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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by raydatluvs(m): 5:17pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
kaziblake:I am always extremely irked by comments like this. I wonder why many people on this forum on first impression feel someone is out to decieve, Even if you think so, keep it to your self and don't ruin someone's chance and don't be petty Most times, let's try and keep to the scope of the original post and not feel the need to add variables. Your wife obviously has fundamental brainwash about igbos [maybe it's just your family alone] but am curious why she decided to marry you regardless. 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 6:23pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
mysticgal: Wen Nigeria park up, wat will be left of ur identity? U are an Igbo girl with a yoruba mum. Nigeria is just ur nationality not ur ethnicity. Ethnicity comes first before nationality. Make i dey school u, dey go. I fit marry u sef and save u from urself. U women can be self destructive atimes. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by mysticgal(f): 6:34pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
hammerT: Yeepa, self destructive ke? So you mean marrying from another tribe is self destructive? Hmmm, let me just say that is an ancient thought. And Let me correct you, whenever a feat or defeat is achieved outside Nigeria, the Nigerian identity clicks not the tribal identity. Just that the name tells where the person originates from.... So Nationality before ethnicity. Finally, do you really believe Nigeria would park up? Like you really think that would happen? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 6:39pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
mysticgal: Nationality + Country= Nation, Ethnicity +People = Origin, do the maths. u know which comes first, origin of course. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by mysticgal(f): 6:48pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
hammerT:You do not see, chiamaka ogbonna; from anambra state, graduates with a first class from MIT. Rather you see, mbok uduak, a Nigerian, graduates with a first class from MIT |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 6:57pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
mysticgal: When u hear Mbok Uduak, wat comes to ur mind? Nigeria or Calabar? ![]() Nation + Country= Nationality, Origin +People =Ethnicity , do the maths. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Nobody: 7:11pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
mysticgal:That's my state. We are lots of intellectuals. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 7:32pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
mysticgal: Nigeria is a geographical expression for lines drawn on a piece of land in Africa in the German conference by European Imperialist. Like all geographical expression, in time, they return to their natural state. It happend with USSR (Old Soviet Union), it is happening in the EU, It is being talked about in America and China is threatening to go to war if Taiwan dare leave China becos of Trump. Nigeria started in 1914 and legitimized in 1960 and broke up briefly between 1963 to 1967 during the Biafra War. Nigeria has not always been here and we cannot say that it will last forever. Can u? 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 8:35pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: But why are u yoruba gals so disrespectful And used to verbal abuse 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 8:37pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by kaboninc(m): 8:55pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
mysticgal: Lol. You're Igbo first before a Nigerian. But I'll rather you say you're a Nigerian from the Eastern Part of the country 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 9:02pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
kaboninc: wen u say Nigerian, there is no eastern part. Nigeria refers to ur nationality. So a simple Nigerian will suffice. Eastern part means nothing, becos Efik, Ibibio, Igbo, Ijaw and many more are geographically in the south east. Ethnicity is simply Igbo. This denotes the distinct language and culture of a particular people u identify with and as such ur identity. The two important aspect are Nationality and Ethincity unless u wants to learn geography, then u start with North, South, West and East. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by kaboninc(m): 9:03pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
hammerT: Hmmmm.. . Okay |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by ariesbull: 9:27pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
waternogetememy: Tell them.... There are a lot of things to consider in marriage not even love Arranged marriages last longer than I love you marriages They arranged marriages ,they grow in love but they lay emphasis on compatibility and lots more 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by ariesbull: 9:29pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
hammerT: Nothing last forever 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by ariesbull: 9:31pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
mysticgal: Well. Me I am Igbo first before Nigeria...Nigeria is a man made creation and can pack up and Igbo has been there before Nigeria Charity begins at home ....Is your parents both Igbo ..I doubt 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Jidefido(m): 9:32pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
mysticgal: Yes i do sports journalism. Its my passion. I am saying so cos its true nah. sure u had a good day, |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 9:36pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: I don't support divorce either coz I won't pit assunder wat God joined. I'm only sayin is his wife should learn to respect him or he teach her in a hard way... Yes!! Why are u Yoruba gals so disrspectful that's my question. ![]() |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by ariesbull: 9:38pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
DarkRebel101: Illiterate is somebody that can't read more write . He write so he isn't an illiterate. Find another her word 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:14am On Dec 30, 2016 |
mysticgal: U ARE A NIGERIAN BEFORE IGBO!.. I PITY U ![]() LET ME TELL U WHAT UR LITTLE BRAIN DONT KNOW U CAN ONLY BE NIGERIAN FIRST WHEN U ARE OUTSIDE THE COUNTRY..BUT SINCE U ARE STILL IN THE COUNTRY, THEN ITS UR NAME FIRST THEN UR TRIBE. ESPECIALLY IN NIGERIA THAT TRIBALISM IS THE ORDER OF THE DAY. BLIV IT OR NOT AN HAUSA MAN OR YORUBA MAN CAN NOT FAVOR U FIRST AND GIV U A JOB WHEN U ARE STANDING THERE WITH HAUSA GAL OR YORUBA GAL.... UNLESS U ARE READY TO OFFER SOMETHING IN EXCHANGE THEN U MIGHT HAV A LITTLE ADVANTAGE OVER THEM. SO KEEP ON DECEIVING URSELF. nonsense!!... u igbo girls in diaspora should keep on fooling urselves.. this rubbish comment of urs is what a yoruba gal or hausa gal can neva make nomatter where they found themselves. u carry one nigeria for head yet igbos are the most segregated and hated in ur so called one nigeria. and u went ahead to think igbos cant go ![]() it will dawn on u when when it happens. it may not be now but it must surely happen.... Because Nigeria was forced on them unwillingly. people were killed raped and were forced upon them identity they dont want., and u think God will keep quiet forever ![]() and the last i checked anything that didnt happen naturally doesn't last Nature made it so. the earlier u start telling urself the truth the better for u... U DISAPPOINTED ME ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by kaboninc(m): 5:49am On Dec 30, 2016 |
[s] NIGHTMAREOO7:[/s] Just pass across your message |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by DOWHILE: 8:17am On Dec 30, 2016 |
MizMyColi: Very well maám 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 10:34am On Dec 30, 2016 |
kaboninc: Inconsequential |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 10:43am On Dec 30, 2016 |
ariesbull: The gal has an efik mum. No real igbo blood can say dat |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by ariesbull: 11:04am On Dec 30, 2016 |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 12:20pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: If you marry any girl with this your behaviour, she's gonna abuse and disrespect the hell out of you, you command no respect so this is not a matter of tribe or anything... You also know we are respectful in our tribe, but this your hatred can ruin you. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 12:31pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Hahahahha that bolded is a scam!.. U yorubad decieved people in the past. Which respect do u have. Is prostration respect? Nop.. That's an eyes service respect. I don't need prostration... I don't want eye service respct.. Infact don't prostrate for me stand where u are ur even wear ur cap if u like and greet me I dnt care. Way matters is wen I say something as ur elder or husband just rsprct it.. Dats way respect is. HAHAHAHA YORUBAS ARE RSPECTFUL INDEED YET DAVIDO INSULTS DELE MODOMODU ANYHOW OLAMIDE INSULTED DON JAZZY AND HIS MUM. WIZKID INSULTS EVERYBODY. ABEGII... UR RESPECT IS A SCAM! CHECK EVERY ALL CELEBRITY WEDDING BTN YORUBA WOMEN AND IGBO MEN.. ITS A ONE PRROBERM OR THE OTHER. UR PARENTS NEED TO DO SOMETHING ABOUt UR UPBRINGING ANd STOP TELLING U LIES ABOUT IGBOS... ITS VERY BAD! 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 12:40pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: The way you're telling your children lies about Yoruba, so those examples up there represent the whole of Yoruba race? just take a chil pill these your rant won't stop us from being Yoruba and we're proud of that. Abi na we force your people to come marry us ni? Hell no, so deal with it. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by arabianights: 12:53pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Thank goodness u have no children. How would she bring them up with emotional abuse and am sure physical. WITH OUT WAITING WORDS DRVORCE HER WHAT EVER SHE THREATNS, GO SHEY AND DRVORCE her. Get a lawyer first to analyze her chances of taking your hard earned money as America can be unfair. IF U DON'T DRVORCE HER U WILL MORE THE REGRET IT |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 12:56pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: who is telling who not be proud abt u being yoruba ?.. Hahahha I'm only saying ur parents using hateful upbringing and brainwashing is evil. Any marriage with a yoruba gal is always problem... Even it brother OAP freeze and few others have testified. So deal with that too ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 1:08pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Your parents using hateful upbringing and brainwashing you guys is evil too, you brainwashing your children is also evil BTW, tell your people to stay away from us, it is not a must to associate with us. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 1:11pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Hahahahahaha yoruba hate hearing the truth. Who want associate with u... Rather its ur men u who are dumping ur ugly asses and going for igbo women. Coz them no want trouble ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
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