Benita27:
Definitely!.
What if i'm not psychologically ready for the task that comes with being a wife?...this is a problem too, hope you know?.

Interesting angle

How do you prepare psychologically?

Marriage doesn't mean you had be gagged or restricted in your ability to function as your normal self... You just have to find the one person that complements and accommodates everything you are about

Because girls like to advertise their singularity.

And because girls like to eat already cooked food not the one that is still boiling.

jaybee3:


Interesting angle

How do you prepare psychologically?

Marriage doesn't mean you had be gagged or restricted in your ability to function as your normal self... You just have to find the one person that complements and accommodates everything you are about

Every stage of our lives comes with it's own responsibilities...one's able to be able to handle each and every of such responsibility makes you ready (psychologically) for such task...marriage isn't for the faint-hearted!...and it goes beyond finding someone you're compatible with, beside compatibility we all have roles to play in the marriage.

go price how much a carton of beer be now and how much bride price be outside and prices of transportation and all, u go definately rethink the marriage thing

the elders and chiefs of the bride village is the cause, they are too greedy, them go carry all their problem put for ur head, make dem keep their daughter na ,abi na by force

Benita27:
In this Buhari's recession?, i will pass...thanks!.

lol,,,,you are lily-livered sha...well make i teach you small

Benita27:
Every stage of our lives comes with it's own responsibilities...one's able to be able to handle each and every of such responsibility makes you ready (psychologically) for such task...marriage isn't for the faint-hearted!...and it goes beyond finding someone you're compatible with, beside compatibility we all have roles to play in the marriage.

Roles such as:
Chief Comforter
Chief Consoler
Chief Adviser


Why do you need psychological readiness to achieve something you are possibly currently doing?


I was expecting you to come at me from the religion angle (having to sign a life contract) as that's the only sort of questionable psychological readiness that might stop someone from taking the bold step, No?

jaybee3:



Roles as:
Chief Comforter
Chief Consoler
Chief Adviser


Why do you need psychological readiness to achieve something you are possibly currently doing?


I was expecting you to come at me from the religion angle (having to sign a life contract) as that's the only sort of questionable psychological readiness that might stop someone from taking the bold step, No?

This that all @ the embolden?, signing a life contract isn't tasking neither is religion what i was referring to.

Don't forget a woman doesn't marry the man only, but with his family to a large extent...what if i'm not ready to deal with in-laws?.

What if i'm also not ready for kids and the guy goes "we're having kids immediately after marriage".

What if i'm not ready to be involved in all there is in marriage?.

All these freak people out when some guys propose.

well, marriage is for life time, so one needs to set goals over that, but some girls just over do it. for example, some of will say I need.....
a handsome guy,
tall
god fearing
comfortable
caring
understanding
and what have u, yet most of these girls are nothing to write home about.

You know include when old women from village dey involve.

It is only in Nigeria that people make declarations and assumptions based on sentiments and not actual facts

OP, which survey did you conduct to arrive at this ridiculous conclusion? You can keep fanning your ego if you like

shaicollins:



imaging a lady was telling me that she can't live with me in one bedroom apartment

lol

Benita27:
This that all @ the embolden?, signing a life contract isn't tasking neither is religion what i was referring to.

Don't forget a woman doesn't marry the man only, but with his family to a large extent...what if i'm not ready to deal with in-laws?.

What if i'm also not ready for kids and the guy goes "we're having kids immediately after marriage".

What if i'm not ready to be involved in all there is in marriage?.

All these freak people out when some guys propose.

I'm definitely going to marry you off especially now that i know you are a lil chicken

#Jokes

PaperLace:

Lol...maybe the men are marrying themselves...
The most amusing thing is how they are more concerned about ladies status_ is it their single?
If these ladies are as bad as they paint them, why is it their headache if they remain single?

Nawa!

....Never mind those busy-bodies,,i guess male gay marriage is wide-spread in Nigerian now

That marriage compatibility is something.. A friend of mine loves a girl xo much and the girl also did, but Religion seems to be the wedge between them:-/

jaybee3:


I'm definitely going to marry you off especially now that i know you are a lil chicken

#Jokes

Lol...i'm actually, i thinks it's a phase.

Haute:


Second time you're bragging in less than 24 hours. Are you Miss World?

Maybe .

Benita27:
According to Sherry Argov " a bi.tch is a strong woman who knows what she really wants and how to get it".

Like I said, this bítch is right or are you hard of hearing?

ToriBlue:
I love to have high expectation, I love to marry my dream guy so don't tell me not to have high expectation, the last time I checked, I'm not mediocre.

when there are too many beautiful ladies these days still looking for love. you girls have no option. that's why it's difficult for we men to just give our hearts to one woman cos there are too many of u on us. and we woo you,persuade you,etc women can't do the same hahaha y'all can only try but can't get men as you want like men get women. we men can marry a 25 year old girl even when we're 70. my grandfather married a young beautiful lady shortly before he died. but the same can't be said about women

NotOfThis:
Technically, women outlive men, so women will always outnumber men regardless of whether they're single by choice or widowed. The available men are either locked up or simply no good, which is why many women are single because finding a good man is like finding a needle in a haystack.

..You are right too.

tensazangetsu20:

This is a lie. There are 5 men for every one woman out there. There's a man for every woman but there's never a woman for every man.

why you lying?

Girls yapa but wife scarce u won't understand until when u starts looking for a wife to marry

showmeurpenis:
Blah blah blah showmeurpenis

u sha savage oh ..... lmao which one is show me your penis na hehehe

HateU2:
meshuonu

ha u can't even speak Igbo seff... Are u dirrry?

dingbang:
ha u can't even speak Igbo seff... Are u dirrry?

ogini

quentin06:
Is a global phenomenon, all over the world females are more than males. Even amongst animals and insects. Chromosomes too.

I think polygamy should be promoted, one man one wife isnt fair to the ladies, that explains why there are many side chicks for the guys.

I am in agreement with your statement. Naturally, males species are polygamous. One man one wife is not natural.
The only thing I see driving men away from taken more wives is the responsibility involved in nowadays living system.
Out of every ten men you see today, eight of them are having secret affairs with one Lady or even more.
Polygamy system is the only ultimate and natural way to solving this problem of many ladies remaining single .

Benita27:
Aderola15, what's "shoro niyen?"

Me sef no know . Photoshoot, Lawlahdey and OGWaheedi, ejo e epp wa

Aderola15:

Me sef no know . Photoshoot, Lawlahdey and OGWaheedi, ejo e epp wa

HateU2:
ogini

who is teaching u sef? Where were u posted?

bizzy500:
wetin you wan use photo do nw....see one of dem,high expectation

So you are quoting me why ?? Did i tell you i wanted to use the photo for anything ?? The females in Your family are one of them . Wasteman

NovusHomo:


In a way, it's one of the reasons.

Yes in nigeria for sure . But no one in the world cares .. its how to chop tomorrow is the main issue

[quote author=showmeurpenis post=53483338]Blah blah blah showmeurpenis [/quote
From blah blah blah next year na u go enter menopause upon all the runs & married men u dey sleep with u never use am built house or improve ur life.

Aderola15:

Me sef no know . Photoshoot, Lawlahdey and OGWaheedi, ejo e epp wa

Mtcheew