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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jan 31, 2017
LUCAS99:
Please my introverted personality is killing me. I need help.
Friends have abandoned me. Family too. Please I need help

It's because this thread is a serious one, I almost doubted when u mentioned family. Is that possible? Well if your statement is true, what exactly have u done wrong for people to abandon you. Are you positive? Do you love yourself? Are you confident? You may not always speak up, but introverts too need to speak up to defend themselves. Do you hide things to yourself when you are supposed to let it out. Please let it out so it doesn't become an ache. Introverts are calm and speak with wisdom if it's necessary.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 7:47pm On Jan 31, 2017
McBeal10:
OK. I've finally concluded I hate my aunt. I really hate the way she talks. Mostly she talks about my mother spoiling me, and the shi.t she talks about ain't true and when ever she says this I feel like telling her to shut the f.uck up she acts like she knows it all. She finds flaws in everything I do. The thing that pains me most is the way she talks about my mother, the woman who carried me for 9 months..... if only I could talk back and tell her not to talk about my mother the way she does but you know Karma hits real hard sad
Hate is not an healthy feeling no matter what somebody may have done to us. Why it is considered important that you relate with your relations, it is advisable that it should not be done in a way that inconvenience you. Try as much to reduce the time you spend with your aunt and try to forgive whatever she must have done in the past. Don't let another control your thinking and temperament no matter what relationship you may have with the person. Let love and grace rule your heart.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by LUCAS99: 8:25pm On Jan 31, 2017
Malolu:


It's because this thread is a serious one, I almost doubted when u mentioned family. Is that possible? Well if your statement is true, what exactly have u done wrong for people to abandon you. Are you positive? Do you love yourself? Are you confident? You may not always speak up, but introverts too need to speak up to defend themselves. Do you hide things to yourself when you are supposed to let it out. Please let it out so it doesn't become an ache. Introverts are calm and speak with wisdom if it's necessary.
I am not assertive. People now regard me as dumb.I am 23 years old and I can't even speak clearly. Please if you can assist me add me on 7047139964
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 11:43pm On Jan 31, 2017
LUCAS99:

I am not assertive. People now regard me as dumb.I am 23 years old and I can't even speak clearly. Please if you can assist me add me on 7047139964
Good night bro, is that a whatsapp number and if yes would be willing to help in my little way.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DonOms(m): 8:56pm On Feb 01, 2017
LUCAS99:

I am not assertive. People now regard me as dumb.I am 23 years old and I can't even speak clearly. Please if you can assist me add me on 7047139964

I seem somewhat confused here. Did you mean your family literally abandoned you? Or you're just saying they have decided to not 'help' you be outspoken? I so hope it is not the former.

Now, being assertive has to do with being aggressively self-assuring with your speech especially in an argument. So not everyone can be like that or need to be. But about your inability to speak clearly, is it that you find it pointless and energy-taking to talk or you're too shy to communicate clearly while you talk?

Don't mind that I'm asking too much questions but if you answer them, it will be easy to give helpful tips. The problem might be one of these:
1) SHYNESS, which is overcome over time as you practice to communicate effectively especially when the onus is on you to defend yourself.
2) A Psychological condition as a result of bad experience trying to defend yourself as a child. This is subject to fear and you can overcome it through autosuggestion once you become aware of the issue.

I could try to help further but I only do emails so you can PM me if you want to.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 9:31pm On Feb 03, 2017
Please, is there any nexus between low self esteem and being an introvert?

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 2:23pm On Feb 04, 2017
Does this thread have a whataspp grup if so add me 08095708288

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 7:02pm On Feb 04, 2017
McBeal10:
Does this thread have a whataspp grup if so add me
This thread does not have a Whatsapp group.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by peacesamuel94(m): 7:49pm On Feb 04, 2017
Brownhypo:
Thanks. I wish they could understand the kind of person I am.


That's it, introverts really don't have problems understanding people, but they're hardly understood.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Blackhue95: 9:48pm On Feb 04, 2017
Wow! So many introverts. I am in between and I don't know which is worse. I can be extremely extroverted and most times I can be extremely introverted.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DonOms(m): 1:59am On Feb 05, 2017
Neyoor:
Please, is there any nexus between low self esteem and being an introvert?


No. Low self esteem can be manifested in different ways and just about equally in both extroverts and introverts.
While Extroverts make their confidence clear to all, Introverts do not broadcast their confidence until it gets to the point they have to show it. Introverts can be really self-confident, hold themselves in high regards and show high self-worth.

As a matter of fact, since many introverts are introspective people and deep thinkers, they are often quite knowledgeable (generally or in certain areas) and this naturally improves their self-value. Shyness, refrain from interactions and withdrawal found among introverts have little or nothing to do with low self-esteem even though those traits can sometimes be the results of low-self esteem in some people.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 10:16am On Feb 08, 2017
Michellla:
oh and welldone on the other thingy ;
Which? The picture? I wasn't gonna post it here. I'm sure you know that. tongue tongue


Sorry I don't wanna derail that thread
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Michellla(f): 10:23am On Feb 08, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
Which? The picture? I wasn't gonna post it here. I'm sure you know that. tongue tongue


Sorry I don't wanna derail that thread
haha i wanted you to
you piqued my curiousity.
all gooodzz.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 11:01am On Feb 08, 2017
Michellla:
haha i wanted you to
you piqued my curiousity.
all gooodzz.
tongue tongue tongue I think I enjoy that. So I'm just gonna keep it and you keep being curious
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Michellla(f): 1:03pm On Feb 08, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
tongue tongue tongue I think I enjoy that. So I'm just gonna keep it and you keep being curious
okay cool grin
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Horlawoomey(m): 10:01pm On Feb 08, 2017
Good day all, it's good to be here again.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 9:33pm On Feb 12, 2017
Horlawoomey:
Good day all, it's good to be here again.

Welcome bro... smiley
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 9:46pm On Feb 15, 2017
GloryIsaac:

Welcome bro... smiley
Bro.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 5:03pm On Feb 16, 2017
Akposb:
Bro.
Hey bro.. long time..
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by AbbynHummy(f): 2:37am On Feb 18, 2017
i'm an introvert and proud of who i am

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ichommy(m): 3:50pm On Feb 18, 2017
*Walk In*

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by gidjah(m): 8:41pm On Feb 20, 2017
RICKYMARIO:
Nice question
I think it becomes anti social when it seriously strains our relationship with people, i've come to realise that we actually need people (no matter how few) to reach greater heights in life.
great reply bro, very straight a reply. most of d intros are basically selfish in their way of life ) my self inclusive), everything they venture in to must be about their personal protection ....guard against ego,defence , personality, e. t, c. they do not wanna put the other person in to honest consideration (very few do ), at the end of the day , they leave the other party very humiliated, down and sad !.That's to d extreme if u ask me .
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by gidjah(m): 8:52pm On Feb 20, 2017
it is great to be back on my most treasured platform on this forum; the introverted family, happy new year to all my fellow intros. may u all be part of the excellent things happening happening to this nation.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DonOms(m): 3:20pm On Feb 21, 2017
Here's a good read for introverts who feel confused whether they're perhaps extroverts.

15 Signs You're Really an Introvert, Even though People Say You're Not - introvertdear.com

http://introvertdear.com/news/introvert-signs-people-say-youre-an-extrovert/

And an extra rich info introverts should know: http://introvertdear.com/news/introvert-brain-takes-longer-to-process/

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Redbird(f): 12:07pm On Feb 24, 2017
I am an introvert and I am proud of it!

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Redbird(f): 1:40pm On Feb 25, 2017
karleone:
Hello Beau49 & Corisande,

Do you still find yourselves in this world of Introversion?
We could be friends and fight it together.

Here's one hel of an introvert, but I try as much to fight that life. Believe me, it ain't a life worth being happy for.
Am sorry to say Karleone u can't fight who u are! please try and understand who u are, that way u will know ur strength and weakness, then u capitalise on ur strength. For me I try learning new things and I read a lot. Am not out going but I got myself involved in sports to enable me mingle with people. please try and do things that will make u happy, we all deserve to be happy

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 9:16pm On Feb 27, 2017
Redbird:
I am an introvert and I am proud of it!


Exactly. I've read most of the comments and it reeks of excess dose of self pity for being an introvert. People need to realize that it is not an illness to be cured. I agree that everyone has flaws but I believe that it shouldn't be attributed to the mere fact that they are introverts.


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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nnfe(f): 1:39am On Feb 28, 2017
Hi guys..i think my own problem is a problem o sad..Saturday night was my departmental dinner..twas cool n all, den i stayed for d after party..wu sent me sef. .i actually wanted to dance buh i just didn't have dat courage to go dance cry..twaz just annoyingly stupid..maybe next tym i'll drink alcohol sha to get my groove on wink grin

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by VulgarLee(m): 1:19pm On Feb 28, 2017
home grin
how una dey

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 8:35pm On Feb 28, 2017
@Nnfe I hope when you use alcohol to douse your fears or self-consciousness, it will not intoxicate you as to to do some funny things.

It is a common trait that introverts often feel all eyes are on them but how about showing those eyes you are confident. Please don't let alcohol become your confidence, let it spring up from within you.

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