My sisters i have been trying not to cry since morn because my mom is around and i don't want her feeling bad.
Dh and his cousin are tormenting me again
I don't want to be married again
I wish my belief encourages remarrying i for comot
Since dat last time i have not had peace just been managing.

Where in Lagos did you do it? Abeg give us the addy.

ladecrown:
@afagha, you don't need to be pressed to take a tvs scan. You will even be advised to empty your bladder. I did mine in lagos for #2,500. I've been taking only ACV + BSM too and I do castor oil pack once a while.

Please, I care for one udysweet and I work around CMS. May our God bless u richly thank for ur concern

Curvy mama, pls don't feel this way. How old is the boy sef?
Have you discussed with your mum? She may be able to advise you better since she is more experienced.
You cannot leave your home because of a boy. I beg you. Have you tried ignoring the boy? How did that go?
Pls do not cry and try not to be bothered. It is well my sister

curvilicious:
My sisters i have been trying not to cry since morn because my mom is around and i don't want her feeling bad.
Dh and his cousin are tormenting me again
I don't want to be married again
I wish my belief encourages remarrying i for comot
Since dat last time i have not had peace just been managing.

favouredestiny:

For TVS, your bladder will have to be empty and you will get your result immediately.

okay thank you.

ladecrown:
@afagha, you don't need to be pressed to take a tvs scan. You will even be advised to empty your bladder. I did mine in lagos for #2,500. I've been taking only ACV + BSM too and I do castor oil pack once a while.

okay thank you.ill look for a place that's not as pricey cos I did pelvic uss for 2k today and that's where I was told tvs is 5k. I haven't been consistent with castor oil packs at all. Just ACV + BSM.

curvilicious:
My sisters i have been trying not to cry since morn because my mom is around and i don't want her feeling bad.
Dh and his cousin are tormenting me again
I don't want to be married again
I wish my belief encourages remarrying i for comot
Since dat last time i have not had peace just been managing.

my mama, God is ur strength....lock urself in a room and cry as much as u can den come out stronger.

ignore den, pretend as if u are d only one in the house

curvilicious:
My sisters i have been trying not to cry since morn because my mom is around and i don't want her feeling bad.
Dh and his cousin are tormenting me again
I don't want to be married again
I wish my belief encourages remarrying i for comot
Since dat last time i have not had peace just been managing.

it is well with you. please dont cry,Try to ignore your dh cousin. Your dh should be the one standing up for you in the face of all these challenges. ehugs. did you have a calm heart to heart with him (dh)? I think you should. let him know how the torment makes you feel. The heart of the king is in the hands of the Lord and He turned his it however He pleases. you're in my prayers.

curvilicious:
My sisters i have been trying not to cry since morn because my mom is around and i don't want her feeling bad.
Dh and his cousin are tormenting me again
I don't want to be married again
I wish my belief encourages remarrying i for comot
Since dat last time i have not had peace just been managing.

sweetie calm down,take your mind away from dh and his cousin.focus on yourself and God.its not easy but I know u love your dh and would not want to divorce him.its only for awhile atimes the devil puts confusion in marriages so as to steal their blessings.i pray for peace and love in your heart and in your home

ogunbekun:
Curvy mama, pls don't feel this way. How old is the boy sef?
Have you discussed with your mum? She may be able to advise you better since she is more experienced.
You cannot leave your home because of a boy. I beg you. Have you tried ignoring the boy? How did that go?
Pls do not cry and try not to be bothered. It is well my sister

I discussed with my mom sometime ago she did not take it lightly.

She is a stroke patient which we are still battling with so i get scared of making her upset

chumz11:
sweetie

Amen thank u ma

Curvilicious,I rilly dnt know wat to say now.I feel ur pain n I feel it is not kind of ur DH to also torment U.prayer is the key to all.d bible says the heart of a king is in the hand of God.pls report him to God,place his hat in his hat and God wil mak him change positively towards u

@pweetymii, i see you too sis

@ mummykyrti, the ministry is moving my sis o.

@ zaynie, thank you for checking up on us, it means alot to me and hope you now have enough golden chair that will go round cos we are coming in full force to the pregnancy thread.

@ Curvilicious, mama pls take it easy. Pls try and take you mind away from dh and the not and look for something that you love doing and focus on it. Take your mind off everytin that will make you unhappy pls and lastly no need to tell your mom because of her health pls cos the way our parents handle things is diff. From our ways.

Good evening all ttc mamas am new on here.. May God answer our prayers.

Zino89:
Good evening all ttc mamas am new on here.. May God answer our prayers.

welcome mama,may your stay be short and fruitfulness is (y)our portion. amen

Curvy Curvilicious , you can come in and rant as you like. This is ur other family and we don't want things weighing our people down. It is well and this too shall pass. If you are able and ready for it, you can try getting a job or business to take you out of the house. Even if it's teaching. You will feel less fatigued and imposed upon. Take care of yourself and remove these thoughts of leaving your marriage. You will laugh over this one later. Pls o how old is this cousin? Is he older than you? Let him take his time o.

curvilicious:
My sisters i have been trying not to cry since morn because my mom is around and i don't want her feeling bad.Dh and his cousin are tormenting me again.I don't want to be married again.I wish my belief encourages remarrying i for comot.Since dat last time i have not had peace just been managing.

Breathe darling....,Marriage isn't an easy institution, it entails a lot of hardwork( even l myself am still learning)&patience with lots & lots solace in God.Like l adviced earlier, plz look 4 something doing no matter how small( even if dy r not paying) for ur sanity & plz don't repay their wrongings. Be wise darling & with time u will surely overcome ( plz also know; that d other side isn't as green as u think )

@curvilicious, It is well, I feel your pain and understand what you are going through. Please don't tell your mom because of her health condition. I will advise you take it to the Lord in prayers. There's nothing prayers can't do, it might not be easy but with God all things are possible.
Men can be funny at times but you just have to be strong. There was a day I left the church during service and went to camp, held on the altar and wept like a baby, pouring out my mind to God not minding people listening to me. At times, I feel that's their own way of letting their emotions out. They are still the best!

However, if you know any of his trusted friend or family member that is supportive, you can inform them about his attitude, maybe he can have a change of heart, if he's properly advised or counsel but don't neglect the place of prayers.

Eyes have seen and ears have heard in this journey but It shall end in praise dear.

my dear mama curvilicious, I can relate wd u as one of dh nephews was doing same to me, taking food from pot, not washing plates, not sweeping, not making his bed etc. but i was lucky he used to come only on weekends, whn i complained dh did not find it funny at all. i stopped complaining n started ignoring, i will leave d guest room exactly d way he left it till his next visit, i wont mind if he eats all d food in d pot which he does sometimes, i will wash d plates and cook for him in order for me to av peace. I will still give hin money whn he is leaving. Now if he comes, he will ask for what he can do for me n i will tell him not to bother, he will be so confuse, he will look for wht to do in the house, i will do as if i av not seen him. like some mamas said here, u av to ignore that boy, he is not worth ur marriage and b prayerful, pray, u never can tell his mission in ur home, tell God to make him get in trouble wd dh in a way that dh will b d one to send him away. Someone shared this wd me on watzup this evening, i think it is worth reading. May God see u through this. please don't leave your marriage because of that boy.
*Very Inspirational Message About Marriage*


1. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS*

Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse’s weakness, you can’t get the best out of his/her strength.

2. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY*

No one is an angel, therefore, avoid digging one’s past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. Try to forgive and forget. The past can’t be changed. So focus on the present and the future!

3. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT’S OWN CHALLENGES*

Marriage is not bed of roses. Every shining marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!

4. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS*

Don’t compare your marriage with anyone! We can never be equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.

5. *TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR*

When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Rumours, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Wife battery, Laziness, winning, nagging, PRIDE, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

6. *THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE*

There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a MOTOR CAR with a gear oil, gear box, etc If these parts are not properly maintained, the car will break down somewhere along the road and expose the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. – Many of us are careless about our marriage… Are you? If you are, please pay attention to your marriage.

7. *GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE*

God gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hour but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve.

8. *TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK*

You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situation may change, so, leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get married to him because she's slim but she becomes a little fat after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at long last.

9. *MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS A COVENANT.

Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce.

10. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY*

Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdrawn. If you don’t deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving and sacrificing.

May God grant us the grace and wisdom to succeed in it. (Copied )

@ogunbekun, I did it at Health Affairs, olojojo, oworonshoki(beside vitality petrol station)

curvilicious:
My sisters i have been trying not to cry since morn because my mom is around and i don't want her feeling bad.
Dh and his cousin are tormenting me again
I don't want to be married again
I wish my belief encourages remarrying i for comot
Since dat last time i have not had peace just been managing.

Oh I'm sorry to hear this! Have you tried expressing your feelings calmly to your husband? Its possible he doesn't know how badly you are hurt.

Hello fruitful mamas. 10x to everyone keeping d thread alive. udysweet may God bless ur kind n generous heart n grant all that ur heart desires, soon n very soon. Amen.
Mamas na Glo network hol me since o, my good news is here ; my plenty-week-wait finally ended in praise ALHAMDULILLAH I can't thank HIM enough. We've been pleasantly surprised once again
Pic 1 was with Saturday FMU
Pic2 was frm yesterday(Sunday) afternoon
Thanks sisters for ur help , support, may God grant ur surprise miracles too very soon. Amen
I really appreciate.

Cc; MGeey
Cc; mamakendra
Written this since yesterday (Monday) but this frustrating network

N this.....

Congrats princesschuks n toniapat. Wishing all pregnant women easy carriage n a safe landing with healthy babies inshaAllaah. Ameen

Curvilicious pls be strong. I believe u understand ur dh enough to know when he'll be in the best mood; find such a moment, pour out ur heart n let him realize how all this is affecting u. Even our emotional well-being affects fertility. I pray things get better especially with ur dh cos he's supposed to be ur backbone. May God restore calm in ur home. Amen

curvilicious:
My sisters i have been trying not to cry since morn because my mom is around and i don't want her feeling bad.
Dh and his cousin are tormenting me again
I don't want to be married again
I wish my belief encourages remarrying i for comot
Since dat last time i have not had peace just been managing.

dont be sad sis, its well. I pray things get better and pray for a total turnaround for you.

Good morning sisters,
please my doc told me today that i have tubo-ovarian cysts on both sides. can serra, chinese teas and clean point work for this?
I already bought them, about to start taking them.
he seemed to think the only solution is to remove both tubes and possibly some part of the ovary. I could barely sleep.

UmmTwins2:
Hello fruitful mamas. 10x to everyone keeping d thread alive. udysweet may God bless ur kind n generous heart n grant all that ur heart desires, soon n very soon. Amen.
Mamas na Glo network hol me since o, my good news is here ; my plenty-week-wait finally ended in praise ALHAMDULILLAH I can't thank HIM enough. We've been pleasantly surprised once again
Pic 1 was with Saturday FMU
Pic2 was frm yesterday(Sunday) afternoon
Thanks sisters for ur help , support, may God grant ur surprise miracles too very soon. Amen
I really appreciate.

Cc; MGeey
Cc; mamakendra
Written this since yesterday (Monday) but this frustrating network

praaaise God! congratulations on your BFP, you will carry to term, and you will not cast your young insha Allah.
happy bumping

UmmTwins2:
N this.....

congratulations ma i wish u stress free 9 months

UmmTwins2:

Congrats ma, wish you stress free mine months in Jesus name, amen.
Lord I want to testify soon in Jesus name, amen.

congrats ummtwins2, princesschucks and toniapat may God keep y'al In good health.

@ curvilicious ur dh needs plenty prayers, I for one am not really a fan of having long term visitors, bcs too many wahala dey come up... pls just be prayerful, dsame dh that is misbhaving now, would be petting you once e enter, den u can do him ela by sending him to cook different foods in d middle of d nyt....plenty e-hugs jare

Pweetiebabe:
Ran inside the tread.... remove my head tie ,tie to it my waist and adjust my breast....Abeg mamas make una no beg me oo,na me and @ 4realwoman today o ,she must tell me why my name no dey d prayer list...Abeg @ cur.vilious and pwee.tymii no hold me o leave me make I fight.

Mama as I dey prepared to fight you back that yesterday na so NL ban me again oo. Lol
Oya chop plenty and come for corner make we go chop fresh fish pepper soup, abeg no let pweetymii, Loisemm , towerofgrace and mama curvilicious hear about the pepper soup ooo