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Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by drsugar: 4:09pm On Dec 13, 2016 |
This is just my own little way of helping hundreds of thousands of Nigerians who are presently in a state of uncertainty over their future in MMM. My explanation might help calm some nerves and prevent some possible suicides, depression or other mental or psychosomatic illnesses as a result of this MMM uncertainty. This Tool is Credited to Kubler-Ross, a Swiss American Psychiatrist and pioneer of near death Studies. It talks about the series of emotions experienced after a loss( or imminent loss as is the case of MMM right now) and how to cope. Stage 0. Shock Stage: Most of MMM participants have passed this stage right now. Stage 1. DENIAL STAGE : Most of MMM participants are in this stage right now. This stage helps us to survive the loss. In this stage, the world becomes meaningless and overwhelming. Life makes no sense. There is a grace in denial. It is nature’s way of letting in only as much as we can handle. As you accept the reality of the loss and start to ask yourself questions, you are unknowingly beginning the healing process. Stage 2. ANGER : Most MMM participants will get to this stage by January. Anger is a necessary stage of the healing process. Be willing to feel your anger, even though it may seem endless. The more you truly feel it, the more it will begin to dissipate and the more you will heal. Stage 3. BARGAINING : At this stage, we want life returned to what it was. We want to go back in time, thinking that 'can I wake up and just realise that this has been a dream ll along'. If only, If only, if only, If only... The “if onlys” cause us to find fault in ourselves and what we “think” we could have done differently. We may even bargain with the pain. We will do anything not to feel the pain of this loss. We remain in the past, trying to negotiate our way out of the hurt. Stage 4. DEPRESSION : After bargaining, our attention moves squarely into the present. Empty feelings present themselves. This depressive stage feels as though it will last forever. It’s important to understand that this depression is not a sign of mental illness. Final Stage 5. ACCEPTANCE : Acceptance is often confused with the notion of being “all right” or “OK” with what has happened. This is not the case. This stage is all about accepting the reality of our loss and accepting that the new reality is the permanent reality. We begin to see how life must continue. We begin to see how we can regain more of our losses even though it might not be as it was supposed to be. We tell ourselves, LIFE CONTINUES.!! HOLLAAAA!!! HURAYYYYY!!!! - Dr. Ola John. [Public Health Advocate] References - Kaplan & Sadock's Comprehensive Textbook of Psychiatry. www.grief.com 23 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by drsugar: 4:10pm On Dec 13, 2016 |
I hope this helps someone out there because MMM has kind of crashed and there would be a lot of emotional breakdowns come January. Cc lalasticlala seun Mynd44 5 Likes |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by TINALETC3(f): 1:11pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
Dia cup of tea, Dey were warned bt dey wudnt listen 6 Likes |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by chelseabmw(m): 1:11pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
Only a greedy man will play MMM #Fact 52 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by Tman66(m): 1:11pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
okay now |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by Funjosh(m): 1:12pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by adewumiopeyemi(m): 1:12pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
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Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by 00Ademi(m): 1:12pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
chai mai money o |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by EMMYB0Y(m): 1:12pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
112.....LESAMA... 41 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by deleo16(m): 1:12pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
MMM topic is getting boring by the day do you people have better topics to put on front page this days 44 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by abdul4new(m): 1:12pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
Safety Tips:1. Make sure you are very close to your friends and relatives who are into MMM.2.Observe their every movement and monitor where they aregoing to.3. If you see any of them going close to a River, Ocean or Stream, raise an alarm and invite the police.4. If you see any of them talking to him or herself, alert the nearest psychiatrist hospital.5. If any of them begins to behave angrily and break or destroy things, please notify your friends and use cow rope to tie the personPlease pass it round to save lives 18 Likes
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Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by OldBeer: 1:13pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
EDAKUN!! EPP ME!! My female friend that I registered in MMM has turned to snake.. She's just been hissing since Yesterday! 81 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by veekid(m): 1:13pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
nothing could be done to fix the damages Nice write-up sha |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by Ilovewetpussy(m): 1:13pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
Ftc |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by lordharrick(m): 1:13pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
FTP..... |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by Nobody: 1:13pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
can't take panadol for another's Headache #For.ur.eyez.only 1 Like |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by TIMEISWISDOM(m): 1:13pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
2 days ago I tried to make my friends see that the scheme was designed for fraud and it is both not sustainable and faceless but I got more than I bargained for. The lenient one's was like " OK I get u but I will be smart enough to have gotten twice my capital when MMM crashes." Others questioned my literacy and were ashamed of me, some even called me names. I wished them luck and told them I will be vindicated within a year, little did I know it will be this soon. Most of them are still in stage 1 and easily aggressive against anything about MMM 34 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by Zedoo(m): 1:14pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
Lmao In other words, denial stage go last till January 12...then enter straight to depression district zone 9. 12 Likes |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by Zedoo(m): 1:14pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
Ilovewetpussy: Story for mavrodi |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by Turks: 1:14pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
A lot won't move past the denial stage. |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by balanceofterror1(m): 1:15pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
@op, how will sister Bisi face the congregation this Sunday? 24 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by aAK1(m): 1:15pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
hey fools all confirmed money that is 30 days old are been paid out. mmm is working 5 Likes |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by matrix199(m): 1:15pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
A man invested N1m. When he heard MMM has been suspended temporarily, he began a violent praying session. The way the man prayed to gain his money back, if they took him to the morgue, he'd raise the dead with his prayers. When you have N1m and want a lazy return, that's what you get 7 Likes |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by samdavjustin(m): 1:15pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
;DAm just sitting here laughing in Chinese |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by tjskii(f): 1:15pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
Sigh, as much as we joke about it, this mmm depression is a real thing, so many people have invested their life savings, house rent, bank loan, gbemulelantern money on this thing, may the Lord grant you all the fortitude to bear this loss and move on with your lives, I say this with all sincerity and nil sarcasm 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by AroOkigbo(m): 1:15pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
Recession don affect MMM . . BUHARI oooo!!!!!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by flyca: 1:15pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
Even without MMM many Nigerians pass through this stages anytime Buhari-led government creates another stupid policy. Eg: when fuel was raised to 145 Dollar raise Ban ban ban Its a vicious cycle Funny OP though 15 Likes |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by unclemayor(m): 1:15pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
God help dem sha |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by mmmustapha(m): 1:15pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
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Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by Nobody: 1:17pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
lol |
Re: Psychological Tools To Help Victims Of MMM To Cope In These Trying Times. by Nobody: 1:17pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
Don't tell me MMM is packing up...Bt wait o, wot is really delaying mai alert, Gtbank or MMM? Kai..... What a worrisome situatn 4 d real niggaz! |
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