourself about the failed attempt because you are not the first to approach her and crash and won't be the last so probably in 30 minutes time, you are just one of the things that happened to her that day so it's all in your head. PEOPLE ARE BUSY WORRYING ABOUT THEMSELVES TO CARE ABOUT UR BLEEP UPS..
It's only you that will remember when you dribbled four guys b4 scoring a goal on the football pitch after 3 days, same applies to relating with people..

Fear of failure: if you don't fail, you can't learn from your mistakes, and if you don't learn, you can never improve. .
Stop thinking about what to say, what will she will say or what she's going to tell people. Just walk up and say something (talk about her cloth, the environment or any thing meaningful) confidently or atleast pretend to be confident while saying it and b4 you know it you are talking (as long as you can think of witty stuffs on the spot)..
Also talk to alot of people and in time you will get over the fear of talking to people/failing. .


To newbies:: work on yourself b4 thinking of relationships, work on your body, self esteem, confidence, sense of humor, communication skills and relating with others. Above all cut the PÖRN AND WANKING (they rob you of your drive to meet other people of the opposite sêx).


Be independent of the outcome of any conversation you want to get into, do it for fun and to learn new stuffs.... ..


I hope to organize this better later and other things I will be posting later. (with due permission from Harddon and other bruhs in d house)..
[/b]

Always remember; everything you've ever wanted is on the other side of fear. .

multibalotel:

Hardon employ dis guy as ur assistance.. dope stuff

Adasun:
o common,read through those lines again.dats pay back for nt been direct with us frm da first page.



And for dat comment above,dude arn't further explain.read through da lines da way i did with urs

CuteCeo:


bro. reply mail na

superbouck:
I woo a lady last year but she said no, since then she is someone I can call my best friend. I came across this thread last week and I can say the drills are actually working. what can I do to make this lady to be my own. anytime I m around we walk, talk even read togeda. pls what can I do

HARDDON:


Hope u have learnt not to ask a gurl out? N What do u want with her?
Ur motive? Seroius r/ship?( have unreserved acess to d forbidden forest?) FFB( friends for benefits ) SR ( serious relationship that cud lead to marriage)

or just what?

superbouck:
serious relationship that could lead to marriage

peterpen:
Hello harddon, how do you deal with a girl who doesn't pick her calls and claims she is nt always with the phone or its on silent buh never calls back and isn't on any social media nt even fb or watsapp.....hw do yu build the attraction



Cc. HARDDON

DaySpringer:
Bros, I don't understand. You like this girl and she likes you too. You have already won her over from what you are describing there?

What do you want again?


Advice:
Try and see her

LasoulMacuby:

Aite! But like I said I have not asked her to be my girlfriend yet. The messages I saw in my sisters phone just left me in the dark. So advice me now that my sister have told her am dying because of her, when I did not even open my mouth so say anything to her. . . I want to set a date with her, how do I go about it. I don't want her to have an idea am clearly heads over her

DaySpringer:
Bros, I don't understand. You like this girl and she likes you too. You have already won her over from what you are describing there?

What do you want again?


Advice:
Try and see her

HARDDON:



Why should he see her?

LasoulMacuby:
I met this girl I really like, we connected through Facebook. She pretty, educated and come from a good home, at least I can decipher that from our small talks. I really like her, she a material that one can wifey. I have not even ask her out yet. When she accepted my friend request the first thing I said to her was "hey I saw a ring on the ground that had ur name on it, and so I looked for u, if I return it back it means u are married, but if I keep it u are still single. So what should I do" and she replied that I keep it. I have not asked her out, just keep telling her words that blows her head out. She is always the first to message me in the morning, we get along well too. She stays in the same state with me, but we have not met one on one. She is really waiting for me to pop a question like would u be my girlfriend even though I channel talks towards that area, I have not asked her out, just leaving crazy thought in her head. Yesterday while chatting with her I told her I was close to her area, and she said she wished she could see me even if it's just for some seconds, and I declined saying "I know u want to kiss me, but my lips ain't pink". House, what am I doing wrong, what have I not done, and what should I do? I am really into her but I don't really allow her see the picture.
Something happened was going through my little sisters phone and saw their whatapp messages where my sis was telling her I really like her, and am sending other girls away, she replied that I have not said anything to her o. And my sister ended the talk by saying she should make me happy, and even went to the extent of calling her in law.
House make una help me reason am o

CC: HARDDON
SerRento

LasoulMacuby:

Aite! But like I said I have not asked her to be my girlfriend yet. The messages I saw in my sisters phone just left me in the dark. So advice me now that my sister have told her am dying because of her, when I did not even open my mouth so say anything to her. . . I want to set a date with her, how do I go about it. I don't want her to have an idea am clearly heads over her

HARDDON:


See why u need not bother askin a woman out? Cos they already know! Even ur sister picked ur luv ooze. Ur asking again is erroNously toutological. Though they crave u ask , so they can official hv ur balls N be on d r/ship driver's sit. This kills d attraction n suspense.


If i were u, i wud draw kid sis ears n make her swear alligence to me. U can use her leverage. Hope u dig?


U wud ignore u saw anything on kid sis phone. Infact, start sending her a lil less now, reduce d calls, chats n time together, make her miss u.

If u havent broken all barriers btw u two, i think u should focus ur energy on that.

Why Do U want to See her?
Is it because she said u missed u?

HARDDON:


Glad u finally woke up from ur hibernation mode...


We got two Books..... But they r Quite Pricey if you aint registered with us nor taken any course with us.....

Yea, there goes my zero marketing skills again.

We r currently working on a concised companion.

It should be out first quater next year.

Rich Regards
Don

superbouck:
I woo a lady last year but she said no, since then she is someone I can call my best friend. I came across this thread last week and I can say the drills are actually working. what can I do to make this lady to be my own. anytime I m around we walk, talk even read togeda. pls what can I do

ismart:
you have been friendzoned