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I'm not understanding

I think you're a control freak.

Oga you're a brother simple!

Someday she will leave your sight and you won't be there to tell her what to do or who her friends should be.

Let her know what is right and what is wrong then allow her live her life

2SWT:
Oga you're a brother simple!

Someday she will leave your sight and you won't be there to tell her what to do or who her friends should be.

Let her know what is right and what is wrong then allow her live her life

You're right. But, experience drives in all this. What is the essence of having siblings who is/are of no benefit in times of need other than financial request.

She's known to Harbor immoral attitude which mum can't handle and as a result hands her over for a better treatment, as she's not wanted to be as her elderly ones; they both couldn't exercise patience when they had to, which they regret now.

Bolabas02:
Hello intellectuals, I have found myself in some states of which I can hardly be myself in the absence of my younger sister, it's a platonic love. The one a brother, true one has to his siblings. Hers seems different, it often leaves my personal schedule disorganized and knowing her to be a very "active " teenager, I do directly or indirectly dislikes/chases away people who are of no good moral or conduct who I think can get her mind spoilt and introduce her to things that aren't Godly; boys and girls inclusive. I always want the best for her which I think if I'm finally married, I would love to have such affection for my to-be soul mate, even if more than that.


I need your fatherly, motherly, brotherly and sisterly advise. Such love affects me( getting disorganized whenever she's with me). Do I need chase away my sister from me? I find it absurd. I've been sourcing for ways of ensuring that she gets satisfied and given necessary things, and gets detached from external distraction which are of no benefit to her. Doing this, I've hoped that she would be free to express any of her dismay to me and in the process gets advised brotherly.

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Advise HIM!

Thanks.

Op tell us exactly what the problem is because deep in your heart you know you have not said everything.

Bolabas02:



You're right. But, experience drives in all this. What is the essence of having siblings who is/are of no benefit in times of need other than financial request.

She's known to Harbor immoral attitude which mum can't handle and as a result hands her over for a better treatment, as she's not wanted to be as her elderly ones; they both couldn't exercise patience when they had to, which they regret now.

if you continue like this she might be worse than the rest.

There's no way she can be thinking of you always. She would definitely have a boyfriend someday except you want to follow her to the higher institution, just be there to guide her from a distance. Let her live her life and you get busy with more things.