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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 2:00pm On Dec 31, 2016
NIGHTMAREOO7:


Haahahahahahaha.... I'm sorry but No real son of the soil will marry afonja gal...
Ur men are running away from u afonja gals so why would a sensible igbo man marry what people are rejectin.

AFONJA WOMEN ARE BAD MARKET!
BTW my gal despise anything afonja even her parents are against afonja....
So no afonja man can get close. tongue

So those flatees that married Yoruba ladies seize to be flatees because of that? Op nko? All those example that you gave me before nko? I just dey laugh you and as for your girl, be there forming "against" a Yoruba guy is definitely bleeping her, when you find out don't commite suicide o.

No one wants to marry afonja and they are getting married at very young ages and your men are part of those getting married to them, if your women no reach 32 dem no go move...lmao
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 2:11pm On Dec 31, 2016
Omo, yoruba women mouth ehnn... shocked Op(1Alex4u) i can see wat u are talking about here. chai! shocked


Even NIGHTMAREOO7 can not get the last word here. grin This must be wat ur marriage will look like. cheesy

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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 2:33pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ayoolajumoke:


So those flatees that married Yoruba ladies seize to be flatees because of that? Op nko? All those example that you gave me before nko? I just dey laugh you and as for your girl, be there forming "against" a Yoruba guy is definitely bleeping her, when you find out don't commite suicide o.

No one wants to marry afonja and they are getting married at very young ages and your men are part of those getting married to them, if your women no reach 32 dem no go move...lmao

Hahahaha like I said before NO SENSIBLE IGBO MAN WILL MARRY AFONJA GIRL.
no body wants unfaithful marriage biko grin ;DD
Afinja gals can bleep for Africa u just need a working dik to bed afonga girl whether married or not I'm a living testimony grin.. Igbo men value marriage and we don't want afonja women to stain linage with juju.. Infidelity and insult they have in their blood

MY GAL IS ANTI AFONJA....
u think I'll be silly to pick a short like u as galfrend.....hahahahahhaha.

sorry miss AFONJA cheesy
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 2:40pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ayoolajumoke:


I have woken an injured dog, see how frustrated you are sounding to be, choi. Keep on bleeping them, your flatee will still be part of those that would marry them, and an afonja might even be bleeping your future wife as at now, and finally keep her heart shattered for you to come pack the remaining... Lmao


hahahahahahahahahaha! Jumoke is on fire, na who do u dis ting? grin

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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 2:41pm On Dec 31, 2016
NIGHTMAREOO7:


Hahahaha like I said before NO SENSIBLE IGBO MAN WILL MARRY AFONJA GIRL.
no body wants unfaithful marriage biko grin ;DD
Afinja gals can bleep for Africa u just need a working dik to bed afonga girl whether married or not I'm a living testimony grin.. Igbo men value marriage and we don't want afonja women to stain linage with juju.. Infidelity and insult they have in their blood

MY GAL IS ANTI AFONJA....
u think I'll be silly to pick a short like u as galfrend.....hahahahahhaha.

sorry miss AFONJA cheesy

Lol, that means most of you are senseless niyen, I thought as much, senseless flatees, lol
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 2:44pm On Dec 31, 2016
hammerT:



hahahahahahahahahaha! Jumoke is on fire, na who do u dis ting? grin

Haba, it might actually be true na, he'd be here ranting and his girlfriend is enjoying a yoruba man and what do you mean by the bolded?
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 2:47pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ayoolajumoke:


Haba, it might actually be true na, he'd be here ranting and his girlfriend is enjoying a yoruba man and what do you mean by the bolded?


Me, i dont trust igbo women, that wan na just delusion grandiose. All i need is a pretty mami and am good to go. cool
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 2:48pm On Dec 31, 2016
hammerT:
Omo, yoruba women mouth ehnn... shocked Op(1Alex4u) i can see wat u are talking about here. chai! shocked


Even NIGHTMAREOO7 can not get the last word here. grin This must be wat ur marriage will look like. cheesy

You wan join nightmare too abi? Was he not the one who started the insult first? When a man can abuse like him I wonder what your ladies would do.
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 2:51pm On Dec 31, 2016
hammerT:



Me, i dont trust igbo women, that wan na just delusion grandiose. All i need is a pretty mami and am good to go. cool

Lol, you too cant marry a Yoruba lady na, God will provide your yiboo lady for you.

Nightmareoo7 come and read his first statement, but no enter comma o.
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 2:51pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ayoolajumoke:


You wan join nightmare too abi? Was he not the one who started the insult first? When a man can abuse like him I wonder what your ladies would do.

how e go be, if two guys start to dey exchange word with one gal? No, u guys are having an exchange on equal terms as equals. Couples do exchange words!

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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 3:06pm On Dec 31, 2016
NIGHTMAREOO7:
Its not about helping him financially...its about insulting him. And not respecting him.
Ur gals are very insulting that's why even Yoruba men run away from them and go for Edo and igbo or delta women.. Even OAP freeze ur brother confirmed it.

And mind u... I don't dat Yoruba women and will Neva. I just bleep them and go my way wen I feel like... I DONT WANT A SITUATION WHERE A GAL WILL INSULT ME COZ I WILL BEAT YHE HELL OUT OF HER... SO ITs BETTER I AVIOD IT.
YORUBA WOMEN ARE BAD MARKET EVEN YORUBA MEN KNOWS THAT

You have jumped to conclusions without even bothering to address the fact. Where in my post did I ever say I was Yoruba? shocked I only made a comment, because I have lived in Lagos most of my life, and I have Yoruba friends, acquaintances etc. I even have relatives married to Yoruba women, and these women are really respectful and supportive of their husbands. undecided

A woman having a bad character or insulting her husband has really little to do with her tribe, and everything to do with her character. Heck, I have seen quite a number of Igbo women insult their husbands too whenever they fight, but should I conclude that all Igbo women are like that? shocked no. Let go of your tribal hatred bro'. Am sure if a Yoruba man offered you money, you would take it. So stop the posturing, abeg. Good, bad and ugly people, exist in all tribes.
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 3:16pm On Dec 31, 2016
hammerT:
laudate, igbos have the highest rate of intertribal marriages in Nigeria. This is a known fact.

Our parents were alive during the Biafra War but never talk to us about it. Igbos live in all parts of the country and often marry among the people in those parts.

Have u tried to go and marry from the HausaFulani? Go and try it first.

Secondly, read the bolded, she is yoruba O

Again, I ask you - did you conduct a survey to ascertain that Igbos have the highest rate of inter-tribal marriage? So why are you passing off conjecture and hearsay as fact? From Anambra, to Imo, Abia, Ebonyi etc, did you conduct a census to determine the number of Igbo people married to non-Igbo, and then use this to plot a graph as part of your demographic studies on other tribes?

Hausa-Fulani marriages or tribes are NOT the subject of this topic, so please do not derail the thread.

hammerT:
@ laudate That does not make ur neighbour a bad person. If a Deji of Akure can ban a people(igbos) from electing their representative in Ondo and Oba of Lagos threaten them with Lagoon during a free and fair election, then wat are u talking about?

The man merely cautioned his daughter based on the rampant inter-tribal marriages between mostly yoruba men and Igbo women. It is everywhere and a new trend.

Or do u think everybody have not noticed. Like i said go and try to marry from the HausaFulani first, or even marry a yoruba girl and tell me about it. Go to twitter and see the hard time Cuppy is getting from yoruba Demons becos of Anichebe.

This comment received the most like on nairaland, simply becos she said something about marrying the guy.

Go on this thread and see your same yoruba men that brag about marrying igbo women react to Cuppy confirming dating Anichebe.
https://www.nairaland.com/3539848/dj-cuppy-talks-victor-anichebe

They are happy to display igbo women as trophy from their conquest of the Igbos but want to die wen igbo men display interest in yoruba women.

At the end of the day, no matter wat the igbos do, u anti-igbo will never appreciate and will continue to hate igbos as u have always done.

This is one of the reasons IPOB exist, to end it once and for all by everybody going their own way.

Again, you are jumping to half-baked conclusions and rambling about things that are not even connected. The Eze Nd'Igbo in Akure committed a grievous offence and flouted traditional laws in Akure with impunity, and refused to show remorse when called to order. So he was sanctioned. I may not approve of the methods used, but flouting a traditional ruler's orders has its own consequences.

As for the Oba of Lagos' directive, over 37 of your Eze Nd'Igbo chiefs in lagos and other high-ranking Igbo were in attendance when the Oba made that speech. Did your people who were there express any displeasure or did they refute his statements? No!! They clapped for him and promised to do his bidding. So please do not take these two incidents in isolation and use it to judge other Yoruba people about their interaction with the Igbo.

Secondly, DJ Cuppy's actions will always attract comment - whether good, bad or ugly. Those passing those comments do not speak for the entire Yoruba group, just as your own comments do not represent the views of all Nd'Igbo people. Hope that clarifies the issue.
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:23pm On Dec 31, 2016
laudate:


You have jumped to conclusions without even bothering to address the fact. Where in my post did I ever say I was Yoruba? shocked I only made a comment, because I have lived in Lagos most of my life, and I have Yoruba friends, acquaintances etc. I even have relatives married to Yoruba women, and these women are really respectful and supportive of their husbands. undecided

A woman having a bad character or insulting her husband has really little to do with her tribe, and everything to do with her character. Heck, I have seen quite a number of Igbo women insult their husbands too whenever they fight, but should I conclude that all Igbo women are like that? shocked no. Let go of your tribal hatred bro'. Am sure if a Yoruba man offered you money, you would take it. So stop the posturing, abeg. Good, bad and ugly people, exist in all tribes.

Yes good and bad people exist everywhere just dat some people have more of them then others
Bliv it or not.
And I'm sure ur relatives married to yoruba women are not Igbo's......
So where are u from
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:26pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ayoolajumoke:


Lol, that means most of you are senseless niyen, I thought as much, senseless flatees, lol

Miss afonja grin
U said A LOT OF US.. ; grin
can u just leave ur normal afonjaric lied and tell ur self there truth.

How many igbo men a married to afonja ladies.
LIKE I SAID BEFOR..... NO SENSIBLE IGBO MAN CAN MARRY AFONJA.... EVEN UR MEN ARR REJECTING U....
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 3:28pm On Dec 31, 2016
laudate:


Again, I ask you - did you conduct a survey to ascertain that Igbos have the highest rate of inter-tribal marriage? So why are you passing off conjecture and hearsay as fact? From Anambra, to Imo, Abia, Ebonyi etc, did you conduct a census to determine the number of igbo people married to non-Igbo, and then use this to plot a graph as part of your demographic studies on other tribes?

Hausa-Fulani marriages or tribes are NOT the subject of this topic, so please do not derail the thread.



Again, you are jumping to half-baked conclusions and rambling about things that are not even connected. The Eze Nd'Igbo in Akure committed a grievous offence and flouted traditional laws in Akure with impunity, and refused to show remorse when called to order. So he was sanctioned. I may not approve of the methods used, but flouting a traditional ruler's orders has its own consequences.

As for the Oba of Lagos' directive, over 37 of your Eze Nd'Igbo chiefs in lagos and other high-ranking Igbo were in attendance when the Oba made that speech. Did your people who were there express any displeasure or did they refute his statements? No!! They clapped for him and promised to do his bidding. So please do not take these two incidents in isolation and use it to judge other Yoruba people about their interaction with the Igbo.

Secondly, DJ Cuppy's actions will always attract comment - whether good, bad or ugly. Those passing those comments do not speak for the entire Yoruba group, just as your own comments do not represent the views of all Nd'Igbo people. hope that clarifies the issue.



Is Nigeria a Monarchy or a Federation?

U contradict urself alot.

On one hand u say an elected representative "in Akure committed a grievous offence and flouted traditional laws in Akure with impunity, and refused to show remorse when called to order. So he was sanctioned."

Then on the other hand u say, "Eze Nd'Igbo[/i] chiefs in lagos and other high-ranking Igbo were in attendance when the Oba made that speech. Did your people who were there express any displeasure or did they refute his statements? No!! They clapped for him and promised to do his bidding."


U must be the man that drew this cartoon.

Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:31pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ayoolajumoke:


Lol, you too cant marry a Yoruba lady na, God will provide your yiboo lady for you.

Nightmareoo7 come and read his first statement, but no enter comma o.

He's just trying to massage it ego cheesy ;DD
If he is igbo ask him if he is datinh a yoruba gal currently and hr will tell u NO... ;DD

Any igbo guy dating a yoruba gal just know that they are friends with benefits.
It is 95% sure that hr don't marry her...
Which u know very well!
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:31pm On Dec 31, 2016
NIGHTMAREOO7:


Miss afonja grin
U said A LOT OF US.. ; grin
can u just leave ur normal afonjaric lied and tell ur self there truth.

How many igbo men a married to afonja ladies.
LIKE I SAID BEFOR..... NO SENSIBLE IGBO MAN CAN MARRY AFONJA.... EVEN UR MEN ARR REJECTING U....

Exactly what I'm saying, they are rejecting us and we even marry early, your girls that they don't reject will be praying for marriage at 32, I saw a post this morning about a flatee girl that said husband should come by 2017 or she snatch someone else's husband grin oya clap for yourself, senseless yiboo "according to you"

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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ngozi123(f): 3:33pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ayoolajumoke:


So those flatees that married Yoruba ladies seize to be flatees because of that? Op nko? All those example that you gave me before nko? I just dey laugh you and as for your girl, be there forming "against" a Yoruba guy is definitely bleeping her, when you find out don't commite suicide o.

No one wants to marry afonja and they are getting married at very young ages and your men are part of those getting married to them, if your women no reach 32 dem no go move...lmao

I wasn't going to get involved as I don't care about your petty quarrel with nightmare007 but why have you resorted to insulting Igbo women when no Igbo woman here has insulted you or Yoruba women in general? Keep your argument to yourself and leave Igbo women out of this.
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:35pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ayoolajumoke:


Exactly what I'm saying, they are rejecting us and we even marry early, your girls that they don't reject will be praying for marriage at 32, I saw a post this morning about a flatee girl that said husband should come by 2017 or she snatch someone else's husband grin oya clap for yourself, senseless yiboo "according to you"

MISS AFONJA....
Hahahahahahhaha here comes afonjaric lies
Which early are u marrying ?..

Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:35pm On Dec 31, 2016
NIGHTMAREOO7:


He's just trying to massage it ego cheesy ;DD
If he is igbo ask him if he is datinh a yoruba gal currently and hr will tell u NO... ;DD

Any igbo guy dating a yoruba gal just know that they are friends with benefits.
It is 95% sure that hr don't marry her...
Which u know very well!

Oshey 95% grin shebi you were the one who conducted the research, like op was friend with benefit to "his wife" grin I derive pleasure in making fun of you.
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 3:36pm On Dec 31, 2016
hammerT:
Is Nigeria a Monarchy or a Federation?

U contradict urself a lot.

On one had u say an elected representative "in Akure committed a grievous offence and flouted traditional laws in Akure with impunity, and refused to show remorse when called to order."

Then on the other hand u say, "Eze Nd'Igbo[/i] chiefs in lagos and other high-ranking Igbo were in attendance when the Oba made that speech. Did your people who were there express any displeasure or did they refute his statements? No!! They clapped for him and promised to do his bidding."

U must be the man that drew this cartoon.

Nah... you know quite well that I did not draw any cartoon, because I do not need one to express myself. And there are no contradictions whatsoever in my post. It is just that you have chosen to read them with a biased mind. undecided

If you break the laws of any land, whether they are communal laws or traditional ones, there are consequences. Simple. sad That was what happened in the Akure case. Instead of you to find out where the Eze Nd'Igbo of Akure erred, you chaps keep blaming those who meted out the punishment for his offence. There are thousands of Igbo people living in Akure and abiding by the laws of the land. How many of them have been flogged, since creation of that state till date?

Is it not true that your Eze Nd'Igbo chiefs were present at the palace of the Oba of Lagos when he made those remarks about the lagoon during the election? Did they protest or refute his comments? No! sad So why are you all blaming the Oba without blaming your own people who were busy clapping and cheering him on, when he made those comments??! shocked
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:37pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ngozi123:


I wasn't going to get involved as I don't care about your petty quarrel with nightmare007 but why have you resorted to insulting Igbo women when no Igbo woman here has insulted you or Yoruba women in general? Keep your argument to yourself and leave Igbo women out of this.

Stay out of this madam. Thank you.

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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:39pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ayoolajumoke:


Oshey 95% grin shebi you were the one who conducted the research, like op was friend with benefit to "his wife" grin I derive pleasure in making fun of you.

Hahaha kpele miss afonja.
I derive joy whipping ur afonja ass.
How many igbo men doare married to afonja women I ask u again grin cheesy
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ngozi123(f): 3:41pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ayoolajumoke:


Stay out of this madam. Thank you.

Will you stop denigrating Igbo women? I don't insult Yoruba women and I consider them my sisters so I'd prefer it if they had the decency to do the same. Thanks in advance. smiley
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:42pm On Dec 31, 2016
NIGHTMAREOO7:


Hahaha kpele miss afonja.
I derive joy whipping ur afonja ass.
How many igbo men doare married to afonja women I ask u again grin cheesy

Go back to those examples that you made and answer yourself, those were even few of them, see the comments of people here too... Just for a start.
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:44pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ayoolajumoke:


Go back to those examples that you made and answer yourself, those were even few of them, see the comments of people here too... Just for a start.

Comments I made about 4 people?
So how many do u know...
Set aside ur afonja lies.
And say the truth...

How many igbo men married afonja ladies.
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:45pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ngozi123:


Will you stop denigrating Igbo women? I don't insult Yoruba women and I consider them my sisters so I'd prefer it if they had the decency to do the same. Thanks in advance. smiley

What we are saying is related to Igbo women, so far we are talking about Igbo/Yoruba I'm gonna mention them, thanks for understanding.

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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 3:46pm On Dec 31, 2016
laudate:


Nah... you know quite well that I did not draw any cartoon, because I do not need one to express myself. And there are no contradictions whatsoever in my post. It is just that you have chosen to read them with a biased mind. undecided

If you break the laws of any land, whether they are communal laws or traditional ones, there are consequences. Simple. That was what happened in the Akure case. instead of you to find out where the Eze Nd'Igbo of Akure erred, you chaps keep blaming those who meted out the punishment for his offence. There are thousands of Igbo people living in Akure and abiding by the laws of the land. How many of them have been flogged, since creation of that state till date?

Is is not true that your Eze Nd'Igbo chiefs were present at the palace of the Oba of Lagos when he made those remarks about the lagoon during the election? Did they protest or refute his comments? No! sad So why are you all blaming the Oba without blaming your own people who were busy clapping and cheering him on, when he made those comments??! shocked


All I have to say to u is that igbos are not weak.

We can never be that way that u want or imagine.

Deji of Akure does not have any constitutional power or right to interfere with distinct communities living in Akure by Law both constitutional, civil and criminal law.

Customary law are only binding on members of that custom not Nigerians living within that domain and for that we have customary court not the Deji Palace.

U know this.
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:47pm On Dec 31, 2016
NIGHTMAREOO7:


Comments I made about 4 people?
So how many do u know...
Set aside ur afonja lies.
And say the truth...

How many igbo men married afonja ladies.

See question oo, a rhethorical one I guess, how am I supposed to know the number of yiboo guys that married Yoruba?
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 3:49pm On Dec 31, 2016
hammerT:
All I have to say to u is that igbos are not weak.

We can never be that way that u want or imagine.

Deji of Akure does not have any constitutional power or right to interfere with distinct communities living in Akure by Law.

Customary law are only binding on members of that custom not Nigerians living within that domain.

U know this.

Point of correction. sad The Deji of Akure did not interfere with distinct communities living in his domain. Punishment was only meted out to one man who flouted his traditional laws with impunity, and refused to make amends. undecided
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:50pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ayoolajumoke:


See question oo, a rhethorical one I guess, how am I supposed to know the number of yiboo guys that married Yoruba?

Do u comprehend simple grammar at all? undecided
Did I ask u to mention total number of igbos married to afonja.

I only asked how many do u know.?
U know too well that I'm saying the truth that's why u are shying away from the question.

Just shy away from ur afonja lies and say d truth.
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 3:54pm On Dec 31, 2016
laudate:


Point of correction. sad The Deji of Akure did not interfere with distinct communities living in his domain. Punishment was only meted out to one man who flouted his traditional laws with impunity, and refused to make amends. undecided

Under wat juristiction and powers recognised by the Nigerian constitutional law, criminal law, civil law, religious law or customary law.


The Deji acted with criminal intent and commited battery on a community representative that he had invited to his palace.

This is similar to the Lagos Oba inviting community leaders to his palace only to threaten their lives.

The only example i can point to internationally is the invitation given to the Russian Ambassador in Turkey, only for a Turkish police officer to shoot him in the back screaming like a coward.


U dont invite people on diplomatic mission and then sieze the opportunity that they are ill prepared and unarmed to attack and inflict injury on them.


That is cowardly.

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