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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by drnoel: 11:22am On Dec 28, 2016

liljboy:
I will tackle you on this one as well......
NICE
GUYS
SUCK.

Ur own opinion. Won't go listing all the girls I got down with cos its too childish. But will say this, in school I was called "little angel" by most of the girls. I got the nickname cos I was the shoulder they cried on whenever they broke up with their boyfriends. Believe me, they didn't only cry on my shoulder.
There was one that told me and I quote "my friends tell me u are better at it tha their boyfriends and I have been hoping fate will give me an opportunity to try it out".
Another one that played hard to get then in school and refused to allow me 4k her so I allowed her go. After she broke up with her cult boyfriend she lied to the guy that I had been 4king her. It made me a target then in school till I had to sort it out with those boys. Anyway, met her years ago, she was now working in one bank. She was so surprised to see me. I asked her what it was she eas playing at then and she said and I quote "u stauchly refused to pursue me so I wanted to ginger u up to the chase but u just settled it with those guys". I asked her, "are u married or engaged now and she answered she was not so I told her I would bed her now since I missed it then and I did. Being a nice guy rocks.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by reksly: 11:34am On Dec 28, 2016

drnoel:

Ur own opinion. Won't go listing all the girls I got down with cos its too childish. But will say this, in school I was called "little angel" by most of the girls. I got the nickname cos I was the shoulder they cried on whenever they broke up with their boyfriends. Believe me, they didn't only cry on my shoulder.
There was one that told me and I quote "my friends tell me u are better at it tha their boyfriends and I have been hoping fate will give me an opportunity to try it out".
Another one that played hard to get then in school and refused to allow me 4k her so I allowed her go. After she broke up with her cult boyfriend she lied to the guy that I had been 4king her. It made me a target then in school till I had to sort it out with those boys. Anyway, met her years ago, she was now working in one bank. She was so surprised to see me. I asked her what it was she eas playing at then and she said and I quote "u stauchly refused to pursue me so I wanted to ginger u up to the chase but u just settled it with those guys". I asked her, "are u married or engaged now and she answered she was not so I told her I would bed her now since I missed it then and I did. Being a nice guy rocks.

Nice guys stinks

They are slow and repulsive

They always finish last (that explains why u later got a pussy that has been demolished over time)

In fact nice guys always end up with overly used kitty cats...

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Neimar: 12:07pm On Dec 28, 2016

Obiomon:
ion know mehn I be say whether my ignore the madam small or my just switch convo or I playfully reply her! Many things de to do Sha but time just de go already... I go soon vex sef

ezics de badt guy cheesy

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by drnoel: 12:48pm On Dec 28, 2016

reksly:

Nice guys stinks

They are slow and repulsive

They always finish last (that explains why u later got a pussy that has been demolished over time)

In fact nice guys always end up with overly used kitty cats...

Guy it was a pussy I myself rejected cos I never went after ladies that do too much shakara. Its not like I didn't have my own serious runz but the story I told u guys was that of all my side runz. The one of my main runz, I will tell at another time. When I tell the story it will demystify women, make u understand that they are not hard to get weather u are nice or bad. U only need to play ur game well.
On another thought, let me give u the story of Nkechi.
Met her while working in Owerri. She was a very pretty girl who liked dating these yahoo boys. She was materialistic to the core.
I returned home one time to hear my cousin's (I was staying with them then) talking about her. Before then I hadn't noticed her at all. Anyway we met at a club some weeks later and she rebuffed one of the guys I walked in with calling him a small boy. My group were very angry and they all swore vengeance on her. So the game was on.
They all tried her one by one but no one was able to bed her. These guys were not new to the game and they had as at that time much more resources than I did, most of them had be hustling for ages, had business here and there and had been working for years. I on my part was just a starter, fresh out if uni then and had just gotten a job but was still finding my feet hence my squatting with them.
They tried everything thing, gifts, money and what not but still never went to first base with her. They insulted me when I told them they were going about it wrongly.
Anyway, I allowed them make fool of themselves playing at alpha males.
When I got into the picture was one time I drove my jalopy to a pharmacy to collect a prescription cos I had malaria. I had just paid and didnt pay attention to a couple sitting at a restaurant close by until I heard my name called. I turned to see who called me and it was her. I didn't know she even knew my name. We exchanged pleasantries and I moved on.

Then met her at a bank months later and we chatted like old friends. She invited herself to lunch with me when she heard I was going to eat. She was surprised when I didn't pay for her, she later told me suspected that I was that kind of person and I thought that was where it would end but it didn't.
It was when she started telling me all the things she did with my cousins and how they were wasting their monies with her that I knew this one was a done deal.
I told my cousins to back down which they did on the gentleman agreement that I passed her back to them when I was done.
She told me she just wanted to be friends and had a boyfriend but she slept in my room many nights and ate my food. Anyway na play play I carry 4k am. I noticed she went to sleep everyday without panties and I said "wtf". That was when I knew this girl was a devil. This was like 3 months into getting to know her. The first time I touched her she slapped me and walked out of the house around 2 am thinking I would come looking for her. I allowed her deceive herself till she returned around 4am. After then she started wearing panties to sleep. I just consoled myself and didnt let that dissuade me.
Anyhow I devised a means to start playing rough and dumbble games with her whenever we were indoors. Initially she was so self conscious ans kept fighting me off but after a while she started also enjoying the game and expecting it. It was with that play I sucked her first, fingered her for the first time and 4ked her. After I had 4ked her, I continued 4king her. The tricky part now was how to pass her over to my cousins which I did by telling them all her secrets. I had guilty conscience doing that but I knew she was no good girl so that settled it for me. One of my cousins got her drunk and started hittng her on the side when I was not around, another used another means. Anyway by that time I had found a new catch so I moved out of their house and her outa my life.
Nice guys rock.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by reksly: 3:24pm On Dec 28, 2016

@drnoel but u didn't pay for her food na when u guys did lunch together.

That in itself my friend is the bad guy's paroz. That's exactly how bad guyz roll.

And also ur approach was totally different. It is exactly what HARDDON and others have repeated said from the very first page of this thread. U didn't ask her out but yet u were able to shine her Congo repeatedly.

U my friend is the baddest guy in town, who sees himself as a nice guy....

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by drnoel: 3:48pm On Dec 28, 2016

reksly:
@drnoel but u didn't pay for her food na when u guys did lunch together.

That in itself my friend is the bad guy's paroz. That's exactly how bad guyz roll.

And also ur approach was totally different. It is exactly what HARDDON and others have repeated said from the very first page of this thread. U didn't ask her out but yet u were able to shine her Congo repeatedly.

U my friend is the baddest guy in town, who sees himself as a nice guy....

Still the paradox there is what I am against as regards what Hardone ia saying and that is the that there is a manual on how to handle women and that being nice to them is wrong as hardone states.
To handle women and keep appealing to their sense of reasoning one has to be different from the last guys she met, one has to out think her next move, one has to be an enigma that she cant phantom. One can keeping being all these and still be nice to them. Thats my point.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by reksly: 4:10pm On Dec 28, 2016

drnoel:

Still the paradox there is what I am against as regards what Hardone ia saying and that is the that there is a manual on how to handle women and that being nice to them is wrong as hardone states.
To handle women and keep appealing to their sense of reasoning one has to be different from the last guys she met, one has to out think her next move, one has to be an enigma that she cant phantom. One can keeping being all these and still be nice to them. Thats my point.

True though....

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:31pm On Dec 28, 2016

drnoel:

Still the paradox there is what I am against as regards what Hardone ia saying and that is the that there is a manual on how to handle women and that being nice to them is wrong as hardone states.
To handle women and keep appealing to their sense of reasoning one has to be different from the last guys she met, one has to out think her next move, one has to be an enigma that she cant phantom. One can keeping being all these and still be nice to them. Thats my point.

Why cant she be NICE TO U while u go about the more important things like Living ur life n Making dem money? cool

if u didnt know, the nicer person, is always d needy person, its always d deeply loving person, itz d most faithful person, its d person dat cares more, taking for Granted most, commits more to d ish, n most often, d most hurt person when things go wrong. N dont things always do? THIS PERSON IS BASICALLY ON DA PERSENGER'S SEAT WHILE D ODA CRUISE HIM/HER ABOUT WHEREVER THEY PLEASE! embarassed

Why do u feel THE URGE THAT U must BE NICE TO LADIES THE WAY MOMMA TOT U?

Like u r indepted to her?

Like reksly rightly said, u r Unpredictable in som of ur Approaches, this is no trait of a NICE A33. Cos ladies luv that.
If only u wud balance it out with what u r picking here, u wud be a more touched gee wit more fun experience!

Rich Regards

Don

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:52pm On Dec 28, 2016

HARDDON:

Why cant she be NICE TO U while u go about the more important things like Living ur life n Making dem money?

if u didnt know, the nicer person, is always d needy person, its always d deeply loving person, itz d most faithful person, its d person dat cares more, taking for Granted most, commits more to d ish, n most often, d most hurt person when things go wrong. N dont things always do? THIS PERSON IS BASICALLY ON DA PERSENGER'S SEAT WHILE D ODA CRUISE HIM/HER ABOUT WHEREVER THEY PLEASE!

Why do u feel THE URGE THAT U must BE NICE TO LADIES THE WAY MOMMA TOT U?

Like u r indepted to her?

Like reksly rightly said, u r Unpredictable in som of ur Approaches, this is no trait of a NICE A33. Cos ladies luv that.
If only u wud balance it out with what u r picking here, u wud be a more touched gee wit more fun experience!

Rich Regards

Don

@Drnoel,

N hey, i didnt Say there is a manual on how to hndle ladies.
How cud i sAy that when the heart n relationship/ marriage r as individualistic as ur finger prints?
That said, they mostly r sisters under same cloak of flesh when it comes to certains things eg MR NICEY

You must have read i always advise guys to think on their feet n come up with reaponseS to prevailng circumstances ( quick wit) . If i was making robots wit manuals, i wudnt say this. I'd just lay d rules.

What i hv been doing here is nothing but unravelling d thinking pattern of women n how guys can use that to their aDvantage.

Demystifying d world of women. Not laying rules, hence the accompanying Sense Pills

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by youngfocus(m): 5:54pm On Dec 28, 2016

keep more cuming,tanx for dis eye opener treat,were I for b if nt for u ppl,I could remember Dan,wen I will do all tin to pls my gf,at last left me wit broken heart,BT it same me dat my gf if even scared of loose me,I even tell her she should nt call me again still January 3 2017, cum see hw she dey beg DAT I wnt to use dat opportunity to be seeing is rival,nd I said yes dat am giving her brake to rest,dat she should be on holiday for nw,I knw dat u are all surprise for dat,u are tink were will I c chick to catch fun wit my guy dey plenty for my hand,is just dat she is d only one I fit marry if am to marry nw,am ma keep rolling,hardon baba

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by okwypascal: 6:35pm On Dec 28, 2016

reksly:
@drnoel but u didn't pay for her food na when u guys did lunch together.

That in itself my friend is the bad guy's paroz. That's exactly how bad guyz roll.

And also ur approach was totally different. It is exactly what HARDDON and others have repeated said from the very first page of this thread. U didn't ask her out but yet u were able to shine her Congo repeatedly.

U my friend is the baddest guy in town, who sees himself as a nice guy....

help me ask the wicked player o, a gal left ur house by 2am, u know shake body to go find am and u call urself a nice guy. the thunder that would locate that guy ehn

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by okwypascal: 6:48pm On Dec 28, 2016

HARDDON:

@Drnoel,

N hey, i didnt Say there is a manual on how to hndle ladies.
How cud i sAy that when the heart n relationship/ marriage r as individualistic as ur finger prints?
That said, they mostly r sisters under same cloak of flesh when it comes to certains things eg MR NICEY

You must have read i always advise guys to think on their feet n come up with reaponseS to prevailng circumstances ( quick wit) . If i was making robots wit manuals, i wudnt say this. I'd just lay d rules.

What i hv been doing here is nothing but unravelling d thinking pattern of women n how guys can use that to their aDvantage.

Demystifying d world of women. Not laying rules, hence the accompanying Sense Pills

thanks man, after u na u

But they is this stuff I noticed guy, u can't jus flow with every gal, I dont know if u av experienced it, like the convo won't just be connecting not that she is forming hard to get but I dont jus know. boss whats ur possible solution cos I do end up leaving them

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Ustec: 7:04pm On Dec 28, 2016

Ustec:
Hi Don juon pro.
Wan2 rily commend u for d selfless service u provided 2 help shy and nice guys lyk me(zero confidence when it comes 2 women mattr)...all my life hv bn finding the secret bhind dis damn game i find mysterious,..cos i couldnt just hold it no more dos days wen i see guys far below my level banging difrnt babes evry wknd throughout a semestr/holidays....
Am dis handsome but very shy guy dat evry lady i come across always admire me cos i notice dey stare nd check me out evry now and den but my BALLS are no wea 2 b found....i was a total novice in dis mysterious game (it has always bn a mystri 2 m)
Not until i stnmble my myslf ea..sir u hv reveal and explain in evry detail all d secret and mysteries a pickup artist will ask u 1 2 pay for(yea, i was abt thnkn of dat b4 i stumbl ea)

Have bn studying ur book kinly for somdays now and stil studying it lyk a fresher aiming 2 graduate wit a 1st class..but i hv nt gon bynd d mystery stage(approah drill) dea is somtin i stil don undrstnd dea...WEN IS D RIGHT TIME 2 Get d DIGIT?..u din rily talk much on dat sir!

sir HARDDON,pls help me do justice it.
Also need ur help on a game i just started..

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:53pm On Dec 28, 2016

HARDDON:

Easy pizzy
These aint difficult situations gee.... Moving targets are, from experience. Target with guys r, targets in group r (to the average guys) not these.

All u need in these kinda situation is hightened environmental scan for useful info n be able to absorb same n with d acquired info, spin sexy fun hooks.

Scenario 1 : Bus
Target: Neutral Hawt species
Possible Scanned info: she is listening to music, tapping away on her phone, looking out tru d window, just sitting bland etc

With d scanned info, this r the possible ice breakers

If she is listening to music: ask her in low tone, u might not even utter the words , just look @ her with a smile n move ur lips saying " RnB or Blues?, Country or hip hop?"

When she removes one ear piece to hear what u saying, still mumble the words gesticulating wit ur hands, she wud lean in to hear what u saying. (U can even add a lil fun by forming stutering)

Then finally, u ask in normal tone.....what ever she says, tell her that with this her noddles voice, u douth she can sing.... u can take d ear piece on her hand n tell her u want to be in d spirit, n plug it to ur ears, lean bck, close ur eyes n hum.( fun)

Lines i use when music is involved:

u have a suprano or alto voice, but im sure pastor does not let u leaD praise because u might just end d church b4 they collect offering

Or

Wow, what a baritone bass u have , if we r passing the night together n u say HELLO in d middle of d night, id just take my pillow n run for dere life!
Wake up n found a guy's voice on ma bed.when did i turn gay?

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Ustec: 8:03pm On Dec 28, 2016

Ustec:
Hi Don juon pro.
Wan2 rily commend u for d selfless service u provided 2 help shy and nice guys lyk me(zero confidence when it comes 2 women mattr)...all my life hv bn finding the secret bhind dis damn game i find mysterious,..cos i couldnt just hold it no more dos days wen i see guys far below my level banging difrnt babes evry wknd throughout a semestr/holidays....
Am dis handsome but very shy guy dat evry lady i come across always admire me cos i notice dey stare nd check me out evry now and den but my BALLS are no wea 2 b found....i was a total novice in dis mysterious game (it has always bn a mystri 2 m)
Not until i stnmble my myslf ea..sir u hv reveal and explain in evry detail all d secret and mysteries a pickup artist will ask u 1 2 pay for(yea, i was abt thnkn of dat b4 i stumbl ea)

Have bn studying ur book kinly for somdays now and stil studying it lyk a fresher aiming 2 graduate wit a 1st class..but i hv nt gon bynd d mystery stage(approah drill) dea is somtin i stil don undrstnd dea...WEN IS D RIGHT TIME 2 Get d DIGIT?..u din rily talk much on dat sir!

SIR HARDDON
pls help me do justice to it.
Also,i will lyk 2 share a game i just start wit a lady on facebook

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:07pm On Dec 28, 2016

HARDDON:

With d scanned info, this r the possible ice breakers

If she is listening to music: ask her in low tone, u might not even utter the words , just look @ her with a smile n move ur lips saying " RnB or Blues?, Country or hip hop?"

When she removes one ear piece to hear what u saying, still mumble the words gesticulating wit ur hands, she wud lean in to hear what u saying. (U can even add a lil fun by forming stutering)

Then finally, u ask in normal tone.....what ever she says, tell her that with this her noddles voice, u douth she can sing.... u can take d ear piece on her hand n tell her u want to be in d spirit, n plug it to ur ears, lean bck, close ur eyes n hum.( fun)

Lines i use when music is involved:

u have a suprano or alto voice, but im sure pastor does not let u leaD praise because u might just end d church b4 they collect offering

Or

Wow, what a baritone bass u have , if we r passing the night together n u say HELLO in d middle of d night, id just take my pillow n run for dere life!
Wake up n found a guy's voice on ma bed.when did i turn gay?

IF she is tappin away on her phone:

U: Hi, what did d phone do to u that u r just PREESSSSING it roughly. Give it a break n ur eyes look stresed, stare @ a fyn guy for a while(pointing to urself)they wud relax back

If .caught her staring into space tru d window, or just bland,
Look @ her with real concern n ask:

Hey, wor iz D matter? Boyfriend issues? ( I use this alot! )

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:09pm On Dec 28, 2016

Ustec:

SIR HARDDON
pls help me do justice to it.
Also,i will lyk 2 share a game i just start wit a lady on facebook

If u hv been following, u wud notice we take questions sequencially, so hang on

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:51pm On Dec 28, 2016

Adasun:
harddon i can see ur swagacious self viewing dis thread

man! U have begin to hide somethings frm us o,is it because of those waves dat troop in to disarme us abi u just feeling ambivalent abt da whole thing.

Lols! Our lanky frankly comedian

Waves cAnt woo us. N my pasion neva dies. A true soldier whose singular idiosyncrasy is a penchant for pounded yam! cheesy

You would agree wit me, it get confusing in here. Hence d blog
We would arrange each drill into different sections therein n save stress.

N some things r not for kids..... like a loaded gun...u grab?

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by chuksisaac: 8:52pm On Dec 28, 2016

Haddon I still de wait for ur hint untop Ma
mata o

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:52pm On Dec 28, 2016

Obiomon:
lol tell him with his big head!

By the way merry Christmas y'all how many cow una kill

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:02pm On Dec 28, 2016

Obiomon:
Lol! Some quick shiit! One babe just tell me she loves me, I don forget some of those funny I love u replies! Make some boss ballz remind me of the other ones my reply her later or better still help me navigate to the page, I no fit locate am... #no dulling Harddon oya come Hiaa!!! Biko

My momma always tell me that b4 she spanks d lights outa my randy bu77! Im beginning to suspect u

If i were u, i'd
I luv ME to! Toh hawt, toh sezxy. Toh tall, to handsome! TOh Dark toh grab cheesy

Is it time to make ur hair yet? ( #ouch! Dont use this anyhow gees!)

Oh how i missed your troubles! Come here( pull her n hug her)

Luv? Is that a name of an animal , place or thing? I had too much to drink last night, my memories playing pranks on mua! R u my gf? grin

Think of others

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:17pm On Dec 28, 2016

Ustec:
Hi Don juon pro.
Wan2 rily commend u for d selfless service u provided 2 help shy and nice guys lyk me(zero confidence when it comes 2 women mattr)...all my life hv bn finding the secret bhind dis damn game i find mysterious,..cos i couldnt just hold it no more dos days wen i see guys far below my level banging difrnt babes evry wknd throughout a semestr/holidays....
Am dis handsome but very shy guy dat evry lady i come across always admire me cos i notice dey stare nd check me out evry now and den but my BALLS are no wea 2 b found....i was a total novice in dis mysterious game (it has always bn a mystri 2 m)
Not until i stnmble my myslf ea..sir u hv reveal and explain in evry detail all d secret and mysteries a pickup artist will ask u 1 2 pay for(yea, i was abt thnkn of dat b4 i stumbl ea)

Have bn studying ur book kinly for somdays now and stil studying it lyk a fresher aiming 2 graduate wit a 1st class..but i hv nt gon bynd d mystery stage(approah drill) dea is somtin i stil don undrstnd dea...WEN IS D RIGHT TIME 2 Get d DIGIT?..u din rily talk much on dat sir!

It is not everytym we colect numbers. If we are sure of meeting her again, number isnt our first priority rather we boda bout dropping Lines of Note ( LON) for d first two or 3 meetings. Som might just ask for u n0.

The only time we make n0s a priority after dropping LON is if we aint sure we see her again.

N hey, the best time is when d ovation is loudest( her defenses r down), B4 she wakes from d laughter, u got d line, n u gone.

We hv dealt wit diffnt ways of giving out ur n0 or getting hers

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:34pm On Dec 28, 2016

vislabraye:

Hi. I've been patiently following your thread. I absolutely agree with your philosophy on dating. Kudos. I know the fundamental principles of attraction. The dos and don'ts. Sometimes I do err, though.
But I also believe there are some exceptions and we should know where to draw the line. Playing hard to get works. But for how long should you continue playing hard to get ? It's possible she forgets about you after you've played so hard.
The second thing is persistent. Sometimes, persistence do work from experience. She might say no initially but after a little pressure, she will say yes.
I don't know what you think about persistence. If you do, how would you draw the line ?

Glad u here,

First, playing Hard to Get is one of d most potent weApon gurls use to strip men of all their colours n flavour! Everry guy wants to buy her attention, always @ her beck n call n She getS bored stiff beging for but a lil change!

Then suddenly, u came along, SENDLESS, U make fun of her looks / body n anyother stuff instead of complimenting her like every other jack, u dont call her, ignore her calls somtimes n totallyy doing d opposite of what she is used to with other guys n making her laugh in d process. U r unpredictable, spontenous n crazy!
How can she forget u gee? See?

Secondly, what is she saying NO to ? Did u ask hEr out?

If u do d first above well, mix d portion properly, second question wudnt arise.

Gives ladies d lead to come after u!

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:45pm On Dec 28, 2016

DrAnie:
Hey harddon and other gurus in d house. Please, i need a quick advice. I just got out of a messed up relationship about 2 months ago. As y'all might already know, I was overly caring and proclaimed love for my girl several times due to my naivety. I also naively asked out, which she responded with " i will pray about it". Well, i ended the relationship thingy to give her time to pray well after 4months of dating. Nonsense!
Anyways, all that is past story now. I have been going out with a new girl for about 7 weeks now. I always call her my babe on IM chats, phone calls and text. She keeps on saying i haven't asked her out yet. That she would not concur she's my gf, until I ask her out. She won't even kiss me for this same reason. I really don't want to shoot myself in the leg this time. I really won't want to surrender my balls to her by asking her out. She's kinda putting me under pressure to ask her out formally. Women matter sef...
Please guys what do you advice about this issue?

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:49pm On Dec 28, 2016

Kalatium:

After texting this to her, she deleted me from her WhatsApp contacts . Guess I have to move forward

#Ouch! #Ouch! Be careful geEe!

If u didnt note it, that iS acqually an INSULT u deliver with care n cautiion. And only to gurls u have broken tru dier defenses!

Lol!

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:53pm On Dec 28, 2016

chuksisaac:
ok....we. Met few days b4 my long vac from school...so after nursing her tru d drills I found ere for two months...we resumed....we really planned much durin d holidays on how it was gonna be...but few days after arriving school she wasn't keepin up to her own end of the shit....dat was wre I started to loose ma balance....I started doin all d calls...actin desperate...thence she sidelined me for like 1 week...of which she didn't pick my calls and dodged me...d next week...I called and she said she has been lookin for me(the vibes wre still dre then).now first and foremost....she was then runnin dis ijmb stuff tho she wrote jamb....she told be during d hols that not until she got d admission b4 she think about any relationship(I didn't ask her out)she even put me in line to ask her out back then but I did not....so offlate she gained admission into 100level....she now first started with dis am busy stuff....reasons for her new actions wre unknown so....she stopped returning calls even my missed calls....thence I knw ma balls are gone....just on thursday or so I pressured her.....she then told me she just started dating a new guy and dat I should juss move on....buh dammit I fall in love too deep....so I wanna ask how can I get her to feel d vibes back...(Ion giv two fs about her new bf)is making her jealous d best answear?

U were just to needy!
How can u be calling a gurl for two weeks non stop? Like u dont hv beta tins to do wit ur time? Arrrthhhh!¡!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Women have 6sense. They can read ur unspoken words n body language.

There r alot uu didnt tell us . But d bottom line is , u drove her off.

R u in same sch?

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:18pm On Dec 28, 2016

DrAnie:
Hey harddon and other gurus in d house. Please, i need a quick advice. I just got out of a messed up relationship about 2 months ago. As y'all might already know, I was overly caring and proclaimed love for my girl several times due to my naivety. I also naively asked out, which she responded with " i will pray about it". Well, i ended the relationship thingy to give her time to pray well after 4months of dating. Nonsense!
Anyways, all that is past story now. I have been going out with a new girl for about 7 weeks now. I always call her my babe on IM chats, phone calls and text. She keeps on saying i haven't asked her out yet. That she would not concur she's my gf, until I ask her out. She won't even kiss me for this same reason. I really don't want to shoot myself in the leg this time. I really won't want to surrender my balls to her by asking her out. She's kinda putting me under pressure to ask her out formally. Women matter sef...
Please guys what do you advice about this issue?

U r too naive , too Nice, too needy! ! Gross Misconduct punishable by punch! angry

7 gud weeks she has been eating ur dough! Flexing ur time , airtime n so many other while u r here calling BABE? U r lucky this is not wiithin my training session, guys wud hv held ur hands n legs, lie u flat oon d floor while i give u sttrokes of aboki bulala .

Who Dah f gives a flying f about dating her sORry a33? ( i only use d f word wen im angry! N ryt now i am!))

U just succedded in handinG her ur huge balls strewpidly.
N oh how she controls u so!
One wud hv tot u learnt ur lesson from d oda gurl.

REMEDY

Too pissed to proffer any!

Ok, im feelin beta now after pausing for 15mins

Here is what you wud do.

U wud assume u broke up with her n stop calling, hanging out.
If she calls, pick n in a hurry tone tell her u wud call her back n drop. Dont call back. Or let d phn ring , dont take. UnDo all d nice moves. Cut her wings

Pay the sacrifice n digest this Thread.
Meet others while @ it.

If eventually u let her a lil audience n she go asking why u changed, tell her u got a new gurl n uve moved on, she should do dsame!

Then excuse urself n roll home. this is where u wud see begging if she really likes u, but if she never did n was just using u, u wud know also cos she wud move on with her life!

Digest the thread!

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:39pm On Dec 28, 2016

okwypascal:

thanks man, after u na u

But they is this stuff I noticed guy, u can't jus flow with every gal, I dont know if u av experienced it, like the convo won't just be connecting not that she is forming hard to get but I dont jus know. boss whats ur possible solution cos I do end up leaving them

i get your drift....!
Itz normal...... it is not only magnent that have invincible force fields . Humans do too.

Just like u cant date everybody, convo too is same.

Tension can cause this, her lack of humour sense can too, ur not livng ready cud n so many other factors.

The best move is mos def to just go n dont act a fool.

There is something else i cant say here. Just makes ur mind blank.....

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Ustec: 11:48pm On Dec 28, 2016

HARDDON:

It is not everytym we colect numbers. If we are sure of meeting her again, number isnt our first priority rather we boda bout dropping Lines of Note ( LON) for d first two or 3 meetings. Som might just ask for u n0.

The only time we make n0s a priority after dropping LON is if we aint sure we see her again.

N hey, the best time is when d ovation is loudest( her defenses r down), B4 she wakes from d laughter, u got d line, n u gone.

We hv dealt wit diffnt ways of giving out ur n0 or getting hers

thanks.

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Ustec: 11:56pm On Dec 28, 2016

Sir don,
After reading ur book,..it has really change how I feel about myself,my confident level had skyrocketed,though havnt go for any field practise..
So I want to say a Big thank you very much and God blees ya
Below is d chat I engage wit a lady on facebook I tld u abt:
She posted on her FB wall "AM SINGLE"
guys wea commenting she no respond,me just enter and say

ME: U are mine if u can impress me well enough..,!
The nxt she did was

Her:replied with 20 lol smiley(u kno dat laughing symbl na)

Me: U should knw d nxt thin if u re rily interested..chat me up!

Her: God forbid... Abeg, am not desperate

Me: Me eithr,..bt u hv limited time cos entry will soon close...
Her: LMAO.. I wish you luck
That was all for that day.
Guys dea wea saying so many surprise stuff,me no mind.
But I din gv up lyk my BOSS,HARDON will always say.
The fllwg day she uploaded one sexy(kinda hot) pix of hers and wrote #feeling silly..
So i jst tot of 1 of d BOSS punchline,..

ME:u are rily looking hot in dis 1 o,..u took hot pepper ni..

Waited for some minutes,..she din reply,a tot jst cam 2 me dat I shld delit d comment,so I did,dont knw y ethr..
So latr @ nyt I decide 2 try chatting her up on FB messanger....
Dis wea our chats

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Ustec: 12:10am On Dec 29, 2016

ME: Dis 1 dat u pretended lyk u din see my comment on ur nw pix u uploaded...lyk I told u,am still available..

She rplied
HER: LMAO
That was all 4 dat day,..
The ffg day in d evning I decided 2 chat,..I txt

ME: Hey cutie,..hope u had a great day,I knw uv missed me,but wldnt admit it...
So I check her FB prfil,she stdy law so I decide to tak smtin funy outa it.
I then txt her again

Me: Did I just see law there
Lawyers can Iie for Africa
No wonder!
She rpld

Her:lol
So I rpled her 2day

Me: Common, am not an in-house clown,am a practising Dr.

That ws all, sh hs nt rply...since aftrnoon and we @ nyt now.
So BOSS what did u phantom out or decipher 4rm the chat.
Is it going well,what are my blunders..
Am nt tinking of anytin wit her, I just wana PRACTISE...U made me understand its just a game.

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by solomix10(m): 1:47am On Dec 29, 2016

Ustec:
ME: Dis 1 dat u pretended lyk u din see my comment on ur nw pix u uploaded...lyk I told u,am still available..

She rplied
HER: LMAO
That was all 4 dat day,..
The ffg day in d evning I decided 2 chat,..I txt

ME: Hey cutie,..hope u had a great day,I knw uv missed me,but wldnt admit it...
So I check her FB prfil,she stdy law so I decide to tak smtin funy outa it.
I then txt her again

Me: Did I just see law there
Lawyers can Iie for Africa
No wonder!
She rpld

Her:lol
So I rpled her 2day

Me: Common, am not an in-house clown,am a practising Dr.

That ws all, sh hs nt rply...since aftrnoon and we @ nyt now.
So BOSS what did u phantom out or decipher 4rm the chat.
Is it going well,what are my blunders..
Am nt tinking of anytin wit her, I just wana PRACTISE...U made me understand its just a game.

hey bro ,am not dat good in this ..but with my little knowlegde i can decipher u are acting needy... U seems u are the only one pushin d chat ,while she is replyin wit monosylllabics...my obseRVES tho...

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let d bosses talk..

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