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Has Admiration And Trauma Ruined My Chance At Dating? by Eglobalma: 8:20pm On Mar 08, 2017
okay i will make this brief. i am one of those type of guys that girls like naturally. i dont know but i just look sexy to them. now this is supposed to be a blessing right? the thing is some years ago a girl in my church..let me rephrase, the hottest like cutest girl in my church had a crush on me and i had a crush on her back. we vibed for months but on the later run because she is a fine girl and too much shakara she ruined our vibe and this broke my heart like i nearly died. after recovering from that horrible experience i decided to stay away from girls that had a crush on me. i have managed to make a ton of female enemies cuz of this vow but my problem is that the after effects of that heartbreak has made me lonely af!! i dont toast girls and the ones that eye me i ignore. now im so used to this pattern that i have forgotten how to date. two girls in my street have mad crush on me and even the mother of one of them said its only me she wants to date her daughter. this girl is an absolute beauty with big booobs and asss but i dunno wat to do since i have turned myself to a female avoider. am i forever going to be single or should i run to her house now? even if i run there what will i say to her? that girl that broke my heart clearly has scarred me severly. ladies plsss help, and the worse part is that im a goodlooking guy, its such a shame im going through this..help me out folks
Re: Has Admiration And Trauma Ruined My Chance At Dating? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Mar 08, 2017
lol @ I just look sexy
Re: Has Admiration And Trauma Ruined My Chance At Dating? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Mar 08, 2017
Eglobalma:
okay i will make this brief. i am one of those type of guys that girls like naturally. i dont know but i just look sexy to them. now this is supposed to be a blessing right? the thing is some years ago a girl in my church..let me rephrase, the hottest like cutest girl in my church had a crush on me and i had a crush on her back. we vibed for months but on the later run because she is a fine girl and too much shakara she ruined our vibe and this broke my heart like i nearly died. after recovering from that horrible experience i decided to stay away from girls that had a crush on me. i have managed to make a ton of female enemies cuz of this vow but my problem is that the after effects of that heartbreak has made me lonely af!! i dont toast girls and the ones that eye me i ignore. now im so used to this pattern that i have forgotten how to date. two girls in my street have mad crush on me and even the mother of one of them said its only me she wants to date her daughter. this girl is an absolute beauty with big booobs and asss but i dunno wat to do since i have turned myself to a female avoider. am i forever going to be single or should i run to her house now? even if i run there what will i say to her? that girl that broke my heart clearly has scarred me severly. ladies plsss help, and the worse part is that im a goodlooking guy, its such a shame im going through this..help me out folks
Do people because of road accidents stop buying cars or taking cabs?.

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Re: Has Admiration And Trauma Ruined My Chance At Dating? by Nobody: 8:26pm On Mar 08, 2017
So because a girl broke your heart, you stopped loving girls and you love men now, correct?
You rather give your heart to another man that lives on same street with you because his mum said he loves you correct?

14years
Re: Has Admiration And Trauma Ruined My Chance At Dating? by ifex370(m): 8:30pm On Mar 08, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
So because a girl broke your heart, you stopped loving girls and you love men now, correct?
You rather give your heart to another man that lives on same street with you because his mum said he loves you correct?

14years

Abeg help me tell am
Re: Has Admiration And Trauma Ruined My Chance At Dating? by Shortyy(f): 8:30pm On Mar 08, 2017
Try and move on dear. Whenever something bad happens to me, you know what I say to myself? I say "shìt happens and life goes on" So move on and forget about the girl that broke your heart, cos I'm sure she has also moved on and forgotten you.
Re: Has Admiration And Trauma Ruined My Chance At Dating? by Alphamale2017(m): 8:37pm On Mar 08, 2017
I understand what the op is saying. I am tall and handsome but for 2 years i have not dated anybody. I delibrately choose to be singlle. Tho i have lots of female frnds i can easily woo , and its very obvious they will say yes. But i'd rather remain single for now, there is more to life than dating
Re: Has Admiration And Trauma Ruined My Chance At Dating? by Eglobalma: 8:39pm On Mar 08, 2017
Shortyy:
Try and move on dear. Whenever something bad happens to me, you know what I say to myself? I say "shìt happens and life goes on" So move on and forget about the girl that broke your heart, cos I'm sure she has also moved on and forgotten you.

bitchh is getting married next month and im so over that black shegoat!! but the problem is my brain is now used to avoiding girls its sad
Re: Has Admiration And Trauma Ruined My Chance At Dating? by ayesco202(m): 10:23pm On Mar 08, 2017
Eglobalma:


bitchh is getting married next month and im so over that black shegoat!! but the problem is my brain is now used to avoiding girls its sad
Ori bibe ko loogun ori fifo. Meaning, beheading oneself isn't panacea to headache. Atleast, you must have learnt something from that heartbreak. It happened to you just once. How about those who have experienced multiple heartbreaks. Don't paint a new partner with old brushes. Get another bae bro!

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