Inyinese:
. Any man that looks at a woman lustfully has commented adultery, so technically I think that if you look at water lustfully, you have taken your bath. Yes.

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Oh Lawd..why do some persons lack basic reasoning. How can one look at water lustfully? Do you know what the word "lust" means and its contextual application?

Berlynn:
Thank God i am still a virgin and i am still pure



Quote me and fart all day pffffft

Who u help.

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Today is my birthday, show some love guys

I love this. God's grace is sufficient fo our daily purity I J N, Amen.

Inyinese:
. Any man that looks at a woman lustfully has commented adultery, so technically I think that if you look at water lustfully, you have taken your bath. Yes.

What the Lord is emphasizing in Matthew's gospel 5:27,28 is that Christianity goes beyong what is seen outwardly. The state, intentions and motives of the heart is what God actually looks at. Lusting after a man or woman means you actually want to commit the sin of fornication or adultery with him or her if you had the chance. That you did not have the opportunity does not make you less guilty than the person who actually commited the sin. May God help those who desire purity to have it I J N, Amen.

Glory12345:

I have written a lot about the need to preserve sex for marriage, and wait till you are married before having sex,..

This is the reason for most religious folks who end up with spouse they ain't sexually compatible with. So many of them are hurting badly.

You know what? The most disgusting folks are sexually unsatisfied folks. The reason most religious folks moody.

Glory12345:

the truth is that singles should abstain from premarital sex,..

How about folks who knew they can't cope in married setting, but choose to get involved in romantic relationships without marriage commitment? .

Glory12345:

and the married should abstain from extra-marital affairs, ..

How about folk whose spouse is terminally ill, or unable to get involved in sexual acts.

In other to satisfy sexual drive, the folk choose to have a romantic relationship, without hurting the indisposed spouse.

Folks device coping mechanism, you know.

Glory12345:

they are not man-made rules, they are commands from God written in the Holy Scriptures! ..

Is it not the same Jewish god that sanctioned polygamy and adultery for King David?

Of course, to the religious folks, they are just romancing the amorphous god idea.

Glory12345:

Run from sexual sin! No other sin clearly affects the body as this one does. ..

Sexual acts are defined by culture and personal preferences.

Besides, What god goes round poking into what folks do with their privates? A jobless god of course.

Glory12345:

For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body (1Cor 6:18) and ..

How can sexual act be wrong against the body, when done responsibly?

Glory12345:

Proverb 6: 32 says But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. So I’m not in any way undermining the sanctity of virginity!
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Polygamy is culturally acceptable in some society. What rights does Judeo-Christian religion have, to start dictating, stigmatizing and victimizing other culture.

Glory12345:

Read what Jesus said: But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart (Mathew 5:28), so you discovered that the issue of fornication/adultery has gone pass virginity! The sin is committed in the heart before the outward manifestation!
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How can i possibly marry a babe that am not sexually attracted to?

You guys are definitely not for real.

Glory12345:
There are so many teachings today about virginity! One guy was telling me the other time how he so much desired to marry a lady that is a virgin like himself, as good as that sounds, it is not the ultimate! I have written a lot about the need to preserve sex for marriage, and wait till you are married before having sex, the truth is that singles should abstain from premarital sex, and the married should abstain from extra-marital affairs, they are not man-made rules, they are commands from God written in the Holy Scriptures! Run from sexual sin! No other sin clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body (1Cor 6:18) and Proverb 6: 32 says But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. So I’m not in any way undermining the sanctity of virginity!

But unfortunately, more emphasis has been laid on virginity at the detriment of purity! Lots of young people believe that virginity and purity are synonymous! Thinking if you are a virgin then you are sexually pure! Hear this! You can be a VIRGIN and STILL BE A FORNICATOR! You can be a virgin and still be guilty of sexual immorality, in other words, YOUR VIRGINITY CAN BE INTACT, whereas YOUR PURITY IS LOST!
Read what Jesus said: But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart (Mathew 5:28), so you discovered that the issue of fornication/adultery has gone pass virginity! The sin is committed in the heart before the outward manifestation!

Purity is not just about whether you’ve had sex before or not, Purity is about being sexually pure inwardly and outwardly, PURITY IS NOT AN EVENT, IT’S A LIFESTYLE!
So many youths are only concerned about keeping their virginity (which is good) but less concerned about what they do with their body, so many are still involved in pornography,Watching blue films on the Infinix Zero 4 dry-humping (caressing their bodies with clothes on), masturbating, lustful kissing, homosexuality, sexual imaginations etc… All those sexual activities render you impure, regardless of whether you are a virgin or not!
If you are a virgin, strive not to lose your virginity to anyone other than your husband or wife, if you’ve lost your virginity, strive not to continue in premarital sex! But above all STRIVE TO BE SEXUALLY PURE AND LIVE A LIFE OF HOLINESS IN ALL RAMIFICATIONS! PURITY............

great piece

Glory12345:
There are so many teachings today about virginity! One guy was telling me the other time how he so much desired to marry a lady that is a virgin like himself, as good as that sounds, it is not the ultimate! I have written a lot about the need to preserve sex for marriage, and wait till you are married before having sex, the truth is that singles should abstain from premarital sex, and the married should abstain from extra-marital affairs, they are not man-made rules, they are commands from God written in the Holy Scriptures! Run from sexual sin! No other sin clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body (1Cor 6:18) and Proverb 6: 32 says But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. So I’m not in any way undermining the sanctity of virginity!

But unfortunately, more emphasis has been laid on virginity at the detriment of purity! Lots of young people believe that virginity and purity are synonymous! Thinking if you are a virgin then you are sexually pure! Hear this! You can be a VIRGIN and STILL BE A FORNICATOR! You can be a virgin and still be guilty of sexual immorality, in other words, YOUR VIRGINITY CAN BE INTACT, whereas YOUR PURITY IS LOST!
Read what Jesus said: But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart (Mathew 5:28), so you discovered that the issue of fornication/adultery has gone pass virginity! The sin is committed in the heart before the outward manifestation!

Purity is not just about whether you’ve had sex before or not, Purity is about being sexually pure inwardly and outwardly, PURITY IS NOT AN EVENT, IT’S A LIFESTYLE!
So many youths are only concerned about keeping their virginity (which is good) but less concerned about what they do with their body, so many are still involved in pornography,Watching blue films on the Infinix Zero 4 dry-humping (caressing their bodies with clothes on), masturbating, lustful kissing, homosexuality, sexual imaginations etc… All those sexual activities render you impure, regardless of whether you are a virgin or not!
If you are a virgin, strive not to lose your virginity to anyone other than your husband or wife, if you’ve lost your virginity, strive not to continue in premarital sex! But above all STRIVE TO BE SEXUALLY PURE AND LIVE A LIFE OF HOLINESS IN ALL RAMIFICATIONS! PURITY............

you r still carnal... its in every of ya post

Am still a Virgin but far from keeping my purity going by this post am not that perfect guy.

With the way sex is now being highly glorified in almost ever areas of life in this generation, be it in music videos, fashion (how ladies dress almost unclad), movies, adverts, commercials etc.

With all those, staying off sex became's almost impossible or one difficult choice to go by, i will have to work on my purity, by so doing i believe i'll cross the bridge successfully when i get there.

Debra911:
All these ain't easy, Only God can help. I understand ur write up, and i want to tell u God also knows what he created & will keep giving us the grace to conquer all temptations. In sciences, I was made to understand that we are sexually active than each other depending on d structure of our body, some of us can control ourselve while some can't. Our ability to acknowledge to God that we're guilty & sorry for our sins, makes God love us the more& give us d grace to overcome temptations little by little. Man is an animal(higher) too , so... So many things are certain to happen.

Your post is very sincere but also very naive. Let me explain the second part. Sex is beautiful and God created sex for enjoyment and procreation within the bounds of Marriage (there are rules).

Like, Every human craves food, if not for the taste, for the aroma. However, there is a word called Self Discipline we were trained to have.

You ask yourself the question: "This beautifully arranged, spiced and appetizing food" which appeared in Mr Biggs or Tantalizers table, Is it legally mine?

If not what do you do? You walk away!

We all have sexual self control BUT the society is saying the opposite. The society says "Give In" you can't help the feeling.

There are only two reasons for sexual purity
1. God Abhors it
2. The Risk of Sexually transmitted demons

For other reasons, we could have Condoms, Safe Sex etc BUT the two above do not have any preventive mechanism except sexual purity.

In conclusion, you can overcome the sexual temptation BUT only if you CHOOSE to.

NB: I also believe in Secondary Virginity! Because like the OP said, its not just about Physical Virginity, its about Sexual Purity (going to sin no more)

Shalom

chuxyfranklin:
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Oh Lawd..why do some persons lack basic reasoning. How can one look at water lustfully? Do you know what the word "lust" means and its contextual application?

If you ALSO perceive the Aroma of a food, YOU HAVE EATEN TO YOUR SATISFACTION?

Glory12345:
There are so many teachings today about virginity! One guy was telling me the other time how he so much desired to marry a lady that is a virgin like himself, as good as that sounds, it is not the ultimate! I have written a lot about the need to preserve sex for marriage, and wait till you are married before having sex, the truth is that singles should abstain from premarital sex, and the married should abstain from extra-marital affairs, they are not man-made rules, they are commands from God written in the Holy Scriptures! Run from sexual sin! No other sin clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body (1Cor 6:18) and Proverb 6: 32 says But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. So I’m not in any way undermining the sanctity of virginity!

But unfortunately, more emphasis has been laid on virginity at the detriment of purity! Lots of young people believe that virginity and purity are synonymous! Thinking if you are a virgin then you are sexually pure! Hear this! You can be a VIRGIN and STILL BE A FORNICATOR! You can be a virgin and still be guilty of sexual immorality, in other words, YOUR VIRGINITY CAN BE INTACT, whereas YOUR PURITY IS LOST!
Read what Jesus said: But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart (Mathew 5:28), so you discovered that the issue of fornication/adultery has gone pass virginity! The sin is committed in the heart before the outward manifestation!

Purity is not just about whether you’ve had sex before or not, Purity is about being sexually pure inwardly and outwardly, PURITY IS NOT AN EVENT, IT’S A LIFESTYLE!
So many youths are only concerned about keeping their virginity (which is good) but less concerned about what they do with their body, so many are still involved in pornography,Watching blue films on the Infinix Zero 4 dry-humping (caressing their bodies with clothes on), masturbating, lustful kissing, homosexuality, sexual imaginations etc… All those sexual activities render you impure, regardless of whether you are a virgin or not!
If you are a virgin, strive not to lose your virginity to anyone other than your husband or wife, if you’ve lost your virginity, strive not to continue in premarital sex! But above all STRIVE TO BE SEXUALLY PURE AND LIVE A LIFE OF HOLINESS IN ALL RAMIFICATIONS! PURITY............

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hmmm, hardcore LAW-TEACHING.

shadeyinka:

There are only two reasons for sexual purity
1. God Abhors it
2. The Risk of Sexually transmitted demons

Can you please expatiate on what you mean by no 2. "The risk of sexually transmitted demon" .

According to Heberews 12:14," Follow peace with all men, and HOLINESS without which no man shall see God." Purity is the Passport to heaven. However, no man can maintain this righteous state without the active work of GRACE in such a live, otherwise, hypocrisy will thrive.
KEEP WALKING BY FAITH!

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akintom:


Can you please expatiate on what you mean by no 2. "The risk of sexually transmitted demon" .

If this came from someone else, I would have bothered but you are way too intelligent for the long explanations.

From the point number 2, I know you understand except that you don't believe in spirits.

shadeyinka:

If this came from someone else, I would have bothered but you are way too intelligent for the long explanations.

From the point number 2, I know you understand except that you don't believe in spirits.

I certainly don't believe in spirit.

Since i don't believe in spirit, do you for any reason claim that i can be possessed by demon, my lack of belief notwithstanding?

sex chatting is a sin too.God help us

akintom:


I certainly don't believe in spirit.

Since i don't believe in spirit, do you for any reason claim that i can be possessed by demon, my lack of belief notwithstanding?

I saw your post and deliberately I made myself invisible because the intent of the post wasn't .....

You don't have to believe in spirits to be infected. The infections could be mild or serious. It could be deep or shallow.

Demons are "spiritual equivalence" of desease causing microorganisms troubling living beings. Its just like, you don't have to believe in the existence of virus before you can get infected with common cold. (I know a certain Professor who didn't believe in the existence of HIV).

Anyone can be infected by demons Christians inclusive. Demonic infestations are usually not taken seriously unless they threaten a persons comfort and desire.

Demons are spirits, so there is no scientific method of diagnosing their presence.

A close scientific example of how demons operate in people is seen in "Multiple Personality Disorder Syndrome". Spirituality, it could be explained in terms of the kernel (the real person) and other aliases are demons manifesting through their personalities.

Most people live through their lives without knowing that they are infected with demons.

Note: I haven't used the word possessed!

I will answer any other sincere question from you.