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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by MackBrooklyn: 1:29pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Enybliss: ![]() ![]() Then I'll edit and add "some" to my own post too ![]() |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Gladiator1: 1:29pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Enybliss:OK. Then we keep it neutral then ![]() |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by mofeoluwadassah: 1:31pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
I dunno y its so hard for dem,anything under d skirt always make dem go crazy ![]() |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:31pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
MackBrooklyn:lol i didn't edit anything it was there right from the onset |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Softorgasm(m): 1:32pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Well men will always be men..... As a man (morality aside), its normal to ask a female friend out...we call it giving a shot.. It's not like a friend that ask you out is bad, its up to you to say no and they will respect your decision... Ladies that are my close friends have tried to seduce me and as a good friend, i give them what they want, but that do mean that they are bad friends.. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:32pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Gladiator1:thank you ![]() |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Nobody: 1:33pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Don't generalize MissK |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Gladiator1: 1:34pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Enybliss:Hmm! But u hv quite a few on NL |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Nobody: 1:37pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Enybliss:I don't really know how a guy's mind works but one thing am sure of is I have experienced this countless times and I keep wondering the same question you asked here. ![]() Even those with girlfriends develop feelings for you as soon as you help them settle a disagreement... I always wonder if they think I am perfect because I helped them out? The decision is still mine to make tho so they can come, ask and be rejected. The only problem I have is loosing them cause I always draw back. Building an edge between us. |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:38pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Softorgasm:the problem is i always loose thier friendship afterwards, thinngs become awkward, we talk less until we stop talking |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:39pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Aderola15:i didn't generalize dear, see the title |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:39pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Gladiator1:yea, its online, what could possibly go wrong |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by dingbang(m): 1:43pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
She's gay |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by kullozone(m): 1:47pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
dingbang: I think you're right Bruv! |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:49pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Diddyydiva:my points exactly, seems you're the only one who understands what I'm saying Like theres one particular one that told me all the bad things his girlfriend is doing to him, i advised him to talk to her and all that, he then complimented by telling me he wish his girlfriend could just be like me, i laughed it off thinking he was joking, the more i tried to reconcile thier differences, the more he keeps trying to sabotage thier relationship, they broke up, it isn't even upto a month, he asked me to accompany him somewhere since he's lonely and need someone to talk to, I followed him, only for him to start telling me how he's been feeling for years and how he's glad the relationship ended, that he always liked me, to calm the tension i told him I'll think about it, then called him on phone later to decline, he just agreed, but stopped talking to me, so immature |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Hollawayn05(m): 1:52pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Male and Female friends issue is like Keeping fried Meat in the hand of a cat... might me today, tomorrow or later On, E must everly Chop am |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by browniecay: 2:07pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Diddyydiva: Bae, you are on point |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by ikp120(m): 2:13pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Enybliss: Baby let me be ya friend in the spirit ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 2:20pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
ikp120:lol you're welcome |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by browniecay: 2:20pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Enybliss: I have a female friend and we have been friends for over four years. I practically do not have any feelings for her. Note, she is very pretty and whenever we go on a walk, a lot of guys do stare at her lustfully. Up till now, I still don't have any feelings or any intention of dating her. So, all guys may not be the same. |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by I888(m): 2:34pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Gladiator1:it I true. A guy was asking another girl out but that girl has a boyfriend and had caught this guy calling his girlfriend. So in order to avoid such scene, he asked another girl (whom had also been telling this guy to marry her or date her but in a joking tune) to call the other girl who has a boyfriend. Guess what happened? She called the girl and a quarrel ensued. This dude was completely confused. I mean, this two people don't even know each other, then why the quarrel? ![]() |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 2:39pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
browniecay:wao, i wish all those guys relating it to goat and yam can see this comment, anyways i didn't generalize 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Nobody: 2:47pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
It's way better than being a pretender. At least now, they know where they stand. Unlike some idiots, who would orbit a girl for years, serving as her emotional tampoon but never coming close to even seeing her panties. Meanwhile, some other dude plows the pūssy. This same idiots hope dat one day she gets to see them as more than a friend. Pathetic bunch. Ladies check out this so-called "male friends"; they are either into you but pretending, or they've got a main chick way hotter than you, or plain gay. Or lastly, maybe you're just not that good looking. |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Nobody: 11:42am On Dec 05, 2016 |
Enybliss: You already know why it's impossible,look at you oozing with that good good punanni,you know why we are here,even if it takes us 10yrs we still want a piece of that. |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by airminem(f): 11:43am On Dec 05, 2016 |
oh, Men want what they can't have |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by jorion(m): 3:02pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
The funny thing is that such girls would eventually fall for guys who see them as just friends. And when he shows no interest in being more than friends, they would be the ones bitch snitching abt him being gay. If I slap person ehm |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by dpoj: 4:08pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
It's not easy, not for guys alone. My girlfriend used to be my best friend. Now I have another best friend that after 3 years of being friends, we are......Ok you should complete the rest |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by RoyalBlak007: 4:15pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Easy for me.... |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by thowbie7ven(m): 5:14pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Diddyydiva:Aunty Dolapo |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Nobody: 5:52pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
thowbie7ven:At least you didn't mention my surname this time ![]() How are you ? Its been a while ![]() |
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by thowbie7ven(m): 6:07pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Loool...chai...Eku ijo three!...i'm very much okay. and you? Diddyydiva: |
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