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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 2:00pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: So those flatees that married Yoruba ladies seize to be flatees because of that? Op nko? All those example that you gave me before nko? I just dey laugh you and as for your girl, be there forming "against" a Yoruba guy is definitely bleeping her, when you find out don't commite suicide o. No one wants to marry afonja and they are getting married at very young ages and your men are part of those getting married to them, if your women no reach 32 dem no go move...lmao |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 2:11pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Omo, yoruba women mouth ehnn... Op(1Alex4u) i can see wat u are talking about here. chai! Even NIGHTMAREOO7 can not get the last word here. This must be wat ur marriage will look like. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 2:33pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Hahahaha like I said before NO SENSIBLE IGBO MAN WILL MARRY AFONJA GIRL. no body wants unfaithful marriage biko ;DD Afinja gals can bleep for Africa u just need a working dik to bed afonga girl whether married or not I'm a living testimony .. Igbo men value marriage and we don't want afonja women to stain linage with juju.. Infidelity and insult they have in their blood MY GAL IS ANTI AFONJA.... u think I'll be silly to pick a short like u as galfrend.....hahahahahhaha. sorry miss AFONJA |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 2:40pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: hahahahahahahahahaha! Jumoke is on fire, na who do u dis ting? 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 2:41pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Lol, that means most of you are senseless niyen, I thought as much, senseless flatees, lol |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 2:44pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: Haba, it might actually be true na, he'd be here ranting and his girlfriend is enjoying a yoruba man and what do you mean by the bolded? |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 2:47pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Me, i dont trust igbo women, that wan na just delusion grandiose. All i need is a pretty mami and am good to go. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 2:48pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: You wan join nightmare too abi? Was he not the one who started the insult first? When a man can abuse like him I wonder what your ladies would do. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 2:51pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: Lol, you too cant marry a Yoruba lady na, God will provide your yiboo lady for you. Nightmareoo7 come and read his first statement, but no enter comma o. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 2:51pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: how e go be, if two guys start to dey exchange word with one gal? No, u guys are having an exchange on equal terms as equals. Couples do exchange words! 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 3:06pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: You have jumped to conclusions without even bothering to address the fact. Where in my post did I ever say I was Yoruba? I only made a comment, because I have lived in Lagos most of my life, and I have Yoruba friends, acquaintances etc. I even have relatives married to Yoruba women, and these women are really respectful and supportive of their husbands. A woman having a bad character or insulting her husband has really little to do with her tribe, and everything to do with her character. Heck, I have seen quite a number of Igbo women insult their husbands too whenever they fight, but should I conclude that all Igbo women are like that? no. Let go of your tribal hatred bro'. Am sure if a Yoruba man offered you money, you would take it. So stop the posturing, abeg. Good, bad and ugly people, exist in all tribes. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 3:16pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: Again, I ask you - did you conduct a survey to ascertain that Igbos have the highest rate of inter-tribal marriage? So why are you passing off conjecture and hearsay as fact? From Anambra, to Imo, Abia, Ebonyi etc, did you conduct a census to determine the number of Igbo people married to non-Igbo, and then use this to plot a graph as part of your demographic studies on other tribes? Hausa-Fulani marriages or tribes are NOT the subject of this topic, so please do not derail the thread. hammerT: Again, you are jumping to half-baked conclusions and rambling about things that are not even connected. The Eze Nd'Igbo in Akure committed a grievous offence and flouted traditional laws in Akure with impunity, and refused to show remorse when called to order. So he was sanctioned. I may not approve of the methods used, but flouting a traditional ruler's orders has its own consequences. As for the Oba of Lagos' directive, over 37 of your Eze Nd'Igbo chiefs in lagos and other high-ranking Igbo were in attendance when the Oba made that speech. Did your people who were there express any displeasure or did they refute his statements? No!! They clapped for him and promised to do his bidding. So please do not take these two incidents in isolation and use it to judge other Yoruba people about their interaction with the Igbo. Secondly, DJ Cuppy's actions will always attract comment - whether good, bad or ugly. Those passing those comments do not speak for the entire Yoruba group, just as your own comments do not represent the views of all Nd'Igbo people. Hope that clarifies the issue. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:23pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
laudate: Yes good and bad people exist everywhere just dat some people have more of them then others Bliv it or not. And I'm sure ur relatives married to yoruba women are not Igbo's...... So where are u from |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:26pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Miss afonja U said A LOT OF US.. ; can u just leave ur normal afonjaric lied and tell ur self there truth. How many igbo men a married to afonja ladies. LIKE I SAID BEFOR..... NO SENSIBLE IGBO MAN CAN MARRY AFONJA.... EVEN UR MEN ARR REJECTING U.... |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 3:28pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
laudate: Is Nigeria a Monarchy or a Federation? U contradict urself alot. On one hand u say an elected representative "in Akure committed a grievous offence and flouted traditional laws in Akure with impunity, and refused to show remorse when called to order. So he was sanctioned." Then on the other hand u say, "Eze Nd'Igbo[/i] chiefs in lagos and other high-ranking Igbo were in attendance when the Oba made that speech. Did your people who were there express any displeasure or did they refute his statements? No!! They clapped for him and promised to do his bidding." U must be the man that drew this cartoon.
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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:31pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: He's just trying to massage it ego ;DD If he is igbo ask him if he is datinh a yoruba gal currently and hr will tell u NO... ;DD Any igbo guy dating a yoruba gal just know that they are friends with benefits. It is 95% sure that hr don't marry her... Which u know very well! |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:31pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Exactly what I'm saying, they are rejecting us and we even marry early, your girls that they don't reject will be praying for marriage at 32, I saw a post this morning about a flatee girl that said husband should come by 2017 or she snatch someone else's husband oya clap for yourself, senseless yiboo "according to you" 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ngozi123(f): 3:33pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: I wasn't going to get involved as I don't care about your petty quarrel with nightmare007 but why have you resorted to insulting Igbo women when no Igbo woman here has insulted you or Yoruba women in general? Keep your argument to yourself and leave Igbo women out of this. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:35pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: MISS AFONJA.... Hahahahahahhaha here comes afonjaric lies Which early are u marrying ?..
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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:35pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Oshey 95% shebi you were the one who conducted the research, like op was friend with benefit to "his wife" I derive pleasure in making fun of you. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 3:36pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: Nah... you know quite well that I did not draw any cartoon, because I do not need one to express myself. And there are no contradictions whatsoever in my post. It is just that you have chosen to read them with a biased mind. If you break the laws of any land, whether they are communal laws or traditional ones, there are consequences. Simple. That was what happened in the Akure case. Instead of you to find out where the Eze Nd'Igbo of Akure erred, you chaps keep blaming those who meted out the punishment for his offence. There are thousands of Igbo people living in Akure and abiding by the laws of the land. How many of them have been flogged, since creation of that state till date? Is it not true that your Eze Nd'Igbo chiefs were present at the palace of the Oba of Lagos when he made those remarks about the lagoon during the election? Did they protest or refute his comments? No! So why are you all blaming the Oba without blaming your own people who were busy clapping and cheering him on, when he made those comments??! |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:37pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ngozi123: Stay out of this madam. Thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:39pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Hahaha kpele miss afonja. I derive joy whipping ur afonja ass. How many igbo men doare married to afonja women I ask u again |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ngozi123(f): 3:41pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Will you stop denigrating Igbo women? I don't insult Yoruba women and I consider them my sisters so I'd prefer it if they had the decency to do the same. Thanks in advance. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:42pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Go back to those examples that you made and answer yourself, those were even few of them, see the comments of people here too... Just for a start. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:44pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Comments I made about 4 people? So how many do u know... Set aside ur afonja lies. And say the truth... How many igbo men married afonja ladies. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:45pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ngozi123: What we are saying is related to Igbo women, so far we are talking about Igbo/Yoruba I'm gonna mention them, thanks for understanding. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 3:46pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
laudate: All I have to say to u is that igbos are not weak. We can never be that way that u want or imagine. Deji of Akure does not have any constitutional power or right to interfere with distinct communities living in Akure by Law both constitutional, civil and criminal law. Customary law are only binding on members of that custom not Nigerians living within that domain and for that we have customary court not the Deji Palace. U know this. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:47pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: See question oo, a rhethorical one I guess, how am I supposed to know the number of yiboo guys that married Yoruba? |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 3:49pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: Point of correction. The Deji of Akure did not interfere with distinct communities living in his domain. Punishment was only meted out to one man who flouted his traditional laws with impunity, and refused to make amends. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:50pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Do u comprehend simple grammar at all? Did I ask u to mention total number of igbos married to afonja. I only asked how many do u know.? U know too well that I'm saying the truth that's why u are shying away from the question. Just shy away from ur afonja lies and say d truth. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 3:54pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
laudate: Under wat juristiction and powers recognised by the Nigerian constitutional law, criminal law, civil law, religious law or customary law. The Deji acted with criminal intent and commited battery on a community representative that he had invited to his palace. This is similar to the Lagos Oba inviting community leaders to his palace only to threaten their lives. The only example i can point to internationally is the invitation given to the Russian Ambassador in Turkey, only for a Turkish police officer to shoot him in the back screaming like a coward. U dont invite people on diplomatic mission and then sieze the opportunity that they are ill prepared and unarmed to attack and inflict injury on them. That is cowardly. |
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