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Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by essti: 4:32pm On Jan 29, 2017 |
Dyt: Noooo, am a lady and was making a post for a friend who was finding it hard talking to ladies, that was sometime between 2010 and 2012,can't really be precise. And yes I have always been working both before and after marriage. Not the idle type 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by Nobody: 4:37pm On Jan 29, 2017 |
I can bet my last naira that your husband is cheating. so, protect yourself from STI's. but even cheaters don't turn to absentee husbands. that must hurt alot for you. I'm so sorry. Apart from the fact that it's entirely his decision to change or not. can you do things to tie him down at home? Things or cook food he likes. Try to visit his workplace unannounced one day and voice our your frustrations. Besides that, let me join the other who said you should pray. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by Nobody: 4:40pm On Jan 29, 2017 |
essti: there you see. you already have evidence sef. present your case to his parents or the person he respects the most and listens to. so sad |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by Nobody: 4:48pm On Jan 29, 2017 |
Your husband is cheating on you... Command his peepee to stop working when on away match. 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by AngelsAndStars(m): 4:51pm On Jan 29, 2017 |
fake story. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by essti: 5:17pm On Jan 29, 2017 |
AngelsAndStars: Unbelievable right? |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by Yoyostic: 5:21pm On Jan 29, 2017 |
If possible try to overlook his coming home late no matter how angry you are.Pretend if need be.Put on your sweet self like you are not hurting inside.Don't complain all the time whenever he comes late.You are driving outside further. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by essti: 5:26pm On Jan 29, 2017 |
Joavid: I have often complained to his parents and they wud always talk to him but the guy is naturally sturborn,u can't dictate to him not even his parents,it got to an extent that any time I cal d mum,cos she's more closer to him, anytime I call her that period,she wud sound as if am a carrier of trouble and am about to say another disturbing thing, wen I noticed that I stopped compiling to them,besides they r no longer young for me to often disturb them, she jus said his type of work makes him meet people that I sud be prayerful. Since then I face my problem my self and just hand it to God,yes just like someone mentioned above, I wud just try to ignore him,and continue my life and just handmy marriage over to God as have bin doing. What scares me attimes is I don't want him to come back home one day and tell me he has a child somewhere or wants to marry a second wife But in all I have decided to leave it all for God,if this is the way he ordained marriage to be then let his will be done and if not let him do what only him can do cos this is even above His parents |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by essti: 5:28pm On Jan 29, 2017 |
Yoyostic: Yes, cos even me myself am.already tired of always complaining . I will do just that and be quiet most times |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by Yoyostic: 5:33pm On Jan 29, 2017 |
essti:Not the sulking type of quite o.Just put on a cheerful look.And take care of yourself as in your looks a wears.Pretend like you don't care what he is up too.He will think you have found happiness else where and have a rethink.Indeed, find happiness within yourself and joy in what you love doing.May you find strenght and wisdom. 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by fathomberry: 6:42pm On Jan 29, 2017 |
essti: Please what is going on here |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by metallisc(m): 7:05pm On Jan 29, 2017 |
[quote author=Dyt post=53236765][/quote] You sef see wetin I see! |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by AngelicBeing: 9:08pm On Jan 29, 2017 |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by oyetpel(m): 10:23pm On Jan 29, 2017 |
When the guy dey borage u for corner late in the night, when you were still dating him, u no talk. Now the guy dey come home late after marriage u dey talk. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by Nancy2016: 12:45am On Jan 30, 2017 |
ominirajj: When they tell you women to be independent, you claim that it's the role of a man to take care of his family. Why in this age, when education is available to the female child, would a woman sit and wait for upkeep money from her husband? A man will misbehave when he knows his wife is totally dependent on him. Make use of your education and youthfulness. Get a job, start a business, or go back to school to improve on yourself. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by sisisioge: 6:55am On Jan 30, 2017 |
Whew! No be small thing o. It looks like the other chick has come to stay. Whew! Thank God I'm not you right now...If I were you, I would lock up everything. Na to turn myself to his money collector ni. If he doesn't drop as much as expected, Na war! Biko, you have tried. Lock up. The emotions, the puzzzy, don't even bother throwing calls up here and there. His people are aware, if anything happens, everyone has been prepped. It is well... By the way, you aren't a bad looking babe...Try to preserve that. Find other things that make you happy, invest in your well-being. Good luck. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by malaria(f): 1:07pm On Jan 30, 2017 |
Poster- your husband don join bad gang |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by diportivo: 5:59pm On Jan 30, 2017 |
U told bros to go enjoy the ashi Bros didn't kukuma come home It is not well inside this well.... the water inside the well no settle at all...and alum no go work The time to act is now.....it has happened already
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Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by Lumpyy(f): 6:06pm On Jan 30, 2017 |
essti:Hmm sis........there's is definitly something to be worried about o,nobody stays at a female colleague's house till around 10pm abeg.I'm almost certain he going somewhere after work,please pray madam,pray around 1am for 3full days,ask God to reveal to you what is happening,please don't fight him o,u do Ur spiritual thing,act fast before something really serious happens please! |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by blessedqueen(f): 6:19pm On Jan 30, 2017 |
baby124: U must be an investigator... A good one oooo |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by ominirajj: 8:52pm On Jan 30, 2017 |
Nancy2016:u responded as if u baby Sitted me when I was growing up. Well for your information am a degree holder and I have done my PGD in education Am also a working class Wait a minute who told u education can stop a man from cursing. I said my husband curses a lot do not misquote me I beg u |
Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Anymore by Jaygrl(f): 9:15pm On Jan 30, 2017 |
I am married to a man too that is always busy. I used to complain bitterly before coupled with when he is so stressed up with work he goes to a joint with his friends to take alcohol and comes back home say 9pm. How I solved the problem; -I stopped complaining,any day I am offduty and he comes back home I make sure there is food for him to eat. -I stopped disturbing his phone with calls. I just allow him galavant and come home to a very cheerful wife. -I learnt how to put on the generator as I see that is what gets me really pissed when he isn't around,as I will be very bored probably with low battery too. Before he comes home I am already enjoying a movie and laughing very loud. -Those days when I go to work I don't hurry home o,I take my time too in the office and before I get back home he is already home and would be calling and calling my phone to know where I have gotten to as my work place is quite far from home. -Weekends I playfully encourage him to work from home that I won't disturb him with gist. -Pray and pray and pray,I have seen it work wonders in my marriage. My hubby is also a very stubborn person,he isn't even somebody you can report to his parents. With prayers I can say I have been able to hold him at a place. Good luck dear. 2 Likes |
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