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Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by Nobody: 7:56pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez: Men can't be raped in Nigeria....... according to the law |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by JeffreyJamez(m): 8:02pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
pcguru1: What law? |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez: A lawyer here on nairaland shared a PDF doc I was shocked too to hear that, she was explaining how according to the law that husbands can't rape their wives not saying it's not possible physically but not recognized according to the law. |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez: Here is the thread https://www.nairaland.com/3436349/quick-question-wife-accuse-husband#50643101 |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by JeffreyJamez(m): 8:18pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
pcguru1: I'm not talking about husband's raping wives..I'm talking about Women raping Men. But then that rule is absurd mehn!!! 1 Like |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by InformedLola(f): 8:28pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
Gaggi: Exactly my point. Just an attention-grabbing story, too extreme to be true. |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by Nobody: 8:29pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez: what am saying is that it sees rape as when the woman is the victim and not the other way round. |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by JeffreyJamez(m): 8:50pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
pcguru1: Ooh now I get it |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by Ishilove: 8:51pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez:Is it like an ego thing? |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:12pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
Ishilove: For some,maybe...... but then again who would believe them...Imagine a guy as huge as Gentle Jack telling you his wife that's like Genevieve is beating him,will you believe? Lol |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by JuneOctober(f): 9:20pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
crackhaus: Tiri gbosa for you ![]() ![]() |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by crackhaus: 9:22pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
sisisioge:Who mentioned anything about breaking anyone's bones here? Even Delilah herself will not mess with me. 1 Like |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by crackhaus: 9:33pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
Ujoan:There's absolutely nothing to comprehend from someone who claims the voice of a wife is the voice of God. Were you intoxicated when you typed that load of steaming hot sh1t? On a side-note, your own definition of maturity is when a man lets you have your way. If this is how you measure maturity, then crackhaus is happy to be immature in this life and the next. ![]() I've not seen where maturity paid bills or was a criteria for yearly bonuses. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by Diplomaticbeing(m): 9:38pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
The man was simply a weakling (not a nice/good-bad guy) in love and that made him a slave to the petty (evil) woman. There's a tiny line between love and enslavement. Gutless people are liable to self-enslaved towards their partners. He allowed the petty woman to use emotional blackmail to destroy him before she perfected it with physical assault and other vices. If he was against divorce because of his religion (by the way to hell with such religion), he ought to have known that separation and relocation were an option. Marriage/relationship should be enjoyed not endured. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by crackhaus: 9:53pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
JuneOctober:Two and a half gbosa for you. |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by ibolomo(m): 6:01pm On Jan 20, 2017 |
why does the song "Terrible Love" keep popping in my brain it's I read this post? This is sad. I have an observation though. it seems her dad did something to hurt the woman at some point in the marriage, probably infidelity or jazz related stuff. Either that or he was in love, or she Jazzed him seriously. Tragic, Traaaagic!!! |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by khiaa(f): 5:39am On Jan 22, 2017 |
crackhaus: Seriously, is there something wrong with a man preparing a meal for his family? 1 Like |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by crackhaus: 6:26am On Jan 22, 2017 |
khiaa:Did you even read the OP to get the context? |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by abbeyboy2o15(m): 7:24am On Jan 22, 2017 |
khiaa:Nothing is wrong, but should not be a daily chores that most women do expect. |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by Mznaett: 10:44am On Jan 22, 2017 |
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Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by khiaa(f): 9:47pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
crackhaus: Yes I read it but my comment was pertaining to the comment that you made, like a man cooking in the kitchen was some kind of sin. 1 Like |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by khiaa(f): 9:51pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
abbeyboy2o15: I know that it is hard for you to believe but some men love to cook and are better at it than some women, for example my father. was a professional chef and he loved his work, he would cook for my family on special occasions and holidays to give my mom a break. |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by abbeyboy2o15(m): 9:58pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
khiaa:Yeah you are right, but it also depend on the man mentality there is no big deal in cooking for your woman. 1 Like |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by abbeyboy2o15(m): 10:20pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
Do abbeyboy2o15:Do you live in CA presently. |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by baby124: 11:25pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
Well, yes, some men do go through abuse. Especially the ones with some kind of deficiency. Mostly sexual and the woman out of frustration acts out. Other's are just really obsessed. The father is an adult and chose to stay there. He was not chained to the marriage, he made the choice to stay and die there. Same as women who do the same. That being said, nothing wrong with the husband cooking or helping with chores. No one knows what the dynamics of their marriage is. |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by Nobody: 7:33am On Jan 23, 2017 |
balash:That kind of stupid love is not love at all. UNCONDITIONAL Love is catastrophic and dangerous. |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by Nobody: 7:42am On Jan 23, 2017 |
Diplomaticbeing:You sir, are one rational being. I couldn't agree more. 1 Like |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by Nobody: 7:55am On Jan 23, 2017 |
balash:You sir, must be a BIG FOOL, a clown prince, the leader of the empire of the deluded, the grandmaster of the magisterium of morons. Your delusion is STRONG, and your false consciousness is pretty awful. You have my pity. I can't believe I'm seeing this. Perhaps, you need a lobotomy. |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by balash(m): 8:18am On Jan 23, 2017 |
joyContraMundum: God bless you for this. Have a great day |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by Nobody: 8:31am On Jan 23, 2017 |
balash:lol.... "Higher moral ground", abi? Well, whatever. As far as I'm concerned, your ideas about love are dangerous for society, hence will result in a catastrophe, since you seem to be promoting unconditional love, which implies tolerating an evil person, a tyrant, a selfish animal looking for people to screw over and trample to the ground. You're gonna tolerate such people, just to satisfy and preserve your own selfish desire to and pleasure of loving them, consequently propagating hate. I used those words because they're ACCURATE, and couldn't give a rat's bottom how they make you feel. I'm neither "fluffy", nor "cuddly". I'm not your "friend" nor am I politically correct. If you're stupid, I'll say it. And if that offends you, then too bad, I don't care. What I'm concerned about right now is you correcting those warped orientations of yours. I'm already blessed, and today's gonna be great for me, regardless of your wishes. Thanks anyway. |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by balash(m): 10:33am On Jan 23, 2017 |
joyContraMundum: Have a fun filled day ahead |
Re: Untold Story Of An Abused Husband by Nobody: 11:42am On Jan 23, 2017 |
balash:Thank you. And you too. ![]() |
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