Ralphjoe:
i got to meet a girl through facebook, we talked and finally hooked up, i asked her out and she accepted, she told me about her two boyfriends that left her for greener pasture, one left for italy and the other one went to ghana, she never broke up with any of them. So we started dating as we both are student in the same school and department. The whole relationship grew into deep love and affection between us, but she still talk on phone with her previous boyfriends, even when we are together, she will be engaged in a long conversation on phone with her previous boyfriend and also on whatsapp, it got to a stage that i saw a message she sent to her previous boyfriend in ghana that she love him so much, i got so angry with her and she begged me, & she confess that she still love him but she loves me the most and she would love to marry me, we settled the issue and now the boyfriend in ghana paid her a surprise visit yesterday when i was at her place and was about leaving, with this now, should i still continue dating her or not?

Ralphjoe:
i got to meet a girl through facebook, we talked and finally hooked up, i asked her out and she accepted, she told me about her two boyfriends that left her for greener pasture, one left for italy and the other one went to ghana, she never broke up with any of them. So we started dating as we both are student in the same school and department. The whole relationship grew into deep love and affection between us, but she still talk on phone with her previous boyfriends, even when we are together, she will be engaged in a long conversation on phone with her previous boyfriend and also on whatsapp, it got to a stage that i saw a message she sent to her previous boyfriend in ghana that she love him so much, i got so angry with her and she begged me, & she confess that she still love him but she loves me the most and she would love to marry me, we settled the issue and now the boyfriend in ghana paid her a surprise visit yesterday when i was at her place and was about leaving, with this now, should i still continue dating her or not? bearing in mind that she is so supportive of me in school

Benita27:
So she has two pending relationships with two guys, one in Italy and one in Ghana...trust me, she tell those guys the same words she told you about loving you the most.

She's securing her future.

Ralphjoe:
i got to meet a girl through facebook, we talked and finally hooked up, i asked her out and she accepted, she told me about her two boyfriends that left her for greener pasture, one left for italy and the other one went to ghana, she never broke up with any of them. So we started dating as we both are student in the same school and department. The whole relationship grew into deep love and affection between us, but she still talk on phone with her previous boyfriends, even when we are together, she will be engaged in a long conversation on phone with her previous boyfriend and also on whatsapp, it got to a stage that i saw a message she sent to her previous boyfriend in ghana that she love him so much, i got so angry with her and she begged me, & she confess that she still love him but she loves me the most and she would love to marry me, we settled the issue and now the boyfriend in ghana paid her a surprise visit yesterday when i was at her place and was about leaving, with this now, should i still continue dating her or not? bearing in mind that she is so supportive of me in school

tripplephi:
wow wow wow... YOU CAME, YOU SAW and YOU WERE CONQUERED.

Pls read your post again... the bottom line here is YOU ARE THE BROKEST DUDE SHE HAS BEEN WITH..... the other two guys GOT more cash than you, and have more swag to a point that your girl is NOT DISTRACTED BY YOU but rather BY them....

You are a DEPUTY BOYFRIEND. chai

LorDBolton:


I think u should delete their numz off her phone(s)

Delete every pic of them from her SM to her phone

Destroy every pic of them in her crib(hard copies)


After doing that her reaction will determine whether or not u should break up with her

Tenkobos:
Get the best of her punna before they return and move on.

funkyibodude:
Guy! This year don dey end, worry about yourself and your future and forget about these hoes (sorry to use that word) a girl will either increase or decrease your life. Worry about your goals in life, make it first and you will see girls begging to even be your side chick. As a student I think is stupid enough to worry about any girl now, let alone someone that already have two lovers in her life, and she's here claiming that she loves you more even when she hasn't broken up with any of them?! Abi Na so your brain damage reach can't you see the handwriting their, she's using u to pass time because none of them boyfriends are around. One phrase for you bro BE WISE

Ralphjoe:
bro thanks for that advice, i know that, bro am in for the short time, girls are not a priority for me now.

funkyibodude:
all the best bro, just don't want you to get attached to her because you don't know when and how you'll start falling and by then its too late. unless God designed her for you. But be smart (talking from experience)

Ralphjoe:
am already attached to her but i believe i can leave her at any moment without blinking an eyelid, the day i saw the message on her phone that she love her boyfriend in ghana, i cried and cried like a baby, thatz the day i stopped getting attached to her.

funkyibodude:
it's in your hands bro