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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Sleezwizz: 11:35pm On Feb 02, 2017
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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by jnrcess(m): 11:40pm On Feb 02, 2017
From one man is manageable but two men? NO
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by cloudyskygrind(m): 11:42pm On Feb 02, 2017
This one na jamb question oo. E go hard make i no lie you
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by bukiboy(m): 11:42pm On Feb 02, 2017
Nma27:
If u truly love her and she's a good woman to you, wife her.

That kind of love don travel since
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by barajo1(m): 11:42pm On Feb 02, 2017
Not divorcee or widower! Still selective in her predicament?



Have she forgotten the adage " once bitten twice..... "
If I catch her, maybe I will be the third runaway father
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Nobody: 11:42pm On Feb 02, 2017
poyet:

You wey no be man dey answer. Allow men to answer, except if her wan marry her.
Its called verstehen reasoning propounded by Max weber tongue...
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Nobody: 11:45pm On Feb 02, 2017
bukiboy:


That kind of love don travel since
Where e travel go?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Nairaboi(m): 11:47pm On Feb 02, 2017
HELL to the furking NO! OP this ur question sef dey make me vex for you. If it were to be just one kid, then my opinion would have differed. But two kids, from two different men, that LADY must be silly as furk. That means she ain't careful, a cheerful giver, and not someone to possibly swife. My opinion though.
N.B you may wanna add to the list so there would be a total number of three fatherless kids . . . cool
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by miriamchi(f): 11:49pm On Feb 02, 2017
FTbomb:
they're whores because they decided not to kill their children? do you know the number of abortions your so-called single 'good girls' have undergone? some of them don't even have wombs as young and fresh as they are. that's why i must impregnate my woman before putting a ring on it. i might not have the time and patience to start visiting different medical experts, doctors, amadioha and ifa priests because i need a child..
May God bless you for this.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by babalolareal(m): 11:51pm On Feb 02, 2017
kadoshsun:
Well first and most important thing is for one to pray about it.
if you have your convictions, why not? go ahead.


Now they are here!!!!
The spirit filled brethren with broken homes all around.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by enshi(m): 11:52pm On Feb 02, 2017
A lady with an experience is a lady down to earth
A lady who could not conceed To abortion (s) is a virtuous Mother
A lady who single handedly brought up two Kids is an asset
A lady who has seen it all and probably Done it all is fidel
A lady who after all the rejections from Men still wants to love again is a lady with a forgiving spirit

Then a lady with all these attributes above is a lady i would want to call my wife...

Pls op if that lady is working and earning pls be with her else let me meet her...
Genevieve, anie idibia, onyeka nwenu, even patience Jonathan, to mention but a few were all single mothers at a time and some stil are....

That girl who has had abortions, who sold her Child, or who you think is chasis could end up not getting preggy again...

Infact forget every thing i have written, as far as that girl did not flush those pregnancies yes I will marry her thou my clause is... Is she working and earning

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by jackonifechobi: 11:53pm On Feb 02, 2017
Omo na wao. G
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by krauss: 11:53pm On Feb 02, 2017
Divay22:
What if you were told she'll only be the woman you'll find Love with,be happy with,be at peace with,outside her is trouble.....will you all still refuse her undecided
don't be deceived. You choose who to give or show love to. Love is very much amenable.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by darafada: 11:58pm On Feb 02, 2017
then make ur own contribution .. just make it three
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by miriamchi(f): 12:01am On Feb 03, 2017
enshi:
A lady with an experience is a lady down to earth
A lady who could not conceed To abortion (s) is a virtuous Mother
A lady who single handedly brought up two Kids is an asset
A lady who has seen it all and probably Done it all is fidel
A lady who after all the rejections from Men still wants to love again is a lady with a forgiving spirit

Then a lady with all these attributes above is a lady i would want to call my wife...

Pls op if that lady is working and earning pls be with her else let me meet her...
Genevieve, anie idibia, onyeka nwenu, even patience Jonathan, to mention but a few were all single mothers at a time and some stil are....

That girl who has had abortions, who sold her Child, or who you think is chasis could end up not getting preggy again...

Infact forget every thing i have written, as far as that girl did not flush those pregnancies yes I will marry her thou my clause is... Is she working and earning
this is my case as well. Let's give it a trial if u are 4 real.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by lamalang(m): 12:03am On Feb 03, 2017
Unless she's Agbani Derago or Beyouce
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by cashdosh(m): 12:06am On Feb 03, 2017
Honestly; this thread is baseless. What's wrong getting married to someone who's got kids? More so, what's wrong with both kids coming from deferent fathers. Mehn! Let's wake up from our slumber and just follow our hearts sometimes instead of taking topics like this to social
Media seeking advise from people. Just fucking do what you think it's best for you.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Oreoluwa09(f): 12:07am On Feb 03, 2017
Smh... dats d best choice 4 guys lyk u... ul learn 2 act lyk a great dad 2 oda men's children b4 even being one
babyfaceafrica:
Nope!!!!....can't even date one
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Oreoluwa09(f): 12:08am On Feb 03, 2017
cashdosh:
Honestly; this thread is baseless. What's wrong getting married to someone who's got kids? More so, what's wrong with both kids coming from deferent fathers. Mehn! Let's wake up from our slumber and just follow her hearts sometimes instead of taking topics like this to social
Media seeking advise from people. Just fucking do what you think it's best for you.
try it first nf share d pleasant experience

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by FTbomb(m): 12:08am On Feb 03, 2017
abudu2000, you must be an incorrigible airhead for asking me that stupid question. i don't know how old you are but if you think single ladies with no babies are better than single moms you should go have your head examined properly. how many single girls of 20 and above years can tell me they haven't visited an abortion clinic before?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by delishpot: 12:11am On Feb 03, 2017
FTbomb:
they're whores because they decided not to kill their children? do you know the number of abortions your so-called single 'good girls' have undergone? some of them don't even have wombs as young and fresh as they are. that's why i must impregnate my woman before putting a ring on it, coz i might not have the time and patience visiting different medical experts, doctors, amadioha and ifa priests because i need a child..

Only a foolish desperate girl would get pregnant for a man outside wedlock. Maybe that was how this girl(@topic) became mama two on the first place.
BTW, what of your sperm aint working wouldn't you suddenly have the time to visit amadioha and sango to seek help? grin grin
You can not make a good husband at this rate o. Patience that you lack is very important in marriage o. Many unforeseen circumstances. Even from the children can cause a man to run around o. Just pray that all will be well. You that think today that you have all it takes to make a baby that is today o. Tomorrow is very pregnant sir. One may suddenly experience challenges tomorrow and it is still that woman you don't have patience to run around with for solution to her own problem that would have to in the end patiently run around for you. So please oga, take ya easy. This world is a world of front and back, up and down. Let us just pray that God gives us favour das all

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Thecassanova: 12:11am On Feb 03, 2017
I wouldn't even think twice before putting the ring on it cos It's not an option chosing a killer that has done series of abortion and a keeper who could turn her back against abortion against all vices. She raised two kids independent, she's probably a strong woman. If the feeling is right, why not?

It would be hard neglected family influence, buh in the long run it's ma life.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Oreoluwa09(f): 12:12am On Feb 03, 2017
enshi:
A lady with an experience is a lady down to earth
A lady who could not conceed To abortion (s) is a virtuous Mother
A lady who single handedly brought up two Kids is an asset
A lady who has seen it all and probably Done it all is fidel
A lady who after all the rejections from Men still wants to love again is a lady with a forgiving spirit

Then a lady with all these attributes above is a lady i would want to call my wife...

Pls op if that lady is working and earning pls be with her else let me meet her...
Genevieve, anie idibia, onyeka nwenu, even patience Jonathan, to mention but a few were all single mothers at a time and some stil are....

That girl who has had abortions, who sold her Child, or who you think is chasis could end up not getting preggy again...

Infact forget every thing i have written, as far as that girl did not flush those pregnancies yes I will marry her thou my clause is... Is she working and earning
gud speech... buh d last line,, it doesnt really matter,, u can provide 4 her nd d children,
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by omooba969(m): 12:13am On Feb 03, 2017
Divay22:
What if you were told she'll only be the woman you'll find Love with,be happy with,be at peace with,outside her is trouble.....will you all still refuse her undecided

@bolded,

Told by who? undecided

Arrant nonsense! cool
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Abagworo(m): 12:13am On Feb 03, 2017
It's a common occurrence in riverine part of Rivers State but quite rare in upland and neighboring Igboland.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Davidoff2000: 12:22am On Feb 03, 2017
In NIgeria, hell no, abroad, especially in America, thats all you get if you are around akata neighborhoods

Those girls start fkuucking at 10 or 11, get pregnat by 14 such that at 25..they have like 3 kids with the first in their teens, all from different men.

Every child to those girls represents a bank alert from government and the more, the richer..

Its only in Nigeria you find 30 year old virgins or 30 year old umarried women without kids.

We ought to thank God for Naija or African girls
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by vitiyke(m): 12:24am On Feb 03, 2017
Dey swear 4 me?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by FTbomb(m): 12:29am On Feb 03, 2017
delishpot:


Only a foolish desperate girl would get pregnant for a man outside wedlock. Maybe that was how this girl(@topic) became mama two on the first place.
BTW, what of your sperm aint working wouldn't you suddenly have the time to visit amadioha and sango to seek help? grin grin
You can not make a good husband at this rate o. Patience that you lack is very important in marriage o. Many unforeseen circumstances. Even from the children can cause a man to run around o. Just pray that all will be well. You that think today that you have all it takes to make a baby that is today o. Tomorrow is very pregnant sir. One may suddenly experience challenges tomorrow and it is still that woman you don't have patience to run around with for solution to her own problem that would have to in the end patiently run around for you. So please oga, take ya easy. This world is a world of front and back, up and down. Let us just pray that God gives us favour das all
i'll never visit a babalawo for impotency. i trust my John Thomas, it's like ojukwu's manhood that still lives on even at death.. grin
to the topic; i can call the pregnancy a mistake but not foolishness. ...being that they ignored the other use of condoms.

but then, most of these girls are victims of promise-and-fail relationships. when the guy promises to marry her, she automatically believes he's her husband; so they engage in raw sex and along the line pregnancy sets in.....at this juncture, only a devilish lady who carries postinor and all sorts of contraceptives in her handbag would think of getting rid of the unborn baby.
whatever the case, i respect single moms for the single purpose of having value for human life..

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by cooltola(m): 12:31am On Feb 03, 2017
No, too much luggage to carry. Dont be unequally yoke, let say you had a child with another woman then yes. Date yes marriage no.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by FTbomb(m): 12:33am On Feb 03, 2017
Abagworo:
It's a common occurrence in riverine part of Rivers State but quite rare in upland and neighboring Igboland.
which rivers state, mumu?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Kyllahmc(m): 12:38am On Feb 03, 2017
Abudu2000:
Ask yourself what makes you different from those guys that left her?? There certainly is something they all saw in her that you haven't seen yet,
you're thinking man... you are really thinking.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Kyllahmc(m): 12:44am On Feb 03, 2017
Viruslord:
Can't marry one with one kid not to talk of two, I don travel
well not when you're crazy in love...

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