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Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by ikp120(m): 7:41am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Izen:He is looking at making you his. He is not rushing it like most guys do. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 7:43am On Feb 07, 2017 |
the guy is a weakling and doesnt wana Man up...he wants u to ask him out,,,its already clear dat he is toying with your emotions and when u futher ask him out that wud be the end cos he wud toy with ur emotions completely.if he sees a serious toaster around u i swear he wud man up and ask u out.dont allow pple toy with u all in d name of love. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by JERRY1925(m): 8:27am On Feb 07, 2017 |
I think...if u are just frnds , u can step up ur game..create an atmosphere were u guys can have a light romance.. just saying dis because of my kind of person..he might b scared of telling u how he feels..maybe because ur level might be higher than his life r he thinks u too good or he is not sure of what he wants...confused..I think u should take the first step..if he does not appreciate, then u walk away..no harm in fighting for what u want.. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by captainking(m): 8:44am On Feb 07, 2017 |
magabounce:Best comment ever... Thou.. The guy doesn't wanna come out straight. Obviously.. The lady loves him more though the guy lover her.. And.. It's better she risk it than stay hurt without the guy even knowing his silent over his love for her hurts her.. 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Izen: 9:09am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Sapphire86: Thanks a lot. It's good to know that I'm not being unnecessarily harsh. I'll just withdraw totally. If he asks why, I'll let him know that I want to stop decieving myself and that we can't be friends. I think it's high time. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Izen: 9:14am On Feb 07, 2017 |
JERRY1925: It's in this kind of atmosphere that all this marriage talk and all comes up. He's had the chance to tell me how he feels several times, if he truly feels something. You're kinda right about the different levels lol. That part is a little complicated. In fact, I believe both of us feel we're advancing faster than the other only that it's from different perspectives. |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Izen: 9:22am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Aaaaarghmed: Hmmm......I wouldn't call him a weakling tho. He always tells me about girls on his radar and all. He recently told me about how a girl was so into him without me asking. He didn't seem too into her so I don't know if he was just trying to get a reaction from me. Personally, I don't like to spoil other girls' parade so I kept egging him on. I don't know if he expected a different reaction from me sha. |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Flekky21(f): 9:22am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Hmmm |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Izen: 9:25am On Feb 07, 2017 |
ikp120: Is 6 years not enough time to not rush things? 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Izen: 9:28am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Apus: Whether we date or not, I've made peace with the fact that we can't remain friends forever. I don't think friendship with the opposite sex while married is ideal. Yes, he's really sweet ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by ikp120(m): 9:38am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Izen: He doesn't see the need to rush things with you because of how long he has known you. Just relax and keep giving him green light. If you can't take it, then friend zone him and move on. I guess he has been fvcking you? If he has, then I don't see anything serious happening between you two except something else happens sha. |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Nobody: 9:39am On Feb 07, 2017 |
@OP, don't give him any distance, I can relate to all you wrote because I AM EXACTLY like him, I think it's scientific, because I also have someone I love so much but can't tell her, Because I presumed; I am shy, she is too good, I am not good enough or just trying to become the best I can be for her(before engaging her), I could tell you I did same in my 200L 2011, I had a lady I loved so much but helped her date someone while I went ahead too to date someone else. Until this day I am still in communication with her and she is even about to get married which I am not comfortable with, but those points keep playing in my mind. But all I need from her is to reassure me of her love, and make me comfortable working with her. All he needs is reassurance, a guy wouldnt spend time with you if he doesn't want something from you, and I am sure he doesn't want sex, so keep at him, give him you heart and make him believe you are there for him. #bestwishes 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Izen: 9:40am On Feb 07, 2017 |
ikp120: Your first paragraph makes sense. I've been thinking along that line but I'm scared of getting my hopes up only to be shattered again. And no, we've not had sex lol. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by webninja: 9:52am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Lol typical nigerian girl. Just tell him how you feel kid, if he doesn't feel the same way, tell him you can't remain friends with him anymore because you'll never feel comfortable having a friendship with him ever again... he'll respect you more and if he had any feelings for you, it'll be even stronger since you make life easy for him by shooting the gun on target... if you want something, take it! Supposing he is a super hot/handsome guy, you wouldn't be asking such a stupíd question in the first place. this is the 21st century baby.. grow up. 11 Likes |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by ikp120(m): 9:54am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Izen: Then keep giving him green light. But keep your options open sha. |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by firstking01(m): 9:54am On Feb 07, 2017 |
You are excessively too emotional, that's what i can deduce from your post. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by ikp120(m): 9:59am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Izen: This is exactly what you should do. If he has real feelings for you, it will mount pressure on him. |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Nobody: 10:06am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Phewwww....... Read the whole writeup but it has to do with love, gat nothing to say. ![]() ![]() Benita27, Hateu2, Lawlahdey and Genea comman epp our sister. ![]() ![]() Whatever decision you make Izen, love yourself more. ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Izen: 10:24am On Feb 07, 2017 |
webninja: He's always known how I feel. That's the problem I have with him. And trust me, hot is an understatement. He keeps getting hotter by the day sef and he's always been a ladies' man. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Izen: 10:30am On Feb 07, 2017 |
firstking01: Lol, I know. He knows. |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by mayorchelsea(m): 10:41am On Feb 07, 2017 |
If only things can just work out between you both, best of friends marrying each other make a nice couple but I'm afraid you might have to discuss it with him.Your closeness could even drive potential suitors away. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Nobody: 11:20am On Feb 07, 2017 |
LeView: A sensible post? on romance section? what is happening here 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Nobody: 11:29am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Aderola15:The only thing i can deduce is that the guy is a coward, he can't man up and ask her out but he's equally as much in love with her as she's with him. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by sauceEEP(m): 1:01pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Just like a friend poured out her heart to me. Initially I told her that I wanted friendship which she agreed so we started hanging out just like friends do coupled with the constant calls It got to a point that she started developing feelings for me but I kept reminding her of our earlier resolve. This issue of feelings kept reoccurring so I was surprised during one of our outings she told me point blank that she no longer wants to continue with the friendship that its either am in as her boo or am out. After that day she stopped picking my calls, if ever she picks she'll always tell me she's busy so I moved on because I can't force her. So op cut off all ties with him. 5 Likes |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by DrObum(m): 2:52pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
I've been there. Dude appreciates who you are and has you as a back-up plan. Sit down and talk with him and make up your mind. No time for mind games this 2017. Make we know say na only Buhari matter we dey reason. 6 Likes |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Izen: 3:00pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
DrObum:It's as if you read my mind. I honestly feel I'm his back up plan at this point. 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Izen: 3:07pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
sauceEEP: So are you saying it is possible to want to hang out with a female friend, call her a lot, chat with her and all without a tiny bit of feelings attached? 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by omega25red(m): 3:20pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Izen:postermy only advice to you is get bold and let your feelings be known. why are you torturing yourself? you care about this guy and you have a feeling that he cares for you so, why not let your feelings be known for real. Forget all the a man is supposed to do this vs a woman is supposed to do that. you withdrawing from him will hurt more than anything and seriously its immature. if you are trying to break free for real, let your feelings be known. if he likes you, then happily ever after if he says no then the anger will propel you far apart and kill the friendship. by the way, is he single? and why are you still single? have you ever wondered that he is not attracted to you like that (not an insult just noting the fact that there are different strokes for different folks) 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by magabounce(m): 3:21pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Izen:Yes I knew she did!! A whole lot @ dat!! Buh my thoughts weren't on dating. She kept saying am making her falll in love wf me, I sha thought it was all jokes |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by Henrolla(m): 3:33pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Izen: I'm a guy and i've been in his shoes b4. Any smart guy knows when a lady is in love with him. and it only takes the grace of God not to take advantage of her feelings cos that's what an average guy would do. u should try to bring ur feelings under control and not move faster than the guy cos u can't force the proposal question out of his mouth. you're the Lady here, so be wise. If he wants you, he should say it himself. don't let him get so much into you else you might find it difficult to recover if he never comes up with the question. Above all, u need the direction the Holy Spirit to avoid mistakes in life. if you have no relationship with him, i can help you with that. if u do, seek his face. he's such a caring and loving friend. SHALOM! 8 Likes |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by rex444(m): 3:40pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Must marriage be the bus stop of every man and woman friendship? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by sauceEEP(m): 3:40pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Izen:100% possible for some guys but I can't say for a babe. |
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