If you have ever noticed that there are seemingly more single ladies in Nigeria than guys, you may need to relax with some chilled juice because you are not alone with your observation.

In fact, it has called for serious concern in recent times where the spate seems to be on a fast rise.

Some attribute the improper fraction to the fact that more females are born daily than males amidst the population explosion.

Sometimes, ladies who think they have all it takes to be take up the ‘Mrs’ tag are caught in the web of certain things that keep them with their parents longer than they anticipated.

This brings up the fact that it is not always enough to have all the qualities required to become a wife as there are some militating factors that come to play when it’s time to tie the knot.

To this end, TheSheet.ng deemed it fit to bring to fore some of the reasons why so many girls are still single despite having attained marriageable age.

HIGH EXPECTATIONS:

Sometimes a handful of ladies await their potential suitors with high expectations and end up scaring them away when they eventually arrive.

Ephemeral things like money, cars shouldn’t form the basis of choice for a life partner but sadly, a lot of ladies are neck deep into such expectations.

ETHNICITY:

The 1914 amalgamation appears to be Nigeria’s bane. The “One Nigeria” slogan is one of the biggest organised lies of the century as there is really nothing ‘one’ about the country despite the fact our 57th Independence Anniversary is only a few months away.

Among the several other factors that stand in the way of marriage for most girls, ethnicity tops the chart. Most times, it is as a result of family influence and when some decide to go against the family standards, they end up stuck and alone with no support from family.

RELIGION:

Majority of the problems encountered in Nigeria today originated from religious differences which make it safe to conclude that religion has done more harm than good in the country. Most people believe that religious compatibility plays a vital role in the choice of life partner and this is the mentality that has kept more ladies in their parents’ homes till date.

AGE DIFFERENCE:

Sometimes, age difference scares women away from the man they truly wish to settle down with. Usually, most potential unions are threatened when the age difference is wide especially when age is telling on either partner.

POOR ATTITUDE:

Well, like Keith Harrell wrote in his masterpiece, ‘attitude is everything’. Some girls though ripe for marriage have delectable attitudes that easily get men on their feet after a first encounter.

Some ladies who are of age just need to improve on their attitudes so as to attract and embark on the journey of forever with ease.

We are in the 21st century and it’s about time people acted like they really are abreast with issues.

Certain choices should transcend beyond the archaic mentality people used to have into something more.


Source: http://thesheet.ng/ever-wondered-single-ladies-nigeria-guys-read/

Ok

the photo tho

Blah blah blah showmeurpenis

Some valid point though

showmeurpenis:
Blah blah blah showmeurpenis

hello hoe

I see nothing wrong in having high expectations, else you settle for anything that goes...marriage isn't for everyone.

Benita27:
I see nothing wrong in having high expectations, else you settle for anything that goes...marriage isn't for everyone.

marriage is nT for everyone ? Really

PrinzCarter:
marriage is nT for everyone ? Really

Absolutely!.

the day is bright...is bright and fair..oh happy day...the day of joy...the day is bright...is bright and fair...to happy day....mama jollof rice








let it look as if i didn't comment

I love to have high expectation, I love to marry my dream guy so don't tell me not to have high expectation, the last time I checked, I'm not mediocre.

Valid points but there are more single guys just that they hiding due to harsh economic situation. Who wants to be a liability father?

A lot of cute ladies out there who are dirty inwards...

Bumbae1:
the photo tho

See lalaosky

Mrtolotolo:


See lalaosky

Baddosky

Bumbae1:

Baddosky

How have you been?

I know One day it will show

Benita27:
I see nothing wrong in having high expectations, else you settle for anything that goes...marriage isn't for everyone.

Jammiiee:
I know One day it will show

I just gave your profile pic a like.

Will you stop saying this on all my mention.

Lol, vexed u already? Thought it was fun, lol sorry then, when ur profile won't show, left me no option anywhere I see u than to remind u . Sorry it pained u then, thought it was fun

Benita27:
I just gave your profile pic a like.

Will you stop saying this on all my mention.

Jammiiee:
Lol, vexed u already? Thought it was fun, lol sorry then, when ur profile won't show, left me no option anywhere I see u than to remind u . Sorry it pained u then, thought it was fun

It didn't vex me, was just wondering why you would always quote me with "one day it will show". Lol.

Ever since dt thread, they kept quoting u n ur dp bn trying to check anytime I cm across u on a thread but kept hitting the brick wall. Did u do anything to ur profile

Benita27:
It didn't vex me, was just wondering why you would always quote me with "one day it will show". Lol.

Jammiiee:
Ever since dt thread, they kept quoting u n ur dp bn trying to check anytime I cm across u on a thread but kept hitting the brick wall. Did u do anything to ur profile

Have not been able to check my profile for over a month now, don't know what the problem is but some people do.

En en, no wonder, it kept seeming strange to me, and the more it came strange the more I tried lol. U must av offended Seun or lalasticlala... did u yab lalasticlala on a snake thread

Benita27:
Have not been able to check my profile for over a month now, don't know what the problem is but some people do.

Jammiiee:
En en, no wonder, it kept seeming strange to me, and the more it came strange the more I tried lol. U must av offended Seun or lalasticlala... did u yab lalasticlala on a snake thread

Lol, i didn't offend anyone, don't even know what's happening, most times i can't quote some people, open some threads or even check some profiles, i can't even modify my post at times.

It's frustrating, Are you having same issues?.
Cc: Lalasticlala, Seun.

I'm having this same issue with u alone

Benita27:
Lol, i didn't offend anyone, don't even know what's happening, most times i can't quote some people, open some threads or even check some profiles, i can't even modify my post at times.

It's frustrating, Are you having same issues?.
Cc: Lalasticlala, Seun.

Jammiiee:
I'm having this same issue with u alone

Wow!.

Now u know y av bn curious, and the repetitive missives

Benita27:
Wow!.

Now u know y av bn curious, and the repetitive missives

Benita27:
Wow!.

Too many unrealistic expectations. Our ladies should take it easy on themselves.