madridguy:
If tomorrow now the victim pour her acid or hot water everybody go dey blame the guy.

ElizaVeta:
Let her be ..

ghettowriter:
A young man who chose to remain anonymous, narrated how he lost his girlfriend to another guy despite spending N700,000 on her birthday.According to a mail sent to relationship expert Joro Olumofin, a young man recounted how his girlfriend ran off to Dubai with another guy even after he hadspent N700,000 on her birthday.He claims his girlfriend left for a romantic trip with the other guy and has simply refused to return the expensive birthday gifts he gave her.

see screenshot below.


Na wa o! What do you think?

Jodha:
the guy is question is totally foolish.. Did she ask him for a birthday gift... Did she force him?..

After him don dry the girl emotionally, sexually and other wise.. He's lamenting because of gift.. (typical igbo man)..

He doesn't truly love her.. I'm glad she noticed early and literally ran for her life...

Nonsense..

TheSlyone2:

do you always read an article from the last chapter?

Why do you have to let your prejudice out in this manner?

Why cast a total and unverified blame on the guy without knowing what she's made him go through??


Given this same scenario, can you treat your boyfriend like that??

Jodha:


My dear.. That's why people are different.. Yhu don't obviously expect me to see things the way yhu.. That's why it's my [/b]opinion[b]..
Do yhu expect me to applaud the niggur.. For behaving so childishly?... Awk yhur gf left yhu.. Damn it's nothing new.. Instead of saying how he misses her.. And telling us where he went wrong.. What he actually did to make her take such a drastic step..

He's lamenting like a child.. Over a gift..

Immaturity at it's peak..

ghettowriter:
A young man who chose to remain anonymous, narrated how he lost his girlfriend to another guy despite spending N700,000 on her birthday.According to a mail sent to relationship expert Joro Olumofin, a young man recounted how his girlfriend ran off to Dubai with another guy even after he hadspent N700,000 on her birthday.He claims his girlfriend left for a romantic trip with the other guy and has simply refused to return the expensive birthday gifts he gave her.

see screenshot below.


Na wa o! What do you think?

TheSlyone2:

The fact that everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion doesn't warrant sentiment. If you must pass judgment, see to it that it's fair to be both end...

Secondly, you claim the nigga behaved like a child. Are you by any means rooting your support for the lady? If that's so, then you can also behave in like manner if given the opportunity...

Again, why should she accept a gift from someone you totally don't love. Does that sound right with you?

Why would she have to rip where she did not showed? At least, courtesy demands that if someone is generous to you, all you could do is return the favor...

You defending this argument means you can and you will do same if such opportunity present itself

Jodha:


I'm very objective with my judgment.. You're the one just with sentiments (just because yhu pity the guy and yhu feel he lost 700k)...

I know guys of his calibre very well.. I'm sure he's been oppressing the lady in every way.. Maybe assaulting her.. That's why she ran for her dear life!..

Would yhu prefer a sister of yhurs suffers.. And cover eer'thing up because the guy gave her 700k?

Whether I'd do such.. If the opportunity is given to me.. Is totally my biz..

Whatever rocks yhur boat man.. I only gave out my candid opinion!..

Jodha:


I'm very objective with my judgment.. You're the one just with sentiments (just because yhu pity the guy and yhu feel he lost 700k)...

I know guys of his calibre very well.. I'm sure he's been oppressing the lady in every way.. Maybe assaulting her.. That's why she ran for her dear life!..

Would yhu prefer a sister of yhurs suffers.. And cover eer'thing up because the guy gave her 700k?

Whether I'd do such.. If the opportunity is given to me.. Is totally my biz..

Whatever rocks yhur boat man.. I only gave out my candid opinion!..

TheSlyone2:

The manner with which you talk baffles me. You seem to know exactly what went down between them two...

You know guys of his calibre? Have you met him before? Were you there when they were dating?

See, my judgment is based solely on what is made open... That is the writeup. Yours isn't. That's why I said you are sentimental..

We don't even know if this gurl in question is a user. Of course, there are users. They use you to get to where they want. The fact that we must blame the guy for been frivolous doesn't make the gurl a saint...

Yet you talked about emotions. Doesn't it appears to you that this lady through her scheming may have put the guy in an emotional trauma. Or do you think it only men who break heart?

For once, I want you to look beyond what you have read or experienced in your day to day life.. Read this article and pass your judgment according without prejudice



You seem to have evaded my question..

Given this precarious scenario, would you have done same?

Jodha:

I type from experience... I don't have to be there when they were dating to know.. What went wrong.. His tone.. And what he typed gave him away..

Before a guy would spend 700k worth of gift for a girl's birthday.. It means they've dated for long.. They've gone a long way.. And something like this happen... Instead of him to tell us what really went down.. His talking of his 700k..

I'm not saying the lass is totally right for running the way she did... But it obvious she went to a far place... Where he can't reach her for her own safety

The guy does not sound like a person in an emotional trauma.. He only wants his money back (he doesn't seem to care about the wench..)..

I'm passing my judgement with every atom of sincerity.. If the guy was broken I'd know.. He doesn't care about her.. He cares about his money alone.. Hence she found someone better and left him.. I'm sure she didn't tell him because she's scared of him(hence why I concluded he might be assaulting her too)

Yhu mean me in the ladies shoes or the guy's shoes?..

TheSlyone2:


Oh, good lord..

Good thing you accept looking at this from a general point of view. You don't judge every situation with a general perspective. Every situation has got it own uniqueness...

Like I did said, we don't know what transpired between them two. So judging base on what you think could have happened is totally borne out of sentiment..

Let me rephrase the question again... In an event, where a guy spend a whooping N700K on you, can you leave such a man?

Second question, can you accept a gift from someone you don't love?

Martin124:
hmmmm jodha

Jodha:


Hell no.. I didn't judge from what I think... I drew conclusions from the signs given by the guy in question.. It was plain... He's reaction sold him off..

So because of 700k I should coman die for the man ehn?.. Yes I would be totally grateful.. But it doesn't mean if he tramples on me.. Or try to do anything funny I won't leave... My dear I'd run without looking back.. With my heels touching the back of my head

As for the second question.. I'll plainly tell yhu.. Brother the feeling is not mutual.. I see yhu as a brother and friend.. And all that shii..
After that if he still insists on giving me.. As a friend... (as in just friends) why not aww collect..


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Jodha:

Why hmm?.. Shey yhu support me?