curvilicious:

The guy is no longer a baby. From 18yrs is adult. My advice is to totally ignore the boy. Live as if he doesn't exist. When you finish your cooking, dish out food for all and if any remaining that you want to reserve, put in in fridge. Wash your plates, and do your cores. "He who no no go know, he who no go know go know". Everything will eventually pass. Karma is a lovely bit-ch.

As dh has apologized, try and forgive and forget. If you don't forget, you won't heal. I hope you used the opportunity to tell him that raising his hand on you actually broke your heart. And to think he repeated it in front of your mum, you wished you were already dead.
Get closer to him, have fun as friends and move on. If he's apologized there's no need going for a break. Once your people settles the matter, then move on with your life and search for sth to do.

Never mention anything about the boy again to him. Just be close to your dh the way you were during your honey moon. Try to avoid anything that will bring confusion btw you too. You are one body.

As for the boy or other troublesome people you'll come across, sometimes not replying to provocative statements doesn't mean you're a fool, it shows maturity. If you don't know how to ignore, pls learn it. When you talk, people will know what you have in mind, but if you don't, they get troubled thinking who knows what she's thinking.

Remember your prayers. Also pray with your dh. A family that prays together stays together.

We are all humans and sometimes we make a mistake we regret later. Its better when you're too angry, instead of talking, leave the scene to avoid saying things you'll regret later. Marriage is for matured mind and never a bed of roses.

A slight touch of friendly malice and amusement towards those we love keeps our affections for them from turning flat. - Logan Pearsall .

Good afternoon house, just stumbled on this thread. This is my 2nd year of marriage. Husby and practically had our honeymoon for a year an half, now that I am ready nothing is happening. We started trying since October, but I noticed the semen flows out of me even with the pillow. Pls help

Laureen007:

I think you already ovulated. You're adviced to start bding once that side pains starts or even before at least from cd10. That's sign of the egg being released. Did you use opk on thursday and friday afternoon? You're adviced to stick to same time each day for more accuracy. One other issue with temping is sticking to same time and routine. If there's any change, it affects the graph. So check these and see where you made an error if any. Creamy CM shows you already ovulated or no ovulation. You can track with scan to know if you actually do ovulate or not. Getting positive opk doesn't really mean you must ovulate. Wishing you a short but fruitful stay here.

Adiahaakwaibom1:

He has not been picking/ answering his chats, am even becoming worried cos he's currently @ Army Hosppital, Yobe. I will still ask around..

mama gud day.pls do coconut water really affect d efficacy of dost in ex? I have b checking but can't get a good answer. can u pls help with Google for me.God bless u.

miraclebaby:
Methinks you should be eating sliced cabbage mixed with cucumber and jago mayonnaise. You wouldn't even be needing the baking soda. Since you don't feel like eating, eat it first thing in the morning. Its tested and trusted. If you wish to go on baking soda, now is the time. Its even running late if a 28days cycle or less. Flat tummy wetin? Hmmm. If you have belly fat and want to burn some consider ginger tea drink. You can add lemon but do only from cd1 to 10 or 12. ACV is also good for burning fat. Just about an hour before meal and last thing at night.

Thanks and God bless you sweet mama! Happy Sunday

Pls i was to born my belle far. Am lost here what is Acv and cd1. Happy sunday frnds

I want to burn my belle fat. What is Avc and cd1. Happy sunday frnds

adezie:
Hi everyone. I've been reading silently for months now and this is my first time commenting. My marriage will be one year in march. I had a terrible miscarriage and my breasts have been leaking since even though my prolactin level is within the normal range but higher end and my period is regular(but scanty with no clot and only for 3 days at most) I took bromo for 3 months with no result. Started dosti this January. Saw ewcm after almost one year. Breasts is still leaking but it will end in praise. Baby dust to everyone.

Ma, I dont think you have high prolactin before you will go and disturb your hormonal balance. It's normal for a woman to lactate after childbirth, miscarriage or abortion and only palordel has worked to reduce the licking bosom for me. The discharge doesnt stop for me neither does it prevent me from getting pregnant. The 1st few weeks of pregnancy it stops and starts again much later.
Fertility blessings on all.

gloralph:
I want to burn my belle fat. What is Avc and cd1. Happy sunday frnds

Cd1 means cycle day1, that's first day of your period. ACV:AppleC Cider Vinegar. But you'll need one that has the mother. Braggs has been the best so far though there are other products. Most important is that it contains mother(small particles). You can start with a tablespoonful in a glass of warm water. First thing in the morning, mid morning and mid afternoon if you can. Else you can just take morning and night away from food.

gloralph:
I want to burn my belle fat. What is Avc and cd1. Happy sunday frnds

AVC -Apple Cider Vingar and cd 1 - Cycle day 1

ogunbekun:
How much is the dosti nex sis?

my dear I don't even know last I heard was 8caps 12k. I don't even know where to get but if a mama knows and wants us to buy I go send my own part.

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waoo! am encouraged maybe and worry for nothing dh has spe.rm issues but its taking too long so and just doing my own. May God help me. This 5years+ is agonizing!

[quote author=adezie post=53632882]Hi everyone. I've been reading silently for months

welcome dear may your stay here be very short. we catapult u to preggy thread in Jesus name!

miraclebaby:
Start eating plenty cabbage. You can eat with you rice, blend and drink. It works for most people. Since you don't have money for the big drug just get on the natural. At least dh will think that's your new found favourite.

Thanks dear I've been into cabbage and ewedu. They became my best since 2013. I'll keep taking sha.

[quote author=priscaver post=53647931][/quote]@priscaver,Dh also has sperm issues,are u in lagos,do u no of any good urologist in lagos dat is in private practice,he isn't comfortable wit general hospitals as he said he prefers 1 doc follow up his case than several docs.urgently awaitin ur response

caon:
@priscaver,Dh also has sperm issues,are u in lagos,do u no of any good urologist in lagos dat is in private practice,he isn't comfortable wit general hospitals as he said he prefers 1 doc follow up his case than several docs.urgently awaitin ur response

we were consulting with consultants at EKO, I think d urologists come in Thursdays ( forgot) but d bill is something else. They told us to pay an initial amount of 28k. then d tests and all made us to run but they have good urologists there but u pay heavy consultancy.

miraclebaby:

Thank you ma

A Loud AMEN to your prayers Rinzylee

Congrats Princesschuks...may you carry to full term by Gods grace,amen.

@Curvilicious...I sorry about what happened in your home. But the presence of that boy may always pose a problem in your marriage. I think you should get yourself very busy, get a job to get your mind off those distractions. I pray God's peace is fully restored in your home.

Fertility blessings mamas!!

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priscaver:
I dey hail oooo my ttc sisters. I been just say make I Sidon wait just d kpekus anytime dh wan since d bros no dey even try until u remind him :-XI . but years don d roll pass. All test cept dh seemed normal even prolactin even though I get leaky bosom. Follicular tracking show say I dey consistent even bbt match d F tracking. but this bosom thing worry me. na so I tell my docky he come give parlod(bromo) d thing no work. Ewedu, cabbage, b6 , vitex m2tone all just passed me by.Only Do.stonex I no fit cos of price but d testimonies are good. I dey Lagos I beg is there no cheaper version ? Abi is there any mama in d house we can share . it didnt easy especially ttcing without job and hubby is not interested or won't spend in TTC
I am looking for someone we can buy and share. my faith tells me I won't need more than 4tab. abeg make una shook mouth help me try even 4tab go stop ds leaky tin. I learnt combining with tumeric d make am quick.

oya doctor of kpekusing mummykryt, @ curvilicious, lovelymom29, MamaTB, chikusche, favouredestiny,ebyjada, 4realwoman, suremum, Fvine where Teegali, blesseddiva and all d sabi sabis and helpful mamas

Ur prolactin is normal, and you confirm ovulation by follicular tracking , pls no need to waste money on dostinex. Just keep up with the natural approach of cabbage and ewedu.
As for dh and no kpekus, hmmmmmmmmmmm .... Don't want to put ideas in ur head but u might need to pray and do more investigative work to know what the real issue is cos it's not normal.
After almost 5yrs , I now know the reason for my dh's non existent interest in kpekus except only when he's disturbed or reminded. It is well !!!!

miraclebaby:
I think you already ovulated. You're adviced to start bding once that side pains starts or even before at least from cd10. That's sign of the egg being released. Did you use opk on thursday and friday afternoon? You're adviced to stick to same time each day for more accuracy. One other issue with temping is sticking to same time and routine. If there's any change, it affects the graph. So check these and see where you made an error if any. Creamy CM shows you already ovulated or no ovulation. You can track with scan to know if you actually do ovulate or not. Getting positive opk doesn't really mean you must ovulate. Wishing you a short but fruitful stay here.

Yeah I did opk Thursday and Friday but were negative. Well for the temps most time 5:30, 6:00 or 6:30 so don't know if that's affecting but u read it's ok. I also had a positive opk today so don't know, still creamy cm.

How much ma'am

Queenbeloveth:
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mamaTB:



Ur prolactin is normal, and you confirm ovulation by follicular tracking , pls no need to waste money on dostinex. Just keep up with the natural approach of cabbage and ewedu.
As for dh and no kpekus, hmmmmmmmmmmm .... Don't want to put ideas in ur head but u might need to pray and do more investigative work to know what the real issue is cos it's not normal.
After almost 5yrs , I now know the reason for my dh's non existent interest in kpekus except only when he's disturbed or reminded. It is well !!!!

Whao MamaTB we shared same issue could u b a bit more open plssssss. what could be d course. I remember we lamented one time . Its difficult to understand.if can pls help me solve this puzzle. Meanwhile thank u so much for your suggestion . Won't bother myself again

Benignasweety:
Ma, I dont think you have high prolactin before you will go and disturb your hormonal balance. It's normal for a woman to lactate after childbirth, miscarriage or abortion and only palordel has worked to reduce the licking bosom for me. The discharge doesnt stop for me neither does it prevent me from getting pregnant. The 1st few weeks of pregnancy it stops and starts again much later.
Fertility blessings on all.

Thank you so much. My doc also said it was normal but I had other symptoms which include loss of interest in kpekus, jajaina dryness(dh was always in pain after kpekus which never happened before and I stopped having ewcm), scanty af(also never happened before the mc) mood swings and unexplained infertility. This made him prescribe bromo but its side effect was unbearable so I had to switch to dosti. Even dh has noticed some changes already since I started it. Hopefully it wont be long before we get our bfp.

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Thank you and amen.

Godanswerprayer:

mama gud day.pls do coconut water really affect d efficacy of dost in ex? I have b checking but can't get a good answer. can u pls help with Google for me.God bless u.

I can't find any article saying such but most Nigerian myths believe that coconut water negates a drug's efficacy. So I really don't know dear

FruitfulRay

So I have one very nosy neighbour, the one that likes going into everyones apartment, but I don't give room for such, I go to work, come back, enter my house and remain till hubby comes back. If no light and no fuel, I remain, that's why I thank God for ur my People.


You even try answer her sef. Last week a friend sent me BBM chats congratulating me on the birth of my baby because a used a baby as DP and this person knows i didn't put to bed o. I just ignored her chat, no time to waste time. I'm too exhausted to answer people nowadays.

I've gained a lot from this thread, IVF thread and blocked tubes and it’s time to give back. Wrote about the harrowing years of waiting on the IVF thread, to God be the glory, He saw my heart and answered. I couldn’t announce my pregnancy here cos having gone thru a lot, I was just looking at how events unfolded like a dummy and until my baby boy was put in my arms, did I realise God had made me a mother.

I don’t know how it happened, as that was my first preggy ever in my life and in our 8 years of marriage, had a failed IVF in 2015 and was prepping for anoda in 2016 when events turned in my favour, having being diagnosed with bilateral tubal blockage. Here are the highlights:

WIDD: (It wasn’t different from what I’ve always been doing, but I know the mercies of God counted
• Had ordered for serapeptase, tube cleansing kit and clean 9. Thank God I hadn’t paid, however, guifebao/massage oil was already on hand and was about being used when I noticed a missed period…. first time in history o
• Participated in the 50 days fasting, and was still trusting God for direction on which route to go. Prayed and praised Jehovah even though the future was looking one kind
• Was taking ova boost and fertilaid
• Just started with Ruzu then
• Was on healthy diet, plenty water, fruits and vegetable, lost a little weight overtime
• Taking pregnacare conception

That was all

After all is done, God is still in the business of making us fruitful, keep doing whatever needs to be done and never underestimate the place of prayer. God knows everything and makes all things beautiful in His time

I hope this encourages and lifts us up.

Congrats wholesomegrace.
Wow!
God may your name be praised. Its you oh lord!

wao! wholesomegrace, wht a pleasant surprise. Congratulations! God is awesome. I tap into ur testimony n i pray that God will suprise us all in this manner. May God bless ur family.

Lol my sis... It will end in praise

fpeter:
So I have one very nosy neighbour, the one that likes going into everyones apartment, but I don't give room for such, I go to work, come back, enter my house and remain till hubby comes back. If no light and no fuel, I remain, that's why I thank God for ur my People.


You even try answer her sef. Last week a friend sent me BBM chats congratulating me on the birth of my baby because a used a baby as DP and this person knows i didn't put to bed o. I just ignored her chat, no time to waste time. I'm too exhausted to answer people nowadays.

Congrats @wholesomegrace... God is indeed a good God, I believe it is not by power or might, but by only Gods saving grace. I tap into your testimony...

Wishing you. your hubby and baby only Gods goodness.