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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by madamGift(f): 1:55pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Olanna45: God bless you for this! A woman's character has nothing to do with her tribe..there are good and bad people everywhere.. it sometimes has to do with his/her upbringing and personal morals and values.. not tribe at all.. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 2:03pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Olanna45: Abeg joor that's how most of their women behave I know Some1 who went through this. They always dnt want hear u speak ur language. Coz they assume u speaking about them. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Olanna45(f): 2:14pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7:Obviously you are mixing with the wrong ones. My cousin married a lady from Ekiti.Nobody was in support of the marriage at first, but he insisted and we have no choice but to leave him to his decision. This lady is among the best SIL one can ever have. Cool headed, homely and very respectful. Till the day she died nobody spoke ill of her. She is a full Ekiti born and bred. But the one from my town, ahhh!!! she is trouble personified. she practically chased everybody away from her home. We don't visit her and she doesn't visit any of us. Anybody from her husband's family is a treated like a leper. Will you still attribute such to tribe? Its a personality thing. No tribe has a monopoly of bad wives. 11 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 2:20pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Olanna45: Hmmm that's quite rare. Its a tribe thing I know what I'm telling Their gals don't just blend with Igbo men in terms of marriage. But they can actually mingle and have no problem in that Trust me. How can a lady warn his husband not to speak his language in her presence that's very extreem. If it w.. Yoruba of all people dat like like blowing their language anywhere they are now don't want his man to speak his language. And mind u this is not the first time I'm hearing this. Even when a kid is eventually born they would want their kid to bear their own native name and grow with it ratter Dan they husby native name. I know what I'm telling u. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by sexymoma(f): 2:35pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
she was not brought up properly nd it all lies in her mother's hand she jos lacks manners |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by kaziblake(f): 2:44pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7:You are always on every intertribal marriage thread spilling lies..To you igbo people are perfect with no spot. 5 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by kaziblake(f): 2:48pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Acidosis:Mr and Mrs oyema have been married for over 34yrs now(Ijebu woman and Anambra man 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Acidosis(m): 2:53pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
kaziblake: Yes, OP and his wife can also continue in this manner for 100 years. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Nobody: 2:58pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Meringe: You are absolutely right there. My boo is from the east. Works and resides in the east. Because I love him and want to be part of his life. Am making plans to move and reisde in the east as well. Cause I feel where the husband is that's where the wife should be. As long as the place is not a war torn zone area, then am. Good to go. And ready to accept and learn his values and family values. In fact as so eager to even move ![]() So op the question is didn't u know whom you were marrying before u married her? Where u blind folded? Cause honestly. Am. Not understanding ![]() |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:00pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
kaziblake: They ain't perfect but better And mind u I'm not telling lies here. Why would i |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:02pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Amelian: It boo from east ? Hahahahah lady now who is foolin who? |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Nobody: 3:06pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Fooling who? How ?? I don't get?? He comes from the eastern region. And so? |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:21pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Amelian: Hmm Amelian I'm so surprised at u on this comment to the extent that that I had to check twice to make sure it u.. Now the question is why would a pretty gal like u be telling lies . 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by mysticgal(f): 3:30pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Nobody: 3:31pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: I still don't understand what u are saying ![]() Please be more specific which lie? Where u the one who gave me my man? Cause I still. Don't understand what u are driving at? Please stop going round in circles. Be plain and say what's on your mind. Biko Make una see me o.. Lol ![]() They don come again.. Monitoring spirits that are so certain they know my life history and my love life join Abeg talk wetin u feel u know ooo Let's clear the air.. Spill it out. We are all ears ooo Am waiting |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by drnoel: 3:40pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
1Alex4u: My apologies for quoting ur whole post but I had to get ur attention somehow. The generalization is unfair and not right. It doesn't cut across all yorubas, believe me I know. My dad an igbo man married a yoruba woman, they had their ups and downs but were married for a very long time. Yes yorubas do have very bad mouth that one I know and grew to dislike from my mom and her relations but living with them the length of time I did I could never see anything abusive in their talking. pls note that the igbos too have very bad mouth, that one I also got to be exposed to from my cousins but only in jest and play. All in all, I have a great respect for my relations of both divide and I call both region home. The situation u painted is obviously true for only ur wife, as in her character which u should have seen while dating her? Thats the essence of dating before marrying. Since its like this, ur only option now is to sit her down and speak intensively with her. If she refuses to change then sending her back to her parents after reporting her to them is another option. In the Nigerian setting that action alone should correct her medulla. If it fails to correct her then u still have the option of going the whole 9 yards of seperation and all in that direction but before u do ask urself if u can stomach marrying an abusive woman ur whole life or if u would rather call it quits. 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by baby124: 3:43pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
I don't know why people fell for this obviously forged, dim witted and tribalistic post. Yoruba women really intimidate you OP. You will soon be put to shame and all your motives exposed. Silly tart 5 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:54pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Amelian: Hahahha .. But yea its not funny ![]() I can remember vividly ur hateful comments here about Igbo pole few months ago. U personally said u can never have anything to do with Igbo men again. Talking about how u dated 3 igbo men and they said they can't marry u coz of tribe. But I was shocked coz I know many Igbomen who married from south south bcoz south south is d another place Igbo men like marryn from aside their tribe. U swore not to have anything to do with Igbo men Again and u called it mistake. U even went as far as saying u will tell ur daughter not to marry Dem except mingling with them.. ![]() Yes I know u are suprised now how I still remeberd dat.... but my memory is dat retentive.. I hardly forget people I met in d past. Why would u tell such lies amelian why. ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Acidosis(m): 3:56pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
mysticgal:Sure, hope we can prove them wrong ![]() |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Nobody: 4:06pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Yes I remember I said so..in one of my posts I won't deny it. But at the end of the day, even though I had some painful pasts in relationship with guys from the east. Strangely enough my heart fell in love with another guy from the eastern part of the country . Even though initially I fought against my feelings for this young man ![]() The heart still says nope, amelian this is what I want and u can't deny me of him. So far he's a good man, he's different, in his actions and we've talked about the future on several occasions unlike the ones I dated in my past. Like my mentor once said, amelian don't allow the past to over shadow the future. Let the past remain in the past. And let God unravel the future for u. Some people are unhappy today cos they still live in the past and use it against any good meaning well wishers that try to come. Close. If am to dwell on my past Nightmare007. I will go on bomb massacre ![]() ![]() Take it or leave it. Its my life and my choice ![]() I choose to be productive than to be destructive . So help Me God amen. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 4:16pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Amelian: Hmm but that was just few months ago. ![]() U generalized and condemned every Igbo man Should I now say u live a fake life?. ![]() Dat comment shows U have so much hate for Igbo men yet wen ahed to fall for one yet again maybe coz of lust. Now another small mistake from him u would continue with ur generalisation. I can't forget how u spoke with so much hate. Dat day ![]() U pple can hate igbos how u like...As far as concerned Igbo tribe is d best place any man or woman can marry from fcoz we care abt family with very very important. We value marriage and we know how to take Carr of our parners. U can call me BIASED for this statement. But I ain't saying this cox I'm igbo.. But I'm saying this coz I hav stayed in in different tribes in this country and come to realize that igbo tribe is different afteral. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by mysticgal(f): 4:16pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by kaboninc(m): 4:19pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
*how do one express in words the sound he makes when he clears his throat* Someborri please help me here. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by kaboninc(m): 4:20pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
mysticgal: Don't you want to be a proud second wife? |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Acidosis(m): 4:22pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by mysticgal(f): 4:23pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
kaboninc:Over my dead body ![]() |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by mysticgal(f): 4:24pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Acidosis:Yes, do the do ![]() |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Nobody: 4:27pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Well you can think whatever you like of me. You can presume whatever u want of me I careless. Cause your assumptions of me does not make any difference in my life ,in my bank account and in my relationships ![]() What matters most to me are 6 things: My God, My job, My family, My Man, my Friends and my Fans.. Every other including You! is oblivious to me. So be free my friend, to think whatever u like. It's a free world. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Acidosis(m): 4:27pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 4:32pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Amelian: I'm not thinkin of "whatever I like'' as is u said. I'm talking based on wat Said from ur very own mouth or should I say ur comment. With the kind if comments u made that day Its still shocking to me to realize u are following yet another igbo man dat u hate so much. ![]() I still can't bliv it I swaer. 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by kaboninc(m): 4:40pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: You better believe it bro...change is the only constant thing in life! 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Nobody: 4:43pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Well believe it.. ![]() One thing that is always constant in life is Change. ![]() And being hateful of a certain tribes won't help me in any way. Yes back then I said those things, I felt hatred towards igbos. I Wont deny it. I didn't even want my unborn children, when given birth to, 2 have anything to do with igbos. I agree I mentioned. I won't deny it. But today, few months down the line. I decide not to feel hatred anymore towards igbo guys. It's not a crime to stop feeling hateful.. Its something I decide to let go of and Be a better person. Have decided to be a better person and let bygones be bygones. Its my choice between me and God. And if u still find it hard to believe? Hey! It's not my fault u feel the way you do. Keep hanging onto it. But the lady u are seeing here is very happy. Hi, Honey I know u are reading this ![]() He's a member nairaland.. ![]() Love you lots dear ![]() ![]() |
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