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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by anyicash(m): 6:11am On Feb 03, 2017
That lady does not think with her brain, she only thinks with her pvssy.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by SalomonKane: 6:15am On Feb 03, 2017
Nickymezor:
Hw nice... Didnt knw u were this sweet.
Em, what made you think I wasn't?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Dolypson04(m): 6:15am On Feb 03, 2017
BossEmpire:
Guys can you marry a young lady that is a single mum with two kids from two different guys?

Assuming she says the first child came when she was really young and thought she was in love with the father but then he rejected the pregnancy and fled. The second was also from another guy she was in a serious relationship with and felt they were going to get married but immediately she got pregnant he also took off.

I met a lady like this somewhere and I will love to know if there are guys (not divorced men or widowers) who can still get married to a lady with two kids from different guys?
Everybody keeps saying they can't but most of them will gladly marry a lady that has aborted twice.
What's the difference between a single mum and an ex abortionist? One has her children on earth while the other have hers in soak away.
If you know you can cope with it, go ahead. If not, never marry out of pity. Forget about the present love you have for her. It may not last forever.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by anyicash(m): 6:17am On Feb 03, 2017
soberdrunk:
Here are the categories of ladies----

1) Tear rubber/Brand new------Virgin!

2)Tokunbo/Direct Belgium------Not a virgin but never married with no kids!

3) Cotonou-used-------- Never married but '1 kid'

4) Naija/Abuja used------ Divorcee with 1kid

5) Naija/Lagos used----- Divorcee with "2 kids"

6) "Mbuka"--------- Never married wit more than 1 kid from different men....... angry angry
that means d lady in question is an "mbuka"
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Amajerry83(m): 6:21am On Feb 03, 2017
You can marry her if you love her. But they are certain things to consider. Your age and your family. Will they be happy with it? You need to be mature enough to know how to handle the negative side of such a relationship. If you are up to 45 and above it is better for you. Also you must know her family background very well. Ladies like this can give birth to one or two kids for you and still end up leaving you for another man. They are good at distributing children.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by huntax(m): 6:23am On Feb 03, 2017
newyorks:
my house na IDP camp?
*falls of chair* lmao grin grin

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by esthadewunmi(f): 6:24am On Feb 03, 2017
She's not the only babe in town, that is not a mistake for her to have two kids for different guys that show she's dating irrisponsible guys and she cheap at the same time.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Nehemz(m): 6:31am On Feb 03, 2017
BossEmpire:
Guys can you marry a young lady that is a single mum with two kids from two different guys?

Assuming she says the first child came when she was really young and thought she was in love with the father but then he rejected the pregnancy and fled. The second was also from another guy she was in a serious relationship with and felt they were going to get married but immediately she got pregnant he also took off.

I met a lady like this somewhere and I will love to know if there are guys (not divorced men or widowers) who can still get married to a lady with two kids from different guys?
Yea because if she has all the qualities of a woman that i want, and luv cover everything.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Clarinett(m): 6:35am On Feb 03, 2017
newyorks:
my house na IDP camp?

Bros, but why are you like this? grin grin

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by shamack: 6:35am On Feb 03, 2017
newyorks:
my house na IDP camp?
you are mad oooo,,,u want make i use laugh kill myself?

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by obiink: 6:39am On Feb 03, 2017
newyorks:
my house na IDP camp?
Chia. Chiaaaaaaaaaaa
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by purpledferanmi1: 6:45am On Feb 03, 2017
;Du r a savage...
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Nobody: 6:47am On Feb 03, 2017
rebirthforgoody:



Understood
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by bidexolumanish(m): 6:48am On Feb 03, 2017
grin
newyorks:
my house na IDP camp?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Divay22(f): 6:52am On Feb 03, 2017
krauss:
don't be deceived. You choose who to give or show love to. Love is very much amenable.
your opinion
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Nobody: 6:56am On Feb 03, 2017
na me go help u live with am?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Divay22(f): 6:57am On Feb 03, 2017
omooba969:


@bolded,

Told by who? undecided

Arrant nonsense! cool

you no wan marry be that
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by vivypretty(f): 6:58am On Feb 03, 2017
newyorks:
my house na IDP camp?
grin[quote i couldnt help laughing ......................u self get bad mouth
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by solidman59(m): 6:59am On Feb 03, 2017
Never, never, never
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by FaroukM(m): 6:59am On Feb 03, 2017
I pity we bachelors...as there are so many single mothers out there and it is difficult to differentiate dem from normal sisi with the way they package demselves....God Help us
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Abudu2000(m): 7:01am On Feb 03, 2017
FTbomb:
abudu2000, you must be an incorrigible airhead for asking me that stupid question. i don't know how old you are but if you think single ladies with no babies are better than single moms you should go have your head examined properly. how many single girls of 20 and above years can tell me they haven't visited an abortion clinic before?
well not that I support abortion but what made her got pregnant when she can't handle it and if she had kept the baby who will then take care of it?? You?? So to me it's better to aborte a baby than give birth to a touth that will cause problems in the country because of uneducation.....The main problem we have in this country is overpopulation n we live in a society where children are seen as trophies without giving any thoughts to even training them to be better persons in the society..,.....Those kidnappers you hear off are people's children and people rejoiced on the day they were all born...smh

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by GOFRONT(m): 7:08am On Feb 03, 2017
Maybe she has a spiritual trap

Those guyz saw d trap and they Ran away.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Nobody: 7:17am On Feb 03, 2017
newyorks:
my house na IDP camp?

U badt ooo grin
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by AreaFada2: 7:17am On Feb 03, 2017
Well, well.

First check out the facts. If indeed she made poor decisions with the previous two guys, why not?

Personally I am not a fan of step-kids, as much as I like kids.

From my observation at close quarters, most step-kids and step parents end up in acrimony. No matter how much the step-dad tries for them, it is never enough. Appreciation is very poor. In the African setting, blood ties is what really matters.

Unless you end up becoming a very rich/famous step-dad. Then the stepkids would respect you and do "attachee" to your name. Even if you were largely a lousy step-dad all along. shocked
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Nobody: 7:18am On Feb 03, 2017
can you ladies take such from we guyz?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by SirElaw(m): 7:20am On Feb 03, 2017
Nma27:
If u truly love her and she's a good woman to you, wife her.
Only a girl would give this kinda advice. I'm sure only girls liked it as well.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by rosalieene(f): 7:22am On Feb 03, 2017
Berbierklaus:

She made poor choices,why get pregnant when you aren't married yet,once is a mistake but twice? shocked

OP that lady is not telling the truth sir
It might not be that she aint telling the truth. She might probably had fallen for the chop,clean mouth and run guys who left her pregnant
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Nobody: 7:23am On Feb 03, 2017
Some single mothers with kids listening to some guys preaching they can marry someone like them and praising them online?
My fellow ladies, na lie ooooo
Those guys here saying these sweet words that they will wife her.. It's pure lie and deceit.. They Wont wife her ooo.
Ulterior motives dey inside.. I won't call names but they know themselves.

As a lady u have two kids from two different dads, be patient and watch how he connects with you and your kids over a period of time.. Let this one not be number three runaway father. Some men get sweet mouth oooo.. I don talk my own lipsrsealed

In between am not a single mum but please be careful ladies.. Don't fall into trap number 3.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by rosalieene(f): 7:26am On Feb 03, 2017
Just reading comments and cry cry
Because of the stigma involved in been a single mum, that's why a lot of ladies go through abortion.... Don't blame them
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Nobody: 7:29am On Feb 03, 2017
But there are some ladies who are very careful to the teeth and think with their head.. They don't need to abort.. Even to mistakenly become pregnant is a no no... Not every single lady without kid has aborted before.. Some are smart to avoid such stories that touch.
Someone like me, my mum has vowed to kill me with her own hands if I become pregnant since way back in secondary school.. So the fear has been imbibed in me.. With the threatening look in her eyes, They no born me well to carry belle when I never marry.. Na death sentence I wan sign be that grin
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by vivaciousvivi(f): 7:30am On Feb 03, 2017
There is a person for everyone in this life. If one is truly in love, such circumstances mean absolutely nothing. Everyone has a past, hers just had 2 kids which the naked eyes can see. So many men have married women who have had multiple abortions or more sordid pasts and are blissfully unaware - the what u don't know, won't hurt you maxim.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by olayinkajnr(m): 7:31am On Feb 03, 2017
BossEmpire:
Guys can you marry a young lady that is a single mum with two kids from two different guys?

Assuming she says the first child came when she was really young and thought she was in love with the father but then he rejected the pregnancy and fled. The second was also from another guy she was in a serious relationship with and felt they were going to get married but immediately she got pregnant he also took off.

I met a lady like this somewhere and I will love to know if there are guys (not divorced men or widowers) who can still get married to a lady with two kids from different guys?

Sure I can.

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