LegalBaby:
all your threads are always against ladies

LegalBaby:
all your threads are always against ladies

dangotesmummy:


The better for you because your post is so flawed and filled with biases.of course women with low self esteem will fit into your description
meanwhile

Toks2008:


That is why I wrote about maintaining the condition.

You meet a sex dynamo and he makes your head spin in the bedroom and you say you just love him for real...he is broke,jobless and very arrogant but you say you just love him but in essence it is his koboko that you love then something happens and the koboko stops working and the other crazy stuffs become an issue and you are left with two options...TOLERATE OR LEAVE

Many marriages turn from real desire to tolerance in a short while and when you ask the couple,they call it love.

Can a man still love a lady who does not respect him, cook for him or allow him sx? I guess if there is anything like loving for real then no circumstance ought to tilt the emotional balance.

My advice for you..when a guy says I love you please ask him what he sees in you that makes him "love" u and once he tells you, try to maintain that condition or you stand the risk of being dumped...FACT!

Amelian:
Op I totally and completely disagree with you on number 1,23,4,7,8 and 9.

My dear I can never marry a man I don't have feeling for.. God forbid

Yes I will be very careful on whom I decide to say *yes *to..
I have no apologises for that..

And yes! I want a man to love me for real.. I don't need fake love.. If your love is fake and I realise? Just scram and get the fucvk off! Am no maga

Am financially ok! So. My man must be likewise.. I don't need a leech! Neither does he!

Honestly I cannot suffer with a broke assss man! The true nature of. Man is known when he is comfortable.. And that's fact!

My boo and intending husband truly loves me and we both know we won't cheat on each other. Simple

And he's a cute tall, financially comfortable guy with a hot Mexican look to die for , kind of old fashioned like moi
What more can a lady like me ask for?

And definitely our marriage coming up soon, wil be very beautiful and peaceful, fillied with laughter ,joy and understanding .

We are simply two peas in a pod


I love you boo boo


So op hate all u like.. Women like me do not fcvking care..

Am happy with my choice

WORDWORLD:


OBVIOUSLY TOKS2008'S THREADS ARE MOSTLY, MOSTLY ABOUT HOW LADIES CAN MAKE THE BEST CHOICES IN LIFE ACCORDING TO HIS OWN OPINION. HE SURE HAS ONE OF THE VERY BEST THREADS ON NAIRALAND. HONESTLY!


He is without doubt among the few, making the BEST use of social media an invention that should UNITE MANKIND. Unfortunately its used for bigorty, spreading lies, hate speeches...................Toks has been adding VALUE to HUMMANITY.

Kindly tell me what is it "AGAINST" ladies here?

mctowel01:

You mad a lot of real talk sense. No telemundo. But you failed to point out a fact that more reasons to "love" someone keep developing as the relationship progresses. I ve personally observed this. Whatever reaons a guy tells the lady at first might not be all in future. Events unfold which give a new dimension to the "love" he has for her. An extreme example is assuming the man discovered that the woman went extra miles to seek funds for medical treatment when he was ill or visit him everyday after an accident despite the inconveniences. It can take various forms also and not necessarily relating to medical care. You can't discover these reasons at the beginning of the relationship. Its perhaps why they say couples are to "grow in love". So, you made sense, but its not really as black and white as you put it.
Cheers

Toks2008:


My brother I honestly sit and meticulously check my threads and I try to see the part that is against women but I just couldn't find one sentence.

I think it's about the genes of ladies..they naturally hate the truth but have great affinity for lies.

dingbang:
she is 28 towards 29 yet unmarried, she has constantly been dating guys who have broken her heart all because of her selfish desires and her mindset on guys being the sole provider . she is hellbent on money and that is the genesis of her problem

WORDWORLD:


Ladies are more akin to MATERIALISM so one of the factors why the love LIES. To be honest you are doing a great job on NL. Without doubt there are ladies as few as they may be on NL who see you as a teacher and who have gained from your POSITIVE THREADS.

To LOVE LIES is a really terrible DISEASE...............but then do men have to tell lies all because its loved by women!? ALOT OF MEN DO.

makydebbie:
If I can afford it, fine. If I can't, I'll go ahead with what I have. Its not about the ceremony.

Toks2008:


That I will never do.. I prefer to tell you the truth and face the consequence rather than tell lies.

WORDWORLD:


It speaks in your writings that you could not be one of such DISEASED SOULS. Truth leads to prosperity and only those who choose a life of SELF RESPONSIBILITY do not tell lies. Keep up the good works.

oluwalewis:


I think i've found myself a cheerleader knwin that u ll accept me for who I am

Toks2008:


GOD bless you for this..

I was discussing with a naira land friend lady39 about a cousin of mine who traveled to the states and got married to a lady...

This lady was instrumental to the guy's success in correcting a health issue he has lived with for years...the guy still calls me regularly to reaffirm that nothing can ever make him leave that lady...

Just as you wrote,it was the move of that lady that prompted an undying love from my cousin.

People don't just love for a reason...ask anyone who strongly loves another and you will realize that there must have been a compelling reason for that..but many people will just not agree.

greatgod2012:




No wonder!

How could I have known that? No wonder she personalized my comment, whereas I was only stating my observation.

And that I started my opinion doesn't mean that I support what the op wrote in totality, but just an avenue to educate my fellow ladies that a lady who want a man to be completely responsible for all her financial needs cannot earn so much respect from such a man.

makydebbie:
Lol...

legalwealth:
whizqueen and La dyF ... Come and see rules oooo

Tino86:
A job well done Mr. Toks2008, u are truly an insightful writer. I can't go thru these thread without appreciating you. You honestly sent serious warning shivers down the spines of those against this thread. You could tell from their insultive responds, cos they had to fight their inner cinscience where truth lies.I just hope this thread will go a long way to positively affect the crude telemundu mentality of most women of today. A lot of young purposeful men, with average paid job that willing to settle down are finding it difficult because of influence of social media on women of today. I still appreciate viewers of this thread who supported the op's opinion with constructive arguments and submissions. And to the aggrieved viewers, whom are mostly ladies, I advised you remove sentiments and quest for materialism and read through the thread again and pick some helpful tips and make your love life, an envy of your peers.

makydebbie:
If I can afford it, fine. If I can't, I'll go ahead with what I have. Its not about the ceremony.

LegalBaby:
all your threads are always against ladies

Beamborla:

It is the first all right, but it can not hold a relationship.

oluwalewis:


we need to start making our weddin plans cos I can't wait to av my boo by my side

LegalBaby:
all your threads are always against ladies

makydebbie:
I'm married.

makydebbie:
I'm married.

Sunglow:
They say he is divorced.

makydebbie:
I'm married.