Mophasa:


Yeah she does stay in a family house

kimbra:
This story doesn't add up. If at all she was worried about her spiritual life she won't have gone on to agree on meeting with you on Tuesday. She would have brought up the subject while the both of you were discussing and making arrangements.

pocohantas:

Alright.
She is cheating on OP, she has another guy in Calabar. Her decisions were harsh. OP should move... we are good now.
Make I rest.

Mophasa:
Please guys I need your advice and suggestions please.
There is this girl I have been dating for over a year now, I love her so much and intend to marry her soon. I think she loves me too.

She's currently doing her Nysc in cross river while I am in the north. We haven't seen each other since last November though we always chatting and talking on phone like everyday. We have been so cool over the past few weeks and we arranged for her to come see me this week, Thursday to be precise. I even sent her 10k for transportation.

Now after we talked last night and she agreed to come on Thursday, she called me early this morning around 6am only to tell me there was a problem, when I asked her what it was, she told me despite the fact she loves me so much and wants to be with me, she's breaking up with me because she doesn't want to be having sex anymore, that she's not okay with her spiritual life.

I was devastated and all my efforts to try talk sense into her has been in futility! Now the problem am having is that this girl happens to be the only woman in my life, for over a year we, ve been together I have not cheated on her despite the distance. I love her so much and I have always wanted to end up with her. I always did everything possible to make her happy and I, ve never hurt her before.

Please guys I don't want to lose her, what do I do.


From a heartbroken Nairalander

dyydxx:


Deeper life people don preach to her o... ...

Boss on a more serious note, don't let overzealous religious bigots spoil your relationship........
Go to Calabar, see her face to face and calm her down. For now, agree with her that no sex so that both of you can get back on good terms.
After winning her back, attack the disastrous theology that is causing this wahala. Talk some sense into her going back to the old testament....and even new....it is well

Mophasa:
Please guys I need your advice and suggestions please.
There is this girl I have been dating for over a year now, I love her so much and intend to marry her soon. I think she loves me too.

She's currently doing her Nysc in cross river while I am in the north. We haven't seen each other since last November though we always chatting and talking on phone like everyday. We have been so cool over the past few weeks and we arranged for her to come see me this week, Thursday to be precise. I even sent her 10k for transportation.

Now after we talked last night and she agreed to come on Thursday, she called me early this morning around 6am only to tell me there was a problem, when I asked her what it was, she told me despite the fact she loves me so much and wants to be with me, she's breaking up with me because she doesn't want to be having sex anymore, that she's not okay with her spiritual life.

I was devastated and all my efforts to try talk sense into her has been in futility! Now the problem am having is that this girl happens to be the only woman in my life, for over a year we, ve been together I have not cheated on her despite the distance. I love her so much and I have always wanted to end up with her. I always did everything possible to make her happy and I, ve never hurt her before.

Please guys I don't want to lose her, what do I do.


From a heartbroken Nairalander

blont:
hahaha. lwkmd

LordAdam16:


When you make it sound like that, it's like I'm coercing you to accept an alternate viewpoint without sufficient backing.

But hey, I could use a rest too. So do have a nice day.

-Lord

unclezuma:


She's gone braaah...the church crowd has nominated her to a "brother" with world shattering promises...I'm sorry for your loss.

Mophasa:


It's not like she got born again or something, fornication is not the only sin in life and all sins are equal before God.
She still does other stuff too and it's not like I met her a virgin.

Mophasa:


It's not like she got born again or something, fornication is not the only sin in life and all sins are equal before God.
She still does other stuff too and it's not like I met her a virgin.

Feranchek:


bro you're...........( make I no use harsh word). So cos you didn't meet her a virgin means she hasn't got any right do live a chaste life All those shit you said bout wanting to mary her are ALL LIES!! All you've ever cared for was her punna. I just pray and hope she doesn't change her mind cos your case worse!





LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

e-diot dey fear my quote ode. bro, you're actually 30, buh you're the MOST IMMATURE 30 years old i've encountered in 11 years. You talk about sacrifice, like she's been having it rosy with you all the while. You BASICALLY opened this thread cos you feel bitter about the reason for her breakup.... NO SEX. if truly you love this gurl like you CLAIM to do, why not love her still till marriage. You've tasted the puna already and you know she's GOOD. So it's not a matter of ''i need to know how compatible we are sexually''

ogbeni, you can't lie to all Nairalanders cos we know that you know the truth, just that you don't know that we know that you know the truth. ( make i confuse yoour small pikin brain small)

pocohantas:

If a guy did this, I would be glad we have one Nigerian guy that is interested in not widening a girl's toto.
I will be glad he didn't keep on fucking the girl while dating another by the side...that's assuming there is someone else.

I would appreciate the fact that the relationship can nurture other aspects different from sex.

I will advise her to make peace with that guy, look beyond sex...that's a man with high self-control.

The problem is, where is this kind of guy in Nigeria?? ??

Mophasa:


I truly love her and wouldn't mind staying with her without sex, I even told her but she wouldn't have none of it.
Claiming there is no Way we could be together without having sex.
Am actually ready to do anything just to be with her,

greatnaija01:
If sex is what is so important to you in a relationship then YOU NEED JESUS because you are cheating on HIM.

Since when did sex become LOVE...ehn... biko tell me... who sex epp? rather it weakens you. it is good only when it is right and thats MARRIAGE...

this generation has its values warped... It seems you do not know that LIFE IS SPIRITUAL... will sex protect you from witches n wizards??

this is sad but bros you are not even thanking God that she is becoming a wife material by taking her spiritual life seriously... she will meet more responsible guys WHO CAN WAIT till marriage... then your eyes will clear!!!

bros you gatta know that LIFE IS MORE THAN SEX. if she is the only woman for you then MARRY.... else you are not responsible enough for her.

anyone who thinks dating or relationship is an excuse for sex is not ok at all. LOVE is sacrifice not feelings.... 10 year later the feelings or horniness will die... but its the sacrifices you have both been thru that will keep you.

THE ONLY WAY TO KEEP SUCH A GIRL IS TO MARRY HER.... and i advice you that if you are not ready to change your values and upgrade spiritually do not bother.

pocohantas:

Why are you laughing?
You're so annoying and cute at the same time. I feel like pushing you inside a gutter.

Mophasa:


It's not like she got born again or something, fornication is not the only sin in life and all sins are equal before God.
She still does other stuff too and it's not like I met her a virgin.

pocohantas:
She doesn't want to keep on fucking you, maybe she has read posts on NL and saw how you guys berate girls by calling them wide toto. She doesn't want her toto to get wide!
You either convince her you guys can date without sex, or you leave her alone.

People saying she has gotten someone else she is fucking and doesn't want to continue with OP. If that's the case, it's nice and defies what some of you made us believe here that girls go on fucking sprees with various guys.

Tiri gbosa for her.

Feranchek:


bro you're...........( make I no use harsh word). So cos you didn't meet her a virgin means she hasn't got any right do live a chaste life All those shit you said bout wanting to mary her are ALL LIES!! All you've ever cared for was her punna. I just pray and hope she doesn't change her mind cos your case worse!





LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

e-diot dey fear my quote ode. bro, you're actually 30, buh you're the MOST IMMATURE 30 years old i've encountered in 11 years. You talk about sacrifice, like she's been having it rosy with you all the while. You BASICALLY opened this thread cos you feel bitter about the reason for her breakup.... NO SEX. if truly you love this gurl like you CLAIM to do, why not love her still till marriage. You've tasted the puna already and you know she's GOOD. So it's not a matter of ''i need to know how compatible we are sexually''

ogbeni, you can't lie to all Nairalanders cos we know that you know the truth, just that you don't know that we know that you know the truth. ( make i confuse yoour small pikin brain small)

KunleSteel:


...another million likes.

Mufasa, maybe you might just be a drawback to her since you obviously are not as spiritually-minded as she is.

BlindAngel:

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Pained ass bitch, with a well as vagina. Rubbish

blont:
pocohantas, u wan finish me wit laugh the way u gave up.

kennygee:
She just got born again and has decided she's not about that fornicating life anymore.

She can't force you to be in the same spiritual level as she is and it won't be fair for her to remain in the relationship denying you sex if you are not ready to come on board the Christian relationship.

Move on with your life to another female who is about the fornicating life.

It sure pays to know Jesus.