This kinda thing happens sometimes no matter how hard we tend to be. I acknowledge it and thats why i need your help guys.

Hi Profs here., I need help here and . I and my friend visited his gal friend in the hostel and i met her friend there. I collected her number ( without any intention ooo). 3 days later, my friend called me to rush to his room upstairs that there is sth , only to meet the gal. I was shocked to say the least. Since then, she always visit with her friend and most times we are either in my room or in their room upstairs. They all joke at us that while are we so distance bla bla bla ,. I already told her my mind but the problem now is that from that day one she visited , there have been awkward moments. she is rigid and doednt talk but respond in monologues when ever we talk but she feels so so free with my friend and the third guy we stay together. More or less , i dont even know what to talk to her again about as i havent been in this kind of situation before. I feel so free with her friend and others but this is just frustrating. As am talking, she just left my room with her friend now and its the same issue. How can i break her rigidity pls and make her feel relaxed. The point is even when i tried to just forget anything about her and just flow with the vibes, the rigidity and look on her face brings everything to a standstill. I need answers pls.

by rigidity do you mean she's forming for you or she's simply nervous around you?

I can't just comprehend

NevetsIbot:
by rigidity do you mean she's forming for you or she's simply nervous around you?

Not forming. I wouldnt say nervous either. But just not acting freely, speaking in mono-thongs.

firstking01:
I can't just comprehend

Thanks bro

Brownville007:

Not forming. I wouldnt say nervous either. But just not acting freely, speaking in mono-thongs.

you're on your own buddy.

Yea nice observation bro... That thing simply mean say nothing can exist between the two of you beyond friendship (I doubt if friendship is even possible o)... Can't you see that the vibe you dey collect from her side get as it be? Bro I guess the difference is just too sharp... Just do #SoftWork for her matter o, and do #HardWork for the other girls' matter... But on a second look, that girl fit no be the flirty or "datey" (guy I kill bro English right there ) type... Maybe you fit turn her to baddo

Bro, obviously, she doesn't like you. I'll say no more.

na to speak in tongues to d babe Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo since shez monopolistic interms of communication