She is now using the advantage of my high sexual drive,that no matter how we quarrel and not talking to her,that it wont last long as she is very sure that i cant hold myself but MUST surely come to her for sex,which once done,the misunderstanding automatically resolves itself through the bed.

Sex, apart from serving its primary purpose, also serves as a wound healer between couples. So, it is not a surprise that your misunderstandings do come to an end when you have sex with your wife.

On your wife's part in capitalizing on this seeming weak point of yours, hmm. I'm sorry, she'd always wield that power over you.

Besides, I don't think she's always entirely without remorse. This is because if she wasn't remorseful and willing to reconcile with you, she wouldn't have even want to have sex with you!

There's really nothing you can do. Misunderstandings must always come, but the most important thing is reconciling the differences. So then, thank God for sex....

On the flipside, I said it once on a thread that sex isn't always the solution. Sex should be pleasurable, sex shouldn't be used as a tool to get your spouse into doing your bidding. A couple should be able to talk out issues logically, without one party trying to trap the other with sex...but then, different stroke for different folks.

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When you confirm the stereotype that men are always thinking of sex, this is what you get. Enjoy your marriage...

PaperLace:
1)you have a high sex drive.
2)You know it.
3)Your wife knows it.
4)You know that your wife knows it.
5)Your wife knows that you know she knows it.
6)She is using it to you guys advantage.
7)She doesn't turn you down when you come for it.
8 )You cure konji and become stable.
9) Misunderstanding is solved via makeup sex.
10)You should be happy you guys resolve your own in the other room, some people use blow and pestle
11)Everybody has mumu button, your wife has discovered yours_ I am sure you know hers.

Uncle, what else do you want?

DDeliverer:
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.......and makeup sex is the best.

PaperLace:
1)you have a high sex drive.
2)You know it.
3)Your wife knows it.
4)You know that your wife knows it.
5)Your wife knows that you know she knows it.
6)She is using it to you guys her advantage.
7)She doesn't turn you down when you come for it.
8 )You cure konji and become stable.
9) Misunderstanding is solved via makeup sex.
10)You should be happy you guys resolve your own in the other room, some people use blow and pestle
11)Everybody has mumu button, your wife has discovered yours_ I am sure you know hers.

Uncle, what else do you want?

PaperLace:
1)you have a high sex drive.
2)You know it.
3)Your wife knows it.
4)You know that your wife knows it.
5)Your wife knows that you know she knows it.
6)She is using it to you guys her advantage.
7)She doesn't turn you down when you come for it.
8 )You cure konji and become stable.
9) Misunderstanding is solved via makeup sex.
10)You should be happy you guys resolve your own in the other room, some people use blow and pestle
11)Everybody has mumu button, your wife has discovered yours_ I am sure you know hers.

Uncle, what else do you want?

PaperLace:
1)you have a high sex drive.
2)You know it.
3)Your wife knows it.
4)You know that your wife knows it.
5)Your wife knows that you know she knows it.
6)She is using it to you guys her advantage.
7)She doesn't turn you down when you come for it.
8 )You cure konji and become stable.
9) Misunderstanding is solved via makeup sex.
10)You should be happy you guys resolve your own in the other room, some people use blow and pestle
11)Everybody has mumu button, your wife has discovered yours_ I am sure you know hers.

Uncle, what else do you want?

PaperLace:

Yea, what do you expect after denying a spouse orgasm?
'but it should never be used as blackmail tool, which is what his wife is doing. In this situation, it does more harm than good, 'cos it offers no logical solution to their conflicts _ just a superficial remedy.

She is taking advantage of the fact that he can't wait it out due to his high libido.

eyinjuege:


Is the wife really using sex as a weapon?

She's not denying him sex. Chai, Konji na true bastard

@ sleekdot, I am not entirely in support of her actions, but it's also not the worst thing to happen. Like I said in a previous post, it is a superficial remedy which offers no logical solution to their conflicts. Maybe one day, the issue would be something sex can't resolve_ then we would see how far.