Splinz:

She is now using the advantage of my high sexual drive,that no matter how we quarrel and not talking to her,that it wont last long as she is very sure that i cant hold myself but MUST surely come to her for sex,which once done,the misunderstanding automatically resolves itself through the bed.

Sex, apart from serving its primary purpose, also serves as a wound healer between couples. So, it is not a surprise that your misunderstandings do come to an end when you have sex with your wife.

On your wife's part in capitalizing on this seeming weak point of yours, hmm. I'm sorry, she'd always wield that power over you.

Besides, I don't think she's always entirely without remorse. This is because if she wasn't remorseful and willing to reconcile with you, she wouldn't have even want to have sex with you!

There's really nothing you can do. Misunderstandings must always come, but the most important thing is reconciling the differences. So then, thank God for sex....

Spot on!.....and I think he loves his wife

pocohantas:


As at Jan 12,2016...you were seeking advice from singles on how to flee from fornication.
https://www.nairaland.com/2859860/pls-helpi-need-advice-singles

Fast forward to Jan 25, 2016... you were seeking advice on your possessed wife, while claiming she was pregnant and lost the baby.
https://www.nairaland.com/2889343/message-given-severally-she-possessedbut

This is Jan 12, and you are here again.
Are you a troll or a blogger?

Are you a librarian?
Or are you a stalker?

Splinz:


Sex, apart from serving its primary purpose, also serves as a wound healer between couples. So, it is not a surprise that your misunderstandings do come to an end when you have sex with your wife.

On your wife's part in capitalizing on this seeming weak point of yours, hmm. I'm sorry, she'd always wield that power over you.

Besides, I don't think she's always entirely without remorse. This is because if she wasn't remorseful and willing to reconcile with you, she wouldn't have even want to have sex with you!

There's really nothing you can do. Misunderstandings must always come, but the most important thing is reconciling the differences. So then, thank God for sex....

Bravo!!!!!

The best marital advice I've read on nairaland in a long while.

pocohantas:


As at Jan 12,2016...you were seeking advice from singles on how to flee from fornication.
https://www.nairaland.com/2859860/pls-helpi-need-advice-singles

Fast forward to Jan 25, 2016... you were seeking advice on your possessed wife, while claiming she was pregnant and lost the baby.
https://www.nairaland.com/2889343/message-given-severally-she-possessedbut

This is Jan 12, and you are here again.
Are you a troll or a blogger?

January 2018 we go hear another one.

Marry another wife. Simple

free ya mind... fucck ya wife, Bleep misunderstanding

I think Your marriage is perfect cos ur issues are resolved within...

pocohantas:


As at Jan 12,2016...you were seeking advice from singles on how to flee from fornication.
https://www.nairaland.com/2859860/pls-helpi-need-advice-singles

Fast forward to Jan 25, 2016... you were seeking advice on your possessed wife, while claiming she was pregnant and lost the baby.
https://www.nairaland.com/2889343/message-given-severally-she-possessedbut

This is Jan 12, and you are here again.
Are you a troll or a blogger?

The Eagle eyes, I salute

zaza999:
My wife's attitude is becoming unbearable (not what i can list here)that most time we do have misunderstanding. Agreed that most marriages do have misunderstanding, but there are also some that are devoid of such incessant misunderstanding and are always peaceful and that's what i dream of.

In view of this I have called her severally and talked with her about such an attitude and stubbornness and the need to turn a new leaf, but all to no avail which keep on generating quarrel.This has lead to the point that anytime we had misunderstanding i will stay on my own, and same to her without playing or talking to her, everybody will stay on his or her own and i made up my mind not to have sex with her.

However, no thanks to my high sexual drive that hardly can few days passed that i will break the rule and come back to her and start touching demanding for sex from her. My body has a higher sexual urge, no matter how i control it and she too is so sexy that when i made up my mind not to touch her, after some days, the urge will be too much that even when i leave her in bedroom and went to sleep in another room, I will still come back and fall to her.The urge will be too much that atimes i will be having sleepless night moving up and down to control it, but none.

I intended choosing masturbating instead of making love with her, but on remembering the negative effects of masturbating, i got scared.

She is now using the advantage of my high sexual drive, that no matter how we quarrel and not talking to her,that it wont last long as she is very sure that i cant hold myself but MUST surely come to her for sex, which once done, the misunderstanding automatically resolves itself through the bed.

For me, I don't like it as she doesn't feel remorseful anymore over her attitude.

Please what should i do, or should divorce be the solution?

MY Guy thank God you have a wife who does not Deny each time you need sex even when you have misunderstanding ,your marriage is healthy,stay in there ,your wife loves you, you have not seen anything,dont leave her,God bless you and your wife my Guy

maj007:


Bravo!!!!!

The best marital advice I've read on nairaland in a long while.

Sex, apart from serving its primary purpose, also serves as a wound healer between couples. So, it is not a surprise that your misunderstandings do come to an end when you have sex with your wife.

On your wife's part in capitalizing on this seeming weak point of yours, hmm. I'm sorry, she'd always wield that power over you.

Besides, I don't think she's always entirely without remorse. This is because if she wasn't remorseful and willing to reconcile with you, she wouldn't have even want to have sex with you!

There's really nothing you can do. Misunderstandings must always come, but the most important thing is reconciling the differences. So then, thank God for sex.... cheesy

KUDOS TO Splinz:

zaza999:
My wife's attitude is becoming unbearable (not what i can list here)that most time we do have misunderstanding. Agreed that most marriages do have misunderstanding, but there are also some that are devoid of such incessant misunderstanding and are always peaceful and that's what i dream of.

In view of this I have called her severally and talked with her about such an attitude and stubbornness and the need to turn a new leaf, but all to no avail which keep on generating quarrel.This has lead to the point that anytime we had misunderstanding i will stay on my own, and same to her without playing or talking to her, everybody will stay on his or her own and i made up my mind not to have sex with her.

However, no thanks to my high sexual drive that hardly can few days passed that i will break the rule and come back to her and start touching demanding for sex from her. My body has a higher sexual urge, no matter how i control it and she too is so sexy that when i made up my mind not to touch her, after some days, the urge will be too much that even when i leave her in bedroom and went to sleep in another room, I will still come back and fall to her.The urge will be too much that atimes i will be having sleepless night moving up and down to control it, but none.

I intended choosing masturbating instead of making love with her, but on remembering the negative effects of masturbating, i got scared.

She is now using the advantage of my high sexual drive, that no matter how we quarrel and not talking to her,that it wont last long as she is very sure that i cant hold myself but MUST surely come to her for sex, which once done, the misunderstanding automatically resolves itself through the bed.

For me, I don't like it as she doesn't feel remorseful anymore over her attitude.

Please what should i do, or should divorce be the solution?

Ur own is good, from ur narrative i dont think u have kids yet. However, for me i hv kids, & so when she starts misbehaving i try not to b at home during d day, & return late at night. Bt d late nights has resulted in me womanizing which is very bad for my family's health & moral character. I married my wife humble & apologetic when she's wrong, but since she gave birth to our son, she's become the Lord of d house unperturbed abt my feelings or state of mind. So, i chose to help myself before woman go kill me. 1) I dont talk to her again concerning her wrongs (i locked up inside ),. 2) I dont go near her foe sex, bros i created avenues of finding a release of my tensions. 3) for each tym she misbehaves, i go meet my female friends & hang, gist but NO SEX. I make myself happy & come bck home happy, & straight to bed.
My broda, women can b terrible to live with. That's y d Bible says, it is better to live on a Corner of the roof than to stay in a house with a contentious woman.
Meanwhile, I'll advise u to report her to her parents, most respected friends & even ur Pastors wife. Also, look other ways of punishing her (when she request for money, delay it without excuse ). God help u

If you divorce and move to another, how are you sure she won't exploit the same weakness against you. Grass always look greener on the other side. Enjoy what you have and focus less on what you don't have. Wives will always have some advantage over their husbands. Ask Adam how he ate the apple.

Cc: zaza999

Pls sir you have no problem with ur wife, just enjoy ur marriage, unless u wanna invite evil minds in ur Union, complain only when you lack solution, see ur mouth like divorce, you go tell me how many u wan divorce sef...smh.Abeg my regards to ur cheerful and beautiful wifey jare!

May GOD HELP u, at least no third party.

CHARLOE:

Gbam! So on point, and I luv ur good command of d queens language, lots of young people nowadays don't.

Thanks Sir.

*1* Try to learn more about serf control . it will help you to conceal your urge for sex

*2* Try to get a side chick

*3* Marry a second wife

@O.P, Enjoy Ur Wife Oo. She Loves U. I Had Similar Issue Sometimes Ago. I Had A Serious Quarrel Wit Ma Wife Nd We Went To Bed Witout Talkin To Each Oda. She Tout I Was Goin To Come Around For D Normal Stuff At Nite Buh I Didnt Even Dou I Felt Like It. I Noticed She Didnt Sleep Dat Nite because Ha Plan Failed. She Lata Woke Up Nd Sat Down On The Bed Looking At Me Only 4 Me To Turn And Saw Her Sittin Down. I Drew Her Closer, Talked For A While And The Rest Was History. Work On Ur Weakness So Dat Ur Woman Will Nt Walk On It.

zaza999:
My wife's attitude is becoming unbearable (not what i can list here)that most time we do have misunderstanding. Agreed that most marriages do have misunderstanding, but there are also some that are devoid of such incessant misunderstanding and are always peaceful and that's what i dream of.

In view of this I have called her severally and talked with her about such an attitude and stubbornness and the need to turn a new leaf, but all to no avail which keep on generating quarrel.This has lead to the point that anytime we had misunderstanding i will stay on my own, and same to her without playing or talking to her, everybody will stay on his or her own and i made up my mind not to have sex with her.

However, no thanks to my high sexual drive that hardly can few days passed that i will break the rule and come back to her and start touching demanding for sex from her. My body has a higher sexual urge, no matter how i control it and she too is so sexy that when i made up my mind not to touch her, after some days, the urge will be too much that even when i leave her in bedroom and went to sleep in another room, I will still come back and fall to her.The urge will be too much that atimes i will be having sleepless night moving up and down to control it, but none.

I intended choosing masturbating instead of making love with her, but on remembering the negative effects of masturbating, i got scared.

She is now using the advantage of my high sexual drive, that no matter how we quarrel and not talking to her,that it wont last long as she is very sure that i cant hold myself but MUST surely come to her for sex, which once done, the misunderstanding automatically resolves itself through the bed.

For me, I don't like it as she doesn't feel remorseful anymore over her attitude.

Please what should i do, or should divorce be the solution?

........How do u get married to someone u once loved so much and because of issues...think divorce is the first option to consider......na wa o

Looooooool smh

YOU MUST BE THE GREATEST FOOL OF 2017 BRINGING SUCH TO PUBLIC NETWORK

SOME DUDES SHA. SO U ENJOY QUARRELING WITH UR WIFE. COS IF SEX RESOLVES IT AS U SAID THEN, WHAT'S THE PROBLEM?

marry another wife.

Pls stop responding to this guy,hes a scammer, once upon a time,he was a fornicator,later wife got possesd,later he con marry the same wife january again,now they hving quarrel.He can lie for the whole world

pocohantas:


As at Jan 12,2016...you were seeking advice from singles on how to flee from fornication.
https://www.nairaland.com/2859860/pls-helpi-need-advice-singles

Fast forward to Jan 25, 2016... you were seeking advice on your possessed wife, while claiming she was pregnant and lost the baby.
https://www.nairaland.com/2889343/message-given-severally-she-possessedbut

This is Jan 12, and you are here again.
Are you a troll or a blogger?

U CAN TO SABI FOLLOW PERSON O!

ModestGal:
I dnt know why you guys keep advising, I dont believe the guy, its a make up story,the guy must be a blogger,check out his threads please, and hes not even comenting ever since he posted the lie

Pls this is NEVER a make up story and I am not a blogger.A serious matter that is giving me concern should not be played with and that I am not commenting does not mean I did not read peoples comment and pick important points to use and find solution to it.I appreciate all that contributed.

zaza999:




Pls this is NEVER a make up story and I am not a blogger.A serious matter that is giving me concern should not be played with and that I am not commenting does not mean I did not read peoples comment and pick important points to use and find solution to it.I appreciate all that contributed.

I dnt believe you,all your threads are contradictory,ppl hv bn saying dat,nd i hv gone to check too,your wife was once possesd,u were a fornicator,you suddenly married btween three months etc.but seriously dnt understnd why somone will make dat up

Marriage is all about maturity . Years back I lost my Dad and I found written in his diary 9 ingredients of marriage number 1 : communication . you staying for many days without tal king with yoour wife until u need sex will ruin your marriage not the best . Mature men don't keep malice with spouse . Learn the act of communication .When she impressed you commend her when she offends you correct her in a polite way .

You need a mistress!

Kdiva:

seconded

really? dat is so inciting, raw passion and aggression? me like!

fellis:
Oga if you are telling the truth and not twisting it to gain support for yourself then your wife is a sadist.

How you can even let sex drive make you beg her for forgiveness even when you are right is baffling to me. Next time she misbehaves and starts keeping malice just please for heavens sake masturbate_ I don't understand what you mean by masturbation is dangerous.
Use your common sense abeg. Don't let people walk all over you.

Again this applies if you know deep in your heart that you are telling the truth.

How often do you masturbate_? It's never the same thing.

BoboYekini:
How often do you masturbate_? It's never the same thing.

welcome back

i was wondering whether you got banned

fellis:




welcome back

i was wondering whether you got banned

Yes I missed you too. Pesin nor play with you abi. You had to show yourself.