lazeal:


Not all girls. there is a girl told me she does not feel anything when boobs are sucked lol.

It depends on the kind of girl really. I once had an electrifying kiss that seemed like sex. It's the best I have ever had till date.

HARDDON:


@ bolded, tot i tod u to explore her whole body , both with hands n kisses n discover her soft spot?

Neva told u that b00bs works 4 all gurls. U hv to doscover it.

I usually lie her flat , nude n work my way down with kisses from her ear lobe to d neck( lil vampire bite) , to d cheeks, nose , forehead, i avoid d lips intentionally( anticipation) just brush my lips ova hers n move down to d neck again, then to d chest, just d cleavage, avioding d nipples( average guys rush to d nipples, n they always expect u to , but guys like us avoid them as much as possible) , this creates suspense, anticipation.

HARDDON:


@ bolded, tot i tod u to explore her whole body , both with hands n kisses n discover her soft spot?

Neva told u that b00bs works 4 all gurls. U hv to doscover it.

I usually lie her flat , nude n work my way down with kisses from her ear lobe to d neck( lil vampire bite) , to d cheeks, nose , forehead, i avoid d lips intentionally( anticipation) just brush my lips ova hers n move down to d neck again, then to d chest, just d cleavage, avioding d nipples( average guys rush to d nipples, n they always expect u to , but guys like us avoid them as much as possible) , this creates suspense, anticipation.

HARDDON:
Some SOFT SPOTS generally speaking from experience


For the impatient fellows:

1) Her Lips.... run ur hands on em( slippin a finger into her mouth), , kiss em

2) Ear lobe...... lick , nibble on em gently, suck em alternatively.

3) Neck...... this is one of d most general one, most ladies respond to dis even if they r not in the mood

vicechancellor:
I have problems opening early part of this great thread, any idea of what could be causing that? BTW, you guys rock!

HARDDON:


Which page(s) ?
N hey, wc onboard

vicechancellor:
thanks man, page 1-10

HARDDON:

What is d error msg?

ILuvGummyBearz:
did the booty u just kissed taste good

vicechancellor:
error, time out.

HARDDON:



Itz ur ntw gee.

Obiomon:
go look for where
you fit in! definitely not here!

vicechancellor:
I asked a question bro. boss haddon you guys are doing a great work here, but I personally have a little demon tormenting me. when ever I see a girl I like and want to approach, I go blank, poor icebreakers, run short of ideas, how to chain topics, complimenting the right way, teasing and all what not. most times if the girl manages to give me her digits, I usually ruin the first call making it boring and cold by asking the poor girl too many interview questions. then shortly after that the girls start showing attitude. pls can you give me hints and shed light on how to solve these problems. I'm a uni undergrad. though, thanksman.

okwypascal:

hope u av not forgotten the name of this thread, smallie ur also intruding, so jus leave with that one, her problem is a problem

vicechancellor:
boss haddon you guys are doing a great work here, but I personally have a little demon tormenting me. when ever I see a girl I like and want to approach, I go blank, poor icebreakers, run short of ideas, how to chain topics, complimenting the right way, teasing and all what not. most times if the girl manages to give me her digits, I usually ruin the first call making it boring and cold by asking the poor girl too many interview questions. then shortly after that the girls start showing attitude. pls can you give me hints and shed light on how to solve these problems. I'm a uni undergrad. though, thanksman.

Obiomon:
go look for where
you fit in! definitely not here!

LordZero:
Here I am jamming some rock songs and thinking about the relationship advices I've heard from people... Just wanna give my view on some and I guess Harddon and other Gs in the house can talk about others. .
Here we go...

1. BE YOURSELF: Have you ever thought about/assess "yourself" and see if you are what you are proud of (are you a man or big child). The "yourself" they are asking you to be is the one resulting from the way you were brought. An average Nigerian dude comes from a family where the mother is more influencial in moulding the child's character cos the father is busy trying to get them the best life they can get. Therfore, most spent less time with their father. A household where you are not allowed to watch movies with sex scene on your own, a household where you cannot talk freely about girls. Also, our mothers try to shield us from the influence of other males (mostly the ones they labelled players/corrupt) in our environment.
People from our environment taught us to be respectful of the female gender, treat them like queens, put other's needs/happiness b4 ours. So we grow up believing this things will help us. Treat girls like queens/princesses = when she misbehaves, you accept you caused it, you still tell her sorry(this makes you the bïtch). Put others b4 u= she ask, takes and gives nothing back (u end up as a maga/mugu) e.t.c..
The only thing y'all should be is the best version of yourself (am talking about a man that knows his worth, a man that can survive on his own, a man that can stand by his words/actions/decisions no matter what's at stake( even if you are going to lose a lady), a man that can control his jrod not the other way round..
Until then, never try and be yourself(bïtch ass) but strive to improve YOURSELF (real YOU).

2. A SPECIAL SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE (clasical caouse of neediness): I believe this is root cause of guys trying too hard in a relationship(u end up messing it up).. When you believe a girl is the special someone for you, you take their bullshii, you try too hard to impress her, you waste you time and money and energy trying to keep her.. we all know who is charge of such a relationship. .....
What made me change my mind is the rate of divorce recently. They all claim they've found their better half only for them to divorce months/years later, what's up?. How about people that remarry or something tragic happened and are unable to marry their initial partners(if the first person is their soulmate, why do they marry again and live a happy life?) OR those with more than one wife?.
I believe the soulmate theory is wrong. YOU can only mould someone to your taste and be happy with that person. .

3. DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY THE COVER: It doesn't apply to human relation. Woman are equipped to weed out week/low value men by just looking at them without necessarily talking to them.. Same way a guy will see a girl who dresses slůtty(even if she's not a höe) as a fück material and respect a well dressed girl (even is she's a bïtch) until he interacts with her.
So u believe people won't judge you based on your cover (appearance/sometimes body language and behavior) are on a long thing..


#justSOMErandomTHOUGHTS..

Bosses drop your views..

HARDDON:


Lol!

This is what happens when a male wears (F) on his moniker!

Wonder why they do that!


Obi is a guy Pascal

okwypascal:

hope u av not forgotten the name of this thread, smallie ur also intruding, so jus leave with that one, her problem is a problem

africanman85:
U are trying bro but u have to treat difficult situations too like
a) Wen u meet a girl u like in a bus and she is forming not looking at u and she is not doing anything to spark up Congo
b) Wen u meet a girl on d street and u play not interested and she too plays d same
c) U friend girlfriend came with a friend u like. I want u to drop a gud pickup lines for each of d scenario. Pls I need name of good Cologne and affordable for men and gud mouth spray thanks.

Obiomon:
lol am a guy jor! Na we first de here! Ask Oga Harddon na

Obiomon:
lol am a guy jor! Na we first de here! Ask Oga Harddon na

LordZero:
Here I am jamming some rock songs and thinking about the relationship advices I've heard from people... Just wanna give my view on some and I guess Harddon and other Gs in the house can talk about others. .
Here we go...

1. BE YOURSELF: Have you ever thought about/assess "yourself" and see if you are what you are proud of (are you a man or big child). The "yourself" they are asking you to be is the one resulting from the way you were brought. An average Nigerian dude comes from a family where the mother is more influencial in moulding the child's character cos the father is busy trying to get them the best life they can get. Therfore, most spent less time with their father. A household where you are not allowed to watch movies with sex scene on your own, a household where you cannot talk freely about girls. Also, our mothers try to shield us from the influence of other males (mostly the ones they labelled players/corrupt) in our environment.
People from our environment taught us to be respectful of the female gender, treat them like queens, put other's needs/happiness b4 ours. So we grow up believing this things will help us. Treat girls like queens/princesses = when she misbehaves, you accept you caused it, you still tell her sorry(this makes you the bïtch). Put others b4 u= she ask, takes and gives nothing back (u end up as a maga/mugu) e.t.c..
The only thing y'all should be is the best version of yourself (am talking about a man that knows his worth, a man that can survive on his own, a man that can stand by his words/actions/decisions no matter what's at stake( even if you are going to lose a lady), a man that can control his jrod not the other way round..
Until then, never try and be yourself(bïtch ass) but strive to improve YOURSELF (real YOU).

2. A SPECIAL SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE (clasical caouse of neediness): I believe this is root cause of guys trying too hard in a relationship(u end up messing it up).. When you believe a girl is the special someone for you, you take their bullshii, you try too hard to impress her, you waste you time and money and energy trying to keep her.. we all know who is charge of such a relationship. .....
What made me change my mind is the rate of divorce recently. They all claim they've found their better half only for them to divorce months/years later, what's up?. How about people that remarry or something tragic happened and are unable to marry their initial partners(if the first person is their soulmate, why do they marry again and live a happy life?) OR those with more than one wife?.
I believe the soulmate theory is wrong. YOU can only mould someone to your taste and be happy with that person. .

3. DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY THE COVER: It doesn't apply to human relation. Woman are equipped to weed out week/low value men by just looking at them without necessarily talking to them.. Same way a guy will see a girl who dresses slůtty(even if she's not a höe) as a fück material and respect a well dressed girl (even is she's a bïtch) until he interacts with her.
So u believe people won't judge you based on your cover (appearance/sometimes body language and behavior) are on a long thing..


#justSOMErandomTHOUGHTS..

Bosses drop your views..

okwypascal:

gee for ur first question, me I don't have an answer to it cos I never calm inside all this tight buses to talk to a gal, maybe in a brt tho but I haven't try it sha, harddon would assist u.
to ur second question, guy u can't make any positive impact by always going negative, if u noticed already and start play not interested that means she us already in the game. Just one day go approach her and be like wandering why some stuffs re happening in the crib and also make fun out of it and get her digit(now u av made a step), now it time to go back twice. don't call atallz o, jus chill and now double ur sendless, she go find u come and that is bcus u av registered this funny sweet guy in her mind and now it her turn to keep u to her self.
this ur third question sef, we re no pickup artist here, it all about making u be a better man with good self confidence and always be ur self and be able to think fast according to the situation. pickup lines do fail cos gals have heard it alot and they re limited, did u see me giving u any line pertaining the second question.
about this situation jus try to carry the crowd, jus crack most of the jokes and be sure of ur self without looking at her, after the whole thing man she would fall in place.

okwypascal:

gee I remember u die, them early ogas. but choi guy the way u denied Nljona, that's bloody o. the guy still be confused bcus after una rolling together u jus turned out to be and imagery gal, tbh I shock too o.