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Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by makydebbie(f): 7:08am On Jan 07, 2017 |
OluDare01:Crush |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by PatriotTemidayo: 7:21am On Jan 07, 2017 |
A Jobless, Flairless or Visionless woman is a burden to a man, irrespective of the love between them. To be clear, Love becomes sweeter and bonds get tighter if a woman brings something to the table, other than her face, curves and what's between her legs. The reason most men treat their wives like grandmas after one child or two children is because those "assets" they take as their selling point would have lost their first-hand values. At such point, Na Double wahala for the owner of them body. Wise women know these things. They know that a man has a special place for a hardworking and supportive wife, one who refused to be a hang-on in his journey of life. And while many slug the phrase "Real Love is or is not" out, let me throw this pragmatic bomb in the middle: "True Love exists, only as a condition" The man that fell in love with you saw something.....he heard something.....or felt something. If not, why didn't he woo Shade instead of Laide. I read a Lady's new year prayer that "God should frustrate men into marriage this year", and in Olamide's Voice "that kind prayer la fin Shey tissue". That was the first prayer rejected in heaven this year believe. Instead of her to pray that God Help them build marriageable Characters and Self-Control from all useless, senseless and unprofitable Flexing, she's asking for a frustrated man as a husband, Shioo! Love is a beautiful thing. My opinion. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by MackBrooklyn: 7:23am On Jan 07, 2017 |
uvalued: Bruh, so you want to tell me a wife who want his hubby to do the following even before marriage will be humble enough not to make the fighting public?? |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by paulavon: 7:24am On Jan 07, 2017 |
@Toks2008,thanks for a great post,it is normal for certain group of people to criticize the points you listed because they challenged certain of their warp thinking and fantasies. They are quick to claim you want them to settle for less or lower their standards. Please create threads that will challenge men and make us better. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by MackBrooklyn: 7:25am On Jan 07, 2017 |
WHOcarex: Lol, that's true because the neighborhood will eventually get tired of the cat fight and no amount of _fucks will be given anymore... |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 7:28am On Jan 07, 2017 |
PatriotTemidayo: Chai! see wisdom...abeg if you be woman and unmarried then I must say GOD bless that man that will marry you and if you be man abeg just pick any of my sisters...I train them well. Very insightful comments. |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Nobody: 7:31am On Jan 07, 2017 |
LegalBaby: Mayb all of them are always against u |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Debikanty(m): 7:31am On Jan 07, 2017 |
Women are like clothes in the market place
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Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 7:32am On Jan 07, 2017 |
paulavon: I also have many threads like that...I'm very unbiased and pragmatic. Thanks man. |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Nobody: 7:33am On Jan 07, 2017 |
misspicy: Yeye. All his points dey hit u like bullet abi |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by davss02(m): 7:38am On Jan 07, 2017 |
makydebbie: Poor niqqa 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by nwadiuko1(m): 7:41am On Jan 07, 2017 |
LegalBaby:yes against leechy ladies |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by 2funkyy(f): 7:44am On Jan 07, 2017 |
Toks2008:@op I agree with your opinion on 1,2,6,9 and 10 but for the remaining let me state my own opinion: For 3: yes being financially OK is relative but some guys will tell you they want to hammer before they get married even if the lady is ready to marry them with their financial status,are poor people not getting married? For 4: Guys convince girls not to look at their current status that if they suffer now they'll enjoy later,only to be dumped later for another woman,so its better not to suffer at all. For 5: Yes your wedding must not be the talk of the town but at least memorable, personally I think intro and registry its too small for a wedding,You can have very few people for your wedding and still do traditional and white.I know someone who did this and it was low budget. For 7: Biko how can you say sustainability of marriage is when a man loves you,I tot its a woman that makes a home, besides love should be from both sides no man should marry a woman he doesn't love and no woman should marry a man she doesn't love cos as far as concerned sustainability of marriage is the love,understanding and commitment both partners have for each other. For 8: Marriage Should be a beautiful and Wonderful Institution,its not a wrong notion but if things dont work out the way you expect you try to work things out,not say its turbulent then comeback and say only forgiveness is the key for a good marriage. All in all everybody with their own,what works for A might not work for B try to figure out what for you and apply it,scum girls and scum guys are still getting married every Saturday 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by OluDare01(m): 7:47am On Jan 07, 2017 |
yes na, I been dey follow you bumper to bumper makydebbie: |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by PatriotTemidayo: 7:54am On Jan 07, 2017 |
Toks2008:My Brother and Friend, Plenty Thanks. Wait a minute! are they your sisters truly? Omo Your home is full of beautiful Damsels. Well, am a man. Single........ However, I like to choose My poison myself. |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by makydebbie(f): 7:55am On Jan 07, 2017 |
OluDare01:Lol...stalker |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Nobody: 7:55am On Jan 07, 2017 |
Of course the Op is writing rubbish as usual but because he is attacking women the post will be supported and applauded without people taking time to analyze it. Both men and some are guilty of every single thing he said in the first post I don't know why he directed the topic to women. Papa Tooks2008, please its not our fault your wife dumped you and threw you out in the streets so you don't need to spend the rest of your life plotting revenge against all the women on earth. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Nobody: 7:59am On Jan 07, 2017 |
LegalBaby:cos sexist can't help their true nature |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by OluDare01(m): 8:15am On Jan 07, 2017 |
I sent you a pm makydebbie: |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Nobody: 8:15am On Jan 07, 2017 |
Toks2008:1. Men can also be too careful with their choice of woman: this isn't a bad thing because marriage is a lifetime commitment you can't be careless with your choice so why is it n avenue to attack women again? 2. Men can also want women to love them for real and again I fail to see how this is such a terrible thing for women to do. 3. Men these days want a financially OK woman as a wife. Even multi millionaire men look for rich women to marry. 4. Same applies to men. Nobody in their right senses will put in effort to please a person that will not appreciate them and dump them in future. 5. Not all women want this old man. Maybe the ones you have been toasting that kept turning you Down and making you so hateful of women.
6. You honestly think men don't go to church or mosque to 'confirm' their intended spouses? You really need to get your head out of your arse. 7.I can't marry a man I have no feelings for:7. Same applies to men. Why enter a lifetime contract with someone you feel nothing for? How is this a bad thing?!?? 8. Women don't believe marriage is a beautiful institution. We know what's up. We know the rubbish women have to put up with after marriage in the name of being humble and submissive. 9. Not true. We are well aware of men's inability to remain celibate or sexually faithful. We know what time it is. We don't expect you to remain loyal because your ain't shit_ asses cannot pull such a feat. 10. Everyone wants a good looking spouse old man. Nothing wrong with that. I should probably start following you so that I can see your stupid_ posts immediately you write them and cut them down before they reach front page. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 8:17am On Jan 07, 2017 |
PatriotTemidayo: Lol! of course they are... Yes o..just choose the one we please you and face the consequence of your decision. |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 8:21am On Jan 07, 2017 |
fellis: Oòoooooh GOD which kain wahala be this for Saturday morning...you abuse me I no talk then you still choose to discuss the thread but still included insults... Abeg if you wan die on top another person opinion just carry go...not my business.
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Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by LegalBaby(f): 8:23am On Jan 07, 2017 |
catlova2:knew one retard would say this 1 Like |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Nobody: 8:28am On Jan 07, 2017 |
Toks2008: Ohhh, when you write epistles of the apostles for others to read it is not wahala but when other people write it then its wahala abi? Better read that post and learn. You go write nonsense come insult women on top then start crying victim when people call you out on your bullshit. |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by sarahade(f): 8:38am On Jan 07, 2017 |
This toks guy can rant nonsense. And you are trying to justify yourself because you are not man a enough. I want a real man who will not cheat on me. My happiness is solely based on it if i can't have that i will pack my bag and leave he can have another woman of low self worth. If a man can't be faithful then what is his function ? P*SSY masagger i can get that from anyone. A man is the leader in any relationship, so his wife is watching and learning from him. If he can't stay faithful then she should expect the same from his wife. What do men take women for? You think we don't get tired of the boring sex and sleeping with the same man? You will be surprised. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 8:39am On Jan 07, 2017 |
fellis: MY FATHER! MY FATHER! Any monitoring spirit following me upandan either in the air or on the ground..online or offline..in my dreams or in reality..I say DIE BY FIRE IN THE NAME OF YESHUA! AMEN! You will not succeed walahi..if you follow me I will undo it. Na by force. |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by sarahade(f): 8:42am On Jan 07, 2017 |
fellis: Beautiful. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 8:44am On Jan 07, 2017 |
sarahade: Lol! Abeg what exactly is the fuss about? Do all men cheat? HELL NO so why are you shedding blood over an innocuous presumption. A man could and will are grammatically different . It is either most of you ladies who curse or castigate my writeups are uneducated,not educated enough or simply lack cognitive ability to comprehend yet you pour your frustrations on me...please just negodu. Ladies like you are making reasonable contributions but you prefer to act like a road side illetrate pap seller. I don't even know why I'm giving you attention cos if I look closely you will likely be one of these Telemundo ladies. |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by PatriotTemidayo: 8:50am On Jan 07, 2017 |
Toks2008:Can I point? Cuz am beginning to see vision o Lets follow each other. |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 8:51am On Jan 07, 2017 |
PatriotTemidayo:Na point and kill? |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by PatriotTemidayo: 8:55am On Jan 07, 2017 |
Toks2008:I didn't include "Kill" Na But now that you have said it , can I?? |
Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 8:56am On Jan 07, 2017 |
PatriotTemidayo: Haaaaa! no be my sisters you go kill..biko na joke o..in fact I don't know those ladies anywhere .....kojooo |
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