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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:54pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Read the bolded and realize how hard English is for you. I know not less 8 couples... One is Mr and mrs Eze |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ngozi123(f): 3:55pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: You seem obtuse so I'll refrain from mentioning you any more. There was no need for you to call out Igbo women as no Igbo woman came here to insult you and/or Yoruba women in general and I'm sure that you're quite aware of that. The fact that you did highlights your inferiority complex quite clearly . I don't want to go into it as it's pretty conspicuous and there is no argument to be had here. Goodbye. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:56pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Hahaha ur brain can't phatom typo error wen u see one. So Mr and Mrs eze from where Even ur conscience know u are lying |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:59pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ngozi123: Lmao @ the bolded... I love my Igbo ladies too trust me. But he is focusing on Yoruba ladies so we have to be on the same page, hope you get? Btw, I can't remember insulting Igbo ladies. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 4:01pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: So my brain is now a mind reader clap for yourself, lie to yourself that you've not seen a flatee marry a Yoruba lady, I am not talking about celebrities now |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 4:02pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: You have deliberately chosen to ignore the truth, because of your biased mind. In every country there are state laws and communal laws. In many places, there are customary laws and other regulations used to nurture and maintain cultural relations, communal peace and proper conduct. Please do some research. Again, kindly go back and read about what transpired in the palace of the Oba of Lagos, when he invited the community leaders to meet with him during the 2015 elections. He did not attack or inflict injury on them, so your attempt to cast his actions in the mold of what the Turkish police officer did to the late Russian Ambassador is misleading, deceitful and totally untenable. From the reports that were made available about the meeting, 37 other Eze Nd'Igbo chiefs were present when the Oba of Lagos made his speech. Did they report that he attacked them or inflicted injury on them, like you implied? No! Instead, they clapped for the Oba and eagerly promised to do his bidding after he gave his speech about the lagoon. Now why are you still belly-aching over this matter? |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 4:06pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
@hammerT: Please do your research now, before you start talking like this. Oya, read the article posted here. The whole report was published by ThisDay Newspapers. Vote for Ambode or Perish Inside the Lagoon, Oba akiolu Tells Igbos | ThisDay Newspapers | April 6th 2015 | Hope you can see the reaction of your Ezes that were in attendance when the Oba made his threat. None of them objected to his remarks or even expressed any displeasure at what he said, o! Here is another view of the same incident: Oba Akiolu’s statement was jocularly to his Igbo friendsOba Akiolu’s ‘Death Threat’ Against Igbos Was An Honest Joke – Atueyi’ ON APRIL 10, 2015 | 3:44 AM |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 4:07pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: U still have not answered my question becoz u know u can't answer it. Yes I'm. Not talking about celebs too. How many igbos do u know married afonja gal. That's my question I'm still waiting for an answer |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 4:10pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: You have issues with your sight too? I just typed not less than 8. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 4:11pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ngozi123: How strange. You are up in arms because she mentioned Igbo women, yet your fellow Igbo men have been denigrating Yoruba women all through this thread, and you saw nothing wrong with their actions, because you did not ask them to desist. Hehehe..... isn't this what they call double standards? 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 4:12pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
laudate: The problem we have in this country is lawlessness and people choosing to apply the law wen it suits them. Further, we have wat is known as the principle of separation of power, is the Deji encompassing both the Judicial/Executive and Legislative function? Do we have customary courts in this country? There are no justification for the mannerism in which both the Deji and Oba conducted themselves. There behaviour is more of a street thug than royal. This begs the question of wat are the criteria applied to select Deji and Oba? In the aforementioned scenario, it is apparent that the Deji is criminally culpable for an indictable offence, in comparision to the Oba of Lagos who could face charges for a summary offence. I further learnt that his predecessor murdered his wife via inflicting mortal wounds on her. The only reason u are here justifying the action of the Deji is becos Nigeria is under an unannounced Martial law. IPOB were right to refer to Nigeria as a Zoo. Do u see the corpses from Southern Kaduna murders by Fulani? Has anybody said anything on that including the President? I guess it is justified too. Yet u want One Nigeria to continue inspite of calamity it holds. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by waternogetemeny: 4:19pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
This is the picture of the previous Deji of Akure, now dead wife, may her soul rest in peace. (Deji of Akure, Oba Oluwadare Adesina)
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Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 4:21pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: If Nigeria is a zoo, then aren't you one of the animals living in it? You keep digressing and jumping from pillar to post clutching at straws by trying to link unrelated incidents together, in an illogical manner. Wake up bro'. If you need to split hairs about the kind of laws that govern Nigeria, I suggest that you enrol for a law degree in any of the universities around here. I am not ready to school you on the law and their different applications, and the jurisdictions where they can be applied. Secondly, this nation is not under martial law. There is nothing like Marshal law as you put it, so kindly go online and check for the correct terminology of words and their meaning, before you start throwing them around. Now back to the facts of the case. Your Eze Nd'Igbo of Akure erred by committing a grievous offence against the cultural/traditional laws of the host community, where he resided. Any wise man would back track, rescind his actions and offer an apology, when confronted with the error of his ways. Instead, he chose to be headstrong and confrontational. And punishment was meted out to him accordingly. Kindly deal with it, instead of writing another long epistle full of sound and fury, signifying nothing. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by waternogetemeny: 4:22pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: Wen we tell dem their country is a zoo they think we are joking. 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 4:27pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
laudate: Nigeria is not a Zoo? I ask u again, all those fresh corpses in southern Kaduna that nobody acknowledges were once living breathing human being, are 4 entertainment? Even that much cow cannot be killed without questions asked. Did u miss it on the front page or ur hatred 4 igbos meant that only thread with the word igbo on it that attract ur attention? In case u missed it, here is the link, u will find corpses of all ages and sex. https://www.nairaland.com/3546254/killing-southern-kaduna-people-fulani 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ngozi123(f): 4:36pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Oh, I see that the resident Igbo people stalker is back at it again . Don't bother wasting any part of your motor unit to type out a reply to this as I will continue to be ignoring you. This is just a polite reminder, just in case you've forgotten that your comments are about as useful to me as a dog's fart. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 4:40pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: See how you love jumping to conclusions. First, I do not have any hatred for the Igbo. I have some of my family members married to people from that ethnic group and they are quite nice. But I have zero tolerance for bigots and those who play the tribalistic, ethnic card to score cheap points against other tribes, like you do. You asked if I missed the front page about the carnage in Kaduna. Really? There are over 64 topics on the front page, so I have not got round to reading every single article on the FP. It would help if you could post the link here, so I can go and check it out. However, since you brought it to my attention, it means you must have read it. So have you directed the appropriate authorities to investigate and bring the perpetrators of the crime to book? Your problem is that you keep jumping from pillar to post, like a puppet being pulled on a string. That is why your posts do not make much sense. This thread started with a man who was encountering challenges in his inter-tribal marriage, but you have managed to turn it into a thread about the Deji of Akure, the Oba of Lagos, Nigeria and martial laws. Now, you have added the mayhem in Southern Kaduna to the mix. If you want to talk about Southern Kaduna issues, kindly open a different thread for it, and I will be glad to address your concerns there. May the souls of the departed rest in peace. Now, kindly get back to the topic. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ngozi123(f): 4:41pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: Ignore him. You will see him in all of the Igbo bashing threads, hiding behind his "I'm not Yoruba" defence as if that means anything. He's too afraid to tell people his ethnicity- for what reason, goodness knows . It's a shame that a so called African man can't boldly claim his tribe in this day and age but oh well... Btw, if he responds to your post, could you please direct him to my post above? It's important that he knows that he mustn't mention me ever again. 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 4:42pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ngozi123: lol! |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 4:45pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ngozi123: You do not have the guts to address me directly, so you had to resort to this level?? Hehehe.... it is easy to spot cowards and those who hold tightly to double-standards like you do . Sorry if it offends you... but I will not support your crew who are so quick to launch attacks against others and then hide behind the smokescreen of ethnic hate to perpetrate their antics. N.B: Why does the fact that you do not know my ethnicity hurt you so much??! |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 4:47pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
laudate: U want to start exchanging word with women after ur rant on nightmare007. smh! anyway, i refer u to her message below. Ngozi123: Ngozi123: 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 4:48pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Deep down U know u are lying.. But continue. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 4:52pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
NIGHTMAREOO7: Yinmu |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 4:57pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
laudate: Pardon her, she's claiming that the comments are as useful to her as a dog's fart and she's still whining over it. It is called "painment" just free her 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by NIGHTMAREOO7: 4:59pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 5:11pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: did nightmare007 win u here? dont disappoint O.. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ngozi123(f): 5:23pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: Daalu sor, nwanne. I already told him a few months ago to not mention me again as I will ignore him and I just assumed that he forgot, that's all . He can exchange words with me all he likes, I can't say that I'll be responding to them though . 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by laudate: 5:24pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: Me? Exchange words with a woman? Tufiakwa! Since you are now her mouthpiece, I am sure she will reward you accordingly! 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ayoolajumoke(f): 5:24pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
hammerT: Check for yourself na. He had no point again and he was talking about my conscience so I left him, seem like he left it for the other lady. |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by Ngozi123(f): 5:28pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
waternogetemeny: That's disgusting. How can a man do such a thing to his wife (I'm assuming that this was a case of wife battery )? RIP to the woman. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 5:41pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ngozi123: That is called Grievous bodily harm, it is a case of life and death, unfortunately, she died and as usual the Deji walks free and nothing happned. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed...intertribal Marriage! by hammerT: 5:42pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Bia NIGHTMAREOO7, this girl is claiming victory O... na true? |
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