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Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by Nobody: 7:30pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Sometimes, men find it difficult to understand women and sometimes, women find men’s behaviour ridiculous.Though men and women are similar in many ways, they are different in certain ways. The way we think and behave may be different at times. This could make communication difficult at times.Men and women naturally tend to misunderstand each other as there are slight changes in our biological makeups. Moods, emotions and hormones- there are so many factors that drive human beings.Here are some reasons why men and women misunderstand each other. Reasons why men and women misunderstand each other are: 1.When Upset: Men would prefer to brood silently. So, they should be left alone. But women expect others to talk when they’re upset as they too prefer to talk instead of sitting silently. 2.Men Are Straightforward: When they say ‘its fine’, its fine. But when a woman says its fine, it isn’t. Women expect men to find out the reason why something isn’t fine, but men never do that as they think women too give straightforward answers. 3.Men Seldom Come Up With Questions: Even after discussing a serious issue, men seldom have any questions to ask and this irks women because they seek clarity on every issue and so they tend to have many questions. 4.About Listening: Women complain that men seldom listen and men think that listening means silently sitting next to her when she is saying something. Well, the proof that you’re listening is, asking interesting questions while she is speaking. 5.Men Give Short Answers: When you ask a man “how’s your day” he would just say “its fine” and walk away. But ask a woman and she prefers to sit and tell everything that happened in the day from the office gossip to the fight with her boss. So, basically women expect you to listen. 6.Men Assume, Women Clarify: Men just assume that you will tell them if there is anything wrong. Women hate this quality as women expect you to ask whether things are fine as women tend to clarify instead of assume. 7.Men Hate Repetitive Routine Questions: If you keep asking a man how’s your day, several times a day thinking that he will be happy to have someone care for his well being, you’re mistaken. He might get irritated to hear routine questions too many times. But women would love to have someone taking care of them and finding out how they’re feeling. These are the reasons why men and women misunderstand each other. http://www.jeloser.info/2016/12/reasons-why-men-and-women-misunderstand.html MYND44 LALASTICLALA 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by AlexCk: 7:33pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
That's what makes both genders unique The " yin-yang" effect. 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by dingbang(m): 7:33pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Damn straight 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by wtfCode: 7:35pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
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Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by Nobody: 7:35pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
![]() Men loves to hide something.. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by Smellymouth: 7:38pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Well said.. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by sinaj(f): 7:43pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Nice posts Can relate to some of them ![]() |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by Lovelynature(m): 7:47pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
So on point 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by Nobody: 7:52pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
If we mean what we say and say what we mean ...things could be so much easier but it takes a lot more to overcome the very ingrained cultural norms when it comes to communication. Some talk but never say anything meaningful and some hear but never listen long enough to process anything. |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by Nobody: 7:55pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Women are inquisitive, flexible and expressive while men aren't. The two genders complement each other tho after lots of struggle. The struggle is the misunderstanding ![]() |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by Nobody: 8:26pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Women!!! The most complex beings ever |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by Nobody: 8:35pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
wtfCode: SORRY i dont understand you ....lols whats joint ![]() ![]() |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by Raddie(m): 8:55pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
make I tidy first! But wait- 2,3,4 got me, lol No man is straight-forward. Every sentence is filled with Qs' Short answers lol Just so u know ALL men love routine! Mans' essence itself craves being with stuffs that appeals to him. |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by sirusX(m): 9:08pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
NairalandDSS: While i might agree with some of these...we need to recognize that life has no definite rule regarding character and temperance being alike, and while some people might behave a certain way, others might chose to act different |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by Monalisa185(f): 9:13pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
hmmmmmm, welllll!!!!! |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by wtfCode: 10:24pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Alondra:Nice shot |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by Nobody: 11:07pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Nice one....you've said it all ![]() ![]() |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by Nobody: 3:05am On Dec 28, 2016 |
sirusX: |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by Nobody: 8:32am On Dec 28, 2016 |
... Emotional intelligence(EI) is Key, Enhance what you already possess. |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by iebanehita(m): 1:46pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
Gaborone : sent you an email. |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
iebanehita: Hello dear, Alright, I'll revert shortly. PS: can you delete my name from your post? |
Re: Reasons Why Men And Women Misunderstand Each Other by iebanehita(m): 2:38pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
Gaborone:Ok |
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