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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by ariesbull: 1:19pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: They mistake eye service for respect Well ,it depends |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 1:22pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
ariesbull: That's what they use to dicieve people. Yet their mouth is as sharp as razor blade 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 1:23pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Why didn't your women refuse? And the op is a man and a flatee he married a Yoruba woman, you see your life? We are your nightmare, no go hang yourself ooo 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 1:26pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Hahahahahaa typical ugly coneheaded afonja gal See ur black ugly face and broken teeth God forbid me marry afonja gal. I only look for neat ones in unilag take them home bleep them and go my way. U are too uggly to quit me. Ur face can cause me bad luck biko 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 1:43pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Lol, see how you resulted to insult, typical flatee no go die of high blood pressure because of me ooo, I no even see you... Go bleep yourself |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by 1Alex4u: 2:15pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
@auojumoke @nightmare In as much as i appreciate your views....you both are derailing the intent of this thread. Kindly have personal chats on your differences. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 7:03pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Actually sis, the one thing igbos never do is spoil their children minds towards any tribe most especially yoruba. I have no memory of my father or mother sitting us down to talk bad about any tribes or yoruba. That is y so many igbos marry yorubas. If they give dem just small details of wat yorubas did during Biafra War, matter go change. However, it is a known fact that yoruba parents bad mouth igbos to their children and that is y u have that idea in ur head. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 11:39pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Lol this conny afonja gal so u are still quoting me. Lev me alone I don't like afonja gals. Unless wen I feel like bleepin them. And I can't bleep u my dear u are ugly. So bounce!! 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 3:27am On Dec 31, 2016 |
1Alex4u: Hmmmn.... na wah, o! There are too many loopholes in your story. First, how long did you two date before you got married? So now, you admit she had an abusive mouth, but you thought you could change it during marriage? Who do you think you are? Her maker? Or her God? Secondly, didn't you ever speak Igbo with your friends and family in front of her while you were dating? What was her reaction back then? As for religion, you mean that you never attended each other's churches while dating, and you never sat down to hold a full & frank discussion about something as fundamental as your spiritual lives? Chai! Anyway, the long and short of the whole matter was that you saw the handwriting on the wall and just chose to ignore it, and plunge headlong into holy matrimony with the most incompatible woman you could find. Now, you are coming here to lament and cry over spilled milk! Her tribe is NOT the issue here, but her character and inherent values. Even if she was an Igbo woman, you would still have problems with her, because of her character. She would then decide to fight you, because you spoke your dialect to your people in front of her, instead of speaking one that she understands! It can happen if a Wawa man marries an Ebonyi woman, and their dialects are mutually unintelligible! Olanna45: Babe!! Thank you, jare. You just hit the nail on the head. The OP is blaming tribal differences for their problems, as if Igbo couples do not divorce themselves too. I have seen some couples from the same towns or local govt area in Ala Igbo get married, yet their unions got dissolved a few months down the line! Daalu zi! |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 3:39am On Dec 31, 2016 |
ariesbull: Anyone that listens to you, will think that marriages conducted among people from the same tribe do NOT end up in divorce. Using 'tribal identity' as an adhesive to hold a marriage together.... is simply faulty. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 3:41am On Dec 31, 2016 |
Vanessa88: Nah ... from what I have seen, Igbo women are far more aggressive than Yoruba women. That is just my observation. Others may have a different opinion. waternogetememy:Hmmmnn.... let me guess, you conducted a survey on married couples all through the length and breadth of Nigeria, and discovered that inter-tribal marriages are only 5%, kwa? waternogetememy: Haba!! Why you dey fall my hand, nah?? I expected you to say tribe is far more important than love. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 3:46am On Dec 31, 2016 |
DarkRebel101: Wa'sere!! I hereby proclaim this response - the best post of the year!! Here, have a drink on me!! |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 4:03am On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Wow!! Such hatred oozes from your words. Did you try to date a Yoruba girl at any point in time, and she declined? Or were you in a relationship with one before, and she ditched you? Is that what all this is about?? Didn't you read about the part where the OP said his wife has helped him a lot and is responsible for his financial success till today? 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 4:10am On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: Thou shalt not lie! Why are you pretending like this? Igbos do not spoil their children's minds about other tribes, kwa? Ì nwèlù ̣ike ịŋū ̣iyī? Isn't that what you said? I have seen several Igbo parents bad-mouthing people from other ethnic groups. My neighbour told his daughter who was posted to Osun State for NYSC, not to associate with any 'ofe mmanu' boy during her youth corps programme! He went further to say several unprintable things about them. I am waiting for the day he will say something foul about my own minority tribe, so that I can give him a piece of my mind! |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 7:36am On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: I'm sure you cant see me and call me ugly to my face, so that one is a behind the phone talk... Eno hold water but why are you running away from the main topic and attacking me personally? You are such a coward, coward flatee man... Lol,and like your name, we are your nightmare, so deal with it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 7:44am On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: No bro, my parents have never called me to say hateful things about Igbo, but like every other parents from anuther tribe they would prefer someone from their tribe, but hateful comments that I see on this thread is painting a picture a Igbos being terrible and hateful, it won't still sto me from dating and marrying an Igbo guy tho nightmare can go kill himself. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 8:42am On Dec 31, 2016 |
laudate: laudate, igbos have the highest rate of intertribal marriages in Nigeria. This is a known fact. Our parents were alive during the Biafra War but never talk to us about it. Igbos live in all parts of the country and often marry among the people in those parts. Have u tried to go and marry from the HausaFulani? Go and try it first. Secondly, read the bolded, she is yoruba O Ayoolajumoke: @ laudate That does not make ur neighbour a bad person. If a Deji of Akure can ban a people(igbos) from electing their representative in Ondo and Oba of Lagos threaten them with Lagoon during a free and fair election, then wat are u talking about? The man merely cautioned his daughter based on the rampant inter-tribal marriages between mostly yoruba men and Igbo women. It is everywhere and a new trend. Or do u think everybody have not noticed. Like i said go and try to marry from the HausaFulani first, or even marry a yoruba girl and tell me about it. Go to twitter and see the hard time Cuppy is getting from yoruba Demons becos of Anichebe. This comment received the most like on nairaland, simply becos she said something about marrying the guy. Zoharariel(m): 9:25am On Dec 13 Go on this thread and see your same yoruba men that brag about marrying igbo women react to Cuppy confirming dating Anichebe. https://www.nairaland.com/3539848/dj-cuppy-talks-victor-anichebe They are happy to display igbo women as trophy from their conquest of the Igbos but want to die wen igbo men display interest in yoruba women. At the end of the day, no matter wat the igbos do, u anti-igbo will never appreciate and will continue to hate igbos as u have always done. This is one of the reasons IPOB exist, to end it once and for all by everybody going their own way. 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 9:31am On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Jahahahaaahhahaa afonja my nightmare?. U don't drink agbo as usual . I have advised op on d topic so I'm done with him. Now its time to deal with u ugly cony gal Afonjas canon be my nightmare and will Neva be... Days why I stay in ur land and bleep ya gals Not ugly ones like u anyway. I still come here n mess u up.. Yorubad gal! 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Nobody: 9:38am On Dec 31, 2016 |
1Alex4u:Marry Igbo woman you no gree, you go marry Afonja, deal with it then. This is why am not in support of intertribal marriage. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 9:39am On Dec 31, 2016 |
laudate: Its not about helping him financially...its about insulting him. And not respecting him. Ur gals are very insulting that's why even Yoruba men run away from them and go for Edo and igbo or delta women.. Even OAP freeze ur brother confirmed it. And mind u... I don't dat Yoruba women and will Neva. I just bleep them and go my way wen I feel like... I DONT WANT A SITUATION WHERE A GAL WILL INSULT ME COZ I WILL BEAT YHE HELL OUT OF HER... SO ITs BETTER I AVIOD IT. YORUBA WOMEN ARE BAD MARKET EVEN YORUBA MEN KNOWS THAT 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 9:43am On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: Are u serious?... This people are devils.Abeg post me the twitter link. Make I read comments Make I read |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 12:02pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: And when our guys use and dump your girls you'd all come here and scream Yoruba demons, you are not better at the game and you know it. Like I said, you can't see me and call me ugly, just be behind your computer and type that, it is allowed. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 12:35pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Hahahahah see this ant ;DD. Treathnin me. Yoruba women are bad market even ur men knows. That's why they ignore ur ugly dirty asses and run after igbo and Edo. Yoruba gals smell remove undies. From My past experience i now go for those ones in unilag at least they ar bit better even though most of them dnt shave n still smell down there. I'm sure u will stink down there too. Ur face is dirty not to talk of ur vj Oops I forget I even have some of their dirty nud* pics in my fone. Mail me and I will show how pic of how dirty u gals are. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 12:51pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Mail you? Maka why? You must also be so dirty and razz to have been with those people. I pity your wife. But still assuring you na Yoruba matter go kill you. When our men use and dump your girls don't come here to scream Yoruba demons |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 12:56pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Hahahhaha me razz?. When ur afonja sisters see my light skin and cute face they start droolin And start tripping like mumu I'm talking abt classy gals in unilag Not some dirty lookin cheap cone head.. With a dirty black face and broken teeth. I can see u are in pain already. As far in concerned Afonja gals are sex material not marriage or datin material ;DD So I bleep them and go my way. Even ur men know u are bad market. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 1:03pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Lol, since you masturbate with the nudes on your phone, it'd be better if I leave you to cum but not with me here tho.... You totally left the topic for me, choi Yoruba girls don do you strong thing and they've spoilt your life beyond amendment. And then you'd type epistle just to reply me. Haba, I didn't even see your first paragraph before, pls give me dark skinned Yoruba man anytime, your girls can't even afford to loose them. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 1:25pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 1:27pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Hahahahahahaha same old story.. No real igbo with real igbo blood can agree to go for an afonja. Afojas are real pretenders But in real life its different scenario Yoruba gals online pretend .. But offline they want choke in my damn yellow PR*ck Hahahahhahha.. I can feel ur pain trust me. But I'm prepared and out here to make ur life more miserable than it is. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 1:30pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: If not that you obviously have a miserable life, a self acclaimed married man like you won't be here barking like a dog and no, I am not pained, so far I am still lashing your flat head. Trust me, a light skined guy is a no for me, give me my dark skinned Yoruba man any day. Ask lots of girls on here and see their responses |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 1:41pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Hahahahahahah who said I'm married. Where did I state that..... Afonja gals are not just ugly and whores they are also dumb... Where the Bleep did I say I'm married I mean u only need a work in pr!k to bed afonja gal. I'm talking about what is happening in real life and u are here talking abt asking people online. Same online u afonjas use to tell all lies and propanga?.. Immtalkin abt real life . from Bunmi Tope Funmilayo Damilola. In fact I'm still bleepin bunmi till tomorrow. Pls Deal with that.... Miss afonja |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 1:47pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: I have woken an injured dog, see how frustrated you are sounding to be, choi. Keep on bleeping them, your flatee will still be part of those that would marry them, and an afonja might even be bleeping your future wife as at now, and finally keep her heart shattered for you to come pack the remaining... Lmao |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 1:55pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Haahahahahahaha.... I'm sorry but No real son of the soil will marry afonja gal... Ur men are running away from u afonja gals so why would a sensible igbo man marry what people are rejectin. AFONJA WOMEN ARE BAD MARKET! BTW my gal despise anything afonja even her parents are against afonja.... So no afonja man can get close. |
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