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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by uzolexis(f): 11:30am On Dec 08, 2016 |
torres89: actually both parties are equally to be blamed. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by bettercreature(m): 11:32am On Dec 08, 2016 |
pinkpebbles:Why you didnt talk about those of you who prefers married men to single guys? As a man,if you are married,young and rich single ladies won't let you rest either 3 Likes |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by horpilow(m): 11:34am On Dec 08, 2016 |
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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 11:36am On Dec 08, 2016 |
dacblogger: One of the reasons why they'll continue to get you single girls! GREED!! MATERIAL THINGS!! and you'll continue to fall because you fail to understand that, that bf that can't offer those material things is not thinking of now, but the future. He's husling hard and wants you to hustle with him! He wants to mould you into a virtuous woman! A lot of you girls are blinded by material things: cars, sophisticated phones, etc! That's why we have so many "single female oldies" 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by AdisaOwala: 11:37am On Dec 08, 2016 |
dacblogger: And you think he is actually gonna get you a car if you eventually fall prey to his antics?? Girls & Fish Brain sha... With this shallow mentality of yours..You are actually blaming single guys for being honest & sincere with you.. 8 Likes |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 11:37am On Dec 08, 2016 |
Next time I will talk about that. For today, I am talking about those that are bored of being married or those that are just polygamouus in nature. bettercreature: |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by schumastic(m): 11:38am On Dec 08, 2016 |
ujudiaz: WHY ARE THE BLAMES CENTERED ON THE MAN? WHERE DID YOU GET THAT 85% STATISTICS FROM? THE LADIES IN ? WHO ARE INTO A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP BUT STILL END UP SLEEPING WITH A MARRIED MAN WHAT WILL YOU SAY ABOUT THEM? EVEN CHRIST HIMSELF GOT TEMPTED THRICE BUT HE KEPT QUOTING THE SCRIPTURE FOR THE DEVIL AND WHEN HE REALISED HE COULDN'T HAVE HIS WAY, HE LEFT FOR GOOD!!! MY POINT IS THIS, FOR LADIES WHO HAVE FALLEN PREY IT WAS YOUR DECISION TO MAKE AND AM VERY SURE DUE TO THEIR SELFISH DESIRE AND THE LUST FOR WEALTH AND LUXURY THEY FELL FOR THE MAN..I DON'T JUDGE OR BLAME THE LADIES BUT THEY SHOULDN'T SAY IS THE MAN'S FAULT CUS WHEN YOU GIVE YOUR WORD THEN STAND ON IT, IS VERY SIMPLE...ADAM AND EVE GOT PUNISHED FOR THEIR SINS DESPITE BOTH OF THEM PUSHING THE BLAME TO THE OTHER. 6 Likes |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by tbcoiner: 11:38am On Dec 08, 2016 |
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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by dominion001(m): 11:38am On Dec 08, 2016 |
dacblogger:so did he disappoint? 1 Like |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 11:40am On Dec 08, 2016 |
You know what that means? It means while they were in J.S. 3, they wia also been grromed to sleep with another woman's husband. Theory of what goes around horpilow: |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by uzolexis(f): 11:41am On Dec 08, 2016 |
lefulefu: "the bold, very wrong, some married men chase single ladies and some single ladies go after married men. There are guilty pple on both sides of the equation. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by humilitypays(m): 11:44am On Dec 08, 2016 |
pinkpebbles:I is suspecting you for cheatings within married mens, them wives will catching you once day ![]() ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pocohantas(f): 11:54am On Dec 08, 2016 |
Lol. I looked up and saw Romance section, wasn't surprised at the comments. OP, sorry o. ![]() |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by naijaboiy: 11:55am On Dec 08, 2016 |
dacblogger:That's a very big lie and btw how does getting married early become an achievement? If what you're saying is true then it's no surprise. After all when these girls were jumping from dykes to dykes their fellow women were hustling and trying to be independent. When those ones are tired they'll be looking for a man that will marry them quick. It's 100 times better to be a good woman and marry late than be a bïtch and get married early with problems here and there. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by soji1992: 11:59am On Dec 08, 2016 |
pinkpebbles:anty na lie joor it all depends on d gal sum na 20mins,20hours,20days,20wks,20months and sum cn even take 20years lol |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by starlingbawa(m): 12:08pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
lefulefu: I was going to ask the same question too? 2 Likes |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by sekem: 12:08pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
lefulefu: You mean single young ladies like the OP, right? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 12:09pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
pinkpebbles: I hardly comment on issues like this. So here goes. This should be taken as it is meant. It is not an excuse for wicked rapacious men, More an explanation for the confused married man. I think over the next 10 years we will a re balancing of society. A lot of single woman are too mature for their age mate bf's. The development cycle of females and males is quite different. I am not talking about superiority here but timing/ need difference. This is why many single women appear to be after material times sometimes it is so, but sometimes they are just further along the curve than their age mates. They want a security that they can't get from younger guys. They want someone they can lean on who can handle their quirks without throwing a fit. Someone they can look up to; who can father them as well as husband them. On the older men side many of them married quite early and conventionally. They married for society and not always for their heart. They lacked the courage of their convictions and they are not resolute to live with their decision. My advice to a male corper for instance is to take a good look at those 18 year olds entering or about to enter uni. Don't give yourself the palpitations of a woman further up the curve than you. You may not be able to give her the security they need and she will be reluctant to give you the significance you crave. I think things will sort themselves out over the next decade as men wait later and women marry earlier. The societal barriers that precluded 5-10 year age differences is falling. Having said all this by way of explanation I believe that a married man should live with his choices joyfully. That new car will ultimately lose its sheen over time and there is merit in partnering with experienced woman towards the attainment of your goals. A firm figure will not necessarily be enough for the high goals you have set yourself. Unless of course your identity is completely sexual. Caveat: I have seen many great marriages between people who were classmates in pre degree studies! It's a know yourself thing. I am Married with many boys and I do not subscribe to extra marital affairs. It brings pain into the family. Many of us grew up with this. Why repeat? 2 Likes |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Osama10(m): 12:10pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
Treasuredlove:On Point. Don't give your details out & if he calls just answer the phone without talking. I think that would pass the message across. |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by wokomabest(m): 12:10pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
dacblogger:mtchwwwww |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by ephi123(f): 12:12pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
pinkpebbles: What do you pass through? Is NO not in the dictionary? Say No with your words and your actions. Not the one you will be saying No but still accepting recharge card and giving out your mobile no ![]() 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Tajbol4splend(m): 12:13pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
This OP sef her own too much, see as she dey yab person on top this small chikini matter |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 12:19pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
A married man is a big turn off for me....It's like dating your relative.....yuck!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by olipo: 12:24pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
pinkpebbles:the same 15 likes and 4shares from the op post are here also |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by wokomabest(m): 12:28pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
pinkpebbles:which single girl that walks the streets of Nigeria is normal.also remember mediocrity |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Ezeego1(m): 12:28pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
truthsayer007: Send me a PM let's talk. I have got a nice package for you. |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by mrsfavour(f): 12:29pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
Married men can woo. na so one promised me heaven and earth when i was single. they find it hard to spend on family issues but not on girls. |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by torres89: 12:30pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
uzolexis:that's valid 2 Likes |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by babooshka: 12:31pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
This article is complete BS. We know abt temptation, Joseph was tempted, but he fled. If u know that u want a peaceful home in future, dat should be enough motivation not 2 get involved with a married man. Even if d man is being silly, d ladies should try very hard 2. Any married woman dat curses such ladies, is very well in her own right, cos there r some ladies 2 dat actively pursue married men. They make it very difficult 4 d man 2 say no. So dose curses must catch dose girls, somebody say amen. 3 Likes |
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by torres89: 12:31pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
mrsfavour: did u ever fall for one ![]() 2 Likes |
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