Okay.. I should probably go straight to the point here.
Do u know there are things u're not supposed to do or say when trying to sweep a girl off her feet? Ive compiled them below. Enjoy.

1. “Tell me about yourself”
Dude..its not an interview.. Instead, ask direct questions that
improve the convo than leaving her to do all the talking.

2. Forget all these pick-up lines.
I don't mean you shouldn't compliment her.. How can you tell a girl:
"the spaces between your fingers were made so that mine will fit in”
Did u smoke expired weed? Step up, man.

3. Pls guys..don't assault her with calls and texts. give her some air. don't be clingy.

4. Be real with yourself. Don’t do things u cant afford just because you wanna impress her.. Do ur best.. If she loves u, she wont need u to go extra mile.

5. Lets assume uv'e done the whole dribbling and the ball is finally in her court, leave it there. Step back bro. If she’s into you, she’ll let you know sooner, and if she isn't, it’s okay to ask. n if she rejects ur proposal, dude, move on. There are billions of wonderful girls around the world to choose from.
Source: http://www.onyitex.com/2017/01/if-you-woo-girl-without-reading-this_5.html

1. “Tell me about yourself”

I so hate this.
And then the next thing is;
"Your likes and dislikes,
hobbies and favorite colour...blah blah blah"

It just goes downhill from there.

colik:
1. “Tell me about yourself”

I so hate this.
And then the next thing is;
"Your likes and dislikes,
hobbies and favorite colour...blah blah blah"

It just goes downhill from there.

has any guy asked you such?

colik:
1. “Tell me about yourself”

I so hate this.
And then the next thing is;
"Your likes and dislikes,
hobbies and favorite colour...blah blah blah"

It just goes downhill from there.

It has been proven countless times that you girls never want this kind of questions but the problems is that nice guys will never stop asking you this

you're preaching to the choir bro...


Next please

2kaybiel:

has any guy asked you such?

Yes! Countless times.

the truth is, there is no manual to please a lady. pleasing a lady is relative. what works for silifa might not work for sandra. like that assault with calls, some ladies love to be assaulted with calls. some ladies don't like text message, they want you to call.



i agree with your other points.

colik:
1. “Tell me about yourself”

I so hate this.
And then the next thing is;
"Your likes and dislikes,
hobbies and favorite colour...blah blah blah"

It just goes downhill from there.

Favorite sex position?

thesuave10:

Favorite sex position?

You're so silly.

colik:

You're so silly.

You're so naughty

thesuave10:

You're so naughty

I'm really not. I don't have a favorite position anyway.

colik:

I'm really not.
I don't have a favorite position anyway.

We all do. That one popped into your head. That's the one

Op you're wrong some of us (ladies) like the clingy type, keep pestering so we'll be like 'this guy to dey worry me' and brag about it to our friends, he should persevere for let's say a year and we'll accept

thesuave10:

We all do. That one popped into your head. That's the one

Still nothing.

Op , if u like ask am

Where was she born and wet in she eat for last year ending..

Onece their is

Op, now that you have list out the things we shouldn't do, can you list the ones we were supposed to say?

Jodha:
Op you're wrong some of us (ladies) like the clingy type, keep pestering so we'll be like 'this guy to dey worry me' and brag about it to our friends, he should persevere for let's say a year and we'll accept

u think a reasonable guy will hang in for a year?

colik:
Still nothing.

i bet u lyk the butterfly position

colik:
1. “Tell me about yourself”

I so hate this.
And then the next thing is;
"Your likes and dislikes,
hobbies and favorite colour...blah blah blah"

It just goes downhill from there.

What then stops you from taking charge of the convo with the guy, or is it the sole prerogative of a man to lead a convo why a woman respond?

[color=#006600][/color] y not of cause he will, to show he's patient

emryxleena:




u think a reasonable guy will hang in for a year?

Gofwane:
Op, now that you have list out the things we shouldn't do, can you list the ones we were supposed to say?

@allconcern this is for you.
you shouldn't only speak out a problem, its imperative you also come up with a solution. if you can't, then you re wack.

Jodha:
Op you're wrong some of us (ladies) like the clingy type, keep pestering so we'll be like 'this guy to dey worry me' and brag about it to our friends, he should persevere for let's say a year and we'll accept

small girl, stop leaving in dream land at the emboldened.
only a foolish guy and who doesn't know his worth and probably also have nothing tangible to offer the girl or life entirely would spend even 1 month wooing a girl when there are countless girls by the sidelines waiting for a guy that will asked her to be his gf.

knightsson:

What then stops you from taking charge of the convo with the guy, or is it the sole prerogative of a man to lead a convo why a woman respond?

A conversation is a two-way thing so I wouldn't just sit back and watch while the guy does all the work...
My point is ;guys shouldn't make the girl feel like she's answering a questionnaire.
It's exhausting.

Bankalert:
i bet u lyk the butterfly position

Abi caterpillar position.

@divay22 go and sleep, its dark already.

knightsson:
@divay22 go and sleep, its dark already.

LOL...
I am a night crawler o...
Tag along let's crawl together

I was exaggerating up there, guys like you end up to be woman beaters, if you know you don't have patience and do not love a girl dearly y bother chyke her

knightsson:

small girl, stop leaving in dream land at the emboldened.
only a foolish guy and who doesn't know his worth and probably also have nothing tangible to offer the girl or life entirely would spend even 1 month wooing a girl when there are countless girls by the sidelines waiting for a guy that will asked her to be his gf.

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colik:

A conversation is a two-way thing so I wouldn't just sit back and watch while the guy does all the work...
My point is ;guys shouldn't make the girl feel like she's answering a questionnaire.
It's exhausting.

sadly, today's girls prefers to answer questions than to ask because majority are so low in brain that they can't contribute meaningfully in a convo with a guy. except they re talking about her hair, nails, lipstick, etc. seriously, girls are brain dead, majority, not all, only few are exempted. example of this are some Nairaland girls, you see them on Nairaland jumping from one thread to another dropping post upon posts, you ask for their digits and they give you, you take them to whatsapp, start a chat and expect from them what you have witnessed about them on Nairaland, never a dull moment chat, but what do you get from her instead, she can't be in a private chat with you for more than 20mins without the guy start feeling bored. Its dishearten mehn!

Jodha:
I was exaggerating up there, guys like you end up to be woman beaters, if you know you don't have patience and do not love a girl dearly y bother chyke her

woman beater? lol

please say something else, this doesn't in anyway relates to the discuss on ground and the points I raised.

Divay22:
LOL...
I am a night crawler o...
Tag along let's crawl together

I am a flirt, we might be unable to tally along, except you want to flirt also, just a little of it won't kill you.

knightsson:

sadly, today's girls prefers to answer questions than to ask because majority are so low in brain that they can't contribute meaningfully in a convo with a guy. except they re talking about her hair, nails, lipstick, etc. seriously, girls are brain dead, majority, not all, only few are exempted. example of this are some Nairaland girls, you see them on Nairaland jumping from one thread to another dropping post upon posts, you ask for their digits and they give you, you take them to whatsapp, start a chat and expect from them what you have witnessed about them on Nairaland, never a dull moment chat, but what do you get from her instead, she can't be in a private chat with you for more than 20mins without the guy start feeling bored. Its dishearten mehn!

I understand...I am glad you said some girls and not all.

Gofwane:
Op, now that you have list out the things we shouldn't do, can you list the ones we were supposed to say?

my brother one of the things I like to use in conversational tactics is: "Tell me a secret."


It intiates and deepens rapport as well as giving you a clue to her mindset in "reading" the secret.


A woman who will tell you a sexual secret is not thinking about sports.


Be ready to counter or to ante-up with a secret of your own.